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Martinez39:
Oga, ladies cannot be stopped from dressing as they pleased and I believe that it's their right to dress as they want. As men, we are responsible for our actions. Seductive dressing can never be a good excuse. Am I missing anything?

Oga, I didn't say it is a reason. Pls if u don't want to understand me, fine. Go ahead and believe what u want to believe. U can train ur kids as u like.

But for me, my sons will learn to respect No and never rape a woman. My girls will learn to dress modestly. That we are in 21 century shouldn't mean we should go about planting sexual contents up and down inside our heads.

I don't know why people are even against porn sef. Dey for Dey show porn up and down for street sef.

pocohantas:
This was his exact mindset in Nigeria, unluckily for him- he entered plane with it.

Look at him now... continue ehn.

Well, I never encouraged rape. But will train my daughter to dress properly, and train my son to respect a NO. U can train yours how u like.

Sterope:
Years ago and even till today, there are civilisations that don't cover fully. It is not unusual to see their women with bare chests going about their businesses.

The difference between their civilisations and the modern age is sexualisation.

A woman's dressing is not an excuse to rape a woman, maybe temptation to have sex but not to rape. We should not be giving voices to rapist's. Your training doesn't mean your daughter might not evolve on her own. What then are you going to do? Tell your daughter that she si tempting men to rape her?

My dear, read my post again. Some of u just like to sound some how. I said I am never encouraging rape. Never. I also made it clear I will train my son to respect a no. Rape is bad. Indecent dressing too is bad. I can't clap for u going about naked too. As much as I detest a rapist with vigor, I detest a lady who goes about seducing men. Some girls intentionally do these things. On social media, u see them doing it. When they discuss, they know what they are doing, they want to seduce. I am very close to ladies and I know how some of the reason. They know the power that they have in making men lust after them. So as much as I condemn rape, I condemn women who intentionally use the body to cause deliberate seduction by what they wear. The difference between the past culture and now is that now sex is now everywhere. Many things plant sex thoughts into ur head. From movies, to the out world, to magazines, pics, stories. Sexual contents are every where and they keep planting the desire into minds and head of millions of people. And some fo ols who don't have maximum self control go into rape. I know how some dressings of some ladies stimulated me and drove me crazy but because I have self control, it dies down. We have sold sex to our world and that is why we are where we are.

pocohantas:
He thought he is in Nigeria...When you tell some of them here that with their mentality, they won't last 1yr as a free man abroad- they will be shouting feminist!



I hope you can also see that no one is asking what she was wearing or why she went to a guy's room when she doesn't want her toto to be drilled- like some useless guys here do.

Hope you can see no one is asking if she is a virgin and hasn't fcked before?

Whether 20/25yrs, that place isn't Nigeria. People speak out after years there too. There are generally no useless people in saner climes, doing accurate timekeeper and telling you when to speak.

yea, but dear, no matter how woke we want to be, indecent dressing is indecent dressing. I am only replying this based on what u said about no one is asking her what she wore.

Sincerely, I just wish men can start dressing the way women do. I mean just expose everything for the world to see. This is not in any way supporting crime. I am going to raise my daughter to dress properly. I will also teach my son to respect every woman. A no is a no. Simple. And my daughter will never be a source of temptation to anyone. She will dress well.

When I tell people that Nigeria does not deserve my tax, they think I'm lying. The leaders just know how to loot.

dairykidd:
You supposed to know from that mugu post say him na dunce.. There are women who look good but are very disciplined, they don't create room for nonsense or entertain bs that would eventually lead to what can be avoided.. That mugu guy probably still stays under his parents or has not yet woken up to reality. Let him be enjoy his lala land for now

Exactly.. Dressing good and dressing seductively for strangers are two different things. As for the guy, na yeye guy. He never see anything in life. Trying to form woke. Lol

“My 10 days fact findings visit to Nigeria has presented an economic inequality in the country, which has reached extreme level and is playing itself out clearly in the housing sector..."

Everyone else has noticed that the hardship and poverty in the country has reached an all time high, only Buhari asslickers don't see it.

Ikem11:
I wonder how house owners are now the problem of poverty in Nigeria. The government failed woefully in making life liveable in Nigeria by their greedy nature in them.

Even if the house become 20k a month many won't afford it when they basic salary is 30k

How will the taxing benefit a common man on the street cos those he-goats in power will still embezzle the money.

Problem of Nigeria is Security, epileptic power supply, bad roads, bad water, bad leaders... Fix that and common man will enjoy that country.

Well, what do I know anyway.

The idea is to tax the rich more. That is how it is done in reasonable countries. This helps to reduce long throat that has eaten deeply into our lives. One man go get 17 cars because he is not paying tax on them.

