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RomanceRe: Heart Broken:my Girlfriend Of Two Years Is Getting Married Today by Patented: 6:25am On Jun 17, 2021
RapLawd:
Doing that first thing tomorrow morning after my last marriage wish to her,almost allher friends have been calling me just know where I've been, I only picked those that I know what they stands for...most of them are even in shock too.
Oga, cut off means cut off. It has to be sudden and immediate. No looking for closure, no last wishes no hearing of voice or tears or any crap like that. Sudden stop. Do not call or communicate for any reason going forward from now. Do not give the opportunity for communication either
RomanceRe: Heart Broken:my Girlfriend Of Two Years Is Getting Married Today by Patented:
Jejely block her everywhere. As for the pain....e go pass with time. Much faster if u cut off all communication.
Christianity EtcRe: Can Someone Having Foundational Problems Marry Someone Having Foundational Probl by Patented: 9:54pm On Jun 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What is "foundational problem"? undecided
Ask am ooooo. Na so incomplete info go lead to incomplete advice
AgricultureRe: Can These Broiler Eggs Be Hatched? by Patented: 4:45pm On Jun 10, 2021
chukskafor:
what are you writing please, can't comprehend a thing about it
Typo. How old are the birds. Did they mate?If they have not mated there would be no hatching
AgricultureRe: Can These Broiler Eggs Be Hatched? by Patented: 4:13pm On Jun 09, 2021
How old are they? If they have not matter then no hatching
PetsRe: The Snake I Encountered On My Way To Site Today by Patented: 9:47pm On Jun 04, 2021
Gabion viper I think
Car TalkRe: Toyota Camry (1999) Acceleration Issue by Patented: 12:45pm On Jun 04, 2021
Sounds like a gear issue. Ensure that there is adequate gear oil in the gear. Also check for leaks.
odeyinugbolahan:
Hi everyone..

I need your technical advice.

I serviced my Toyota camry (1999) few days ago and I drove the car from Ibadan to Lagos without any problem. After I packed in lagos to buy something and I tried to move I discover that the car dint wanna move, I apply more pressure on the gas pedal and it moves for few seconds and even when the applied pressure is still on the pedal, the car still stopped moving and this continues each time I park the car

What can be the cause of this and what can be done to fix this

Your technical advise will be appreciated
PoliticsRe: Why We Should Change Nigeria To UAR (United African Republic) by Patented:
Dont mind us. a name change is merely cosmetic and nothing will get better. There are deep rooted fundamental issues that should be addressed first. When that is done, we can start searching for names of whatever structure(s) exist then.
Jesuschristus:
Nigerians just criticize things blindly, the idea of changing name ,with changing constitution, changing leaders ,in sort change everything is a cool one, we can't continue to repeat same mistakes
AgricultureRe: OMG! I Just Found These Python Eggs In My Garden Now by Patented: 12:35pm On Jun 04, 2021
unfortunately no
Zenithh:
Pls do u have a picture of pepper sprout in ur farm?
AgricultureRe: OMG! I Just Found These Python Eggs In My Garden Now by Patented: 11:48am On Jun 04, 2021
Its not pepper. Do not know awhat it is but its not pepper
HealthRe: Is There Anybody Here With Irregular Heartbeats? by Patented: 10:28am On Jun 04, 2021
Never Google health symptoms, cos google will nearly kill u............hence your panic attacks. On the issue of chest pains, I think you should seek a second opinion just to be sure. If they say you are fine then consult them on low impact excercises you can do. Secondly one meal a day is not a good strategy. You may be robbing your body of vital nutrients, rather consult a nutritionist to design a good diet for you.

Newguy999:
I am a guy, currently 22 years of age. For some time in the past I usually have occasional chest pains which comes and goes within 10 minutes. I thought it was as a result of my sugar intake as I consume soft drinks a lot with little or no exercises so I decided to cut down on my soft drink to no avail because I always end up going back to it.

Fast forward to sometime last month, I traveled to Europe to get a medical degree and when I got here, I started living on junk foods, KFC and McDonald’s as I could not cook. The chest pain came back one night and I decided to complain to my dad. Immediately I complained to him, I became conscious of it and I started fussing over it.

I went to google and everything I saw about pains in the chest always leads to cardiac arrest, stroke and dying. I couldn’t stop thinking about it, I was always trying to check my heartbeat every chance I get. My dad said it was due to the junk foods so I stopped junk foods and soft drinks as my cholesterol could be high. I still couldn’t shake off the horrible feeling I got whenever I checked my heartbeat.

I started having panic attacks and difficulties with breathing and always feeling tired. I eventually went for check up and my heartbeat showed a beat of 68 bpm. I got checked by a cardiologist, neurologist and an orthopedic doctor and they all said my vitals looked normal, blood pressure normal, blood oxygen level normal, blood sugar normal except for the orthopedic doctor who told me I had to fix my slouching posture.

