FarahAideed: What plot exactly ? We remember those that killed him came posing as friendly troops who later turned out to be Boko
Mr.man stop defending your murderous, highly corrupt and incapable army. Go and research and read further or you go to her Instagram account. Her husband was murdered by Nigeria army soldiers because he refused to be part of their plot to loot funds meant for fighting bokoharam. They murdered him and said he was killed during bokoharam fight.
FarahAideed: You wonder what's wrong with Nigerian govt
Go and read the part in italics again. He was actually killed by his fellow soldiers for refusing to be part of their plot. They shot him in his office and counted him among boko haram casualties.
udele1: Once the head is cut off, the body dies. The head of IPOB is off and the body is gradually dying.
There is a conflict of interest, between saving the leader of IPOB and fighting for the Biafran freedom.
IPOB now has 2 factions.
1) Those that want to suspend the agitation and release the leader.
2) those who want to continue with the agitation and sacrifice Nnamdi Kanu.
As soon as kanu was arrested, those who want to sacrifice kanu, blocked the account kanu has control over. They set up their own account to divert donations.
Those who want to release kanu at the expense of their Biafran agitation, have insisted that donations be made to the account that kanu controls.
Now IPOB declared sit at home every monday, claiming they are doing it for their leader to be released. This decison will affect igbo children who will write NECO exams.
Not only that, it will also annoy igbo leaders in the east.
The faction that wants kanu released and the agitation suspended, are made of kanu's immediate family members.
They know that they need the help of igbo leaders to negotiate for kanu's release. And going ahead with the sit at home, will make them loose interest in the negotiation.
So while the kanu family faction led by Kanu Nta, nnamdi kanu's younger brother, have called off the sit at home tomorrow, simon ekpa faction insists it will hold.
Guess what will happen?
The kanu family faction will work with the government and igbo leaders, and sacrifice simon ekpa faction for kanu's release.
Those on simon ekpa faction will be arrested, for the release of kanu.
The days ahead will be very dramatic.
this ur lagos-ibadan expressway analysis is too dumb. Go and get urself a job and stop having heart failure over ipob matters.
Nonybb: They're misleading him. Nigerian followers of politicians are wicked. I know this man; he couldn't have made this decision on his own. He is never over ambitious but those rats trooping and congregating around his corner have influenced and badly advised him to defect in other for them to further feed more off from his good wealth and riches on the campaign. Just like how they advised him to come out for primary election under PDP. Nigerians are bad. Tell me the chances this man have now?
If he hires good gladiators to protect his votes and campaigns vigorously, he would win. He has acceptance and masses appeal a lot.
jaxxy: Will u keep quiet! Nothing even scientific about anything said just wild guess and assumptions u can get from ordinary ikebe super magazine.
Sharap there!!! You are pained because you are broke. Broke people are always pained when they say things that bring joy to the soul. Bobby sucking gives great joy. Broke peeps don't know this.
nuel000: I wouldn't advise anyone to go for contract job, as an account in a manufacturing firm you'll gain enough experience that can probably prepare you for same position in an O&G firm
ThreeEyedRaven: I'll take the Stanbic bank as It's more secure. It's better on your CV too. It exposes you to your future customers
You know what you are saying at all? Or are you in Dreamland? Contract job in bank more secure? What makes it secure? It's not even an employment. It's a casual work. It can only boost his CV when he's told over the phone to stop coming to work.
It's now that I know I have always had a very good talent all along. Thanks to this woman for showing the world that my talent is very crucial to a healthy life and relationship.
joyairemiya: Secondus gat no balls. If am PDP chairman, i will walk him out. If he refuses, i will ask security to bundle him out
. In Nigeria politics, balls without money will give you disease of swollen scrotum. Wike has balls and has Rivers money at his disposal. So don't try this thing at home.
Ovamboland: Everyone is now denying membership, ESN and IPOB that you all support when it was established and when they had upper hand killing security men and women, and committing arson on public and private properties
And because of that your imbecillic police force that knows nothing aside collecting bribes from international fraudsters will enter the streets and begin to arrest innocent people tagging them ESN members.
. Please this is not a battle formation. I think they stopped a while to brainstorm and take a decision in the middle of a journey. This isn't a battle formation. Or maybe it's you that called it a battle formation. Going into battle like this and you would receive instant flogging. Please don't try this as battle formation.
zyphr: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her. The problem is that, I don't desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable. She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex. So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate. However, since January this year, I lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches. In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms round my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don't feel like this towards every other woman.
I'm currently not seeing any other lady but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies including an ex.
Question is: Is sexual attraction/desire neccesary for marriage? Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break up as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her.
sexual attraction and compatibility is very important in marriage. This may continue in marriage and lead to cheating.
mario22: My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).
She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.
That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing.
. Your mumu blind love will soon lead to your obituary. If she's not changing for good, move on with your life. That type of girl can kill a man out of anger and begin to weep in the court room later. Leave that relationship. Anger therapy doesn't work anyway. It only keeps the anger down for a while. Leave her for your own good.
It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.
There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.
During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.
I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.
So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.
Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.
The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.
PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.
