₦airaland Forum

Bluntemperor:
Please, Enough of all this rascality!
Both of them know what they are doing - as they are practicing the American way of life in Nigeria, even though the Man in question is based in USA.
Can you try it in India,China or Vietnam, without serious Consequences? That you are trying to o pollute our Innocent Youths?
What legal Nonsense is she talking about- for a man that is based in America?
Nonsensical people everywhere!
Very Shameful indeed!

Cpossibility:
My pain is that the man didn't cover the pusssy part. He deprived us opportunity to see how dicck was thrusting in and out of Moyo's pusssy. What kind of coverage is that?

nairalanda1:
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse .

Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant?

Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks?

The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman.


Don't get married for the image

winner37:
Free pussy has make my dick to cover with yeast.😭😭😭😭...

Not all ladies you will go down with ,I repeat not ladies you will go down with

Kingozymandias:
This is what happens when ypu imbibe Impúity by mixing with Kafirs too deeply. I didn't say don't have Kafir acquaintances you can but do not mix too deeply with them .

Treat them as you would a lost cattle or child . Do not allow their ways seem harmless to you

Pray a halal life always

casualobserver:
A man with[b] power[/b] can never lack money, if he lacks money it is because he is not motivated by money

APOPTOSIS:
....an Insult to have a Product of Walai Talai League for Ballon D'or

BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.

ahiboilandgas:
apply for admission and come in again to pepper her ! She doesn't hold the exclusive right to UK visa .

Donpenny:
That's hw my ex then wanted to use me as dependent to this country, here is someone that's so full of pride including her family. I jejely told her i like my job here in 9ja. I dnt want to hear i made you this or that. Na so one desperate lazy guy go jump enter relationship with her so he can become dependent. Baba is bck now to 9ja fustrated

Goodlady:
Wicked Mr Abdulfayeed, no few thousand ll be sent home. You guys at home are also leaches. When there's separation in relationships, everyone should go separate in peace and the man should settle alimony to avoid dragging.
Know this and know peace.

Yorkedwight:
I know of one goat through his wife. He’s the one sponsoring the lady to school in the United Kingdom while being the dependent. They both traveling upper week to the UK. The other day I was on call with the wife who happens to be my friend, she was crying bitterly saying the guy had cheating recklessly on her and vow to divorce him once they get to the UK. In the real sense, the man ought to have being the main applicant not the dependent and that’s one mistake I wouldn’t advise my enemy to make.

Men need to be 10 steps ahead of their wives.

layzie:
The painful part of this will be that this man may have borne all the financial obligations to make this trip happen...flights, visa/application fees, sch fees, etc and may probably have left a good job/business to join her.
Japa is very capital intensive, to lose it all this way....I can't even begin to imagine it

motymop:
If i was the man.

I will come back to Nigeria, block every contact about her and be the best version of myself.

What if he had Sold all his Properties before going and he is in his 50s??

BigDawsNet:
He should apologise

Apologize for Knowing to Much!!

Menclothing:
Go and hustle and come back years later to set up company here

ezegold4we:
@ OP,

pls let me remind u that ur greatest investment and achievement is your marriage and family, not the 1.1million net income you are making every month in Nigeria, u will definitely Make More than that in Australia with Peace of mind,

Secondly, age is Just a number, when u get here, u will see married Men of 55yrs stepping into Australia to settle down with their families, buhari took power in 2015 and before we knew it, his 8yrs of suffering and killings Just ended, now Jagaban is in charge, u will still be considering ur age and his 8yrs will elapse,pls once again forget ur age, unless there are other personal reaaons why u dont want to unite with ur wife in Australia,

Thirdly, forget about ur fears about work , there are lots of jobs in Australia, try and take a step first, u can't stay in nija and be assuming things,

Pls don't be confused at this stage of ur life, be decisive,

Finally, remember, family is everything.

MrNipplesLover:
A 48-year-old youth and feeling old?

Baba, u just dey start life... u're a youth and should feel youthful of ur age...

