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Odogwuzack:
Help him tell us how you helped him.

optimusprime2:
That might only prolong the duration of the court case.

Lawyers out here seem to be very skilled in making women win Divorce matters and sēxual harassment cases.

Why not avoid wahala altogether instead of trying to find out if a snakes tongue is pink or red.

KingOfAllIgbos:
Onyedika Oriaku

I read one article of a lady raped by a barber here on Nairaland and I was shocked.

People were saying she wanted sex that's why she allowed them to be together in a room... she must have enjoyed.

Rape apologists better get cured of their stupidity here. You MUST get explicit consent. If you get to the West, they might give you the right medicine for your illness.

Ask Ba aka Oyinbogoju who got 40 years to Life in Prisonment.

https://wap.nairaland.com/4028576/mother-four-raped-sons-barber

Goalnaldo:
There's one maid here close to my house. I called her the other day, she didn't come but she'll be looking at me from their window upstairs everytime I'm outside 🤣😂

Mayeldah:
A drunk woman cannot give consent but a drunk man can be charged of rape? the west and their anti-men laws

I am not supporting rape but certain things nor just balance for men in this world. The report said CCTV caught them kissing.

shey rapist dey kiss first before him rape woman?

optimusprime2:
When oyibo woman ask you for knack, run away... like run as fast and as far as possible.

Why? Because they can change that narrative in a heart beat... ask Benjamin Mendy.

Blackmoran:
The law in the western region is anti men,. If I am based there I will avoid anything involving women like a plague...
First of all both adult where in a night club. Obviously drunk...
Both of them did the deed.... But it seems the lady didn't think it through in the first place....
After a couple of minutes she felt bad about it.... So this young man is paying for this lady foolishness.....
Have you watch a movie or romantic novel seeing intimate peopleasking for consent before sex or forwplay... How stupid would that be....
The issue here that people are not talking about is what consistute consent.... How can a a adult with brains feel is ok to have sex with someone and later feel bad about it and call it rape..

Hezmatosky:
If woman never rope you or see person wey woman don rope for abroad, you won't understand what abroad is. Ordinary to compliment woman's nyash na sexual assault for abroad. Idiot people

obailala:
Why do I feel this is just another careless victim of a drunk white woman?

Avoid drunk hornny women! Avoid drunk hornny white women! Avoid drunk hornny UK women!... This warning can never be overemphasised. Even if they come at you, throw themselves on you, grab your staff, and literally beg for sex, push them away and run for your life, cos you might just have the police knocking at your door the next morning!

LordIsaac:
I now understand all the modules they made us do and get certificates for before setting foot on their soil. Consent must not be joked with o. I have resolved that whether with consent or no consent, I will not bother to even think of such! Face what took you abroad…period!

Dshocker:
At 18yrs, she had 4 sugar daddies ❌❌❌

She spent 20yrs in Europe, doing Mouth Gig ❌❌❌

Women 😂😂😂

Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔 Nawaoooo

See the 350k hostel in Unilag that has got everyone buzzing

A video which surfaced online has left social media buzzing after a girl shared the hostel in Unilag her friend got which sells at 350k.


According to information, there is usually a balloting procedure done to get hostels in the University and not everyone is fortunate enough to get one.

However, some students who are lucky to get hostels, increase the price and resell to others who want to live in the hostel because of the proximity to classes.

The lady who shared the video of the Makama hostel, claims her friend got hers at an exorbitant price of 350k, but the environment is nothing to write home about.

See the 350k hostel in Unilag that has got everyone buzzing
State of Unilag hostel, Makama that sells at 350k.
The friend lamented how on getting to the room the door was detached, window net torn and there was no electricity coming into the room.

See reactions to the video:

@Ada_Ihiala said: If you have 350k to buy a hostel space, why not get an apartment instead? The point of getting a hostel is mostly the cost and close to school but omo! Since it’s this expensive kuku do your thing!

@softie0001 exclaimed: Ahhh. This is wickedness

@Haywonofficial said: Both of una no serious, you see this one and you do transfer?

@umorumona wrote: Even kirikiri prison no be like dis.

@naomi_akerele said: Na makama be this. Terrible place to stay


https://www.gistreel.com/see-the-350k-hostel-in-unilag-that-has-got-everyone-buzzing/

Gerrard59:
Interesting... So, you know her beyond Nairaland and Twitter?

