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RomanceRe: What Nerds Don't Know About Women? by pendo89(f): 11:51pm On Apr 16, 2012
Are nerds easily provoked? do they always sense what is not? grin
I said nerds read women like books.They treat them like literature.
All they need to do is become good at practicals.
And now they are 4. lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Would You Disclose How Much You Earn To Your Spouse? by pendo89(f): 11:00pm On Apr 16, 2012
Talk about these things before u walk down that aisle,Know how much info u can disclose to each other so that it doesn't cause friction.
some don't disclose yet they live happily together.Others are open books but they never agree on anything.
RomanceRe: Rich Ladies - Does Being Financially Stable Make U Hard 2 Get? by pendo89(f): 10:53pm On Apr 16, 2012
grin grin onila.
Anyway.Financial stability is not the same thing as being rich.
Anybody that works and earns an income is financially stable even though they may not be rich.
There are many reasons why a rich girl may play hard to get, one of them being short-sighted.
Its even more silly if she boasting of her dad's wealth instead of building hers.
My answer therefore is No.Financial stability makes me less of a burden to my guy.That is how I look at it.
RomanceRe: What Nerds Don't Know About Women? by pendo89(f): 10:44pm On Apr 16, 2012
I have counted 3 Nerds on this thread.
A.S.L
RomanceRe: Let's All Post Our Baby Pictures :D by pendo89(f): 10:23pm On Apr 16, 2012
grin grin
RomanceRe: Man Marries Man In Ghana by pendo89(f): 11:27am On Apr 16, 2012
Shrines,sacrifices anything that touches on extreme spiritualism and strange realms I avoid with all my heart soul and body.
Christianity EtcRe: I Abandoned Religion And God Today. I'm Free. by pendo89(f): 4:49pm On Apr 15, 2012
This thread has evolved into a cult! jeez
confusing. grin
RomanceRe: Romance Section Dont You Think Killz And Multiple Fights Should Stop by pendo89(f): 4:20pm On Apr 15, 2012
mamalola19: Seriously I am tired of the endless e-fights on nl
he should simply stop so we can have peace on nl.
Activate ignore.Stop reading his fights and only answer the op. You will have the peace you need.

And if members are tired of his insults,
say it now or forever remain silent!
I think it takes two to tango.So many fighters in here so we may just beg them all to stop it.Then you will hear that the section is boring.

its for peace to reign on the romance section
that is now labelled fighting section
it makes us look unserious and unfocus.
Now that 'us' makes it look like there are resident members here. I think the person whose image is tarnished and ought to be complaining is the mod.The rest of us are passerbys.
Peace? I have read serious fight in politics.culture though I hardly contribute. Its ok to fight online but is what you are fighting about worth a thread?


would restore the once reputation section
Which is? Thats a bit difficult considering we have all manner of people joining.Not everyoen is well intentioned so keeping a reputation is not that easy.
i mean most members have left this section
I think that is healthy.We don't stay in one institution forever.New people come and old leave when they find better things to do with their spare time.Its a healthy cycle that gets rid of stagnation.
All these rifts should come to an end
Gossipying should stop as well
My dear.I doubt NL is a reformation centre.I think its better to accept a few facts.Why should something petty as gossip bother anybody in this day and age?
If you dont know me in person why let anything I say about you disturb your peace?
Lastly if you can separate the post from the poster that would be great.You will not engage in fights.

Now Mamola you are already fighting sexkillz. If you want peace,close the thread by not posting.
FamilyRe: How Do You Cope With An Exceptionally Jealous Girlfriend? by pendo89(f): 3:51pm On Apr 15, 2012
I keep saying again and again.There are some things that you can't change in a relationship no matter how hard you try or how long you wait.
This is not a child to be molded but a grown woman tormenting him.Does he expect her to change? Doesn't he know that his current relationship is a reflection of the marriage he may end up having only in double measure?
What is wrong with your friend? They aren't even married and a lady is controlling him like the remote!
His business is suffering,his relationships are suffering,his soul is sick,tired and hurting.
In short he is shrinking day after day yet he keeps lying to himself that it's gonna be okay.
That is not the purpose of relationships.Some people are posessed and are very evil to the point of death.
If your friend wants to live peaceful,he had better call off this pathetic relationship cz it smells of death not life.
If he doesnt call it off he can wait to die.
Jeez! i feel chocked.
Christianity EtcRe: I Abandoned Religion And God Today. I'm Free. by pendo89(f): 11:44pm On Apr 14, 2012
I am not religious either.I just love God!.

Religion is nothing but man's way of reaching out to God.
Faith is God's way of reaching out to man.

If you dislike God however you are on your own.
He doesn't force himself on us.It's people who twist his Gospel to their liking.
I hope one day you have an encounter with God not religion cz it doesnt add value to us.
RomanceRe: Reasons For Marriage by pendo89(f): 11:26pm On Apr 14, 2012
Marriage is like a popcorn making machine.

As the heat intensifies,the corns pop.

If there's a desperate girl waiting to get married there must be a desperate boy lying in wait.

Marry cz you CHOOSE to.Every other reason will be tested in the machine.

Kids>> Suppose one is unable to bear one out of one reason or another? What if you lose them in some calamity?
Love>> Great foundation but what if he decides to have roving eyes and love starts waning?
Societal pressure>> Will the society help you build your marriage? They will urge you to get in.But they won't get in with you.
Finances>>No need to explain. We all know what happens and how unstable this an turn out to be.
Religion>>Nope its not a must really.Great people accomplished much in their single status. Be sure of this though so you don't become an old fool.

