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PoliticsRe: Tinubu Rigged His Way Into Power To Kill Nigerians – Aisha Yesufu by placeofallure(f): 10:02am On Feb 18, 2024
Tinubu is NOT the Genesis and Revelation of your problems....Stop feigning ignorance!

Christianity EtcRe: Who Are 24 Elders In Heaven According To Bible? by placeofallure(f):
Seun Osewa, all the Christian threads I've seen here today reek of obscenities, blasphemy against Jesus Christ that some of us believe in. I've never considered leaving Nairaland but today, I considered it for a moment. I don't know how to unread some of the things I've read.

Enable a comment check like you did for Muslim threads otherwise I'll see you as encouraging profanity against Jesus Christ. This is one ridicule too many!
FoodRe: See Tomatoes Of #300 My Wife Bought by placeofallure(f): 5:28am On Feb 18, 2024
GloriousGbola:
really?

who fixed all the roads in VI? i was working in vi in 2001 all the roads had gone to shit. it would take you an hour to get out of vi
did marwa also fix the bar beach?
did marwa introduce lastma, which brought sanity to most parts of Lagos?
and the marwa you are celebrating while he did well, cleaned out lagos treasury. or do you know about albarka air?
did you actually live in lagos during the tinubu years?

the irony that people like you dont realise is that tinubu actually fought nurtw and lost before coming to terms with the fact that you cant beat a union in a democracy

in 2002 as an example, tinubu chased nurtw out of VI and brought in cross country buses to run cms-vi traffic. it was a complete failure.
and in a month the yellow buses were back - but painted white

People like to knock tinubu and claim he did nothing, but lagos is the only state with a continnum - where each governor built on what was done by his predecessor. which is how it should be. the actual deviation was ambode, who had beef with fshola and abandoned everything being done by fasholas admin. look at every other state in nigeria - even states run by the same party do not have any continuity - if a project is not completed by an adminstartion, that is where it ends
Oh! I wish I can give you a bear hug right now.

That Gen Z that you quoted, him papa na NRC, PDP; they're not progressives and he must have listened to too many tales by moonlight from him.

I was serving when Tinubu was Lagos Governor. I returned from service and couldn't recognize some of the roads anymore - Ikeja, Ojota, Ogudu etc. I marvelled at the transformation.

Tinubu's tenure was when I witnessed workers (dunno whether it was called LAWMA at the time) come to every house, clear the gutter and pack it at no cost. The last time that happened was when I was in primary school, playing barefooted on the streets.

When Grandpa Obasanjo seized allocation meant for Lagos State, Tinubu looked inwards and generated revenue, that's creativity. Lagos is too cosmopolitan a state for some power-drunk HOS to hold to ransom. Many governors today will crumble if they don't get federal allowy. They collect today without accounting for it. They just collect and collect. Their people should demand for accountability!

That Ambode ehn! I fit stone am if I see am! Greediness will not let him consolidate on what Fashola has done. You belong to the same party, your ideologies should be the same or similar. He came and disrupted many things. He tampered with the water system by metering it. That's no problem, only it didn't work! He scattered LAWMA! Lagos was very dirty under Ambode. We were practically walking on accumulated rubbish on the streets of Obalende, Idumota, Oyingbo. The rubbish had piled up and spilled over to the roads causing traffic mayhem. Ambode thwarted with institutions that were working just to enrich himself. If you will bring a change, make things better not worsening it.

The thing is many people know these things, but it massages their ego to just look away. Na so!
FoodRe: See Tomatoes Of #300 My Wife Bought by placeofallure(f): 5:02am On Feb 18, 2024
EreluRoz:
It is well, the asiwaju I know is excellent with governance but I can't really say what's happening.

Hmm something tells me the opposition are attacking him spiritually to fail
It's a sabotage.
RomanceRe: Please Help My Pregnant Wife. Strange Things Are Coming Out Of Her by placeofallure(f): 4:59am On Feb 18, 2024
November24:
You are so senseless for cursing him
What are you for cursing me?

