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Are nerds easily provoked? do they always sense what is not? ![]() I said nerds read women like books.They treat them like literature. All they need to do is become good at practicals. And now they are 4. ![]() |
Talk about these things before u walk down that aisle,Know how much info u can disclose to each other so that it doesn't cause friction. some don't disclose yet they live happily together.Others are open books but they never agree on anything. |
onila.Anyway.Financial stability is not the same thing as being rich. Anybody that works and earns an income is financially stable even though they may not be rich. There are many reasons why a rich girl may play hard to get, one of them being short-sighted. Its even more silly if she boasting of her dad's wealth instead of building hers. My answer therefore is No.Financial stability makes me less of a burden to my guy.That is how I look at it. |
I have counted 3 Nerds on this thread. A.S.L |
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Shrines,sacrifices anything that touches on extreme spiritualism and strange realms I avoid with all my heart soul and body. |
This thread has evolved into a cult! jeez confusing. ![]() |
mamalola19: Seriously I am tired of the endless e-fights on nlNow Mamola you are already fighting sexkillz. If you want peace,close the thread by not posting. |
I keep saying again and again.There are some things that you can't change in a relationship no matter how hard you try or how long you wait. This is not a child to be molded but a grown woman tormenting him.Does he expect her to change? Doesn't he know that his current relationship is a reflection of the marriage he may end up having only in double measure? What is wrong with your friend? They aren't even married and a lady is controlling him like the remote! His business is suffering,his relationships are suffering,his soul is sick,tired and hurting. In short he is shrinking day after day yet he keeps lying to himself that it's gonna be okay. That is not the purpose of relationships.Some people are posessed and are very evil to the point of death. If your friend wants to live peaceful,he had better call off this pathetic relationship cz it smells of death not life. If he doesnt call it off he can wait to die. Jeez! i feel chocked. |
I am not religious either.I just love God!. Religion is nothing but man's way of reaching out to God. Faith is God's way of reaching out to man. If you dislike God however you are on your own. He doesn't force himself on us.It's people who twist his Gospel to their liking. I hope one day you have an encounter with God not religion cz it doesnt add value to us. |
Marriage is like a popcorn making machine. As the heat intensifies,the corns pop. If there's a desperate girl waiting to get married there must be a desperate boy lying in wait. Marry cz you CHOOSE to.Every other reason will be tested in the machine. Kids>> Suppose one is unable to bear one out of one reason or another? What if you lose them in some calamity? Love>> Great foundation but what if he decides to have roving eyes and love starts waning? Societal pressure>> Will the society help you build your marriage? They will urge you to get in.But they won't get in with you. Finances>>No need to explain. We all know what happens and how unstable this an turn out to be. Religion>>Nope its not a must really.Great people accomplished much in their single status. Be sure of this though so you don't become an old fool. Its a choice. |
![]() Haloo? any nerd in the house ![]() |
Not at first instance but with time. That is why its good to take time rather than rush.Ask questions,observe his schedule and watch out for a few things. Truth will eventually come out if you are patient indeed. |
Are u done with high school OP? |
I used to be a critic but I ain't anymore. My cousin is a perfect example.Great marriage,great careers,lovely kids and beautiful wife.Over 5 yrs together. They are doing better than some married peeps I know. I know it doesn't sound right but it's their lives.If they are happy I am happy for them. But it's good to legalise stuff or have an agreement in place incase of calamity. |
I was a grownup and he was my bf. We were out checking out some construction work and then he decided to kiss me. My lips became soo swollen. ![]() I sneaked into the house and went to bed early to avoid any stare or questions. |
phemilive: Some people say love is gradual and u have to build it up, others say Love is just natural,..You feel for her.Great.That's how humans and animals are supposed to feel for the opposite sex when attraction sets in. Now you need to act. Approach her with all the confidence in the world and declare your feelings like a man. Ladies love confident guys. If she reciprocates fine.If she turns you down don't despair.Up your game and see her coming to you, if you are indeed worthwhile. |
[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I thought it was my knocked up hormones at first. I was like it might just be me. You know how the husband's fluid intermingle with the zygote and go through mitosis..... Let me take my arse to bed too![/quote]lol! Beware of a guy running with cutlass. |
Don't fall in love too quick no matter what your emotions say. Take time to grow with the person and let things happen naturally. In short,dont try too hard to make it work if there's no hope in the horizon. |
![]() I think this is the type that takes beans and weeds combined. I read it here. ![]() |
Who said nerds know nothing about women? They read and understand women like books. Practicals is what they aren't good at. Now the others who aren't nerds are good at practicals.But understanding/trying to figure us out leaves them discombobulated. Solution? possess half of each and you will live happily. |
roflmao!!@replies just go to bed op. you seem tired |
kilimanjaro: Well, let me give the description: kilimanjaro: One of the head light too is broken. kilimanjaro: Don't mind the body............mind the engine.LMAO! This is just too funny. Where is the romance now? |
masterpiecer: back in my days at d uni, most of d girls would always hang wit d bad guys(cultist),So ur defination of a tough guy is a bad fellow and a cultist while a cool guy is gentle and Godly?? ok .No answer then |
MRbrownJAY: cooking for her, crying, begging her, kneeling down in front of her, lying to her........bwaaaaah, this OP is a joker and this post should go straight to the CRIME SECTION! |
I think all you listed works for teenagers. Change title to '5 steps in winning a teenager's heart.' |
No it not compulsory,But YOUR husband wants you to change.So WHY? Biz is biz.Whatever contacts you have there should be biz related or are you mixing biz with pleasure? |
wow! advise from left right centre even from teens. I cant even beg you to stay or leave because I know what you'v posted is not everything. you dont just throw away 6 years of marriage unless you absolutely see no future with the man. I hate this line 'holding on for kids sake' cz pathetic parents at times raise their kids pathetically. It takes 2 to build a marriage and if he's busy demolishing while you are building and vv its a waste of time. Mend it (both of you)or break it.simple. |
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