One of the major reasons we loot in Nigeria is our greed level and love for material things.

fyneguy:
You cannot prove that shyt. It's possible the moneybags gave them money. Dangote and others.

My brother, na naija we Dey. That is what they have been doing.
Wait until APC leaves office. U will hear more. When Oyo state governor was in power, no one saw it coming, he is out now, Makinde has been release figures of money he mismanaged. I don't trust a single Nigerian politician.

It is just like someone telling u to prove that the last election was not rigged. The both major parties rigged. The highest rigger won. Not our constitution and their smartness made it almost impossible to prove. U think before Nigerian leader would do such thing, he must have blocked all area of traces. Baba, if u are close to any Nigerian leader, u will understand. They are heartless and greedy.

hyperflex:
I don talk am. People will just open their mouth n talk nonsense

Lol, were u expecting them to openly accept they did? Seems u don't know nigeria or u are living in denial. This is nigeria and that is how they share money in nigeria. The bullion van that went into Tinubu's house few days before election, no one has been able to account for it.

My brother, nigerian politicians are corrupt and they spend tax payers money on many selfish things.

No one is talking about the fact that they withdrew our money for election. This country will never get better, lie lie.

Yuneehk:
There's a problem if you're hot, and another one if you're cold. For the former, jealousy, insecurities creep in which is totally fine after all no one likes to share. For the latter, complaints of poor looks(size, dressing, etc), comparison with what they see outside and lust for that which is seen outside. It's even evident on the thread from comments above say one man meat na another one poison. Las las, this thing called marriage ain't got a manual.
You saw the signs from the onset sef but chose to ignore. This one will likely not change so bear your cross.

This is not really about being hot dear..
She flirts and guys know that she is available, that is why they call her pet names like love, my love. There are elegant married women u can't even dare call such name because they will send fire to visit u. She has presented her self as ever ready seductive woman online and men are bidding for her.

She rarely takes care of her kids, she leaves them with her mom only to go partying. While partying, she dresses seductively. She is hardly around, she jumps from one place to another. All these are what the OP pointed out.

The world has gone crazy and we kind of praise stupidity like we praise bbn. There is difference between dressing well and wearing stuff to seduce other men. Ladies who are still looking for men, single or ashawos can dress like that. But for a married woman, dressing like that for events her husband is not even with her means she is calling for male attendants. I know her type.

I can't force anyone to change. I can't advice anyone to do same. She can't change. That is who she is. She falls in the class of our female celebrities. Some ladies are like that. Some men are like that too.

He should leave her to live her life. He should divorce her. I feel for the kids too. They will suffer more from this. From the OP accounts, the woman doesn't even have value for kids.

truthsayer009:
OP, if i get married and have what you have right now I would totally be happy.

10 years of marriage and your wife still looks really good to 100% is rare. You need to ask God for forgiveness because you dont deserve what you have.

Even if your wife wants to play around or go back in shape, it should motivate you to join her in the Gym, get yourself in shape too. Go out with her to events, look like a power couple.

You guys always admire Beyonce when you see her. You think it was by Juju she maintained her figure after 2 kids, imagine if she was with Men like you?

What makes you think she doesnt want to take care of your children.

why don't you join her in looking good?

So u are happy to be married to a woman who flirts with different men online, party up and down wearing seductive wears?

May ur wishes be granted to u. I go like make u marry such woman and I go like f uck her while married to u.

Some of u take this 'woke' too serious. U think marriage na bf and gf type of thing. Oga said woman no even get time for his kids again and u are talking this one.

I pray make u marry one of these married women wey love flirting wey I Dey hammer every week now. Ur eyes go clear. She go even kill u sef. I have married lady like that and she is getting good bang from me steady and she wishes I fathered her kids.

mysticgal:
My dear I don tire for men,

What do you guys want?

Seems u guys don't understand. She flirts with guys. One is constantly addressing her as his love.

She goes partying and dressed seductively partying.. Who is she seducing at birthday parties?

She doesnt care about her kids. She flirts online. These are reg flags. The one is either phone romancing or romancing in real sense. Bro, if she go stop, divorce her make she continue her life style. Pls don't listen to anyone who makes u feel u are stalking her. U aren't. Marriage comes with some sacrifices. If I have a wife who parties all day and all night with seductive wears, and Im not there, it doesn't send good message about her. But u can't force people to change. U can path ways so she can flirt more.

Divide this country to end or reduce ethnic and religious contests. These contests are the major Bane of our problems and usually slow down progress..

MelesZenawi:
What Aba needs is road simple.

But due to the criminality attitude of Abians and her leaders the future remains bleak.


Let Abia state govt construct their road and leave Federal govt after all Rivers state constructed their own part by themselves.