You are an imbecilic idiot!
PoliticsRe: 6 Decisions From President Tinubu's Meeting With 36 Governors by placeofallure(f):
adyam:
We must begin to ensure that our state governors are held accountable.
Now somebody is talking sense!

All of you shouting Tinubu, Tinubu, you want to tell me you don't know that Governors collect allocation consistently on a steady and never account for it. They'll go stash the money somewhere and go collect another one. Hold them responsible! They've also devised means to cheat the LGs out of the money. Start calling your governors out, they are your nemesis!
SportsRe: AFCON: Funny Picture Of An Osun Ejigbo Man Residing In Ivory Coast by placeofallure(f):
Abdulmumin412:
Okonkwo didn't fall apart, rather he died on what he believed in. He chose to killed himself as a hero than to scumb to what he didn't believe in.
If you become soooo disillusioned that you have no option than to commit suicide, how else does one fall apart other than that? Is there any worse resolve than death?

Go and sit down jare! Na you go narrate Things Fall Apart give me. I don't know how many times I have read it. I read am for pleasure, I read am for exam.

Heroes don't commit suicide. Only cowards do.
SportsRe: AFCON: Funny Picture Of An Osun Ejigbo Man Residing In Ivory Coast by placeofallure(f): 1:17pm On Feb 11, 2024
Alexis11:
Coward that keeps ruling self acclaimed "brave" that can only wail and cry marginalization... grin

Tribalist!
Leave them, they're fake warriors. As Okonkwo fall apart for Chinua Achebe book, na so dem go fall apart.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 1:14pm On Feb 11, 2024
DonroxyII:
I understand You as Per Civil to Civil ...

I'm just making an Allusions to what your In-laws conceived about your Personality going by the Civility of Average In-laws Families & Your kinda Personality on Nairaland(How you defend Yoruba-Race & Tinubu & Your Patriotism for Nigeria, Women & African Race) as well as Your Intense Passion for Teaching(Madam-Disciplines)

You Might not be blocking them with Words of Mouth, But You are Counteracting their Actions with Your Actions ... grin ... You don show them Shege without words grin ...

Our People Would Fight You for Resisting their Enslavements & Controlling Miens undecided That's what You Did ... You Didn't fall in line ... You Also dey form woke so na dem come be Pako huh if You are Licking their Nyansh .... They won't give you problem but They Will wrecked your mental state with Stupidities Demands..

IDK, Where those oloribus derived their entitlement mentality from ... It Breaks the families Apart... They will do worst to Your Children if You ain't There ....
grin grin
TravelRe: Video Of The GUO Bus Attacked Along Lagos-Benin Road, All Passengers Kidnapped by placeofallure(f): 12:21am On Feb 11, 2024
matify83:
This is ludicrous!

If only drones were allowed without much security clearance and hassles, that was the time the kidnappers would have easily been tracked and their coordinates given to security agencies.

My heart goes out to the family of the slain driver who died trying to Eke out a living in this harsh economy and also to the brave little girl left behind by her assailants.

Those scallywags will definitely pay with their blood.
This is so so disheartening. God! The driver! Even the kidnapped are not exempted from death as they may start taking them out one by one. Jeeeesu!

Sorrowful, painful, brutal death to the kidnappers! They will die a miserable death surely!
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 12:08am On Feb 11, 2024
DonroxyII:
Make Me No Lie, U Ma sef Gather for Body ooo .... As per Your Posts ... U carry for Pocket jhare ... O buru... Those Things You ain't Saying By Mouth Must Be Reflective On Your Body languages Which Your Inlaws Would Also Subconsciously Picked The Rhythms & Counter-Fire You Before You Unleashed grin

You are an Introvert That's what You Did.... grin You see Yourself as Introvert while They see You as Arrogant That Must Be Tamed & Taught Lessons That Wasn't Taught from Your Famz .... ThanGod, You ain't Competing their Son with Them Trust me .. Dem go Stress You till Death ooo ... !

They will also see Your Husband as a "Simp" Thus They would go On Defensive Trying to Rescue their Son from Your Bondage Because You have snatched his Emotions Away cheesy ....

