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Two things are involved here.

1. Our military men are no longer vigilant as it was supposed to be. They are mingling so much with civilians especially all these girls selling stuff around the checkpoints and it makes them lose focus. You also see a military man on duty surfing the internet. Doing Facebook, Instagram and Whatsapp. What a silly act. This is why those criminals will always catch them unprepared, attack them and they(the military) never record any successful counter attack.

2. Most of the force men have joined different cults. So, among themselves, the military unity is lacking cos you see ur colleague who is a member of different cult as ur enemy.
Most of the attack u see are cult war among the military. They have joined students' cults and some of the cult groups found in the societies.
Some of these force men are also working with these hard drug Lords. When they interfere with the business of another drug cartel, you see them bn attacked.
So, many crimes are going on in this country with the help of the military men. Most times, we get confused where the attacks come from.

Don't just keep saying IPOB while the main criminals are overlooked. Using a wrong prescription to treat a sickness can never cure it. Rather, the sickness will keep getting worst.

ontarioache:
Hello all,

A mutual friend has drawn my attention to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7357845/complex-marital-issue-thoughts-please/15#117128240

MY RESPONSE.
First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.

Well, I am here to set the record straight.
I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.

To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)

For the readers, what happened is this :

You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.

I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.

In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)

I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.

Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.

Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.

Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !

I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.

Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.

Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes!
5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.

Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.

Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.

How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.

I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.

Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.

I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.

Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!

I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!

Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!

How I wish I can talk to you and with you privately.

an0daGuy:
Hehehe this bang guy. You too like quarrel pass fight. You don’t disappoint at all. Your ‘I too know’ level is alarming and worst is you’re ignorant on this particular case in question.

So you’re saying my personal experience isn’t admissible here? So what is your own fact and how did you arrive at it? See how quickly you ran to same google to try and bring up a flimsy counter to my narrative. At your age

On your head I rest my case jare

Op for what it’s worth, based on the experience I’ve had for 2 years with these engines in the exact vehicle you wish to purchase.

1. The 3mz is more fuel economical than the 2gr

2. After any unfortunate case of overheating the 2gr is more susceptible to extensive damage than the 3mz.

Choose your poison wisely and leave that guy above to go to heaven and look for who to bang.

You are very correct.
I drives Sienna with 3MV engine.
I was traveling one morning and my sienna had transmission issue. I topped the oil. Before I could drive for 5 mins, I noticed that the engine has started over heating.
When I stopped, I noticed that the transmission oil was just freely pouring on the road. I mean pouring as if my gearbox casing was broken.
The road, was very dangerous. I was traveling alone. My destination was still about 1hr 30mins drive going at the speed of btw 100 and 120KMPH. And I can't go back to the place I took off from cos it is almost the same distance to my destination. You can't even get roadside mechanics till I get like 10mins drive to my destination.

I waited for the engine to cool down a bit. I topped water to the radiator. I took off again. The worst was the gear can't go beyond gear one and two.
I kept driving this car that way which put lot of pressure on the engine which resulted to serious over heating. I will drive and top water. A journey of about 2hrs 30mins took me more than 5hrs to arrive. The highest speed I could attain was 40kmph. Sometimes, I could not even go beyond 20kmph.

What am I trying to say. I was surprised that when the mechanic finished bleeding the radiator, no damage on the engine.
I repaired the gearbox with N150,000. It about 1yr now and the engine and the gearbox are still running efficiently and no issue.

My friend drives Sienna 2008 with 2GR engine. Small overheat caused serious damage to the engine.

WHO CAN PASS ??.

I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend
and I decided to get married.
There was only one little thing bothering me...her beautiful little
sister.

She was 22, wore very tight miniskirts and generally was always
bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me
and I always got more than a nice view and it had to be
deliberate coz she never did it when anyone was around.

One day she calls me over to check the wedding invitations.
She was alone when I arrived and she whispered to me that she
had feelings and desires for me.
She said she wanted me just once before I got married to her
sister.

I was in shock and just quiet! She said she is going upstairs to
her bedroom and if I wanted one last fling I should just come
upstairs and get her.
I was stunned n shocked as I watched her go upstairs and I made
a u-turn straight to the front door, opened it and headed to my
car.

To my surprise , my entire future family was standing outside, all
clapping hands!
With tears in his eyes my future father in law hugged me and
told me they are very happy that I have passed the test and that
they couldn't ask for a better man for their daughter...and
welcomed me to the family.

MORAL OF THE STORY
"Always keep your condoms in your car coz I was on my way to
fetch them when I passed the test".� JOO!!!

TheNiceGuy:
I meant decapitate. Didn't take note.

