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Basicend:
A cheating woman woman is seen as a dog in our society and it is brings a worthless perception to her image. It is a taboo.

A dog is a stain and a disgrace to the family and society.

A man by our norms is permitted to marry as many as he likes. .

And this seems peachy keen and fair to you. Notice how "oue society" where this is practiced is messed up and we are all trying to run away to societies where things are fair?

Carcholce:
You missed the point in his post. If we all can pray to a God we can’t see, it’s even more easier to see beyond the physical.

You your self just said we can't see God. But you can see the man. So the question again: If you see a man in some smelly rags you'd be looking for what he has in him?

But how can you focus on what you can't see? If you see a man in rags you'd be looking for what he has in him?

zomoears:
Never forgive a cheating woman. She will get you out of the picture later on, whether by divorce, elimination or jazz to cover your eyes. I have seen it play every time a man forgives a cheating woman.

People wey de chat one-on-one with deveh,you no de give dem space o!!

The question was: "How about a cheating man?"

Coolsat:
.. Do not ever forgive a cheating woman e get why.

How about a cheating man?

This fat pig should shut up!!

(And why is he wearing hijab and suddenly looking like a woman??)

nathdim:
don't let western media brainwash you

No, u the one letting Iran brainwash you by repeating same small area over and over in a country of millions if acres!
And who knows when this was even taped

nathdim:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRUs_xumqes?si=dAT3jzK0Yx3HmVDy
Iran is ok

Iran is ok my ass. Is this real Iran? Showing the same short clip of a small area over and over. You can do same with Naija too!
Looks like something staged. And who even knows when this was even taped

casualobserver:
Tomorrow some people living in denial will come here saying our problems are our leaders.

@politeactivist

See this one, we are talking countries and systems and he is posting individuals. Do you know the type of heinous crimes individuals commit in the West that even Nigerians won't commit? See one example below. But despite all that the country stays solid because the LEADERSHIP is not too corrupt!

otunbadan:
Stick it up your dumb a.hole ….

It’s of no use

You're right - it's of no use to ME. It's for you - giving you a chance to free yourself and move on.
Just imagine if you had just said "Apology accepted" how free and big you'd be feeling right now. Instead you're small and bitter!😆

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casualobserver:
Guy talk with sense. Are there more Nigerians than South Africans in South Africa? Is this not the same South Africa where they are driving Nigerians away?

You are just deflecting because you don’t want to face the truth.

EOD

My friend it is LEADERSHIP!!
Here's what I'm saying about SA: many black South Africans are quite corrupt. Add to that the huge number of Nigerians. But that hasn't turned SA into a corrupt country like Naija BECAUSE their leadership is not too corrupt!! If you were to hand those Nigerians leadership of SA you'd quickly have another Nigeria.
It boils down to the LEADERS.
China is communist because CCP is communist, NOT because most Chinese have communist mindsets!!!

casualobserver:
which country are you talking about where Nigerians have overwhelmed them such that Nigerians are now the majority?


Oga take a look in the mirror and confront the ugly reality.

South Africa for example, despite that many black South Africans are not too honest, Nigerians have not imported corruption. So also many enclaves. But if Nigerians were to take over LEADERSHIP of those places en masse...

casualobserver:
that is the problem...you any the Nigerian masses refuse to take responsibility and instead prefer to shift the blame because it prevents you from confronting the ugly reality...which is that we are largely a selfish corrupt untrustworthy wicked people.

Every country has good eggs and bad eggs. The issue is how many more bad eggs than good eggs does your society contain. When you say "hello" to the average Nigerian the next thing, he is looking to scam or get money from you. We know even amongst ourselves we cant be trusted.

lets stop pretending abeg!

So why is it when Nigerians go to a country in large numbers the country doesn't become corrupt? Simple, because the leadership of those countries stay not so corrupt. It boils down to leadership. They're the ones that can make examples of corrupt people as deterance to others. But when they themselves are corrupt...

casualobserver:
It is not by accident that we are known abroad as fraudsters and theives. Na only us dey this world? Why always Nigerians? We are naturally crooked people.

Until Nigerians take responsibility for their role in where we have gotten oitlrselves, nothing will change. No good leader can save a damaged populace. One of the reasons we have bad leaders is that the few good people in society have left the governance space for the charlatans. Why? Because it is the same Nigerian masses that frustrate their efforts.

