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advanceDNA:
Some men cheat some women cheat....so what's ur point??

Exactly! Cheating is cheating hence the original question to those ranting about cheating women : HOW ABOUT CHEATING MEN??

Farid24224:
Don't mind her.. She don't know that a man cheating and a woman cheating are not really the same thing..

Farid24224:
A man and a woman ain't the same!! 🙄

They are not!!
A woman should cheat because she can only get pregnant once. Once she gets pregnant for you she can't get pregnant for anyone else (till weaning). A man shouldn't cheat because he can still get other women pregnant and mess up the family!

advanceDNA:
Bros...this thread is about a woman chatting on her husband...

And u are talking about a man cheating in his wives..... A man in a polygamous relationship and the women that agreed to be in such marriage all subscribed to cheating.... Abi how do u agree to be in a marriage with a man where u share penîs with other women.... There is no cheating here ..there is an agreement....
There are also polygamous women out there so don't rant

Well, the thread is about cheating. If a man with wives, WIVES, still find it necessary to cheat, what does that tell you about men?

zomoears:
Simp thinking, trying to reverse nature.

I pity you.

Well, am I right or am I right? Once a woman gets pregnant she should be free to bang as she likes (for 9 months) as she can't get pregnant again. A man, not so. He has to always be careful because he can get a woman pregnant every time he bangs!😆

advanceDNA:
......a married woman is cheating on her husband......and u asking for the cheating man and posting elrufai...... how are u reasoning sir, is ur brain in flight mode??

u men that reason with ur woman's pvssy. .how do u even do it

A married man was cheating on his wives. WIVES!!

otunbadan:
Ode …. Find a working transformer and hold on to it with your dilemma

You have lost the right the have a civil social interaction with me because you proofed beyond reasonable doubt that you are an extremely stupid and disrespectful person.

I regret commenting on this post and casting pearls before a swine

😅 Let's actually analyze this:
You are angry because you FALSELY claimed to live in Canada. When challenged to send photos of current happenings in Canada, you said you'd only send photo if money is bet - knowing fully well.that's not possible on NL. This of course proved you didn't live in Canada.. Then you got angry for being caught in a lie!
The other guy apologized - when you actually should be the one apologizing. You heaped insults on him and stayed pretentiously angry! What a guy!I 😂

minakom:
Atiku will bounce back stronger in 2027

Does it matter that by then he'd be 100 years old? Just asking

Nwodosis:
Give it to Tinubu, he's a diety! The problem is that wrong standards have been set and will be referred to in other electoral matters.

This is Nigeria. We don’t operate like that. If we get paid we'd ignore whatever standards set

zomoears:
1 You have a penis, women don’t.
2. Women are fertile for a short period every month, men are fertile 24/7/365.Inpkiedly, one man can impregnate as many women as he can bang. A woman can only get pregnant within her window period.
3. The size of your brain as a man is diff from women.
4. The type of hormones your body secrets is different
5. Your mental capacity to manage multiple women is different from a woman’s capacity to manage multiple men
6. Men are rational thinkers, women think with their emotions. Only men who are simps think like women.
Should I go on?

Never equate a man with a woman. If God wanted us to be the same, he would not have created us differently.

There is nothing like fair or unfair in nature, it’s either black or white.

You actually just defeated your argument - a woman can bang as many men as she chooses because she can only get pregnant once. A man on the other hand has to be careful because each time he bangs he could get a woman pregnant

advanceDNA:
Which cheating man??

zomoears:
And my answer is clear. Use your initiative.

There is no such thing as a cheating man. Man na man.

If you think other men will value you as second hand, or it’s the baby mama life you want, or you want your peace of mind,do your thing.

But there is no such thing as a cheating man. We only have men who chose to be tied down by one woman, and those who don’t.

Basicend:
A cheating woman woman is seen as a dog in our society and it is brings a worthless perception to her image. It is a taboo.

A dog is a stain and a disgrace to the family and society.

A man by our norms is permitted to marry as many as he likes. .

Sooo what do you call this man below?
And does it seem fair to you?
Notice how "our society" where this is practiced is messed up and we are all trying to run away to societies where things are fairer?

Zonefree:
Keep your ego aside and learn.

Stop being a hypocrite and talk real life - not some absurdity in your head

Basicend:
A cheating woman woman is seen as a dog in our society and it is brings a worthless perception to her image. It is a taboo.

A dog is a stain and a disgrace to the family and society.

A man by our norms is permitted to marry as many as he likes. .

And this seems peachy keen and fair to you. Notice how "oue society" where this is practiced is messed up and we are all trying to run away to societies where things are fair?

Carcholce:
You missed the point in his post. If we all can pray to a God we can’t see, it’s even more easier to see beyond the physical.

You your self just said we can't see God. But you can see the man. So the question again: If you see a man in some smelly rags you'd be looking for what he has in him?

But how can you focus on what you can't see? If you see a man in rags you'd be looking for what he has in him?

zomoears:
Never forgive a cheating woman. She will get you out of the picture later on, whether by divorce, elimination or jazz to cover your eyes. I have seen it play every time a man forgives a cheating woman.

People wey de chat one-on-one with deveh,you no de give dem space o!!

The question was: "How about a cheating man?"

Coolsat:
.. Do not ever forgive a cheating woman e get why.

How about a cheating man?

This fat pig should shut up!!

