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Car TalkRe: Which Of These Would You Use To Protect Your Car In Today's World? by OvertheTop(m): 9:49am On Oct 09, 2023
LordReed:
LoLz. Go buy better insurance and stop thinking that 5k you paid during license renewal means you have insurance.
Even this one has a cover of up to N1Mllion on Damages you inflict on a 3rd party's car
CelebritiesRe: ‘I Have Reported My Husband To EFCC, US Embassy’ – Kess’s Wife, Della by OvertheTop(m): 7:28pm On Oct 05, 2023
advanceDNA:
How do u women say it again ooooo...

"Were u forced"

I gave him this, I gave him that, I paid rent.....

Did he force u??
Exactly:

Did he dip hand into your pocket??
RomanceRe: Ladies, Can You Buy A Car For Your Man? by OvertheTop(m): 4:42pm On Oct 05, 2023
njikoka:
I won't even collect.... cos you'll never hear the end of it
You will Hear: I picked you up from the Gutter and Cleaned You up....
and it will get worse....
PhonesRe: What's Special About Iphone? by OvertheTop(m): 1:49pm On Oct 05, 2023
daveP:
Nothing really special.

What makes it worse is that 9/10 of those having one, they don't even utilize 25% of what makes up the fone.

Even 10% sef.


It's more of a status item disguised behind Lovers Gifts nowadays.
imaging loading N200 Recharge card on an iPhone of N1M. or constantly begging for SUB from all over
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 5:01pm On Oct 04, 2023
Cantonese:
Na so I get one babe like that many years ago as a young man. Along the line I get another babe join, dey manage dem dey go. One day this babe reach my house before 7 am come straight to my bedroom window peep. The other babe just dey wake up after overnight work. This my old babe just from window shout say so na so I dey carry babe up and down for her back. She enter my house, straight go to the bathroom. One large towel wey she give me as gift don dey inside bucket to wash. Na white towel o. She just squeeze the water comot for the towel, carry am put for bag, waka go.

I leave am jeje. Small time she begin find way to settle. Me I don dress far as a wise person.

Women are far worse than men when they feel jilted. She buy shoes for you, na for road she go collect am back. They take everything back and attack you with all that they can find.
shocked grin
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 4:31pm On Oct 04, 2023
pendragonbladgo:
Learson Number, one - never invest in a woman.

Never train a girl in school.

Give them peenut. A woman can leave you over night without prior signs.
I recall the girl I once assisted through out her school days, after service she got another man and dump me. All of a sudden she started calling me again!

Thank God that the man is uselessing her right now. She is always complaining to me that the man is going after other girls, but she forgot how she left me!
WHY WHY WHY
This has Caused a Lot of Suicide among Men!!!
The investment is too Much!!!!

like a great guy above said, invest tiny Resource, Demand alottttt!
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 4:00pm On Oct 04, 2023
Nokio2:
KoboKo village man
Manipulation.
i like to be koboko Village man if need be
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 3:55pm On Oct 04, 2023
Tunde835:
Love is detrimental to men
Absolutely,
we are still researching the Med that can Purge it completely from our System
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 3:52pm On Oct 04, 2023
babzlim:
if u know you don't want someone or love the person stop accepting such gift ... una go dey look for someone to set una up after then you come serve am breakfast as mumu nah.
That's the Technique. worldwide
if you overspend your Resources as a Man, Na Big Regret go follow am
in some cases, especially Abroad, You might Never Recover financially
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 3:49pm On Oct 04, 2023
LordReed:
If it was a gift then that was a childish action but if it was a business investment and was not receiving returns then he had every right.
so he should just move on and Build for the Next Gold Digger.....
and then Continue like that until he falls into Penury.

