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Why is this a religious issue now?
He is dead,ok somebody prophesied fine so can we hear the political not religious implications?
I thought I was gonna read what happens next,who takes over,politics ie.
But its now more about what the man of God said and that is to me history. A president is dead and there's a nation involved. That is what the thread ought to be about.The present and future of Malawi as a nation.
brb when politics start

kenyaman: IT LOOKS LIKE UPENDO YOU HAVE NOW JOINED TO HIDE UNDER KENYAMAN.
YOU VALUE THE POWER OF THIS VOICE, THE WRITTEN WORD OF TRUTH

@ hide You are a cartoon.

Can you write in small fonts please?

These two look like brother and sister. nice setting

Omexonomy: Pendo89 does not mean love. PENDO means i am pleading/begging you

Ok lets go swahili.

Pendo/Upendo means Love
Naomba/Kuomba means Pleading or begging.

I speak fluent swahili.

Claus: Claus, short for Colonel Claus Von Stauffenberg the German military officer who led the failed coup and assasination attempt against Hitler and was then executed by firing squad.

Made popular in the 2008 film Valkyrie starring Tom Cruise.

When I first saw this name I thought my boss was on NL.Claus is his name and he is German.

pendo means love

Take the girl and live with her if ur hubby permits but oops who knows again?
Does she have a stable home? Parents? anywhere safe?

hardleyC: This reply kinda sound unfriendly, chill out, ok?
this is an amicable thread,its not compulsory you post as u can as well stroll past.

Mind u, i m not irresponsible in any way (in case u insinuated that in ur reply).

I am sorry .I am guilty of always using 'you' in my posts.Not referring to anybody in particular.

Why is nobody questioning the Dad's financial responsibility over that little girl?
Why does she live in his house? Is he paying for her education etc etc?
Sending that girl away without properly addressing the issue may jeopardise her future.
Is the poster ready to take over the Father's responsibilities over that girl if he decides to stop due to 'false accussations'?
This issue must be dealt with in a way that will not jeopardise her future.
And I don't think the daughter is the right person to do it cz the Father may get mad or deny esp with no real evidence.
Either way HE must be confronted cz it wont stop.

Irresponsible people always look for something/somebody to blame so as to justify their actions.

Does a BB have a mind of its own? Aren't you the one in control or does it run itself?

If one can become promiscous through the BB then he/she can as well become a criminal through the same.

But why promiscous and not a criminal? Because you CHOOSE to be promiscous.

BB is only a gadget to aid in communication. The line of communication you engage in is your biz not the bb.

I don't care how much she ate (even though )
What disgusts me is her insensitivity and lack of manners.
Common sense where did she leave it?? if you are 2 in the house and breakfast is set then u should be smart to know the table is set for two!
These are the kind I fear going places with cz of the embarrasment they can cause. Finishing the meal for everybody because all they care about is their tummy.
People eat but hey! consider others.

Of course he can depending on the line he takes and the type of woman he's dating.
If you talk about satisfaction I would say No.A human being can never fully satisfy the other because a human soul is like a bottomless pit.

But pleasing? Yes.

If ur woman is the money loving kind, then spend a fortune on her she will be pleased.
If shes loves sex more than food,be a Master and she will sure be pleased.
If she adores food more than Oxygen,guy go ahead and feed her well and she will be very very pleased
If she loves Shopping/Fashion/gadgets etc treat her to that and see how pleased she gets.
Now all those are material.
If your woman cherishes your attention,your state of heart,your manners,attitude, etc and you go ahead to offer those, then you have a well pleased woman.

In short this word pleasing is short lived.It's birthed by a desire to fulfill a need and the moment fulfillment is stopped,the pleasing dies.
Know your woman,what she likes and discover what it takes to please her.
Now ask yourself,are you fulfilling a worthy need in an effort to please her? What are you giving your woman to please her?
Is it sex/money/food/clothes/your heart?
Which among those is strong enough to glue the relationship? They are all pleasing ways you know and when the channel dries up the pleasing stops.

