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Encouragement are for those that are climbing and are almost there, battling and have almost won, striving but failing, a man (first born) FAF-in around in Nigeria of today needs horrible words by those that love him, because very soon the siblings he helped school and same society hailing and encouraging him would ask what he was doing when his mates were planning ahead.

AfroKnight:
Thank goodness you’ve broken up with him. Your wahala is too much. He will sort himself out.

You say you’re ambitious but all your ambition is on behalf of another person.

There’s encouragement and there’s nagging. Learn the difference.

Leave him alone.

Pain is a better motivator than comfort, he is not as ambitious as you want him to be, though your push is for selfish reasons, but hey, who doesn't make decisions based on self interests. The same reasons we chastise and put our children under pressure to make them perform, to enable a better future for themselves and ourselves. Ideally, There is no easy way to get someone ambitious as he might not see things the way you do. As soon as any of his younger siblings start to out perform him, he would wake up, if he is not there yet mentally then you cant force it. Learn to move on

More suffering for Nigerians in 2020, as Government would over tax everyone to make up for the deficit in the budget from oil prices, Hike in prices of all commodities as the Naira falls further to the dollars. Once the IMF smiles at you, more hardship is on the way. Mechanized Agriculture is the way out




uote author=olaboy33 post=89799652]Who can explain the Above in English [/quote]

Ask any of the people that have ever caught it, someone from kano or someone who might have lost a soul to this scourge if a full lock down should be reinstated, they have had first hand experience of what we are dealing with. We need to wait this out else, when those with full lockdowns start to recovery, we would be back to square one. Only the living worry about the economy

Wearing a face Mask prevents you from mistakenly touching your hands or nose while moving around, prevents an infected person from sneezing on surfaces that might lead and encourage the spread, so while the mask might give some sort of false security, discouraging it outright is just plain sad at this time. Would he rather encourage everyone to throw away their masks?, any little help that can be rendered now can collectively assist in fighting this scourge

Firstly, I would blame your mum, Yes. As soon as she tried to keep the home together and your dad showed he wasnt interested since he had money, she should have moved on, focused the little resources she has on her future which is you and your siblings. Such men never change and rather than show appreciation would only be an ingrate for the rest of his life, and in so doing can lead you to misbehave towards him. Now strive to keep your mum alive, contact her relatives if you have too, she is their blood, your father is not. Then you now need to seriously work hard, with serious prayers to break the chain of poverty as the first. work is before you.

Did the calculation, strangely you are correct.

9jaRealist:
Where do you folks get your projections from?

Yes, prices should be deregulated, but Nigeria still imports its gasoline...
N125 (less than 30 cents) per litre is LESS than prices in the UK and the US (even before adding shipping costs).

Frankly, given the ongoing devaluation (by whatever name or method) of the Naira...
The likelihood would be for a price INCREASE in the immediate aftermath of any price or sectoral deregulation.

The BEST hope of deregulation is that OVER TIME increased investment, efficiency and competition in the downstream petroleum industry shall put downward pressure on pricing and hopefully result in significant price moderation, and furthermore the trillions being expended (wasted, IMHO) yearly on subsidy payments or under-recovery would be channeled into physical and social investment (education, healthcare, etc).
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What did they expect to happen when they announced a partial ease of the lockdown, they just want Lagos to be another Kano, and its a calculated plan. But it shall fail in Jesus name, even if people catch it, they shall not die in Jesus name, but even it its water they take it shall heal them. The evil they want to see shall not work.

Thieves!, if subsidy has indeed been removed, then the pump price of Fuel should be less than N80 per liter currently, they simply are creating a landing for Dangote refinery to kick-start. Anyway, Let Dangote create more jobs whenever he starts

If any state should get a lockdown state, its not Lagos, Lagos is a country on its own> The FG should not allow the Evil vision of Mrs Gates to come through, Lagos would be a disaster if the lockdown is partly lifted. We are all stressed, yes, but partial or total lift off of the lockdown in Lagos would turn Lagos into a Kano state, except that's what they want. This thing is still Killing them in Kano dont see why they must initiate a lift in Lagos.

