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In the days when i was growing up, everybody knew their closest neighbours' names. There was interaction and visits between them. But i it seems that has changed these days or it my imagination?

@ poster
the best way 2 avoid this sort of problem is not to be far away from ur man in the first place. who knows what ur man is up to over here anyway. loneliness can easily lead to infidelity, so try and unite with ur man soonest.personally i do not subscribe to these across-the-ocean marriages

hiv this, hiv that make we hear word!

hey guys, am i the only person who has gone and found that they wre hiv negative? let's hear your experiences please

yea, i ought to be going about in a t-shirt that reads "i cheated hiv". lol

i agree with chaz. a good percentage of nigerian girls are bisexual. it is one of the most well kept secrets. i can't vouch for any girl. honestly

choose between your virginity and your boyfriend. simple

Just start by feeling relaxed around women, just the way you would be around guys. Be yourself when you are in their company. They are very good at noticing when a guy is strung up and uptight so try and avoid that. And when you see a girl you like try and strike up a conversation about something far removed from your mission. Also if you have a strong accent it would do you a lot of good if you could work hard to do away with it. These are just a few tips. So get working and good luck.

There's so much ado about nothing from women who insist they prefer the big one.These are the inexperienced girls who have seen nothing.They do not know what they are saying because  yours truly is not so endowed down there but does an excellent job with the little his got and keeps them coming and coming, .a trial will convince the doubting Thelmas

she is a bisexual else she would not be with u. no problem as long as u r not sharing her with other guys.

I chatted with this Chinese girl on yahoo messenger after seeing this thread. She is just like any other woman in love who's acting confused. It's better to let her get her fingers burnt. No amount of warning will make her keep off her man.

She should go and see a doctor!

You should have added that you are based in the UK or America lol

The original poster did not in anyway imply that the scenario she painted was her personal problem. She was only asking people's opinion about such a situation. Meanwhile, she has not come back with any more posts. My personal opinion about a guy who has not given his girl a gift in 2 years is that he is just plain stingy. He can't be that poor. lol. He can't say he truly loves the girl because love is all about giving. Selflessness. A man should be able to make a sacrifice for the one he loves once in a while.

Thank you! I felt like a reprieved man, knowing the many risks I had taken in the past.

bebe2007 you are damn right about people who go to the toilet and don't bother to wash their hands. I kept a bar of soap in the office loo when I discovered that the managment was being a bit tight-fisted about toileteries. To my amazement, it appears am the only person who uses it because it has been there for such a long time. And this is a toilet that is used by not less than 7 people. People fail to observe basic hygiene then later wonder how they got typhoid fever.

I recently decided to go and find out once and for all my HIV status. I therefore went to a laboratory and had my blood taken for the test. I was told to wait for the result, and less than 30 minutes later it was ready. I must admit it was a bit tense, but I was ready to take a positive result like a man. The staff wore serious looks as they prepared the report. It was finally handed to me and I anxiously scanned the sheet. I was so relieved and almost incredulous when I saw "sero-negative". I looked at the guy who gave me the report and  asked him, "am negative"? and he replied "yes, congratulations". His female colleague echoed him, smiling. I left feeling so thrilled, having cheated HIV. Am going to be real careful from now on. LOL. So folks can you share your experience with us of how you felt when you found out you were HIV negative?

i think some folks are just envious

I have asked many girls this same question and not one has ever said she would condescend to that level. Not one! Yet from time to time it happens. No woman likes to sit back and watch her man being snatched by another woman.

Her friends would even encourage her by saying "if I were the one, ". Else she could just lose control on sighting her guy with the snatcher and do what she always swore she could never do. All these women here saying "naaaah" don't know what they are saying.

They should just face the temptation first of catching their sweetheart in a hot embrace with another woman and see whether they will not lose their sanity.

Camara Laye was only being practical by remarrying. He was very ill and he was lonely. It wasn't an easy situation he found himself in. Let's please try and empathise before we begin to castigate.

In my experience all the girls always say "no way!", they wouldn't go out with a guy who smokes, yet it seems smokers get laid more than non-smokers. Girls sort of like the way the smokers exude confidence when they smoke. Women are funny creatures who are not sure what their likes and dislikes really are.

@ poster, it appears you have made up your mind she's cheap. Ok so want do you want nairalanders to do now?

The poor nanny goat died after choking on plastic, RIP Mrs Tombe