Recently the Asaba road leading to head bridge was damaged beyond reason but as now the road is been reconstructed by Delta state government because they know the importance of good road network. Delta didn't wait for buhari or said this is a federal road.


So nothing like sleeping giant but Abia has so many criminals as leaders and they enjoy it if not how can people like Orji Uzor kalu stage a come back to power to same state he rendered hopeless.

I get your point but this is wht I have been saying. FG is complete waste of time. FG earns bigger than all the states but still want states to do part of her jobs without doing state jobs. It is completely unfair to states and that is why sometimes, I don't blame states for their incompetency. States most times handle the funding of security in their location while FG earn so much from the money sharing formula. Some states have never experienced FG presence for decades. States need more funds. FG should earn less. States should get more of the share than FG. Most money earned by FG used for overhead cost. States are closer to the people than FG. FG is just there to massage the pay of ex leaders and service chiefs. This is so wrong. If this country really want to grow, we need to really sit down and look into our constitution.

decatalyst:
Total waste to die for any human not to talk of Nigerian politicians.

It still baffles me what the likes of ATIKU is coming back to power for, instead of him to keep enjoying his loots, protections, and respects he gets from the successive Adamawa governments.

Yea, exactly what I don't understand why Buhari and others are still doing in politics. He is paid for live and forever will enjoy treatments of head of state which runs into millions.

flexyrule:
They harvest anything good the African continent can produce.
Doctors
Engineers
Footballers
Economy
Natural resource
Even human organs
Is this continent a specimen for experiments?

Yea, becus ur leaders keep failing, while the masses keep being stupid.

EVILFOREST:
The same OIL MONEY...
Are BLACKS not Cursed..??, because the kind of fruits we bear get me perplexed.
We really need to define our role in this world...
PLEASE, when will BLACK ARABS start thinking like this..?

Well, until blacks accept that they are truly inferior in the scheme of world, the better. No matter how wicked the UK might have been, they would have been better than our present leaders..

Here js the issue with blacks:
Blacks are naturally wicked, greedy and pathetic liars.

These three factors are the reason we keep producing useless leaders..

Blacks can function perfectly well in any system they didn't build, but can never build a system on their own. This is why blacks can do well in USA, UK, and others. The systems there have been properly built to checkmate and control greediness, wickedness, and lies.
Blacks can't build a system on their own because the greediness, wickedness and lies can't allow them to.

A black man has two naira, he will steal one and half, and still will not use the remaining half to build what he was paid to build. As Nigeria is now, some people can buy Nigeria from Nigerians by simply offering them luxury things, money and power. That is how greed works. A black man doesn't mind having 500 houses all over the world, that is greediness.
Wickedness is why a Blackman will use his fellow for money ritual, a black man will kill u becus u are progressing better than him, a black man can use spiritual means to block ur ways, etc. That is how wickedness works.

I can go on. Sentiments will make some people dispute these facts. These greediness was the major reasons whites were able to penetrate the continent and defeated our past leaders and turned the tribes against one another.

shamecurls:
Fulani kidnappers


Who asked the kidnappers about their tribe?


Stupid Journalism!

Read the story.

The very important person does not have a name.. Lol. These elites Dey use nigerians play sha..

That was how the Wude kidnap kingpin has been forgotten..

Well, our leaders know that we are wet pussies. I have never seen people like Nigerians in my life. So no one among us is willing to put selfishness aside and question these leaders.

All our activists do is make noise, they dash them Ghana must go and voom, they will keep quiet.

This country messed up. Southern leaders have no ball. They need to change the electoral laws. We can't keep having huge and uncontrolled population at the expense of development because some regions wana rule for ever. This will not work. The north keep pouring in huge numbers of kids for the sole purpose of ruling for ever while the same huge population remain a huge burden to the country.

Look at the new CBN policy, only kano state is a productive state. Our tax from southern Nigeria is used to share and feed northern nigeria..

I dislike southern leaders. They are too selfish. They make us, productive southerners slaves to dormant North. Our tax is huge. Pls anyone close to southern leaders should tell them to demand for change in election laws. We want to control our birth rate. Many in southern Nigeria are now controlling their birth rate, but northerners are still birthing anyhow for the sole purpose of election. If they don't want to change the election laws, we should divide the country into regions. Simple.

mapet:
The South west that many south-easterners severally called slaves?

Same way South west called south east slaves too. South west started this shit. Obasanjor did 8 good years. When it was the turn of GEJ, they betrayed and followed north. Now North is planning to retain power come 2023 and they will achieve it as long as South west and east are divided..

elganzar:
Osinbajo for President

Peter Obi for Vice

Yoruba and Igbo together should rip The North of power


#2023

Sincerely speaking, south west should support east for presidency. Obj has ruled for 8 good years. If south west, South east, south south, and middle belt come together, North will beg for breakup of Nigeria.

