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Fashion / Re: Upload Your Christmas Outfit . Check Out Mine by prettyify(f): 7:32pm On Dec 25, 2020
Merry Christmas everyone . Drop your outfit for Xmas let’s see

Are you taken?
Romance / Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by prettyify(f): 12:02am On May 18, 2020
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

You need to talk to her and after that, she doesn't change for the better.... Brotherly, walk away!

Don't use pity as shovel to dig a hole for yourself by accepting her background is the reason for her actions. She can choose to be better than her family not expressing anger everywhere she goes. Managing shouting at your mother and you are trying to defend her action.

I am from an abusive home and everyday I try to evaluate and respect people around me cause I know how it feels to be at the receiving end. It is a choice you make to be better. Don't stay with anyone that acts as a victim or don't give anyone a reason to remain a victim

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Romance / Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by prettyify(f): 11:03pm On Aug 30, 2019
Sex comes in different ways....

Most people think, just because there wasn't any dick penetration means we didn't have sex, that thinking is wrong.

A guy fingering or giving you head is MouthAction.

So, if a guy tells me no sexual contact at all... There is a problem somewhere.

Ladies be sincere,
Would you date a guy that won't ask you for sex until marriage


Celebrities / Re: Instagram Rich List 2019 : Highest Ranked Nigerian Instagrammers Included by prettyify(f): 7:59pm On Jul 25, 2019
Is alright!


Travel / Re: Multiple Car Accidents Along Benin-Ore Express Road, Many Feared Dead by prettyify(f): 9:03pm On Apr 23, 2019
The rate of accidents is alarming. The power in the dark kingdom is at work. Everyone needs to be prayerful and alert.

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Health / Re: I'm A Virgin HIV Positive Lady: Please Help! by prettyify(f): 5:30pm On Jan 10, 2019
Sorry sis I can feel ur pain but I'm still wondering how u got it wen u are still a virgin

It is not only through sex that one can get HIV for your information
Career / Re: Ecobank Promotes 1,000 Employees by prettyify(f): 8:31pm On Jan 04, 2019
That's great!


Adverts / Re: Join Entrepreneurs's Whatsapp Group by prettyify(f): 3:57pm On Sep 10, 2017
Please add me 08140346474

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Forum Games / Re: Let’s See How Smart You Are: Zoo Animal Face by prettyify(f): 2:53am On Jan 02, 2016
I counted 34 lipsrsealed
Family / Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by prettyify(f): 9:20am On Dec 21, 2015
I believe enrolling him in an army school where discipline is applied will help reduce it.
I have a friend that was like that, only one term in the school changed his life for good.
Food / Re: Why Does Beans Take Less Time To Prepare These Days? by prettyify(f): 3:43pm On Oct 11, 2013
I also took note of that too cry

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Phones / Iphone 6 Coming Out Soon!!! by prettyify(f): 9:28am On Oct 11, 2013
Several solid reports over the past few weeks have stated that Apple’s next-generation iPhone 6 will finally feature a larger display. Apple is testing screen sizes as large as 6 inches for its next iPhone.
Am done buying Smart Phones embarassed

Music/Radio / Re: Akon & Wizkid On Set Of BankyW's Roll It Video Shoot (Photos) by prettyify(f): 4:02pm On Oct 08, 2013
Is it me or is Akon rily fat?