I already sensed My Families are Pepperish & Would Show My Wife Shege So I Suspend Marriage & Foremost Went Mad(Weyrey) on all of Them & Take Over the Overall Management of the Entire Family even as a Grandchild Na Dem dey fear Me Now Cuz They All Know They Would Collect Once They Cross Unto My Lane.. Dem Be Witches But Wizard na ihm be Husband to Witches grin ... Oso loko awon Aje !

When I marry ... God Helps The One that Would Disturb My Wife & God Helps My Wife Showing Weyrey to Anybody cuz Gen Z no too well Like That while Majority of Those Families Belongs to Old Civilisations where Wife/Wives are Treated Like Slaves ....

No Gen Z go Gree that Kind Sheettt in 2020s

.... Nevertheless, Everything na just in the Hands of the Husband Sha ... I already laid the Foundations for me to be Dreaded by Them All So My Fiancee/Families can Put Their Hands in my Desire States Make dem no kill me with Hypertension(Depressions) ...

I can't be waisting My time & Brain Fluids Settling Quarrels between Adults Over Some Stupidities Anyone wey disturbed my Peace Go see Hell among Them.

Most inlaws Families are "Demonic" .... Fuelled by Immaturities!

Future World is gon be Better grin ... for Now, Weyrey loko Weyrey(Madness is Husband to Madness) if Not They Will Use Depressions Kill You lipsrsealed

Welcome to Yoruba Race In-laws... Dem go dey Do You & Dem go dey Follow You dey Laugh.cheesy
You're mistaken. Mi o buru rara o. Far from it. The thing is there are a lot of unreasonable people here on this forum and generally in the world. If any of those crosses my path, I should set them straight that's all. This generation needs to be salvaged whatever is left. I'm just doing my little part in changing the world.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 11:59pm On Feb 10, 2024
MisterBanny:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mi' ti Binu oooo
🙏
SportsRe: Gary Neville Says Premier League Must Learn Officiating From AFCON by placeofallure(f): 8:38pm On Feb 10, 2024
Catapault:
"The standards of officiating set by this year's AFCON are honestly staggering. It's like they invented it. The Premier League and all of Europe have a lot of learning to do."

- Gary Neville, Sky News Pundit

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/GFz5JpFWYAAIQ4F.jpg
Honestly this is what a friend told me last week as we were driving to work and some AFCON news came on the radio. I didn't watch many of the matches so I can't really say.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 8:29pm On Feb 10, 2024
MisterBanny:
Thanks for your insults
Ma binu but journalists talk from both sides of their mouths.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 2:51am On Feb 10, 2024
NoToPile:
It's a give and take situation, you can't claim your wife is not your blood, hate her family and expect her to love yours.

Also your family can't be oozing hatred towards the wife and expect her to love them. Respect them she will because she wants to keep her marriage but that love can not happen.

We are humans, we will always react subconsciously.



My cousin's wife saw hell from my other older female cousins you know when females with one rich brother gang up against a wife, then they labeled her a bad wife, transferred their hatred even to the children.


Incidentally the same 'bad wife' loves me and my mum like mad always asking when we would come visit but she was always dreading their own visit.


The day she narrated to me all what they did to her she broke down in tears, this woman is about 20years older than me.

Years have passed but the crack has not been mended their children are all in the uni now but the crack is still there.


Wife-inlaw relationships needs a lot of improvement in Naija, some families are getting it right though.

Until you as an inlaw sees that wife as a daughter or a new sister and that husband as a son or a brother. Things won't get better.
Your comment drew tears from my eyes. Yes, the crack don't always go away. I was pregnant after the first year of marriage but it was a traumatic one which I eventually lost. It was life threatening so the doctors took it away. I was bedridden for months in the hospital. Some of my husband's family members don't live far away from us, maybe two or three bus stops away but I never saw any of them all through. The one that managed to call said something mean to me on my sick bed. I couldn't tell my husband or mum what he said cause they'd both raise hell. I sucked it in. Since then, I kept to myself. What did I ever do for them to hate me that much?

