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Adeyinka90:
Am a guy who don't Iike sex..I might not even ask for sex from you for a whole year dating you

LINSAR:
No sex till marriage, I don't fornicate.

If you have nothing doing to earn a living, I can't be fending for you like your father.

I pay less attention to physical attributes. I might not even notice you made a new hair. Your wig, makeup and nails don't do a thing on me.

You must know how to pray and have patience. Dating a believer is different from dating Pablo Richie the yahoo boy.

If I'm talking angrily, just keep quiet and don't touch me. If you dare me, whatever happens, it's sorry you'll collect afterwards.

Authoreety:
Na wa o... At 19 she already has two children 🧒

Unbelievable,
i had to read that line 3 times to be sure I'm not hallucinating

franksam209:
how she chooses to dress doesn't concern you, even if she's naked, that doesn't give you the right to touch her without her permission, if anyone should try such with my sis, aswearugawd I will strangle that individual with minutes

sunsweet33:
My office hired a new manager and as I was standing by the side doing something he came up behind me put his hand on my lower back/waist and asked “how are you doing”. At that moment all my usual fire went out of the window and I just froze up. Actually there were 3 other senior staff around who must have seen it and warned him because thereafter, he only tapped my shoulder or shoulder blades (which I dont have any problem with).

Now a couple of days ago I had my hands full again doing something and this man passed behind me, held both sides of my waist very briefly and brushed against my back.

the whole thing was over in less than 5 seconds and I didn’t even see the person until I turned my head to see him watching me from the other side of the office.

bearing in mind this is a senior boss, I don’t feel I can shout or confront as normal so I have just been giving some stern/cold attitudes and stepping out of the way in a more exaggerated way whenever he passes by me. And he has started reciprocating the awkwardness which made it easier for me.

But how realistic is this? In another thread somebody wrote that his brother tried to get his female colleagues fired for rejecting his advances and I fear something similar may happen to me.

Its so irritating. This guy says he has a girlfriend so why not go home and touch her? WTF.

JaskanFactor:
you have to be insane to expect things to end well between men who wear ear ring, and sing about yansh on luxury car.
All that is well that ends well. The Almighty power is always watching and giving you reply right down to the pico second.

this situation is exposing the musicians, their fans, and the entire bad culture , that culture is not free, infact its very expensive in the long run.

tragedy and its power to expose the truths that were always hidden in plain sight.

immortalmortal:
Show us the nyash he touch na?

SegunBABA007:
You will still be first to criticize him when next he scores an own goal. I get your point but maguire’s case is mental, he needs pure help mentally.

That can’t be achieved by constant errors and fan boos in the field of play. The whole world already sees him as a flop, whenever he plays he gets blamed for virtually everything, from his positioning to lack of speed.

What will you advise a person suffering from mental downtime ?

Keep pushing ? Or seek for mental revive?
Will love to read your response.

SegunBABA007:
Maguire should call it a day with football or go to a lesser league. With the amount of blunders and errors he has committed, he can never be a better player again based on mental readiness.

Maguire was once a fantastic defender but he lost it all, man United fans didn’t help at all, social media gave the final punch. Sometimes I feel bad for him as a human, sometimes I wish I could talk to him directly.


Stay strong maguire, quit football and save your self all this embarrassment

ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/dna-centre-sheds-light-on-child-paternity-fraud-in-nigeria/

Zionmdde:
I advice men, write your will early and keep updating it
Some families are so wicked that they will take everything away and leave the wife and children with nothing

Please married men try not to die early.
Drugs
Weeds
Smoking
Alcohol
Unnecessary fights
Unnecessary nightlife
Please don't leave the Wife you married and your own children alone in this world. It's a wicked world

Showguyz:
E no sweet o

Bluntemperor:
Please, Enough of all this rascality!
Both of them know what they are doing - as they are practicing the American way of life in Nigeria, even though the Man in question is based in USA.
Can you try it in India,China or Vietnam, without serious Consequences? That you are trying to o pollute our Innocent Youths?
What legal Nonsense is she talking about- for a man that is based in America?
Nonsensical people everywhere!
Very Shameful indeed!

Cpossibility:
My pain is that the man didn't cover the pusssy part. He deprived us opportunity to see how dicck was thrusting in and out of Moyo's pusssy. What kind of coverage is that?

nairalanda1:
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse .

Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant?

Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks?

The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman.


