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Deep Soul I really hope you are joking about giving your brother's wives hell. Why don't you stand up to your own sister in laws and then help your future sister in laws enjoy your brother. You will rather do eye service and empty your bitterness on your brothers future wives? Not cool o.

That is when marriage starts LOL

How will that stop her dad from moving to the next one

kokoye:
Yes, Some have in the past. not just in nollywood.

Do you believe there's jazz?

I ask because I do. I have seen it with my eyes.

Point is as long as people keep blaming Jazz there will never be accountability. People simply need to learn to say "It is my fault" or "I was wrong" or "I admit it and I will never do it again". The it was the devil defense is very irresponsible.

ayettymama:
looooooooooool

well im guessin she means cos the guy is not takin care of his kids

but your right

alot of men cheat

and nobody ever knows!!!

she just believes children=mother

has no idea!!

nuttin concern u with another couples life

i mean in your own ways u could encourage your parents to draw closer

but bullying your dad will just make him run away

its nothing to do with standards

its to do with your level of understandig and maturity

Like I said to each family their own. It is definitely about standards. The man is cheating and flaunting it. It is definitely about standards. If any case shows it it is this one. She does not need to know who her dad is screwing or how he did it. No one needs the gory details but they should not act like he is a victim her.
What do you mean by "another couple" as if these are not her parents. Cheating is a form of abuse. When you abuse your spouse you abuse your children. So please don't water down what I said. I mean what I say and I say what I mean. I don't know how she will get the message across but their father needs to know that they are aware and they are disappointed and that they expected more from him and they are standing solidly behind Mom. No matter how old you get your parents are still your parents and not just for mouth. They should be an example.
I don't know what you mean by bullying here. Please I cannot laugh. My parents always held us to a higher standard as a matter of  it was ridiculous most times and I find that that is why I hold my father so high. He is human so I am sure that he will make mistakes but I will call him out on it. That is what he taught me. Should my father ever do such a thing I know he would be ashamed for his children to know. The fact that her father simply does not care if the children knows says a lot. To make it worse you guys are telling them to do family picnics and pretend that nothing happened. Why in the world do we have family then? Please abeg enough of the fakeness. If it was the wife that cheated nobody would be saying family pictures and picnics. I have heard it all now.

kokoye:
If you wont talk to him, at least pray for him if you truly love him. Dont forget there might be influences and evil forces at work. In Nigeria especially.

I agree with praying here before you address an elderly person in the family. Wehave had to do interventions in my extended family and many times we prayed before addressing it with the person. I am not buying that whole mamiwater made him do it though. The prayers are more like let them receive the message with wisdom and stuff like that. I get the whole prayer thing

ayettymama:
loooool

ive seen people do that countless times

and seen it break homes countless times

in some cases 'two wrongs dont make a right'

the children have no idea what is goin on btn the parents

so they cant just interfere and take sides
its a recipe for disaster!!

as long as u dont no wats drivin the man away
u shouldnt assume u can bully him into comin back!

To each their own. Unless he is ready to tell me that my mother cheated on him and even worse yet he has neglected his duties as a father. To each their own. My father always held us to a higher standard and I do the same to him. I will stand solidly behind my mother as I am sure mu other siblings will without a doubt. When you do such a thing you wrong the whole family not just the wife. How did the child get to even know. To the point that she knows that her father got paid and is somewhere spending it on some chick. That is shameful but like I said all families are different. The man has to be held accountable. I WILL STAND SOLIDLY BEHIND MY MOTHER. If that pisses him off and he decides to not acknowledge the family then he was not ready to be a father in the first place. This is an opportunity for the mother to teach her children a lesson in life. They will most likely still be husband and wife at the end of the day but all this babying the man as if what he did is not shameful is beyond me.