Its a choice.
RomanceRe: What Nerds Don't Know About Women? by pendo89(f): 10:44pm On Apr 14, 2012
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Haloo? any nerd in the househuh
RomanceRe: Can You Tell If Your Toaster Is Married? by pendo89(f): 9:52pm On Apr 14, 2012
Not at first instance but with time.
That is why its good to take time rather than rush.Ask questions,observe his schedule and watch out for a few things.
Truth will eventually come out if you are patient indeed.
RomanceRe: Primary School Was Like Fun Fun Fun by pendo89(f): 9:46pm On Apr 14, 2012
Are u done with high school OP?
RomanceRe: Whats Your Views About Couples Living Together With Children But Not Married? by pendo89(f): 9:42pm On Apr 14, 2012
I used to be a critic but I ain't anymore.
My cousin is a perfect example.Great marriage,great careers,lovely kids and beautiful wife.Over 5 yrs together.
They are doing better than some married peeps I know.
I know it doesn't sound right but it's their lives.If they are happy I am happy for them.
But it's good to legalise stuff or have an agreement in place incase of calamity.
RomanceRe: Describe Your First Kiss... How Was It? With Who? N Where? by pendo89(f): 9:31pm On Apr 14, 2012
I was a grownup and he was my bf.
We were out checking out some construction work and then he decided to kiss me.
My lips became soo swollen. angry
I sneaked into the house and went to bed early to avoid any stare or questions.
RomanceRe: Is Love Natural? What Do You Think?.. by pendo89(f): 9:14pm On Apr 14, 2012
phemilive: Some people say love is gradual and u have to build it up, others say Love is just natural,..
What do you think?
Cos what I'm feeling for this my lady, I cant describe ooo
You feel for her.Great.That's how humans and animals are supposed to feel for the opposite sex when attraction sets in.
Now you need to act. Approach her with all the confidence in the world and declare your feelings like a man.
Ladies love confident guys.
If she reciprocates fine.If she turns you down don't despair.Up your game and see her coming to you, if you are indeed worthwhile.
RomanceRe: Who To Save, Mother Or Wife? by pendo89(f): 9:07pm On Apr 14, 2012
[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I thought it was my knocked up hormones at first. I was like it might just be me. You know how the husband's fluid intermingle with the zygote and go through mitosis.....

Let me take my arse to bed too![/quote]lol! Beware of a guy running with cutlass.
RomanceRe: Your Dating Mistakes That You Have Learnt From by pendo89(f): 9:04pm On Apr 14, 2012
Don't fall in love too quick no matter what your emotions say.
Take time to grow with the person and let things happen naturally.
In short,dont try too hard to make it work if there's no hope in the horizon.
RomanceRe: Who To Save, Mother Or Wife? by pendo89(f): 8:58pm On Apr 14, 2012
grin grin grin grin

I think this is the type that takes beans and weeds combined. I read it here. grin grin
RomanceRe: What Nerds Don't Know About Women? by pendo89(f): 8:52pm On Apr 14, 2012
Who said nerds know nothing about women?
They read and understand women like books.
Practicals is what they aren't good at.

Now the others who aren't nerds are good at practicals.But understanding/trying to figure us out leaves them discombobulated.

Solution? possess half of each and you will live happily.
RomanceRe: Who To Save, Mother Or Wife? by pendo89(f): 8:45pm On Apr 14, 2012
roflmao!!@replies

grin grin grin grin just go to bed op. you seem tired
RomanceRe: Guys, It Time To Trip That Babe! Buy A Clean Saloon Car At N70k. by pendo89(f): 8:30pm On Apr 12, 2012
kilimanjaro: Well, let me give the description:
the engine is sound, the interior is okay for someone that wants to buy a 70k car, but...........
The body is accidented, no booth at all, the booth is smashed, no tyres, the windscreen is broken, part of the side mirror is broken.
kilimanjaro: One of the head light too is broken.
kilimanjaro: Don't mind the body............mind the engine.
LMAO! This is just too funny. Where is the romance now?
RomanceRe: Ladies which do you prefer, A Cool Guy or A Tough Guy? by pendo89(f): 8:07pm On Apr 12, 2012
masterpiecer: back in my days at d uni, most of d girls would always hang wit d bad guys(cultist),
but if u ask a girl wat her dream guy would be like, u start hearing stuff like, cool, God fearing, gentle
So ur defination of a tough guy is a bad fellow and a cultist while a cool guy is gentle and Godly??

ok .No answer then
RomanceRe: 5 Steps In Winning A Woman's Heart by pendo89(f): 7:56pm On Apr 12, 2012
MRbrownJAY: cooking for her, crying, begging her, kneeling down in front of her, lying to her........bwaaaaah, this OP is a joker and this post should go straight to the CRIME SECTION!
RomanceRe: 5 Steps In Winning A Woman's Heart by pendo89(f): 7:40pm On Apr 12, 2012
I think all you listed works for teenagers.

Change title to '5 steps in winning a teenager's heart.'
RomanceRe: Is It Compulsory To Change Phone Number After Marriage. by pendo89(f): 7:21pm On Apr 12, 2012
No it not compulsory,But YOUR husband wants you to change.So WHY?
Biz is biz.Whatever contacts you have there should be biz related or are you mixing biz with pleasure?
FamilyRe: Seriously Contemplating A Divorce by pendo89(f): 6:00pm On Apr 12, 2012
wow! advise from left right centre even from teens.

I cant even beg you to stay or leave because I know what you'v posted is not everything.

you dont just throw away 6 years of marriage unless you absolutely see no future with the man.

I hate this line 'holding on for kids sake' cz pathetic parents at times raise their kids pathetically.

It takes 2 to build a marriage and if he's busy demolishing while you are building and vv its a waste of time.

Mend it (both of you)or break it.simple.

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