Don't get married for the image

winner37:
Free pussy has make my dick to cover with yeast.😭😭😭😭...

Not all ladies you will go down with ,I repeat not ladies you will go down with

Kingozymandias:
This is what happens when ypu imbibe Impúity by mixing with Kafirs too deeply. I didn't say don't have Kafir acquaintances you can but do not mix too deeply with them .

Treat them as you would a lost cattle or child . Do not allow their ways seem harmless to you

Pray a halal life always

casualobserver:
A man with[b] power[/b] can never lack money, if he lacks money it is because he is not motivated by money

APOPTOSIS:
....an Insult to have a Product of Walai Talai League for Ballon D'or

BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.

ahiboilandgas:
apply for admission and come in again to pepper her ! She doesn't hold the exclusive right to UK visa .

Donpenny:
That's hw my ex then wanted to use me as dependent to this country, here is someone that's so full of pride including her family. I jejely told her i like my job here in 9ja. I dnt want to hear i made you this or that. Na so one desperate lazy guy go jump enter relationship with her so he can become dependent. Baba is bck now to 9ja fustrated

Goodlady:
Wicked Mr Abdulfayeed, no few thousand ll be sent home. You guys at home are also leaches. When there's separation in relationships, everyone should go separate in peace and the man should settle alimony to avoid dragging.
Know this and know peace.

Yorkedwight:
I know of one goat through his wife. He’s the one sponsoring the lady to school in the United Kingdom while being the dependent. They both traveling upper week to the UK. The other day I was on call with the wife who happens to be my friend, she was crying bitterly saying the guy had cheating recklessly on her and vow to divorce him once they get to the UK. In the real sense, the man ought to have being the main applicant not the dependent and that’s one mistake I wouldn’t advise my enemy to make.

Men need to be 10 steps ahead of their wives.

layzie:
The painful part of this will be that this man may have borne all the financial obligations to make this trip happen...flights, visa/application fees, sch fees, etc and may probably have left a good job/business to join her.
Japa is very capital intensive, to lose it all this way....I can't even begin to imagine it

motymop:
If i was the man.

I will come back to Nigeria, block every contact about her and be the best version of myself.

What if he had Sold all his Properties before going and he is in his 50s??

BigDawsNet:
He should apologise

Apologize for Knowing to Much!!

Menclothing:
Go and hustle and come back years later to set up company here

ezegold4we:
@ OP,

pls let me remind u that ur greatest investment and achievement is your marriage and family, not the 1.1million net income you are making every month in Nigeria, u will definitely Make More than that in Australia with Peace of mind,

Secondly, age is Just a number, when u get here, u will see married Men of 55yrs stepping into Australia to settle down with their families, buhari took power in 2015 and before we knew it, his 8yrs of suffering and killings Just ended, now Jagaban is in charge, u will still be considering ur age and his 8yrs will elapse,pls once again forget ur age, unless there are other personal reaaons why u dont want to unite with ur wife in Australia,

Thirdly, forget about ur fears about work , there are lots of jobs in Australia, try and take a step first, u can't stay in nija and be assuming things,

Pls don't be confused at this stage of ur life, be decisive,

Finally, remember, family is everything.

MrNipplesLover:
A 48-year-old youth and feeling old?

Baba, u just dey start life... u're a youth and should feel youthful of ur age...

The moment u feel u are old, na that time grey hair go take over ur head and u go start appearing old...

To me, old age starts from 65...

Abeg, go and make use of ur youthful age in a country that works....

All the best to u. ✌

deltateam:
You're lucky to have a supportive wife. Put your head down and learn. You'll be shocked that your salary there may be higher than a bank branch manager in Nigeria.

Don't quarrell your wife when you get there otherwise na deportation.

Leave some lifeline in Nigeria just in case it backfires. Good luck!

Blazebond:
Only a fool will tell you not to be afraid of the UNCERTAINTY and at the same time,only a coward will tell you to be afraid of the UNCERTAINTY,life is an adventure and the best people to take on that adventure with is FAMILY,I advise you to have a sweet talk with your wife and lay out all this your fears to her i.e your age advancement,and your lucrative employment that you currently have in Nigeria,also tell her that you might find it difficult to switch from a comfortable white collar clerical job to a more physically demanding blue collar and somewhat below your status job,let her know all this things,speak to her,let her voice and reasonings assure you that all will be fine then shake that fear and vamoose at once to AUSTRALIA,I wish you and your family the best in your new adventures.