MrDoGood:
She should enjoy

The only problem is...

She's going to expect a 30 yrs old boy to have all that type of money and spoil her like that.

Lol

Fountainofyouth:
If not that the guy has an ulterior motive due to "horniness", which right thinking guy will send money to a lady the second time after she didn't show up the first time? Is he not a compound fool? The lady was smart for not showing up because she knew what he wanted, but no, because you all are naturally slow in understanding, your brain did not think of that, a normal sane guy would have simply demanded for a refund instead of going through all the trouble of inviting her to a restaurant of which I'm sure he paid for the transport the third time just to prove a baseless point, but as usual, reason is far from you.

denitro:
This is an open and shut case.
Look for a lawyer that will take up your case, and sue the guy for at least 300k ( could be more).
Get the lawyer to serve him.
He will think it's a joke and probably won't show up for the court date, that is all you need to get a
default judgement against him. Then use the judgement letter to execute your payment from him using legal means.
Somewhere during the process he will plead with you to settle the matter out of court. Get your 70k back and get him
to pay your lawyer fees.
N.B: But please next time don't let someone waste 30k on Uber for nothing.
Grounds for you to win:
He invited you to the restaurant and he has admitted on chat that he did it intentionally.

Part 2:
After he pays you, he can now countersue you for invasion of privacy. (yes! it is illegal to share your chat messages
with someone without their permission).
He can now sue you for 300k and use the same lawyer you used.
You can settle out of court and pay him back the 70k and negotiate the lawyer fees.

izubext007:
She showed up at the restaurant 🍽️, but refuse to come to the house 🏡......deep thoughts

Preservedfish:
Most people don't have any idea what a date is


I marvel when men choose restaurant as a date


C'mon man


There are a lot of dates even low budget ones you don't have to spend much as a man


Date is an avenue to know the girl more not to gallop more food


When I was in uni , I took my girl back then to love garden
I bought Ice cream for both of us at the rate of 100 naira
We enjoyed it and discussed various intellectual topics.

ednut1:
the normal average men are also causing wahala. They go for poorer or younger babes. A corper in a rural area will use his 33k salary to entice babes, a man earning 50k to 60k will target girls in jamb lesson, 100 level students or those learning trade. Creating another cycle of entitlement. His cozy room , second hand flat screen tv and tiger generator is a sweet attraction for them .He will also disvirgin / sleep with most of the young girls around this hood while the other men get no action. The poorest resort to brothel for sex and no love for him. Like you have stated this damage is irreversible

ednut1:
If you start feeding wild animals like lion, hyenas , tiger etc . They will lose their ability to hunt. Nigerian men were the one that spoilt the women with money till they became entitled. If you hammer today you will still use your money to snatch another man babe. Why blaming the women

Nigerian men have also carried that useless culture outside and using money to entice women in other african countries. A female friend from mali/france was doing uber food delivery with her bike in Toronto part time. Guess what Nigerian men she has met are telling her. That a fine babe like her should not be doing such hustle, she should come date them so they can take care of her.

Magnoliaa:
Won tun gbe tun tun de.

A life without pussy = a life of loneliness and bitterness for men? So men's happiness and fulfilment in life is intricately tied to access to sex?


This is what happens when you swallow agenda buzzwords without no thought and mental filtering of your own. You end up regurgitating rubbish.

Lack of money will not lead to a life of bitterness for men. Poverty will not. Unfulfilment will not, broken relationships will not, childhood trauma will not, a lack of support system and community from family and friends will not. Work pressure will not. Mental illness will not. Social anxiety and low self-esteem will not. It is pussy, of all things, that will lead to a life of loneliness for men.

Can we also go further to hypothesize that the bitter men we see all over NL are the way they are because they're not getting any pussy? It's not as a result of heartbreak or women not being good people. Nope, they're incels because they're simply unattractive to women.

And you say you're the superior gender, when you've unwittingly attributed this much power to the pussy. So much so that a man's life can breakdown and get derailed from not matching sexually with women .

Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

If I can’t get enough of these 3 things I listed above from a man, I would gladly leave the relationship/marriage .

