₦airaland Forum

dedonfranco:
People are hungry

You should be reasonable for once. Is that the issue now? Did Sanwo Olu impregnate her or not?

kenedyx:
Actually thanks for this suggestion.

Better to buy it cheaper and share the profits with him. So it will be sort of even.

Great input.

Or buy 50% from him and the rest from others.
Don't leave your brother entirely out of it.

Harddiskng:
A woman that is happily married and wouldn’t want to leave her husband is telling other married women to be comfortable with divorce

I find scenarios like this common among women, I wonder why

You lack total understanding of her point.
She isn't encouraging people to divorce, but saying if it happens, people should learn to accept it as a reality of life, especially when it's done to protect a person's happiness and mental well being.

CruelDove:
That kind of ill mentality is mostly common among poor men with inferior complex disorder. Rich men don't think that way. They are never stingy with their money.

Another relationship employee.

Tombrown3:
I've had countless girls send me their nudes on WhatsApp, and some of these girls are considered "good girls" outside social media, which brings me to this question.

Is it advisable to have a serious commitment as marriage with any of these girls?

. Does sending you nudes make her a bad girl? It's you she sent them to. Habaa.

siofra:
Are you a christian?

. Olosho follow for Christian too? Olosho claiming Christian.

Jennyclay:
You killed her because of #60M? . There are many rich men who has spent more than that amount on their ex girlfriend and they didn't kill her.

I pray this case shouldn't be swept under the carpet.

Justice must be served.

Rip to Ms Sani

. Lesson to hungry and thieving leeches like you that wouldn't go and get a job.

Kewtt:

Not gonna be a good day for ipob miscreants and ESN terrorists

. Tinubu have been recruited into IPOB/ESN.

DaddyCK:
Guys, serrrriously.. can you honestly hold yor womans hand in public or kiss her in public, especially at a cenima or shopping mall like shoprite..or even during a sunnny day?

. Yes na. Very simple matter. I remember many years ago when I was much younger, then I did some naughty stuff inside the cinema with her. I won't tell you what we did.

aisha1314:
Why are women always shamed so many if their sex tape or nudes which were made or taken without their consent are leaked onto the internet?

I ask this because I feel such shame and embarrassment is quite unnecessary since they aren't the only people having sex; it's something natural that everyone does!

And also, is there any way for a person that this happens to to get justice here in Nigeria?

It's like you want to leak your nudes. Go ahead, I am waiting to see it.

gasparpisciotta:
He has failed to render his annual returns, please don’t hand over Nigeria to someone who cannot be trusted

. Your mumu level is terrible. When you no longer do business in a place, you allow the company to be struck off. It's common practice.

DispatcherLagos:
Ndi Ama Akpá
I hope she will personally come to witness to me

Same thing as me. Please if you know their contact, tell them that she should come preach to me. Only her and nobody else will I listen to.

Mumu man and mumu talk. I am above 40 and I don't have a single health challenge. And there's millions of Nigerians like me.
It's criminals who steal our money like Orji Kalu that mostly have health issues early in life.

Brainmytool:
Make nobody condemn dem.
You are not better dan them, so shut up and dont talk trash about them.

They retained their old religion and not you that abandoned your for others.
If you are a
Christian
Muslim
Hinduist
Budhist
Judaist
DO NOT. i repeat DO NOT CONDEMN THEM because you are not BETTER.

I am far better than them because I am of the true and living God and His son Jesus the Christ.
It's you that isn't better than them. You can't drag me down to the same despicable life you share with them.

Kobojunkie:
Why must she pray because she doesn't want to leave? All the others wey don pray, millions of them are still at it so many years on. Why must she join their ranks?

The chances of prayer resolving this seems same as chances of winning the lottery. So why give prayer as a probable here?

It's like you like to rant unnecessarily.
What do you suggest for her to do?

Kobojunkie:
Go to any church or Mosque in Nigeria and you will find them filled with women praying for many years for God to change one husband or another. Is that all there is to a woman's existence?

It's not the only thing she can do as I stated. She can leave but she doesn't want. So since she doesn't want to leave, let her look for solutions to her challenge. And prayers is one of the probable solutions.
What do I say again?

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

May God defeat Satan for youoo. I don't know what to advise you because you said you don't want divorce because of the kids. If not na to leave the yeye man.
I believe in prayers too. You can try that if you have a good pastor to guide you.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

. Don't marry her. You would live in pains and regret if you do. She has a baby outside wedlock, is pregnant for you and is still flirting with exes and is stubbornly refusing to stop. Even to the extent of fighting you several times because of it.
The girl is nothing but a loose street girl. She isn't a wife or meant for marriage.
So leave her but take care of the baby from a distance.
She can never change. Changing the Sim is not going to stop her from whoring. If she can't stop the men from calling, she won't be able to stop them from accessing her pussy.
Don't destroy your life. You have made a mistake already by getting her pregnant but you can stop from making further and greater mistake of marrying a street girl.

Jennyclay:
I cannot even begin to imagine this sad news .

He just murdered 2 people like that .

No need to charge this man to court, Just beat him to death immediately.

Gosh! I hate men!

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spice123:
My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

. Your wife is definitely the breadwinner of the family and you are definitely too afraid to question her or you die of hunger.

MRAKPORS:
She is still ranting that I am insecure

. Do DNA testsooo Yolo. Your own yawa don burst. Once a woman is emotionally attached to another man and is defending it, you as her husband is weak and is to be pitied.

Jennyclay:
Hope it's not the usual nonsense 2k or 5k you sent to her . I expect you to send nothing less than #500k to your wife.

Onye oshi

happiness32:
This warehouse economist of a man don come again.
Is it bad for the NPA to have an office in London? The biggest city in the world? What if that’s a way of generating revenue for the NPA to become self reliant at the London office?
How will any sane president not want his country to have an efficient ports office in one of the biggest cities in the world.
Now I agree with Tinubu, Obi is just a warehouse economist and trader who couldn’t transform Anambra but wants to transform Nigeria. Bala bulu economics

Honestly you don't have any useful items in your head.

irunoko:
I am a woman and the consequences of irresponsible women create animalistic men.as a woman I suggest the men come together and push for the LEGALISATION OF DNA test immediately after Child birth.its high time men start protecting themselves from unreasonable women

. This is a good innovation but I don't think this is available in Nigeria.

All those toxic nairaland ladies will run away from this thread.

faceland:
If he is the one in that picture, those kids are his (they have the shape of his head).

The woman want her kids after divorce.

My thoughts too. She's into the pastor's wife and wants to leave and be with him, but she wants to go with the kids. Hence this story.

Banbutton:
Best qualifed to lead Nigeria to doom, but least qualified to lead Nigeria to success.

Afe pls be specific with words.
A GCE ANINI can't rule the Great nation.

. I think Afe Babalola is now IPOB. Isn't he?

aylagos:
Wait how is this a news ? Is this what you guys reduce the person of PO to. Shame

. I know your pain. You would have preferred the woman's skull to be mined in your region.

Diyaiyanu87:
Why was she tied with ropes...!!!

. Someone that's supposed to be in ICU, tied up like goat that's about to be slaughtered in a hospital corridor. Nigeria health care system and the mentality of our health care personnel.

Jennyclay:
You should channel your advice to your sisters & daughters and not me.

Nonsense!

To you dearie because that's what you advocate here. Gold digging and urgent 2k.

Jennyclay:
Oh no! Not again! Not again! .

Why are men this heartless and wicked? . These ritual killers should be sentenced to death.

Women are endangered species in this country.

Rip to the departed soul .

Urgent 2k gone wrong. Better learn now.