My MIL was alive then but very old and wasn't even conscious of her environment anymore. I totally absolve her of any blame. Even while she was still herself, she was a good woman. I can't say the same for the rest of them.

It's been years but the crack won't just go away. I don't feel comfortable to be in the same gathering with them. I hide myself to stay sane.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 2:21am On Feb 10, 2024
Juliearth:
Can a family love their son and not extend same to the wife?
Hmmmnn! I don't think my husband's family like him cause if they did, they should extend the love to me. Meanwhile, my own family likes him so much, even the little ones like nieces and nephews, babies in the family are growing up to like him.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by placeofallure(f): 2:11am On Feb 10, 2024
MisterBanny:
I always kept wondering about this. I have seen many homes break as a result of marrying a woman who despises her In-laws, and treats them with levity and disdain, yet claims to love her husband genuinely.
A once happy family could be in total disarray immediately some women get into that family.
Personally, I think if u love your husband, such love should be extended to every member of his nuclear and extended family members and same goes to the Man. I believe that genuine LOVE is infectious and contagious. I have seen a lot happening In today's marriages that I'm already scared of getting married. People can pretend throughout the dating and courting period, but immediately after the wedding, the beast and monster in them begin to Manifest. It's scary.

Almost all married woman are guilty of this. But the men almost do not have any issue with Loving their wive's families.
It even gets to the ugly point that, the wife makes a decree that no menmber of the man's family must ever visit them to stay for more than a day or two.
What amount of research has gone into this your biased write-up? You obviously are soooo naive and myopic. You would do better in the future if you do a thorough analysis before jumping to conclusions on any issues for that matter.

I don't hate my husband's family, I will not jump the moon for them either. I try to be civil with them. That's the level we are now.

It hasn't always been like that. We were cool, really cool or maybe I was the one thinking we were cool until they showed their true colour. You'd think it could be as a result of what I did or said but it's none of the above. That was why it hit so badly I felt betrayed. I was heartbroken and just went into my shell. I withdrew from everything and everybody.

My husband is a good man. He knows me, I am an introvert so I don't even talk much. He tried to shield me from any more hurt and he was cool with how I decided to handle it. It's like you dancing in a city where you are not loved, you will soon be shamed! I don't want to be shamed so I ran away.

I don't go visiting them, I don't attend family functions, (Event melo ni Jero mi nlọ tẹlẹ) I don't call. If they visit, I am civil. I offer them what I have and disappear to the rooms. My husband bonds well with them, he's their son. Of course they have disagreements here and there but that's normal.

My family has a good relationship with my husband, especially my mum. They've been exceptionally great together even before I was married. My dad takes my husband out to go drink, just the two of them and my siblings, (they're much younger) answer seven times if he calls them once. My side of the divide go all out to love my husband.

God is the overall being who watches over the affairs of men. He will judge us all accordingly. I know I didn't wrong them in any way. Of course they're trying to make up now but I'm like WTF did I do!
SportsRe: Blue Cards In Football Is Being Considered by placeofallure(f): 1:33am On Feb 10, 2024
Domaining101:
Had it been something like this had been introduced during those 2014-2017 era, out of 90 mins, people like ramos and pepe go play only 30 mins grin
Plus Paul Scholes and David Luiz grin
SportsRe: AFCON: Tinubu To Land In Abidjan For Nigeria V Cote D'ivoire by placeofallure(f): 1:27am On Feb 10, 2024
Brendaniel:
He wants to use the football to reduce the annoyance of people on him, he thinks it will work, people might only get more angry with him...