It’s been a week after the check up but my life isn’t back to normal. I can’t keep complaining to my parents because I gave them quite a scare with my first complaint and I know they have their own life to live but I’m just scared, I live alone in my apartment here and I’m new so no friends yet.

Anytime I check my heartbeat it still feels irregular,I can’t enjoy the foods I use to love, I get scared of doing strenuous exercises like jogging because I’ve heard stories of people who collapsed while jogging, i don’t enjoy my sleep anymore as I read that most people with cardiac problems die in their sleep.

For a week now, I have been going for evening walks to keep fit and exercise and I only eat once a day. I eat 2 apples every day and I swallow a capsule of omega 3 fatty oil daily. The only protein I consume now is salmon or mackerel fish because of their heart strengthening capabilities.

I can’t focus on my studies anymore but I can’t complain because I don’t want to bother my parents anymore but I’m scared. Some nights I wake up with panic attacks and every morning I feel happy for sleeping and waking up successfully. I hate how flawed the human design is. Sometimes I get distracted but as soon as I feel any slight discomfort in my chest, I check my heartbeat and it feels irregular. There’s occasional sharp pains in my head that goes almost immediately and sometimes I feel blood throbbing through my veins in different parts of my body. Tomorrow I’ll be going out to get an apple series 6 watch so I can monitor my vitals better.

Sorry for the long read, I just had to let all of this out.
Car TalkRe: . by Patented: 9:27am On Jun 03, 2021
search pdfdrive.net for the manual for Japanese specification.
naijadrivablog:
It is not there. Na American spec own I see for some websites
Car TalkRe: . by Patented: 8:54am On Jun 03, 2021
You will find it in the manual or on the Honda website
CrimeRe: Loan App Wants To Ruin My Career by Patented: 7:51pm On Jun 01, 2021
Report them the CBN, attach Ur bank statement as proof
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Should I Leave My Bank Job For A Multinational Technology Consulting Company? by Patented: 9:13am On May 31, 2021
Imagine the impact of international exposure on your CV. Besides Banking get as e be for naija.
CrimeRe: NDLEA Agents Disguise As Customers To Nab 10 Online Drug Traffickers. by Patented: 3:43pm On May 30, 2021
And why would u publicise such an operation so early on
LiteratureRe: POETS And Poetry Lovers,check Out This Poem Titled "The Wanting". by Patented: 1:06pm On May 28, 2021
nice
PoliticsRe: Does The Nigerian Military Have This Deadly Gunship? by Patented: 4:30pm On May 27, 2021
No
PhonesRe: Please I Need Advice On Which Phone To Buy With 85k Budget by Patented: 8:57am On May 26, 2021
agreed
dragonstar14:
Get redmi note 10.
86k i think maceybland has one.
RomanceRe: My Salary Is 80k But She Said I Should Be Giving Her 70k Monthly - Help by Patented:
Maga don pay!
RomanceRe: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Patented: 2:49pm On May 18, 2021
Next time bring up such a suggestion as if its your own idea.

that being said, madam fiance is not entirely reasonable in this matte especially since she does not want to consider the size of your pocket and life after wedding when it comes to the expenditure for the ceremony. Make una sidon iron out this matter well ooo. Also be on the same page on financial matters. cos money and sex matters are teh chief source of divorce.

Make una discuss una marriage matter well ooo, reach the number of children and where una wan live and how una plan build house and whether she will work or not etc. make una agree wella before una start oooo. I no wish you evil but time still dey
Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks
RomanceRe: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Patented:
if block and delete cannot work confess to your wife and kids.......after that you will either be cured or you will embrace the wahala full on.
daylay7:
I also did. But I reached out again to someone who reconnected us.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Pregnant Again!!! by Patented: 5:52pm On May 16, 2021
Cause , effect and responsibility. U do without contraception the result show, u dey complain. Where in the world of Google did u see that once a month will stop pregnancy?
CelebritiesRe: You Are Not A Born Again If You Fix Eyelashes - Evangelist Slams Chidinma Ekile by Patented: 12:06pm On May 15, 2021
Bull shit!! The life of a Christian is a journey and not a destination. U grow after u become born again which means that changes happen over time.
When Peter properly identified Jesus as Christ. Jesus told him that flesh and blood did not reveal that to him but the Holy spirit, yet shortly after when Peter rebuked Jesus for saying he would have to die. Jesus rebuked him by saying "get the behind me Satan".

The disciples were not sent out to preach as soon as they converted they learnt over time.

The idea that everything about a person changes as soon as he/she becomes born again is nonsense.


Let's imagine a tout who has lived on the streets all his life becomes born again do you think his manner of speech will change immediately.