😄 There's this Ugandan lady I chat with on whatsapp. Then I couldn't reach her again. When she came back she told me Nigerians hacked her Whatsapp. Asked how she knew it was Nigerians - she said it's because it is Nigerians that do such stuff!😅
The average American or Australian is corrupt too. Just that they are lucky that people that matter, people in leadership, police, judges, etc are not so corrupt

otunbadan:
Shove the apology up your ahole,

My bros, the apology is for your own benefit not mine. See below

casualobserver:
and I am saying the leaders are no different from the followers. We all have the same mindset. The followers will do the same thing if they are in power.

A thief is a thief whether he has the opportunity to steal or not, a thief is a thief whether he is a small thief or a big thief. The only difference between the masses and the leaders is the opportunity for grand larceny is not open to the masses.

Remmember the president who said he had no shoes? A man without shoes can be classified as poor or started life poor. This is a man whose career was as a lecturer. What is the source of the wealth he and his wife have today? Remember this was the man who was once poor and couldnt afford shoes.

Yes, MOST human beings are thieves - POTENTIALLY! Wether they are Nigerians or not. But that doesn't mean most humans steal or have stolen before.
So we are not discussing potential. We are discussing what actually led to Nigeria being in bad shape. It is NOT the common man. It is our corrupt leaders, politicians, public officials!

casualobserver:
because they have the same makeup and mindset of the typical Nigerian. the only thing differentiating them from the regular Nigerian is they have access to commit bigger thefts. The one thing I have discovered about Nigeria is that the masses are even more wicked people...they just dont have the opportunity. Sometimes I wonder if the reason public officials dont seem to care about the masses is because they understand the masses are equally wicked people.
I hate to say it but the good amongst us are few!!!

You're right, Nigerians generally are about the most scammy people on earth. But we're discussing why Nigeria is in a bad shape despite it's great potential. The reason is not the common man. The reason is our corrupt leaders, public officials, political class

casualobserver:
A foreigner reading your post would think these "public officials" are aliens not Nigerians and we the citizens are good upright people. Our problem are not public officials our problems are us. We are the ones who become public officials. It's not public officials that steall manhole covers, highway railings, railways tracks etc, its people like you and I.

The other day I asked a LASTMA operative why he wasnt stoping the busdrivers that were blatantly driving against traffic, he told me they beat them up...as in the bus drivers beat the lastma officials if they (LASTMA) try to apprehend them.

Yeah but it is only real public officials, the political class, that can sell the country to the tune of billions/trillions of naira, NOT the common man!

This will never happen in Nigeria.
Two things disgraced Nigerians NEVER do - resign or harm themselves!

It is exactly things like this that have a country with such great potential be in the state it is now - public officials selling the country for a few dollars of personal gain!

membranus:
Is Afghanistan the only Sharia world? Why not mention UAE, or Saudi Arabia or Malaysia or Iran or Iraq? Rich nations all.

Being mischievous is a cheap virtue.

All real shitholes but for oil

doggedfighter:
Thank you for having a good head on your shoulders.

Your mom deserves a gift for raising a balanced son that thinks .

This your comment just dey sweet me. We "feminists" should stick together.

SoNature:
Who has noticed that the world is making efforts to empower women more than men?
Even in Nigeria, you see a lot of grants and scholarships meant for females alone, none for men. They even have a ministry of women affairs, but there's no ministry of men affairs.

When the west empowered their women, their family units and marriages were ruined. In summary, empower women, but never ever neglect the men because it comes with a hefty price. I hope Nigerian leaders don't self-destruct.

@bolded, compare to Sharia world, say, Afghanistan, who's more progressive?

Cruise777:
You know what you are right...

People who said silence is the best answer for a fool are not joking

Enjoy your day

It's ok to be wrong, but to be wrong about something so well known? Even known by kids. And then be arguing it!😆

Cruise777:
https://www.federalreserve.gov/default.htm

That's US Central bank website

Try and educate yourself

Stop making a fool of yourself. Even elementary school kids know Nixon ended the gold standard in 1972 and US govt officially ended it in 1976. This is age of Google and AI, very easy to find out these things

Cruise777:
I qouted Wikipedia page you are qouting Qoura forum

Do you you know Qoura and Reddit are simply forums like Nairaland

So produce where ANYONE says dollar is backed by gold

Cruise777:
Oya take

8,134 metric tons. Fox knot

Meaning what?
Google is your friend below

Khyrvxjzy:
freely traded hmmmm thats a point

All over the world o. The Chinese are hoarding so much dollar and keep hoarding more as we speak

Cruise777:
Dollar is backed by Gold reserves and Crude Oil

As a matter of fact, higher the crude oil price stronger and bullish Dollar is against all currency

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See utter ignorance😅. The dollar is backed by nothing. It stopped being backed by gold in 1972!!