Anyway He should never have invested at all!
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 3:38pm On Oct 04, 2023
skj1377:
This is a smart move. They call it recovery . After a bad business you tend to cut your losses and try to salvage anything you can. Men should learn to give less and demand more .
This Skill is Priceless. i dey find am.
give me some tips
EventsRe: Birthday Celebrant Asks Guests Without Asoebi To Leave Her Party, Curses Them by OvertheTop(m): 3:14pm On Oct 04, 2023
luminouz:
If I were the man... I will extract her kidney and sell her liver join. She spent my 70k on owambe? She don die be that
for UK? She is Untouchable there.
instead, she will Call the Police on You to complete the Emotional Damage to You and then File for Divorce....Na Street be that Straight grin
FamilyRe: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by OvertheTop(m): 2:57pm On Oct 04, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Another classic mentality of one raised irresponsibly if you ask me. lipsrsealed
Junkie, Were your Raised Responsibly? shocked
from my observation, You have insulted almost everyone on this Thread

Must everyone Align with your opinion?? huh
RomanceRe: Man Takes Back The Kiosk He Built For His Girlfriend After They Broke Up by OvertheTop(m): 1:55pm On Oct 04, 2023
Fiscus105:
One thing I can never do in life, is renting room for side chick........I can't imagine seeing another man in the house I used my hard earned money rented for woman.


IT'S 90% CERTAINLY, THAT SIDE CHICK WOULD BRING ANOTHER MAN INTO SUCH APARTMENT.
Absolutely
CrimeRe: Violence,Depression Spread In Cities As More Teenagers Fall Prey To Illicit Drug by OvertheTop(m): 12:41pm On Oct 04, 2023
Proudlyomonna:
This issue is a big problem to the society we coexist in grin

I remember how one small boy block me for pH dey ask me se who goes you grin grin

Nothing person no go see for this colos shildren hand oo grin
finish the Gist naaa
CrimeRe: I Think I Might Have A Case Of Money Laundering by OvertheTop(m): 4:39pm On Oct 03, 2023
Chinny024:
I just hope they are not kidnappers and the owner of the card at their den..comot body ooo..Don't play with fire..A lot of people are serving jail term for what could hv been avoided..simply tell her,sorry..u don't accept refund after purchase of goods...Ensure u make entry in a police station!!!


If u mistakenly transact back to them,u are automatically an accomplice of the crime...Don't say I didn't warn u...this same tactic has kept a lady for 5yrs at Enugu correctional service..By Feb or March,she would be clocking 6yrs..


The people collected someone's card and pin..then shot him to death..Proceeded to make some transactions with her POS..Then told her to withdraw the money cash from her account in form of cash to them,while she transferred some to their accounts ...she agreed..long story short..she has cooled off 5yrs plus in jail as accomplice.
WOOOOW shocked
FamilyRe: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by OvertheTop(m): 4:17pm On Oct 03, 2023
olamilarks:
Nigerians will say "What will the neighbours say!" Private schools have become the status symbol, even the kpako ones and the ones operating from a 2 bed apartment.
Exactly. A lot of People are always Bothered About what their Neighbors will Say or think....So Sad!
FamilyRe: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by OvertheTop(m): 4:12pm On Oct 03, 2023
Tzar:
There is nothing you can do about a deadbeat. You also CANNOT kill yourself because of family commitments.
Why can’t the person who wants to go to school also sacrifice 6months to a year to work & save to meet you halfway? You will use that opportunity to teach her delayed gratification and thinking outside the box.
Things are not easy at the moment and Nigerians need to start being innovative about how to raise money legally for important things.
What is the role of your religious bodies to raise money for moments like this? Are these religious bodies just collecting from y’all and giving nothing?!
Great !!