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Music/Radio / Re: P-Square- Fast And Pray For A Month Before Releasing Any Album by prettyify(f): 3:36pm On Oct 08, 2013
Yea ryt!!!!!!! angry
TV/Movies / Re: Family Guy Vs The Simpsons: Which Do You Prefer? by prettyify(f): 3:35pm On Oct 08, 2013
How dare you compare Simpsons to Family Guy....For God sake Simpson is a classic Cartoon
Religion / Re: Let All The Saints Get Ready For The Rapture by prettyify(f): 2:49pm On Sep 25, 2013
Politics / Re: Cross River Completes 220-meters Idundu Bridge by prettyify(f): 2:59pm On Sep 23, 2013
Agriculture / Re: Tanzanian Firm Plans $50m Fruit Juice Factory In Benue by prettyify(f): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2013
This is what we are suppose to do in this country nt others doing it for us
Phones / Re: iOS 7 Download Day Worldwide Release Time [chart] by prettyify(f): 8:02am On Sep 19, 2013
No city in Nigeria can download this? Why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! angry
Science/Technology / Re: Doctor Regrows Man’s Missing Fingertip Using Pig Bladder by prettyify(f): 4:36pm On Sep 18, 2013
Oh well! embarassed
Politics / Re: Italian Palm-Oil Company Relocates To Ile-ife, Osun State. by prettyify(f): 2:39pm On Sep 18, 2013
So now we can't process palm oil....Wat a shame! undecided every white man must do something for us

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Education / Re: Private Or Public School. Which Is Better? by prettyify(f): 2:35pm On Sep 18, 2013
In Nigeria, Private schools is much better than public. Go anywhere in this country or outside, the students that are winning competitions and awards are only students in private schools cause they are more exposed than the students in public school. The public schools dont have better teachers or equipments for students. So is nt someting one shloud argue about
Webmasters / Re: Union Bank Loses Two Billion Naira To Fraudsters...EFCC Steps In by prettyify(f): 3:01pm On Sep 17, 2013


Politics / Re: "Nigeria Is A Country Of Kidnappers & Corrupt Politicians” – David Hayward by prettyify(f): 2:37pm On Sep 17, 2013
To be Honest....I love this write up, it cracked me up grin
Business / Re: Harvard Business Article Praising Dangote's Oil Refinery by prettyify(f): 12:08pm On Sep 13, 2013
A man with a mission and vision! cheesy
Politics / Re: FG Order For 53 Gold Iphones To Celebrate Independence by prettyify(f): 10:36am On Sep 11, 2013
I don't believe this story undecided pls I need the real source
Entertainment / Re: Nigeria Entertainment Awards 2013 With Full List Of Winners. by prettyify(f): 3:46pm On Sep 03, 2013
Y in New York?


Religion / Re: Ese Walter Writes A Letter To Jesus by prettyify(f): 3:41pm On Aug 29, 2013
Don't get me wrong, she is strong for coming out to tell the world the truth. But is enough, we have noticed u enough. If you want God's forgiveness, pray in your heart and not for everyone to see. What does she really want? The only Advice i will give her is to pray to God Truely and leave the rest for Him. God knows what do do to him not you (dats if ur saying the truth). The worst of it all he didnt even force you angry Find a way to find peace and not putting it on the media, it will only make things worst for you
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Fallen Princesses:an Artist's Ironic Look At Storybook Royalty In Morden Society by prettyify(f): 9:13am On Aug 27, 2013
Cinderella. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)
Snow White. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)
Little Red Riding Hood. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)
Ariel. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)

Art, Graphics & Video / Fallen Princesses:an Artist's Ironic Look At Storybook Royalty In Morden Society by prettyify(f): 9:09am On Aug 27, 2013
Pocahontas. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)
Sleeping Beauty. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)
Jasmine. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)
Rapunzel. (Photograph by Dina Goldstein)

Politics / Re: Why Would Someone Vandalize A Gas Pipeline In Nigeria? by prettyify(f): 10:35am On Aug 13, 2013
If you only know the amount of oil and gas Nigeria produces in a day, and the country still remains in hell. The question should be "Why wouldn't someone vandalize a gas or oil pipeline in Nigeria" cry
Politics / Re: Fire Explosion Changed A Nairalander's Thoughts About Nigeria by prettyify(f): 8:40am On Jul 24, 2013
as far as corruption lives, there isn't hope for this country, sorry to say that. but lets be honest from the first day we got our independence, that when corruption started. sometimes i wonder, which is better before 1960 or after 1960?

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