Hohaiiiode: move the video to 0.44 seconds and start listening. Mexico is bordered with USA as you know . Is a pass for many immigrants from all over south and Central America. Mexicans included too no doubt. But over all, Mexico is a better country compared to Nigeria . There is no single parameter that Nigeria is in par with Mexico.
No single parameter? How about languages? Nigeria has 532, how many does Mexico have? Also why didn't all those people stop in Mexico. Why risk their lived to get into US??
Hohaiiiode: you guys can be funny at times . Mexico is over two times the seize of Nigeria , there is violence no doubt but saying is worse than Nigeria is not true. I live in Mexico and truth be told there are violence. Just yesterday. A doctor was killed in the same tower where my wife have a consult in hospital español in one of the safest neighborhoods in the capital. But comparing Nigeria to Mexico is very funny. There is just no parameter that are comparable please… Nigeria is my country but sir… there is non.
Even if you are talking of poverty rate. Oga the idea and concept of poverty is relative o. If you go to some of the worse neighborhoods you will wonder Al what poverty really means from a Nigerian stand point. The challenge of language is a big issue for Nigerians trying to migrate here. And by the way it is not easy as you might think. But better and more cost effective and if you relate with Mexicans and smart with leverage like mine since I have a wife. There are tons of businesses and partnerships you can go into . Mexicans are very receptive and accommodating to we blacks . But please don’t compare the two countries . Mexico is the 11 or 12 th economy in the world . And have the infrastructure for business to thrive . Only avoid some states in the north of the country and areas around Veracruz
advanceDNA: Sigh...we also went through this earlier.... That question (what of a cheating man??) is for a woman to answer.....
Saying a man can't cheat is a different issue entirely...because its a context ....and is likely drawn from a premise...
If u are a woman married to a polygamous man.....such man can't cheat..... His wives cannot accuse him of cheating because they have agreed to share penîs with other women in the first place... Everytime he flirts with another woman ..it would just be seen as a move to take another wife......same goes for a man that is married to a polygamous women...
But if course, if it's a monogamous relationship or marriage ...faithfulness is expected from both man and woman...
Oya let's not fight again.....
I will answer the question for him...
What of a man that cheats?? He should not be forgiven or taken back.....unless the wife his willing to live in a marriage that lacks trust and full of. hypertension.....
Now you get it! If he had answered the question with , "we are discussing only cheating women", that's different. But he answered the question in a way that legimately opened up an entire area for further discussion!
advanceDNA: We've been through this earlier.....and i don't have problem
The statement "Don't forgive a cheating woman" came from a premise of being hurt by a woman.......I already mentioned that it means don't forgive a cheating partner.. the person spoke from his personal experience...
but u were expecting the person to say it the way u want just because u feel hurt as a woman by the statement...... u are claiming some pseudo fairness ... It funny
.I wasn't biased because I agreed...a woman can also say " men are scum" because it will be coming from a premise of being hurt by a man ...she didn't have to say it another way to be fair or unbiased
You are being really ridiculous, my guy. A person makes a statement, "Don't ever forgive a cheating woman" , which begs an obvious question, "how about a cheating man". He could have replied all sorts of ways. He chose to reply with the nonsensical assertion that a man can't cheat! And you're here talking about personal experiences he might have had!
advanceDNA: That's an unrelated analogy I brought up...
this thread isn't about women calling men scum.... It's about a cheating woman..
..and for some weird reason....u brought a cheating man into saying u are being fair ... Which made me asked the earlier question what's fairness here....
..... Which also made me asked what's paining u when pple open thread about cheating women when in actual fact a woman cheated.........??
Ok, I see what your problem is. You were not there at the beginning. Here's the Genesis of it:
A woman is hurt by a man ..and she says men are scum..... But u expect her to say men and women are scum just to be fair?? Lol .....u are fvnny
You are manufacturing things in your head. Here's what I said verbatim: I'm simply being unbiased - if a woman says men are scum, I'd ask her if that includes her father, brothers, and sons!
advanceDNA: Me?? Biased....U are the one looking for equality where is not needed forgetting that people speaker from existing premise.....
When a woman says men are scum...she is speaking from a premise of being hurt by a man ...I ask u this ...why will she say men and women are scum just to make u the reader happy or so that u dont think she's biased....
U women don't just like hearing ur bad behavior....
You may speak from any perspective or experience you wish. I'd answer you from my own perspective of being unbiased and neutral, and fairness
advanceDNA: U are making this a gender issue...and expect pple to speak how u want..... men talk from position of men just as women will talk from position of women......
Have u not heard women say men are scum.. does it mean their fathers and brothers too are scum?? They are speaking from a premise
At the end of the day... Don't forgive a cheating partner is the advice... but individuals opening a topic will speak from their personal experience and position ...I don't get why this is paining u??
You're the one acting like it's paining you and therefore being biased. I'm simply being unbiased - if a woman says men are scum, I'd ask her if that includes her father, brothers, and sons!