Besides, are uniform men not sacred to be paraded in this way

Police stations or Army barracks or their personnel are not generally regarded as sacred. Though every human life is sacred, but the word sacred as u used it in that statement cannot be attributed to the situation.

TheNiceGuy:
They'll soon desecrate the young man

No Ipob caught deserves to live.

They ought to be slaughtered like a ram along with their supporters.

Useless People

Modified.

Ipob Terrorist on Nairaland like gidgiddy, whiteangel1234, Emergingnation3 need to be trailed, arrested and prosecuted

Not every word fits every sentence even if the meaning is close to what you want to say.
How can you say they will soon desecrate the young man. What concerns a Policeman and sacred?

Invictus Obi Exposes The Website Where He Made Part Of His Billions While Warning The Public To Stop Comparing Him With Hushpuppi, He Is Not On My Level.



As a seasoned criminal journalist of Virginia, Obi’s case fascinated me as I wondered how a successful businesses man that graced the front pages of several business magazines found himself in jail. I reached out to Obinwanne Okeke popularly known as Invictus Obi, for a prison interview and he kindly accepted. I met Obi on a hot summer August day where he greeted me with a firm handshake, a confident smile and the charisma of someone very intellectual. My interview was to find out his journey, thoughts and regrets as he now starts his 10 year prison sentence.

David Pright Talks to Invictus Obi About Prison and What Brought Him There

Hi Obi, Thanks for Accepting This Interview, How Are You Doing?

I am doing very well thank you, I am alive and healthy which I always give thanks for.

How Did the Journey to the Frauds you Are Accused of Come About?

I was doing a little here and there but the level changed through this one particular friend I used to look up to. I visited him one day and he was living very comfortably with 3 new cars and a huge house at a young age. When at his house I noticed him on a website www.logblock.co that was selling crypto and money highways. I asked him about the website and he showed me that he buys bank and crypto logins from there and easily withdraws above $20,000 at a time, that’s how he was funding his lifestyle. In 15 minutes he demonstrated it to me and from there I tried it myself when I got home. After successfully doing my first transfer so easily it was hard to stop after that. From there I got introduced to other money making schemes that got me where I am today.

How Is Your Reality Now You Have Started Serving Your 10 Year Sentence?

Transition from the outside world to prison is hard but I have to face the music. I did what I did and I accept the consequences. I am just making sure I become a better man day-by-day.

How Much Money Have You Made from Fraud?

I didn’t really keep count, I am a very ambitious person in anything I do regarding money. I believe I will always be an overachiever.

Lets Go Back a Bit, How Would You Describe Nigeria Growing Up?

Nigeria is great when you are young and naïve but when you become old enough to fend for yourself you quickly realize that Nigeria is a hazardous obstacle course that most will never navigate their way through. Nigeria is a beautiful country but poverty is too widespread and you can’t rely on the government for help but you have to find your own way. Basic needs such as 24 hours electricity is unheard of, fuel scarcity is common, inflation is high and many are dying of hunger. Most Nigerians are in a state of desperation.

According to Your Case Charges You Made $11Million?

Then there’s your answer, you already know the details.

People Compare You to Hushpuppi Who Is Also Facing Jail if Found Guilty, What Are Your Thoughts?

It’s insulting, me and Hushpuppi are not on the same level. Hushpuppi could never achieve what I achieved. He cannot run a business and we are not similar in any way. He was out to please the crowd, I was out to change lives, create jobs and conquer the business world. I have done so much for my community back home with my charity foundation, which lives has he helped? Nobody.

It Sounds Like You Dislike Hushppupi?

No I have never met him, but I just find the continued comparison very annoying. Our impact on the world is very different. I have made a much more positive contribution to society than he has.

What Do You Miss Most About the Outside Life?

I miss being in business, I was a workaholic and most of my joy came from growing my businesses bigger and bigger. I miss family too and of miss my daughter.

What’s Your Advice To The Youth of Nigeria?

Pick your role models wisely, look up to great leaders and people of good character that look after their communities and families. Believe and you will achieve. Also remember life is a marathon not a sprint.

Source: https://citytimesblog.com/?p=281&fbclid=IwAR3ws5s1DByTVDO3Nq8VSYCE7QoLvTXlFoTaUf97Vdfp0HsqASZcZp_EX1M

The guy even stole people's Prayer Requests that were inside the box.
But, I am still confused here. How did he took the money?
Was it during the offering or he went to where the money was kept and took it?
Is the boy a worker in the church?

What if he had succeeded without anyone seeing him.
Imagine the kind of confusion and accusations that would've followed when they went back to collect the money from where it was kept (ie if the boy collected the money where it was kept)

OP, pls clear us on hw this money was stolen.