Ops, this is another Great Suggestion.
if she is Serious about her Ambition
FamilyRe: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by OvertheTop(m): 3:55pm On Oct 03, 2023
Toonice:
My own dad is even fair, but he Bleep up in some area, he retired as assistant director of DSS and he didn't take care of us as a children. Not even fixing some of us into federal job. Am struggling to survive. Sometimes I feel like taken my life because it's not easy.
Keep Pushing. Never Give up
FamilyRe: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by OvertheTop(m): 3:53pm On Oct 03, 2023
Truthshotcrazy:
Must she attend private school? Education is free in government school. Since 25k is big deal. Get her enrolled in government secondary school
OPs, Take this Advice.
Government / Public Secondary schools are Almost Free.
They teach well too. The Only Challenge is the Population.
if she is Focused and works extra hard on her studies at home, she will come out with flying colors.
Believe me, a lot of us never went to Private School : From Primary to secondary to University.
let her Go to a Close by Community Secondary School or Grammar School
RomanceRe: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by OvertheTop(m): 4:35pm On Sep 26, 2023
Adeyinka90:
Am a guy who don't Iike sex..I might not even ask for sex from you for a whole year dating you
if you Can you Pay wella.... No problem naa
Pay billing like 50k for hair, like 6 times in a Year. 100k for Birthday etc
she can keep the bleep away to
RomanceRe: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by OvertheTop(m): 4:14pm On Sep 26, 2023
LINSAR:
No sex till marriage, I don't fornicate.

If you have nothing doing to earn a living, I can't be fending for you like your father.

I pay less attention to physical attributes. I might not even notice you made a new hair. Your wig, makeup and nails don't do a thing on me.

You must know how to pray and have patience. Dating a believer is different from dating Pablo Richie the yahoo boy.

If I'm talking angrily, just keep quiet and don't touch me. If you dare me, whatever happens, it's sorry you'll collect afterwards.
No problem, As long you dey pay wella...its ok.
i.e she bill you 50k for hair, 100k for birthday 4times in a Year, Pay Her House Rent 250k....etc... and you dey pay well....
No Problem,,,,,she Can play the waiting game of : No sex before marriage with You bro.
CrimeRe: South African Man Kills His 19-Year-Old Girlfriend; Fakes Own Death by OvertheTop(m): 3:39pm On Sep 21, 2023
Authoreety:
Na wa o... At 19 she already has two children 🧒
Unbelievable, shocked
i had to read that line 3 times to be sure I'm not hallucinating
CareerRe: How Do You Deal With Sexual Harassment At Work? by OvertheTop(m): 3:55pm On Sep 18, 2023
franksam209:
how she chooses to dress doesn't concern you, even if she's naked, that doesn't give you the right to touch her without her permission, if anyone should try such with my sis, aswearugawd I will strangle that individual with minutes
shocked
Bros, Learn to Control your Temper.
Now, from your Action, what do you think will Happen Next? Perhaps a Jail term for Murder.
When In Jail, What will you then Do if this problem repeats itself?

The best is to Report the matter appropriately. Never Get Angry uncontrollably and sacrifice yourself
CareerRe: How Do You Deal With Sexual Harassment At Work? by OvertheTop(m): 3:25pm On Sep 18, 2023
sunsweet33:
My office hired a new manager and as I was standing by the side doing something he came up behind me put his hand on my lower back/waist and asked “how are you doing”. At that moment all my usual fire went out of the window and I just froze up. Actually there were 3 other senior staff around who must have seen it and warned him because thereafter, he only tapped my shoulder or shoulder blades (which I dont have any problem with).

Now a couple of days ago I had my hands full again doing something and this man passed behind me, held both sides of my waist very briefly and brushed against my back.

the whole thing was over in less than 5 seconds and I didn’t even see the person until I turned my head to see him watching me from the other side of the office.

bearing in mind this is a senior boss, I don’t feel I can shout or confront as normal so I have just been giving some stern/cold attitudes and stepping out of the way in a more exaggerated way whenever he passes by me. And he has started reciprocating the awkwardness which made it easier for me.

But how realistic is this? In another thread somebody wrote that his brother tried to get his female colleagues fired for rejecting his advances and I fear something similar may happen to me.

Its so irritating. This guy says he has a girlfriend so why not go home and touch her? WTF.
oh ,u guys had a sweet chat initially.....