The moment u feel u are old, na that time grey hair go take over ur head and u go start appearing old...

To me, old age starts from 65...

Abeg, go and make use of ur youthful age in a country that works....

All the best to u. ✌

deltateam:
You're lucky to have a supportive wife. Put your head down and learn. You'll be shocked that your salary there may be higher than a bank branch manager in Nigeria.

Don't quarrell your wife when you get there otherwise na deportation.

Leave some lifeline in Nigeria just in case it backfires. Good luck!

Blazebond:
Only a fool will tell you not to be afraid of the UNCERTAINTY and at the same time,only a coward will tell you to be afraid of the UNCERTAINTY,life is an adventure and the best people to take on that adventure with is FAMILY,I advise you to have a sweet talk with your wife and lay out all this your fears to her i.e your age advancement,and your lucrative employment that you currently have in Nigeria,also tell her that you might find it difficult to switch from a comfortable white collar clerical job to a more physically demanding blue collar and somewhat below your status job,let her know all this things,speak to her,let her voice and reasonings assure you that all will be fine then shake that fear and vamoose at once to AUSTRALIA,I wish you and your family the best in your new adventures.

victorVIC1:
@ OP, your wife is a good woman. She's pushing to see the entire plans you both had from the get go come into reality. The reverse is the case for a lot of people, who get there and completely cut off from their family.

flokii:
@OP Didn't you guys agree on relocation before your wife left for studies?..

In whatever you do, don't sell off your properties here in Nigeria cos it might be the only thing you'd fall back to.
When your wife completes her studies and secures a good job or pay rise, then you'd see her true nature. She'll want to be the one controlling you and be making all the decisions.

Summary of it all.. Plan well and have plan B in case things go south.

Aremwayne:
This is becoming something else, Ecowas need to step in an act fast.

Hope4Naja:
Hello, what is your opinion on the amount regarded as Low Income, Middle Income and High Income in Nigeria

Low Income (N30,000-N150,000)
Middle Income (N151,000-N400,000)
High Income (N401,000-N800,000)

I see anything above N800,000 as the elite class

o123456789:
The reason is because they believe by 30 years all ladies must be humble and settled, which is form of a prison to them, no more hookup, indiscriminate sex, drugs, double dating etc. So they still have some years before 30 to be wayward.

RawSex:
The fear of 30 is real

Even me as a guy is not finding it funny

I will pause my age at 28 for the next 6 years, too much pressure on a male figure and the country is not helping

easyfem:
Pple dey go show , na work work I dey do


Lord help me

addmole:
Bro I am not a SIMP. I just try to respect the boundaries of marriage and my family. But I am being pushed. i JUST HAVE TO CRY OUT. I have reported issues so much to my pastor, her parents - no one wants to listen to us again.

addmole:
She was not a virgin before I MARRIED HER. Infact I know her ex. Though she doesn't cheat on me. She loves to be alone, make money, cruise, vibes with her friends, family. But not with me. Dont cuddle her, don't tickle, don't laugh with her. She gets angry with every little thing. Doesnt apologise. I once cheated on her but apologised. But now, she's starving me of sex, coupled with the height of disrespect from her. Last time I CALLED her elder brother about our frequent quarells. He just said he would talk to her. But he never did. Her mother shouted at me, if i wanted to divorce her, i should go ahead. So much quarells. I am tired. She even left the family prayer whatsapp group i created. OMO, I don't know what to do. I am just tired.

Lonestar124:
Move to which frontpage, the responses you have received so far, so you can make use of it...

I hate men that can make a self decision without listening to others opinion....

Jennyclay:
is that the job you do?

Originalsly:
I'm not saying what the wheelbarrow pusher did was right ... but some people have to pay to learn. As I see it ... she is one of those people who judge people by status.[b] To her ... a barrow pusher is a nobody ... she does not respect his hustle nor his time ... he is her houseboy. She got him to push her stuff out .... not to have him be waiting around for her to haggle and shop. [/b]Serves her right.... guy be losing jobs waiting for her.