(And why is he wearing hijab and suddenly looking like a woman??)

nathdim:
don't let western media brainwash you

No, u the one letting Iran brainwash you by repeating same small area over and over in a country of millions if acres!
And who knows when this was even taped

nathdim:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRUs_xumqes?si=dAT3jzK0Yx3HmVDy
Iran is ok

Iran is ok my ass. Is this real Iran? Showing the same short clip of a small area over and over. You can do same with Naija too!
Looks like something staged. And who even knows when this was even taped

casualobserver:
Tomorrow some people living in denial will come here saying our problems are our leaders.

@politeactivist

See this one, we are talking countries and systems and he is posting individuals. Do you know the type of heinous crimes individuals commit in the West that even Nigerians won't commit? See one example below. But despite all that the country stays solid because the LEADERSHIP is not too corrupt!

otunbadan:
Stick it up your dumb a.hole ….

It’s of no use

You're right - it's of no use to ME. It's for you - giving you a chance to free yourself and move on.
Just imagine if you had just said "Apology accepted" how free and big you'd be feeling right now. Instead you're small and bitter!😆

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casualobserver:
Guy talk with sense. Are there more Nigerians than South Africans in South Africa? Is this not the same South Africa where they are driving Nigerians away?

You are just deflecting because you don’t want to face the truth.

EOD

My friend it is LEADERSHIP!!
Here's what I'm saying about SA: many black South Africans are quite corrupt. Add to that the huge number of Nigerians. But that hasn't turned SA into a corrupt country like Naija BECAUSE their leadership is not too corrupt!! If you were to hand those Nigerians leadership of SA you'd quickly have another Nigeria.
It boils down to the LEADERS.
China is communist because CCP is communist, NOT because most Chinese have communist mindsets!!!

casualobserver:
which country are you talking about where Nigerians have overwhelmed them such that Nigerians are now the majority?


Oga take a look in the mirror and confront the ugly reality.

South Africa for example, despite that many black South Africans are not too honest, Nigerians have not imported corruption. So also many enclaves. But if Nigerians were to take over LEADERSHIP of those places en masse...

casualobserver:
that is the problem...you any the Nigerian masses refuse to take responsibility and instead prefer to shift the blame because it prevents you from confronting the ugly reality...which is that we are largely a selfish corrupt untrustworthy wicked people.

Every country has good eggs and bad eggs. The issue is how many more bad eggs than good eggs does your society contain. When you say "hello" to the average Nigerian the next thing, he is looking to scam or get money from you. We know even amongst ourselves we cant be trusted.

lets stop pretending abeg!

So why is it when Nigerians go to a country in large numbers the country doesn't become corrupt? Simple, because the leadership of those countries stay not so corrupt. It boils down to leadership. They're the ones that can make examples of corrupt people as deterance to others. But when they themselves are corrupt...

casualobserver:
It is not by accident that we are known abroad as fraudsters and theives. Na only us dey this world? Why always Nigerians? We are naturally crooked people.

Until Nigerians take responsibility for their role in where we have gotten oitlrselves, nothing will change. No good leader can save a damaged populace. One of the reasons we have bad leaders is that the few good people in society have left the governance space for the charlatans. Why? Because it is the same Nigerian masses that frustrate their efforts.

😄 There's this Ugandan lady I chat with on whatsapp. Then I couldn't reach her again. When she came back she told me Nigerians hacked her Whatsapp. Asked how she knew it was Nigerians - she said it's because it is Nigerians that do such stuff!😅
The average American or Australian is corrupt too. Just that they are lucky that people that matter, people in leadership, police, judges, etc are not so corrupt

otunbadan:
Shove the apology up your ahole,

My bros, the apology is for your own benefit not mine. See below

casualobserver:
and I am saying the leaders are no different from the followers. We all have the same mindset. The followers will do the same thing if they are in power.

A thief is a thief whether he has the opportunity to steal or not, a thief is a thief whether he is a small thief or a big thief. The only difference between the masses and the leaders is the opportunity for grand larceny is not open to the masses.

Remmember the president who said he had no shoes? A man without shoes can be classified as poor or started life poor. This is a man whose career was as a lecturer. What is the source of the wealth he and his wife have today? Remember this was the man who was once poor and couldnt afford shoes.

Yes, MOST human beings are thieves - POTENTIALLY! Wether they are Nigerians or not. But that doesn't mean most humans steal or have stolen before.
So we are not discussing potential. We are discussing what actually led to Nigeria being in bad shape. It is NOT the common man. It is our corrupt leaders, politicians, public officials!

casualobserver:
because they have the same makeup and mindset of the typical Nigerian. the only thing differentiating them from the regular Nigerian is they have access to commit bigger thefts. The one thing I have discovered about Nigeria is that the masses are even more wicked people...they just dont have the opportunity. Sometimes I wonder if the reason public officials dont seem to care about the masses is because they understand the masses are equally wicked people.
I hate to say it but the good amongst us are few!!!

You're right, Nigerians generally are about the most scammy people on earth. But we're discussing why Nigeria is in a bad shape despite it's great potential. The reason is not the common man. The reason is our corrupt leaders, public officials, political class

casualobserver:
A foreigner reading your post would think these "public officials" are aliens not Nigerians and we the citizens are good upright people. Our problem are not public officials our problems are us. We are the ones who become public officials. It's not public officials that steall manhole covers, highway railings, railways tracks etc, its people like you and I.

The other day I asked a LASTMA operative why he wasnt stoping the busdrivers that were blatantly driving against traffic, he told me they beat them up...as in the bus drivers beat the lastma officials if they (LASTMA) try to apprehend them.

Yeah but it is only real public officials, the political class, that can sell the country to the tune of billions/trillions of naira, NOT the common man!