CAPSLOCKED:

THIS GUY IS THE REAL GOOD FOR NOTHING.

PEOPLE HAVE BEEN COLLECTING BEATINGS AND BULLETS, HE NEVER SAID ANYTHING.

COMMON SLAP YESTERDAY MADE HIM REALIZE HOW TERRIBLE THE COUNTRY IS. MADMAN.

CELEBRITIES KEEP REACTING TO FOOLĮSH THINGS LIKE BIG BROTHER INSTEAD OF IMPORTANT THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN THIS COUNTRY. WHEN THEY'RE IN TROUBLE THEY SUDDENLY WANT US TO PITY THEM?

POLICE BRUTALITY MUST GO ROUND. NA TURN BY TURN.

Oh, exactly what I wanted to say. These guys think because e never happen to them, they will never voice out. Nigerian celebrities are disappointment and I don't ever pity them when they come up with this type of story. Nigeria is like this because those who could have spoken out have refused to because "e never concern them".

koolaid87:
No behaviour profiler

No forensic investigative unit


Nothing works for Sh1thole


Na to dey chase yahoo boi up and down

Even the yahoo boys are part of why the country is a shithole.

PureFace1:
Keep deceiving yourself


I served in the East and I Know what I am saying

U have been to all eastern states and went to all the residential areas. You are the one deceiving ur self. I say go barracks first.

PureFace1:
I am not saying there are no Yoruba in South East because that would just be stupid but saying they full there is just a lie


I have been to three state in South East and I know what I am saying

And You are the one that said I don't travel

I have traveled to three states in the East and I know what I am saying

My brother, them full there. Enter barracks alone u go think u Dey Yoruba market.

PureFace1:
There is a Yoruboid tribe In Delta State call Itshekiri

But that Enugu is a lie because I have been to Enugu

At least I spent 2 weeks in Enugu

are u alright at all? How? There are yorubas transferred to enugu by FG who work and raised families there. Ur replies only showed how myopic u are. Most of those yorubas in agbor I'm talking about are from osun states. We gist a lot. The guy I told u about who played a huge role in my wedding is from osun state. He stayed in agbor before moving to sapele where he built his house. He is married to an abia woman and they have three kids.

One of my departmental guy, a yoruba guy from ekiti state is currently staying in nsukka now and has started life there. Becus u have been to enugu for two weeks, u now know enugu. Guy, Yoruba men and women plenty for aba, onitcha enugu. They are doing business, mainly in herbal niche. I won't argue with u again I can see u aren't really out of ur ethnic sentiment. Very crazy u could actually make such reply.

PureFace1:
Keep deceiving yourself

What is keep deceiving ur self? U sre the one deceiving ur self. I served in delta state, agbor precisely. There is full area hugely dominated by yorubas there. In fact, u will think u are in South west. I do go there to buy agbo to drink.

One of the guys who played a major role during my wedding early this year na Yoruba who is based in Agbor before he migrated to Sapele where he built his house. In my department back in UNN where obtained my degree, we had some yorubas in our class. Many yorubas Dey UNN. I schooled in enugu and yorubas full there.

Go to aba, u will see many yorubas too. Anambra nkor? Dude, travel, okay.

somehow:
So you're saying Enugu is only as rich as local governments in Lagos?

I don't understand. How? A state governor decided to upgrade a community hospital and the locals celebrated him and u are saying this?
Can u believe ur self? Dude, wetin concern lagos concern this matter? Abi is lagos now new York city? Last time I checked, no single state in nigeria is as developed as ordinary cape town city in south Africa. Pls I don't have energy for negative vibes today. Go to work. Thanks.

mrvitalis:
Those who pay such tax are in minority....they cant talk people wont understand

Bros, tax is tax. There different types of tax and they are all tax. Every Nigerian pay value added tax. And that runs into trillions. We don't want to talk about others. Stop justifying something that is not worth it.

Govt does not provide water for Nigerian, we provide our own water. We source for our own electricity. Our fuel is expensive, and we still fuel car, we fuel generators.

Telecom companies spend billions monthly to generate power A-side paying power companies. Same as banks and other companies.

We also pay for our own private securities these days. So the most basic things of govt are not provided to Nigerians. Yet, the same govt does not buy fuel, they use it for free, the same govt does not pay security, they use the ones we collectively maintain, they don't pay for water, it is given freely, they don't pay for feeding, they don't pay for health-care. More tax will never make the govt responsible.

It will not stop govt from shooting protesters. In developed climes, five persons can protest and no one will shoot them. U don't need heaven and earth to protest. U would be killed in Nigeria if u protest. Taxation does not make people protest. The govt needs to create the environment for such.