I don't even know what to tell you because I know that if my Dad ever even dared I would not even bother addressing him as my father. When you cheat on your wife you cheat on your children. If the children stand solidly behind their mother then the man might buckle up and stop acting like a 15 yr old child. All this talk to him gently and pet him on his head is ridiculous.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=389841.msg5455007#msg5455007 date=1265384912]korean + black: the kids' features tend to look more pronounced and Asian.

chinese + black: not so much- the kids can pass for regular African.

Indian + black: the child always looks markedly Indian- cant be mistaken for anything else

Japanese + black: about half and half though I could be wrong.




@ these figures: on average, that is.

Its what I've noticed.[/quote]I agree with you tpia. That's why I always assumed that Tyson Beckford was half Korean

d US seems to be doing absolutely nothing, y won't they allow planes carrying aid land. am so so angry @ d US and United Nonentities oops United Nations.

Na wa oh. My uncle just got back. He is a marine engineer for the United States government and they were able to accomplish a lot. The United States Government is not God and things could be organized better but to say they are doing absolutely nothing is totally unfair.

My wedding jewelry was very simple and I probably would have worn that necklace but not the earrings. It depends on what the theme is

I can't wear it but it seems nice though far away from me

I always thought Tyson Beckford was Korean mixed. he certainly looks it. I think the Asian features are usually more pronounced especially if one parent is full blooded Asian.

I don't see what one has to do with the other. I don't take pictures much but I went to look in my siblings page and my older sister alone has over 250 pictures and so does her husband.

Spot on busy body. I know a lady that pays child support but I do not really feel sorry for her because the man has the kids most of the time and kids cost money. There was a lady on dr phil recently too who gave physical custody of the kids to her husband and of course she pays child support. That's just the way it is. You should not be able to choose if you will or will not financially care for your child.

tanimz:
I sleep 6 hours during weekdays and make it up during the weekends (I could sleep for like 12 hours on weekends).

geez. Dat na coma but really though before I got married and had kids I used to sleep like a fool.Anytime I wanted and however long I wanted.

You need to reset your body clock. I think that is your problem. I am on the same clock as you right now but it is because it is easier to do my work when my kids are sleeping so sometimes I am up till 4 am but by 5pm I feel like just sleeping. I make sure I go to bed by 12 am at least twice a weak

My mom will still try though. Popsie is an angel

I for one will not do it but I guess it depends on who the in laws are and what their ideas about life are

yjay:
nice thread MHC, i love lil's wayne's family picture, they look like one big happy family, i only found out recently that lauren london had a baby for him & i was really shocked, used to think she had more class than that but of course nothing a fat bank account wont change,

& i agree with the person who said diddy needs to stop chasing other women, he shld do the rite thing by marrying kim porter,

I am sorry but Kim Porter played herself. Like Kanye said ain't saying she a gold digger but she ain't messing with no broke n.i.g.ger

LOL. MC she said it not me

Abeg post it if you saw it. 121 comments. Who has that time

lol

spoilt:
John Edwards is the LovePeddler. manslut.

He is a w.h.o.r.e too but I couldn't describe the picture as w.h.o.r.e's w.h.o.re.

OgidiBoy:
My sister do you have sand in your eyes are you talking about Seal the musician ? pls tell me how to find the sexiness in Seal because I'm not seeing it. Or is it because I'm a man ?

That must be it. Put on a pink dress, wear a wig and stuff a bra and wear it and then look at him again

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=362350.msg5436861#msg5436861 date=1265162095]I can't believe a model like Gisele ended up marrying someone that's not that goodlooking. [/quote]I think Seal is sexy

https://www.celebrity-gossip.net/images/photos/matthew-camila-mem-beach.jpg

Matthew McConaughey and baby mama Camilla

A W.H.O.R.E non the less.

https://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/60665.jpg


John Edward's W.H.O.R.E and his child

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Heidi Klum's daughter with Flavio Briatore

https://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/2009/04/tom-brady-giselle-bundchen-bridget-moynihan.jpg

Tom Brady and Gisele Bundchen with son he had with what's her face

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Usher and son with ex wife