. Forget about that girl for now and fix your life first. Learn a skill and get financially stable. After, look for her. She would accept you. However if she doesn't, move on and marry another person. If you dare marry in your condition, you all will crash together. Marriage without money is worse than Fulani herdsmen.
zeuss: physical strength is not the same as physiological strength.
They're not in any way stronger. Men are the beasts of burden while the women hoe around with their entitlement mentality. They live off the men's sweat and this constant pressure is what break men down.
zeuss: Females are physiologically stronger than males...even as new borns male babies die of issues that will not kill female babies..... surgeons will also tell you that in the theater female patients are harder to cut while operating.
And you think you have made a valid point. So they are no longer the weaker sex. Men hustle and carry all the load and bills while the women sit and wait for the man to die for them to take his wealth and begin to fuvcck one younger guy.
ExAngel007: A woman called a radio station to make a confession about how she handled her husband's infidelity.
The woman, from Nnewi, Anambra state, said she married when she was really young to a Yoruba man and their union is now blessed with two sons who are in a university in Canada.
She explained that her husband has always been good to her and she lacks nothing but the only issue was that her husband was promiscuous.
She explained that she had warned him about it multiple times, yet, he won't listen. Instead, he became more careful and started communicating with the women via email since it'll be harder for his wife to check his mail.
The woman, who is in her 30s, said her husband, in his 40s, has been living with high blood pressure and later came down with a stroke.
While he was in the hospital, she had access to his phone and saw all his emails to the 4 sidechics he was keeping.
She said that her husband was also really generous to the women and she found receipts showing all he had given them.
She said some of the women had sent him messages, asking why they haven't heard from him.
The wife said she responded as her husband, telling the women that he's out of the country, and the women sent him things they wanted him to buy for them.
When the man recovered enough to go home, the woman said she waited for a month to pass while her husband settled back into their home.
Then, a month later, she said she brought out all the evidence she had gathered, and her husband, who was confined to a wheelchair and wearing adult diapers, broke down in tears.
However, she told him it wasn't the time for tears.
She said she then sent all their domestic staff on a break for a while then sent a message to one of her husband's side chic, telling her that he's back to the country.
Pretending to be her husband, she told the sidechic to come visiting that the wife had gone to Canada to visit their kids in school.
The sidechic arrived, carrying a bag she packed for the whole week.
The woman said that once the side chic entered their home, she used the central lock to secure the house and she had the remote so that the sidechic couldn't leave the house.
The wife said the side chic had no way out and then she made the woman cook and clean up after the man for the entire day.
She added that at some point, when the sidechic was changing the husband's soiled diapers, she was turning up her nose because of the smell.
The wife said she finally let her out of the house after she had worked for the whole day.
Over the next two weeks, she invited the other sidechics, one after the other, and treated them the same way.
She said one of the women threatened to scream but she asked the woman what she will tell people she came to do in the house when her scream attracts them.
She added that she told the sidechics that since they enjoyed the man with her when the going was good, they have to suffer with her now that the man needs all-round care.
She explained that after the two weeks, all the women blocked her husband by themselves.
She said she then played for her husband the CCTV footage of the women turning up their nose and showing disgust while cleaning him up.
She explained that her husband, who is now better and has regained the use of his hands and legs, has become a changed man since then.
Tareq1105: Some idiots were on the platform yesterday saying bcuz the pastor was not bringing enough tithes and offerings.
Church growth is critical bcoz that's the essence of the gospel.
Living Faith Church headquarters funds its branches and pay salaries directly.
If you were commissioned last July and a year after, you cannot bost of 10 regular members then you're underperforming.
And again, remember 10,141 pastors were engaged in 2020 and 40 (less than 1%) were disengaged a year after for underperformance, I think it's fair.
The problem I observed here is bcoz it's church and, more so, Oyedepo is involved.
. And that's the reason why churches should not open branches anyhow. It takes money to run it and by the time you open churches in every nook and cranny you will be under financial pressure. Churches are meant to teach and disciple people in any location they find themselves, no matter the number of persons that attend it. It doesn't have to be a crowd. Churches use crowd to deceive themselves that they are performing. It's not crowd that God uses to validate a person's work but obedience and faithfulness. As long as the pastor is obedient and faithful to the assignment, he should not be sacked. However our churches of today are more interested in large buildings, financial enlargement, crowd, and my Mercedes is bigger than yours mentality. Guiding souls in the way of God pales into insignificance to them when it's not in a place that is financially rewarding.
Now Ikpeazu.... People from here have something in common sentiments.
No wonder Nnamdi is misbehaving..
Soon orji Uzor kalu Chinedum orji including his father go wear their own Dot Nation...
If this energy can be translated into good governance then I will say it is worth it but it is just built on stupid sentiments..
Ndi ala
. Your hatred for anything that gives the Igbos joy is turning to mental health issues. Watch it. It's like you joined Nairaland to troll Igbos. Igbofobic aboki.
TimmyTen: Great stride … Thumbs up to Obiano for making this airport a reality. We can now take a direct flight to the state, going through Enugu or Asaba is about to become a thing of the past.
. While the roads in the state are in their most deplorable state as during the times of Mbadinuju. You do only an elitist project, while things that would benefit the generality of the people and the down-trodden more are left to suffer.
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