And where would the bankers put their own children when they are asked to resume work?. They should follow up by insisting that only those without children or wards should resume at the banks first

The kids must of course keep learning but there is just no way that schools on their own should decide to start an academic year in the middle of the current crisis.

The Government of Kano know this, they only want the counts to get so high so they call lobby for palliative funds from the Government when they fall just behind Lagos on the severity list, wicked Leaders.

A great Man of God with Raw power.

we would all taste death, and I sympathize with His family. But sincerely with the various things we heard about this man, not sure where his heart was cause it seems he was the Cabal. Well, we pray that the Lord would now give the president a listening ear to allow him listen to the plight of Nigerians and feel the pain we all have been feeling, that all the blockages to Mr President would be removed for Nigeria to progress.

Happy birthday to Alhaji Dankote

Thank God for your life, I believe some set of people might actually have been systematically and strategically spreading the virus by infecting public places before the ones from Abroad came in to Nigeria.

Paving the way for Alhaji Dankote's Refinery to Kick start, No wahala.

Dangote would not have it in Jesus name, it shall not come near him By the special grace of God

When we pray that God silent the enemies of the masses in Nigeria, He must use something. May it be unto Kiyari as he wishes unto all peoples of Nigeria that are not Fulani like him. Amen in Jesus name.

They were very eager to close churches and Mosques, but a drive through town today showed enough Owambes, are those not gatherings?. BRTS buses full to the brim, markets and even malls. These convoy cannot be less than 50 people, see them paying lip service to restrictions they put in place.

Please pray for the Chinese city of Wuhan, only God knows the true nature of things happening on ground especially if they havent found a cure yet.

This Governor seems like a serious minding person, we pray he remains so.

Men dying in hotel rooms while having sex with women not their wives is most likely High Blood Pressure this day, rarely do they die at home on their wives, its always on another woman. Men have to start learning to have regular check ups and stop believing sex is the solution to stress. Sex is a form of stress on its own, especially when trying to over perform and prove what cannot be proven. Rarely do you hear of women dying during sex, always men.

I dont think Fulani's have very many friends across Nigeria at the moment. I am almost certain herdsmen killing would slowly and quietly fade away in the coming months to allow for everyone' attention shift away from Herdsmen aggression. This Government is evil, sowing the seeds of division

Ukraine as a country self needs deliverance, its was in Ukraine the Russians shot a plane down, it is Ukraine that is causing Trumps Impeachment, now this plane is an Ukrainian Airline. 2020 is already setting it self up as a very turbulent year, lets recommit our lives to the Lord, the world is at a pivotal time now.

Ok o, when the Saudi oil facility was blown up not one country mentioned what they would do to Iran, Infact, the Americans persuaded the Saudis to keep quiet and watch. Now that Trump as chosen their General as a scape goat to draw attention away from his home crisis and smother the Ego of Saudi, Iran is making noise. Iran should better behave, the world is filled with blood thirty rulers; from the US, to Saudi to even Israel, its like the world has lost its chill. I m not sure Iran have any friends that would stake their necks for them, not Russia and not China, they would be shocked at how far the likes of Trump would GO to satisfy his Saudi friends.

Church goers projected to outnumber in US in 10 years time. So the assumption that China is developed despite not been religions is false, the number of Christians alone in China is more than half the entire population of Nigerians.

Many homes face this sort of issue, from newly weds to people that have been married for decades. The man has a different perspective on issues that varies from his wife's. They see the entire experience differently and often times these bottles up conflict and distrust over time. I recommend reading John Grays "what your mother couldnt tell you and your father didn't know". Their home can still be saved

Life is a Journey, a man earning 30K is also on a journey, if he speaks as one with a future and a destination. Then be rest assured, his 30K would become millions soon

lilwetdick:
a man with vision and focus wont be earning 30k. i believe in spousal support, both couples should work, combine income but 30k is nothing

how will this 30k earner pay for rent before they marry, who is bringing whom to the house, the man or the woman.

These are the real Men. May Angels watch over you and win this war in 2020 in Jesus name