Is this why you are Angry?
Just Asking?
CelebritiesRe: Naira Marley’s Statement On Mohbad’s Death: Four Talking Points by OvertheTop(m): 11:58am On Sep 16, 2023
JaskanFactor:
you have to be insane to expect things to end well between men who wear ear ring, and sing about yansh on luxury car.
All that is well that ends well. The Almighty power is always watching and giving you reply right down to the pico second.

this situation is exposing the musicians, their fans, and the entire bad culture , that culture is not free, infact its very expensive in the long run.

tragedy and its power to expose the truths that were always hidden in plain sight.
Its a Bondage. to Drugs, Alcoholism, Fake Life, dangerous allegiance etc.
its Bandage!
Foreign AffairsRe: Man Arrested After Allegedly Touching Spanish Journalist’s Bottom Live On Air by OvertheTop(m): 1:16pm On Sep 15, 2023
immortalmortal:
Show us the nyash he touch na?
FLAT
SportsRe: Harry Maguire's Mom Issues Statement On "Disgraceful" Treatment Of Man Utd Star by OvertheTop(m): 2:05pm On Sep 14, 2023
SegunBABA007:
You will still be first to criticize him when next he scores an own goal. I get your point but maguire’s case is mental, he needs pure help mentally.

That can’t be achieved by constant errors and fan boos in the field of play. The whole world already sees him as a flop, whenever he plays he gets blamed for virtually everything, from his positioning to lack of speed.

What will you advise a person suffering from mental downtime ?

Keep pushing ? Or seek for mental revive?
Will love to read your response.
I understand the pressure. and i must be sincere, as a Man U fan, i criticize him too....

But Right Now, if i was to put myself in his shoes like ( I imagine being an employee that is struggling at executing tasks in the workplace or Job, will i QUIT? NOOOO. if you do, what will you tell your Family when u go BROKE and have bills to pay?. YOUR Family will now Criticize you too),

So, the Solution is: i will Just Keep Trying to Improving myself and ignore the Noise (very Difficult i know)
but that is the way to go. if he Should Quit Today, the personal issues will be Worse than this.

The Goal is to keep Moving forward!
SportsRe: Harry Maguire's Mom Issues Statement On "Disgraceful" Treatment Of Man Utd Star by OvertheTop(m): 12:18pm On Sep 14, 2023
SegunBABA007:
Maguire should call it a day with football or go to a lesser league. With the amount of blunders and errors he has committed, he can never be a better player again based on mental readiness.

Maguire was once a fantastic defender but he lost it all, man United fans didn’t help at all, social media gave the final punch. Sometimes I feel bad for him as a human, sometimes I wish I could talk to him directly.


Stay strong maguire, quit football and save your self all this embarrassment
So you want to tell him:
Whenever he has challenges, HE SHOULD THROW IN THE TOWEL for the world to be Happy.
if one adopts such a mentality, One will never make any note-worthy success in life.


He should just ignore the Noise and do his best...
FamilyRe: DNA Centre Sheds Light On Child Paternity Fraud In Nigeria by OvertheTop(m): 9:55am On Sep 14, 2023
ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/dna-centre-sheds-light-on-child-paternity-fraud-in-nigeria/
You forgot to Add the TESTING CENTER Numerical SPREAD NATIONWIDE so we can see the Data collection Spread.
There is Obviously More testing Centers in Lagos over others.

We want to see something like:
We collected data from:

Lagos : 1000 Testing centres
Ogun : 500 Testing centres

.....Give the Nationwide Data
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad Family Planning To Collect Properties From His Wife - Instablog9ja by OvertheTop(m): 5:14pm On Sep 13, 2023
Zionmdde:
I advice men, write your will early and keep updating it
Some families are so wicked that they will take everything away and leave the wife and children with nothing

Please married men try not to die early.
Drugs
Weeds
Smoking
Alcohol
Unnecessary fights
Unnecessary nightlife
Please don't leave the Wife you married and your own children alone in this world. It's a wicked world
Women Should Write their WILL Early too and be Updating it.
NO LAW says a Man Should Die First in any Marriage or Union.

PLEASE, LET MEN BREATHE !!! shocked sad
CelebritiesRe: Olasunkanmi Saheed Is The Man In Moyo Lawal's Leaked Video by OvertheTop(m): 2:28pm On Sep 13, 2023
Showguyz:
E no sweet o
grin

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