BigDawsNet:
Micro penis should be around 3Inch

Average fingers is 4/half Inch

Fingers always do wonder.....

Why d complain den

Jewessgratitud3:
Na penis you marry abi na the person? See people don't understand what love really is and heys! Before you come and start telling me how sex is equally important in marriage, let me breath! Sex this, sex that.. let financial challenges come youll know that even that your over hyped sex can not save your marriage.

It's only true love, commitment and the decision to be with this person that can weather any storm or challenge (apart from cheating) in marriage. Where these three are lacking, forget, common misapplication of tooth paste can crash the marriage.

I've dated a man with a small p before. those days of searching for a life partner ( before I rededicated my life to God) and I never saw it as a problem because I loved and just wanted to be with him. That didn't count as long as I was happy but the mumu started seeing another girl and that's the only thing that can make me leave a man; cheating. He didn't know I found out and after I left him, he started begging saying please come back, na only you be my size. Huh . So you know? I say no, go and meet those boreholes because they are giving you money, Ewu. He gathered all his family on the phone begging, meanwhile my last ex was already toasting me in the bus on my way to the camp while on the call. . Na so I cut phone face the new bobo wen I don dey eye for choir since.

If he didn't cheat with that his small p, I probably would have still been with him. .

Skyview01:
Prayer can all things.

Just take the micro-pe**nis to God in prayer and tell him you need 10 inches.

Jewessgratitud3:
It's amazing how I was contemplating making this post before a member here requested or should I say started asking me questions in that line and being a very free and open person, I promised I was going to post about it.

Well... Let me start from my background and up bringing which also contributed indirectly to my nonregrettable actions that has left me in this wonderful marital status.

I grew up in a Catholic christian home where good virtues moral values were instilled in us by engaging us in christian children activities from an early age. The Most social part of my childhood ( apart from school) was around the church then back home with close monitoring. So there was no room for nonsense even up to our secondary and tertiary level. the monitoring was topnotch. So we didn't really get to do shit like our mates who got exposed early to certain lifestyle,; dating number one.

We were overprotected and shaped with these guidelines that a mindset was formed that boy and girl relationship is a taboo ( and it's true). So we knew better than to toll that part.

In the long run, after I have come off age, it became very difficult to date. This was at age 21. Whenever I manage to give a man a listening ear and he mentions sex, I'll run without looking back because that was a danger sign we were taught to look out for. So i was always running away from men because of premarital sex. It got to a point, after looking like that's the only way to get a husband and I was already in my mid twenties, a time when a girl should be getting ready to settle down, I said ok, let me see if I can bend the rules a bit for this one. This man was a chronic responsible bachelor. So I felt it could work out since he's ready to settle down. He was in his mid 30s the and never married. We were in the same compound. So I gave in and we started dating. Mind you there was no pressure from both parents to get married. My parents will never pressure you to get a suitor.

Being a novice in the game, I never knew men could double date or even knew how to handle one when it happens. So, on this fateful day the randy goat came home with another girl. It was our last born that came and told me some girl came to look for him because everyone in the compound knows us together. I was heartbroken and right there I broke up with him without even finding out who or if what they both have is serious. Though I made him cry cos I started entertaining other boys that have been chyking me and bringing them to the compound but I never had anything with them or knew any of their houses. I was just using the to pepper him. Once they say hi, I'll drag them to the compound and we will sit on top of his car sometimes until he now confided in one of our neighbors who now told me to stop that the man is always crying. E never cry. I showed him two can play that game. He tried coming back but I bulshit him.

After that I locked up and never trusted any man. I began to see why my dad was being overprotective. I didn't date again for almost five years and then men were coming but that was when my own shakara increased. I mean responsible well to do men o. That was when men had good jobs from banking, investment and oil companies in ikoyi and vi both staff from five star hotel like Eko hotels and suites, federal palace cos those were the places I worked so I had many suitors and friends but the moment they mention relationship, Ill take off.

Part 2

It continued like that and I was enjoying my life with peace of mind that I forgot about time or didn't bother about it cos I don't care.

When I entered mid thirties, I said let me loosen up a bit but because Ive gotten used and enjoyed single life with peace of mind to that age, I found it difficult to commit again because anytime I tried, I'll start having anxiety. The thought of him cheating on me or even as little as admiring another woman will just make me unsettled and I'll think of aborting mission before it's too late.