Pleasing is short term.

oluoma1: What has hapen has hapen, but all i have to say is dat dis tin dat hapen is not an ordinary is an ancestral forces from his family. Rip' Nwankwo.

What category of nigerians do you represent with this kind of reasoning?? If this site had 10% people reasoning like this I would have quit.

slimyem ,I strongly believe the op took this exam.
Creamy is, ok what exactly is creamy??

@ killz

I.5million markings??and a week? ours take at most 2 months to mark and publish and we never hit 1 m. They are done in November so they have 2 months to rest.
What is the highest score? if 3 scored above 300.
How many subjects are examined?
What is the cut off mark to the universities?
Will those 3 get scholarships from reputable companies?
Op am sorry for derailing a bit.Will be off soon.
Creamy ,yummy,sugary,whatever its all outside.

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]It used to take months. . . but now, it took less than a week. The examinations were written last saturday. . .[/color][/quote]Electronic or what? A nationwide exam? Impressive.

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]JAMB stands for Joint Admissions And Matriculation Board. . . They are the body that conducts a general nationwide examination for students seeking admission into the university. . .

A Jambite is one that has taken the examination. Could also mean a person that is in his first year in the university. Age varies. but majority of Jambites are within the ages of 15/18. . . High school leavers[/color][/quote]Thank you very much.We have a similar exam body but of course bearing a different name. How long does it take for the Jamb results to be announced.
Cz I saw a thread reading Jamb today and the next week or 2 they were out!

@op,if you want a creamy girl make sure you are a creamy boy.

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Creamy? [/color][/quote]killz what is jambz and what is the age of a jambite? or one that has finished?

I think its better to keep wondering or else you wont understand even if it's explained to you in rainbow colours.
Why do people cheat in relationships? Marriage doesn't change character, it magnifies it.
Each marriage is diff with a story and everyone will justify why they cheated.

realpeople: Signs of the End time

Shaking My Head.Its not a must to post.

@ op.That is what anger does.Silly reaction to a tough situation.

Mekaboy you never cease to amaze me.

98% of replies doubt you are the Father of those kids.
So before you cry marriage.HAVE YOU CONFIRMED PATERNITY?? Does it bother you at all?
What if you are the Father,and she refuses to marry you what will you do? any legal course?
Find out if you were just a sperm donor.

See how your single life affords you time to type paragraphs.
Nway there's nothing wrong in being single as long as you are happy and productive.
Being in relationship is not a ticket to happiness, neither is being single so reconsider your reasons for single hood if you are of age.
Not everybody is destined for marriage anyway even Paul was a bachelor and he did wonders.
Make a postive influence in whatever state you are and you will be satisfied

Would you marry a man who has slept with sluts?

There are worse people in life than sluts. And a reformed slut is Reformed. Why would you even consider marrying one if you feel 'itchy'?

If one isn't comfortable with the other's past let go early instead of stressing yourself.
However if you truly love her but find it hard compromising her past with the present then you need to accept a few facts.
Great she may be in bed but what about the constant stares everywhere she goes? the familiarity? If you can deal with that then you are good to go.
I don't know how a man would feel if other men /stare/make passes at his wife because of her past. Its better to move far from the area of trade for the sake of that marriage.
Reformation is deep and gradual.It's psychological,spiritual,physical and Emotional and that takes time to overcome.
So it all depends on the strength of the man.

dyt I heard lol. You are really funny.
K.

[quote author=Afro_Blue]here today on the 29th day of March in the year of our creator 2012 I openly profess my love to Pendo89 on the strength of her mind and wit. I don't care if she does have 9 children, I will raise them as my own.

Isn't Nairaland wonderfully magical? I'm in yankeeland and she's in E. Africa.

Baby, if you happen to read this, it's for real.

I can't wait to meet you in person and pop the question.[/quote] 9 kids in this day and age is a crime.
K.

Dyt: I ll go in search of er 4 u

Am here. You went searching too far dear.lol