JackDaAlienz:
I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family.
Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys.
My uncle warned my dad not yo try it.
I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes.
For some reason he didn't adopt again.

Fast foward to 20 years later
That my father's friend is living in hell,
He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim.
They even beat him up and steal his money.

Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption.
Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling
It's a huge mess.
This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all

WHY IT IS NOT GOOD TO OWN A CAR.
I was on my way from Owerri to Enugu this morning.
On our way, I saw a very fatal accident. 12 passengers were mutilate. Their body parts scattered everywhere on the road.
The bus was hacked into many pieces. It was a very terrible sight. To enter a car is not good.

This is exactly how this your post sounded to my ears.
For the fact that a particular adopted child became troublesome does not make every other child waiting for adoption a no go area.
You mean to tell me that all the yahoo boys are adopted children?
All criminals are adopted children?

Why not say that it is even bad to bear children cos you can give birth to a criminal.

Have you thought about this....what if it was failure of the man to take good care of those children as his that led them to join bad group?
Failed parenting.

Is this Rapture or Rally.
Happening now in Lagos for Peter Obi

F0olish Defense.
So, if he eventually becomes the President of Nigeria (God forbid BATthing), once there is a problem of the country that disturbs him, he will run to London to hide from such issues?

Strong men do not run away from their responsibility.
They face it and tackles it.
Bola Ahmed Tinubu, you are a weakling running and hiding away from your responsibilities.

Abdul05:
These are the areas where many ibos are situated in lagos

Fear of the south westerners is haunting you guys..

F0olish comment.
They avoided those areas that house lots of Lagos criminals waiting too cash into this rally to cause problems so that Peter Obi and the Igbos will be blamed.
The Igbos and generally the organizers of the rally are very smart and intelligent people who have the good of Nigeria and Nigerians at heart.
You can now cry as much as u want.

Fear of the south westerners is haunting you guys

Every gentleman especially, the one that has an important place going to, will always try to avoid fighting with motor park agbero and mad men. It's not necessarily bn afraid, just that he noticed that it does not worth it wasting precious time with someone that has got not destiny in his life.

Your oga is a very silly man.
The good thing is that you have good numbers of evidence against him on this.
Your colleague and the multiple mails you sent to him which he never argued are all evidence against him.

Start looking for another job. If he finally tampered with your salary cos of this, take it up with him and make him pay dearly.
There are lots of lawyers that will like this kind of case.

Nigeria don't make use of the data they have.
Once something like dis happens, if it is a country that have good data base and knows how to make use of it, they will just blacklist this defaulter.
He can never get loan from any institution.
He can not even renew any of his documents.
Can't even recharge his light once it finishes

Some of these restrictions will force him to go repay the loan.
Useless boy. He may have taken the loan to flex with women and drink.

This is just too bad.
Stop attacking the force men. It is never accepted anywhere in the world.

Meanwhile, our military men are becoming too careless.
They have started becoming too comfortable these days.
Lack of vigilance.
You will see them at the checkpoints bn totally engrossed into phone pressing and doing too much of social media stuff.
I see them get so much distracted by their phones and little girls selling stuff around the checkpoints.
How will they even respond to attack when they are not combat ready.
Military men are trained to be ever combat ready.
They are trained not to be distracted even in the middle of distractions.
They are trained not to be too comfortable in the midst of civilians.
They really need to wake up if they want this killing to stop.
If they are always at alert, they will neutralize these small boys that keep falling them every time.

RIP to the fallen Gallant Men.

Please, they should go ahead to burn the petrol just the same way those seized cocaine were burnt.

Prince2bad:
It's obvious you don't want to learn but I'll teach you still.
Consequences...
You withdraw some financial allowances to curb your child extravagant lifestyle without considering the consequences.
What if he has gotten into drugs? What do you think withdrawing the financial allowances will do to him?
You think a thief will stop being a thief because of jail?
You fear the lord your God but those that stop you from sin? Or what makes you think that kicking the person won't take the life you're trying to protect?

You can't teach what you don't know nor give what you don't have.
Your response here is as good as nonsense cos you ended up saying nothing.
I am wondering the kind of kids you will bring into this life with this kind of mentality.
If jailing criminals will not deter others according to you, then we should let them keep committing crimes?
Well, saying that jailing criminals will not deter others is a very ambiguous lie you want to convince yourself to believe.
Punishment deter a large number of would be offenders from attempting the crime. Yes, there are some that may think they are smart and will believe they know how to go through the crime without bn caught. They try to go ahead from committing the crime. Still the inherent punishment will still deter them from bn too careless about it apart apart from those that have big men and government supporting them.

If jailing criminals, to you, cannot stop crime, then let us abolish every law and adopt your system to see how this life will be.
Even petting or constant counseling of criminals will still not make all criminals change their ways.
So, what sh!t are u talking about?