So I said to give one man a chance, he too brought another girl in my absence. I found out from the sister and that was it. I called it off he begged and begged that the lady was forcing herself on him and sending him money bla bla.. he made a conference call with his family begging, my mind was made up I dumped him and moved on to a Choir boy Ive been admiring who was also trying to talk me into a relationship. I truly loved this guy and I think I was older than him in age . Though he refused to tell me his age but I was able to deduce from his Facebook profile cos he wrote class of 2006 while I finished 1999 but because I don't look my age, we just looked like age mate and we loved each other.

I met him when he just finished serving and was squatting. I was out of job then but one thing that made me stick with him was, even though he was not working, he shared whatever little he had with me. We were together when a very rich young pastor came asking for my hands in marriage. I told him about it and he started feeling sad that because he doesn't have a bearing now some guy wants to take me away from him. I on the other hand don't really fancy the pastor but wanted to force myself and see if it will work but it wasn't working because I didn't have feelings for him. To now make matters worse, he started showing stinginess. In the three months we courted, we didn't get to sit together because he's a pastor so we only see in church, stand and talk very briefly and disperse and each time he kept posting me about money I asked for to enable me travel for Xmas and the day was fast approaching. It was my Choir boyfriend that wen to borrow money from one girl selling recharge card to give me to travel. Now coupled with the fact that I don't even like him, i just texted him to look for another sister. The highest he ever bought me was two two hundred naira recharge card a stinkingly rich ajebota pastor for that matter ( 2014) but he would always call me.

Lastly, in 2016, my bobo got a job in Chevron with a nice apartment in lekki. Before then we had a small quarrel and we're not in talking terms because I requested for money for hair to attend my twins introduction and he told me no money but he didn't tell me he was saving for an apartment. Even then, how much? So, after months of not talking, he called and invited me over to see his new place. A surprise I guess. I got there and we had a nice time. He tried to make it up to me. He gave me his short and polo to wear that day and took me to a pepper soup joint. **Smiling**
later we got back and ad I was about to shower, I saw a used shower cap in his bathroom. He now handed me a new one from his wardrobe where there were many more. I asked him who used the one in the bathroom, he said baby don't start again. I held my peace.
The following morning he did something that I can't say for sure what really happened.

I slept over because there was no way I could go back from lekki to the mainland that day. That night he came to disturb me and I told him you know we can't be doing this. Please let wait till everything is formalized. When he wouldn't let me be, I left him and went to sleep on the floor. In the morning he woke up and was saying you, you, I was just looking at you as we were talking someone knocked on the door. It was a ladies voice. My ex went to meet her and they were together for almost 30mins before he came back inside. Me i didn't talk. I suspected he went to do nonsense because his thing was up when he left only to come back and it has come down.

We prepared and left together that morning for work. When I got home, I called and told him off. Na small thing dey vex me. He didn't believe it. So many things on my mind that made me take that huge decision. Men are not worth my type.

Since then till date, I stopped anything relationship especially if it's not a born again and I must like him. I faced my God ever since and decided to give myself peace. I can't stand a cheating partner. Disease dey town and I don't want to end up a baby mama.

Now, with the way things are, no jobs, the few decent men can hardly fend for themselves let alone catering for a family, I just decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Make person no come enter from fry pan to fire. Some family men now are dumping their family and running away from their responsibilities leaving the women to carry all the burden. So tell me what will make marriage enticing to me again? Abi na domestic violence? Biko Biko.

SIXTEENTH:
They think we men belong to the same class as them forming big chick's back then

Adewale1603:
I like saying the truth. The woman is ugly

profodbaba:
I wish the young women would see this and learn.

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Angelfrost:
That's not difficult... Once she has the money, guys will queue up to do the needful.

Justkatty:
Sir, A billionaire can also be irresponsible shey you know?
See from the context of having children without contributing to their welfare spiritually morally and otherwise
That's why I tell people, money can never balance everything in the lives of your family especially your kids.

Justkatty:
This is not all about money so far I'm concerned...
Looking from her angle, she doesn't want her kids to face what she faced while growing up without having a responsible father.

will this your logic hold?
will she /You still choose the Husband