Show me any football competition in the past Tinubu has attended for Nigeria like Peter Obi has done in the past, Tinubu sorry it won't work, the AFCON trophy will not reduce the price of fuel...
Since when has attending football matches become a life saving elixir, when? Ara yin o ya sír!
SportsRe: AFCON: Tinubu To Land In Abidjan For Nigeria V Cote D'ivoire by placeofallure(f): 1:25am On Feb 10, 2024
VeryWickedMan:
Failure has landed
Be positive for once!
SportsRe: I’m Cristiano, Not Messi” - Cristiano Ronaldo Reacts Furiously At Al-hilal Fans by placeofallure(f): 1:21am On Feb 10, 2024
EdiskyHarry:
Truth is, cr7 remains the greatest player on the planet Earth
I totally agree with you
CrimeRe: Female Kidnapper, Janet Igohia Arrested Trying To Pick ₦1.5M Ransom In Taraba by placeofallure(f): 4:40pm On Feb 09, 2024
As they're catching them, they should be stoning them to death. They should die a brutal death. Awọn Oloriburuku!
EducationRe: S'africa Students Welcome Nigeria Teacher With Victory Parade by placeofallure(f): 11:48am On Feb 08, 2024
Mwaaaah! I love this. We should all learn to be magnanimous in victory and heroic, gallant in defeat.
FamilyRe: How Are You Surviving In This Economy? by placeofallure(f): 10:28am On Feb 08, 2024
ParagonPrick:
which business you dey do
Business. Just got more clients that's all.
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs South Africa AFCON 2023 Semi-Finals (4 - 2)pens On 7 Feb 2024 by placeofallure(f): 9:39pm On Feb 07, 2024
Lessons of the evening

Despite everything, we love Nigeria

Economical travails, insecurity, corruption, bad governance, tribal and religious clashes haven't diminished our love for our nation.

If we all could not bear to watch the Super Eagles fail, such that our hearts were in our mouths while the match lasted, then it only means one thing; We love Nigeria.

In the spirit of patriotism, Please do what you can, no matter how little or inconsequential it may seem, to help Nigeria stand again. Just do your little part. I will do mine.

God bless Nigeria
FamilyRe: How Are You Surviving In This Economy? by placeofallure(f): 5:22pm On Feb 07, 2024
Nicepoker:
How much is a kilo of "God's grace" cheesy
God's blessings are unquantifiable.

I've never earned as big as I'm earning now. Almost by 400% more. I've recorded many positives, many growth in this Tinubu era.

I didn't vote in the last elections. In fact, I've voted only once in my life; that was when I just turned 18 and that was many years ago.

I'm not a politician. I'll never do politics in Nigeria cause it's dirty; so my earnings are not in any way political.

But you see what they call God's grace, it's enriching more than anything.

His Grace will avail for you.
HealthRe: "Having Sex 21 Times A Month With Wife Or Side Chic Prevents Prostrate Cancer" by placeofallure(f): 5:15pm On Feb 07, 2024
nwekeugochukwu:
A Man Should Have Sex 21 Times A Month With Wife Or Side Chic To Avoid Prostrate Cancer


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiId7S0J-yg
As in shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Ah! No na!
PoliticsRe: Gas Explosion At Iyana Isashi, Lagos - Residents Burnt Alive (Video) by placeofallure(f): 5:12pm On Feb 07, 2024
Itiskdg121:
No good news coming from Nigeria again?
Abi. Things have been bad no doubt, but the sickening downward plunge these days is just... I dunno.
PropertiesRe: Between These Two Home Interiors, Which One Do You Prefer? by placeofallure(f): 4:56pm On Feb 07, 2024
I'm cool with picture 2. It's just peaceful and homely. Really calm. For me, less is more. My home should not be an amusement park.
RomanceRe: As a university Graduate, I can't speak Good english. I'm depressed. by placeofallure(f): 12:39pm On Feb 06, 2024
Thanks very much.
writing is very easy for me, even though I still make mistake.
but to speak out loud or converse with english is my greatest problem.
because of this I always get axious when I want to respond in english.
making me misuse some minor words
You need a speech coach. Hire one today if you can.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Vs Angola: Peter Obi With Nigeria Supporters Club (pics) by placeofallure(f): 7:17pm On Feb 02, 2024
janeedema:
You truly believe Peter Obi lost? Like seriously?A man who came out of the blues to compete with political parties that are household names and gave them a run for their time-- over 6million votes in his first outing. Ha ha!!! You don't know the meaning of a losing mentality. Go and check again.
To give people a run for their money is not the same as winning my dear. 99% no be the same as 100.
Peter Lamba Obi didn't win the elections, Tinubu did.

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