Prince2bad:
I need you to read this and hear yourself say it...
You don't care if the punishment damages the person as far as it's to implement correction? You're so pathetic I swear

You are a pathetic soul. Your condition need to be pittied.
You are the one that needs to read the trash you're typing here.
To be sincere,I don't care if the punishment will damage the person so long as the correction will save the person from greater damage to his life and that of others around him.

If I see someone trying to swallow poison and if I can kick him to make the poison fall out of his hands, I don't care about that, so long as I succeed in saving his life and the agony his action may cause his family.

Due to your paucity of wisdom, you believe punishment and discipline are all physical. To you punishment means flogging and beating. You lack wisdom.
If you're becoming to extravagant, I may withdraw some financial allowances I give to you to curb your extravagant lifestyle. That is a kind of punishment. Stop exhibiting your lack of wisdom.

adekolaelect:
Noise makers are confused that they don't know what to say abt the failiour of their party .yeye dey smell .... They will still come out to some one when they can't win 3 states in the coming election.

Is this the best English you can write?

UYEMDO35:
Funny u. ����

Lol

Whoknowsme:
Haaaaa, I'm not like that pls. Just want to get something doing

Don't mind me. I was just pulling your legs.

Whoknowsme:
Pls can anyone here help me with a job. I'll be so grateful

Help you so that you can finally become the boss when the person that helped you be under you and be taking orders from you... abi?

Prince2bad:
Inflict pain on a child all so the child won't be corrupt is what you call good teaching? Obviously you have lost your sense of reasoning and I doubt if you know what's good and evil or you're one of those religious bigots that believe murder is good because religion told him so... SMH

You're a pathetic soul. There's no way you'll twist this that will make me attempt to reason this shit you're spewing.

I stand with my words. I believe in discipling or punishing a child or anyone that refuses to adhere to right conduct.
Call it inflicting pains is that will romance you wack belief.
I don't punish to inflict injuries. I punish to correct. If your belief is to allow children grow anyhow they want, then apply that to ur home.
In my home, every child should abide to good characters

Prince2bad:
I can see you fear thy Lord and he has given you the wisdom to brutalize children... SMH

You're talking to the wrong person. I know those people that the devil have mandated to spread false teachings to encourage evil in the world. So take your false teachings to somewhere else. Move.

Prince2bad:
So children are supposed to fear their parents? You must be a Christian coz your narrative sound familiar

You must be very dumb and ignorant.
If you don't know, children are supposed to have fear of their parents. That fear guides them till they are fully grown to make intelligent decisions. The fear of getting scold or bn punished by parent is not bad in children.

Fear of punishment serves as deterrent from doing wrong.
So children should fear and respect their parents.
You're very free to feel otherwise you poor and pathetic atheist.

Them don swerve ur phone come give u another phone connected to either a kidnapped victim or murdered person.
Tracking will be pinned down on you as a member of the kidnapping gang.
Continue.

Stephen2324:
My then girlfriend is happily married to the man that told her to leave me and marry him

His reasons was I was still young that I will still be able to love again

Bruh na man dey do man

That means that the man is a very sincere person.
He never came to deceive the girl.
He came for marriage and he fulfilled it.

U wanted the babe for sex.
I believe, u are not married now.
That means, you would've kept the girl up to now with no direction.
Probably, at the end, you will still dump her for another fresh babe.

The girl took the right decision.

If at all there is anything one can be boasting of, let it be on the thing you achieved with your smart brain and hard working.
Boasting of what nature just bestowed on u naturally seems so fo0lish to me.
Nature can give big or small nyash to anyone. It's not cos u worked for it.
You can be tall or short not cos u deserved it. Just nature distributing her things randomly.
So why all these boasting.

U get nyash and u no come get boobs.

Burial jollof no reach Osibanjo. Common Champaign they could not give him. What an insult.
How came every one has a cup of wine and they did not give my VP even if say na for disposable cup.

PandoraObi:
Jesus Christ slept in the boat when he was tired during the storm on the sea, Jesus Christ is GOD that came to earth in human form, Tinubu is mere human

You are quoting the bible like devil did.
Don't quote what you don't understand.
Jesus Christ never slept off on duty.
When Christ completed His service for the day, as they were crossing over to continue in another city.
He decided to rest a bit. He went down to the downstairs of the ship where it was the appropriate place to rest or sleep.
That was where he was when the tempest started.
He never slept while on duty or when His disciples were on duty.

Your old man keep sleeping on duty.
Is that how he will supervise the running of this country?
He will be sleeping when a decision to sell the country is taken and he will not even be aware of it.

This is somebody's look-alike