Self righteousness no go kee us
Science/TechnologyRe: Please Help, My Camera Keeps Switching Off After Taking A Shot by Patented: 10:45pm On May 12, 2021
Take It to a technician.
FamilyRe: I Don’t What To With My Fiancé by Patented:
Giftlola:
Hello everyone

I have an issue and I want you guys to be as brutally honest with me. Problems cannot be solved alone and as much as I’ve discussed this with close family, I need to get unbiased opinions from strangers. Please feel free to pm me with advise as I’m just so down about this situation.

I’m 25 years old and I live in the USA. I’m Yoruba and he’s Igbo, was born here but have also lived in naija at one point. I’ve been in a relationship with this guys for 5 years but I’m at the point where I’m seriously unhappy. Unfortunately we have a daughter together and we got engaged when I was pregnant But things are just not Looking good.

I’m going to first start off by pointing out My flaws so things can be two sided. I will say my shortcomings are

I’m extremely introverted so I don’t like to go out at all, I don’t have friends so I can be very dependent on him emotionally, and I’m not extremely jovial with his family....(he comes from a very jovial background ) because it’s not my personality but I’m friendly and respectful as much as i can be. And none of his family or friends can say they dislike me, they probably just think I’m too quiet.

When I’m upset I can say some really hurtful things.

I also allow things to get to me, and I’m not very forgiving.

I will say I’m aware of these flaws that i have and I’m actively working on them and have tried to adjust over the years with these issues.

Now with my fiancé I’m trying to be as patient as I can but I’m becoming extremely miserable in the process. He’s been doing fraudulent things for over a decade,(which I thought I could initially change him when I first met him) but I’ve realised it may not be possible. He is in his mid 30s. He blamed it on not having his documents, which I understood. He got his documents through our daughter a few months ago so I’m hopeful things will change but with the company he keeps and the amount of years he’s been doing it, I’m a little bit worried that he’s stuck in his ways.

I’m concerned about his smoking and drinking habits.

Earlier this year I found that he was looking for women to sleep with as I saw the history on our computer. He later put all the blame on his cousin then slightly admitted it but denied that he actually slept with one that he was just looking.

I can’t talk to him without him flaring up. He has this huge pride and ego. He will never ever apologise even when he is wrong I’m always the one to surrender and apologise.

At this point I don’t trust this man at all. I find he is very sneaky and deceptive. In public you will think he is a God fearing man , but doing all these things behind behind closed doors without having any conviction to change I don’t know what exactly to do.

These are just the main things as I don’t want to type too much.

Please let me know what you think I should do in this situation or if you think I have no reason to try and leave I need pure honesty.
Also ask me am further question needed.

We are also not married right now as he’s still processing his divorce that he did strictly for document that didn’t work out in his favour

No front page please!!!
Your relationship sounds very toxic and I think the fault is with both of you to varying degrees. However, no blame game.

There is a saying that:

"Love is like a fart, if you have to force it it's probably shit".

For your good and his and your daughter's you guys should probably split.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Didn't Cheat On A Job Test Does That Make Me A Fool ? by Patented:
Swealy:
I have been searching for a job for some months now and I got an invite for a test, there was a great opportunity to cheat without getting caught I mean chances of getting caught was almost 0 and I did not
I probably think if I pass the test i would scale through the other stages
Does this make me stupid ?
Dem go abuse you tire! However it's good to see pple still take the Moral High road. Kudos. It's difficult to do the right things in this country yet you did. I pray that God will bless you real good and give you a job beyond your dreams. Remember God cannot be mocked.
CareerRe: My Mum Insists "Medicine Or Nothing" by Patented: 1:12pm On Apr 27, 2021
what does he want to study and why does he want to study it?
Entayali:
My younger brother is about to register for JAMB for the second time and my mum insists he must study medicine. What's so special about medicine?

She feels that doctors are rich. I've been trying to convince her. What do I do to help my bro because he doesn't want to study medicine?
Technology MarketRe: Buy Your Quality 18650 Cells With Good Mah At N250 Each. by Patented: 9:14pm On Apr 19, 2021
tetralogyfallot:
depending on the quantity sir.
10pcs
Technology MarketRe: Buy Your Quality 18650 Cells With Good Mah At N250 Each. by Patented: 9:12pm On Apr 19, 2021
tetralogyfallot:
Buy your quality 18650 cells with good average capacity readings of 2500mah after test at a very affordable price of N200 per cell. It can be shipped to anywhere in Nigeria.
how much is delivery to lagos
Christianity EtcRe: A Pastor Said I Was A Witch Because Of My Big Eyeballs During Deliverance - Lady by Patented: 5:18pm On Apr 16, 2021
Lots of Nigerians are just Superstitious but they have somehow interpreted it as being spiritual. Holy spirit has no hand in a lot of things that christians and ministers do these days.

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