See how Gandollar is crowding him😅. Birds of the same feather! But he dey try sha compared to Bubu. Can you imagine Buhari having this press conference?
advanceDNA: Thats an question for a woman to answer naaaa
I don't get why u expect a man be worried about another woman's husband behaviour
If he had just answered "never forgive a cheating man too" that would have been the end of the discussion. Instead he went on a rambling treatise about how there is no such thing as a cheating man!
zomoears: For proper perspective, I am a man who is proud of my conquest. I can get a female of any age, and it only ads to my value in the eyes of females.
I am proud that my father, as a very handsome gentleman, can still conquer women of all ages,even a 21yr old girl even in his seventies, cos nature has made it possible.
The Definition of ashawo today is very blurry cos most young girls into hookup by definition, thought u should know.
Oh, when some old man like your father seduces an innocent, gullible young girl he conquered her, but when a woman seduces a wealthy man, she is ashawo! Right?
advanceDNA: Maybe u just don't want to see it ...they are on nairaland...
Men open topics that matter to them ...women to open topics that matter to them too... why is that paining you?? I don't get why u are bothered about topics of happening in People's lives....
Seems you're the one bothered. Someone said never forgive a cheating woman. I simply asked how about a cheating man!
zomoears: So of all the differences between men and women, that’s d only thing your small mind can latch on to?
A woman that wants to be a public latrine has my blessings and curses at the same time.
A man derives his value from being a conqueror. A woman derives her value from being a chaste woman.
How do you feel if the call your mom a LovePeddler?
There you go.
Nature is not confused. It is people like you that are.
And how do you feel if they call your papi ashawo banger or chaser? So a woman banging more than one man is a public latrine. But a man doing same is not a public tool?
advanceDNA: So ...u point is u don't want a man to feel upset and rant that his wife cheated on him just because other men out there are cheating in their wives??
U know I asked u before how ur brain works??
See him. You know full well that's not what I meant. Simple: all these rantings about cheating women, but totally quiet about cheating men. Hence the original question: HOW ABOUT EL RUFAI??
They are not!! A woman should cheat because she can only get pregnant once. Once she gets pregnant for you she can't get pregnant for anyone else (till weaning). A man shouldn't cheat because he can still get other women pregnant and mess up the family!
advanceDNA: Bros...this thread is about a woman chatting on her husband...
And u are talking about a man cheating in his wives..... A man in a polygamous relationship and the women that agreed to be in such marriage all subscribed to cheating.... Abi how do u agree to be in a marriage with a man where u share penîs with other women.... There is no cheating here ..there is an agreement.... There are also polygamous women out there so don't rant
Well, the thread is about cheating. If a man with wives, WIVES, still find it necessary to cheat, what does that tell you about men?
zomoears: Simp thinking, trying to reverse nature.
I pity you.
Well, am I right or am I right? Once a woman gets pregnant she should be free to bang as she likes (for 9 months) as she can't get pregnant again. A man, not so. He has to always be careful because he can get a woman pregnant every time he bangs!😆
advanceDNA: ......a married woman is cheating on her husband......and u asking for the cheating man and posting elrufai...... how are u reasoning sir, is ur brain in flight mode??
u men that reason with ur woman's pvssy. .how do u even do it
otunbadan: Ode …. Find a working transformer and hold on to it with your dilemma
You have lost the right the have a civil social interaction with me because you proofed beyond reasonable doubt that you are an extremely stupid and disrespectful person.
I regret commenting on this post and casting pearls before a swine
😅 Let's actually analyze this: You are angry because you FALSELY claimed to live in Canada. When challenged to send photos of current happenings in Canada, you said you'd only send photo if money is bet - knowing fully well.that's not possible on NL. This of course proved you didn't live in Canada.. Then you got angry for being caught in a lie! The other guy apologized - when you actually should be the one apologizing. You heaped insults on him and stayed pretentiously angry! What a guy!I 😂
zomoears: 1 You have a penis, women don’t. 2. Women are fertile for a short period every month, men are fertile 24/7/365.Inpkiedly, one man can impregnate as many women as he can bang. A woman can only get pregnant within her window period. 3. The size of your brain as a man is diff from women. 4. The type of hormones your body secrets is different 5. Your mental capacity to manage multiple women is different from a woman’s capacity to manage multiple men 6. Men are rational thinkers, women think with their emotions. Only men who are simps think like women. Should I go on?
Never equate a man with a woman. If God wanted us to be the same, he would not have created us differently.
There is nothing like fair or unfair in nature, it’s either black or white.
You actually just defeated your argument - a woman can bang as many men as she chooses because she can only get pregnant once. A man on the other hand has to be careful because each time he bangs he could get a woman pregnant
zomoears: And my answer is clear. Use your initiative.
There is no such thing as a cheating man. Man na man.
If you think other men will value you as second hand, or it’s the baby mama life you want, or you want your peace of mind,do your thing.
But there is no such thing as a cheating man. We only have men who chose to be tied down by one woman, and those who don’t.
Basicend: A cheating woman woman is seen as a dog in our society and it is brings a worthless perception to her image. It is a taboo.
A dog is a stain and a disgrace to the family and society.
A man by our norms is permitted to marry as many as he likes. .
Sooo what do you call this man below? And does it seem fair to you? Notice how "our society" where this is practiced is messed up and we are all trying to run away to societies where things are fairer?