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0KNM:
Sorry sis
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Hmm just hope the laughter is with me and not at me. But if its 'at' me, no worries.

The game is for certain people, that is why some of us got no reply. Its kinda rude though. Would've stated that its for a close circle only. Ppl do that when its for only them and their friends. Peace.

So painful, but just leave since she doesn't appreciate you. Its all you can do.

Guys should be about more than sex and ladies should be about more than money. Nigerian men should value their women, and the women should value their men. Never think your people aren't worth a good treatment.

The holes irritate me.

How can somebody tell you they will give you 60k, not only you sef, many ppl, and you will believe? In this naija ? Where im wan see the money?

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If a girl has banged you then she must have liked you. You bringing the food before you could ask is due to your own nervousness

Well, for OLDER women, it will be useful, rather than chasing after some men who are feeling themselves too much. If one is an older woman who cannot deal with chasing men or bearing their nonsense, and degrading treatments, she could get one.

They look awesome. I like small weddings.

Even if some are old and 'ugly' and so on, what's wrong with that? And what is wrong with them looking for partners here? What is wrong with men accepting old and ugly women? Why does that concern and pain you? Perhaps the old and ugly women did something to you? It would be sad if you just hate them for what they are and not that you are bringing this lot of trouble on yourself because one of them troubled you. That would make you childish.

What is the cause and purpose of your vendetta?

Why degrade and demean them and lower their worth to fellow men? Hmm.

Anybody and any gender at any age can be raped or manipulated. Old and young people are often decieved or coerced into something they don't really know the implication of. We should be careful and watch who we follow. Maybe going to a mans house is better off limits because people twist things to look like you knew the deal, even when you innocently visited. Some ppl are so traumatized and desensitized, so used to this, that when they go into a man's apartment, they expect it to be sex, even. It's sad.

Terrible.

This is very sad.

eni4real:
Stop spending for ladies that are not related to you!!!
It saves you from being stupid!!!

Stupidity is when you spend on a lady in order to get sexual favour!!!

It is better not to spend on them and ignore all their financial needs than spending just for sexual favour!!!

Be responsible!!! You have struggling family members, don't you??

Spending on a lady that you are not related to is stupid, but having relations with her is not, eh?

They just created her so that when you enter her life you can just do whatever and go? Wait a minute, isn't that worse than being a prostitvte? Because even a prostitvte has some value, which is money, attached to her. Home girls get nothing, marriage no, committment no, nothing, just had sex for nothing , isn't that worse than a prostitute? So you can do the most intimate thing with another human, which is sex, and not care at all, as in ignore all her needs as you said.

Then they should sleep with the family members na. I wonder who was born for you to just have your way and go. No wonder God created marriage. He knew the evil in men's hearts. So this is you people's plan? No wonder the man is sleeping with his daughter, as per its only his relative he can give money.

foolbuster:
Ofcourse, you are absolutely right. I am not saying the life of elderly women suck. I'm just saying elderly women shouldn't get worked up when they see an older man dating a much younger woman. Its completely natural. Hope you have a wonderful day ahead

Yeah thanks, i wish you the same.

Guys, stop asking that every favor you do for a lady must be repaid with sex. Don't sleep with every girl that comes your way or sleeps in your house. It is not always necessary. When you think you are a fool for spending without sex, when you are so stingy, it can easily result into you starting to sleep with your kids cuz you cannot do anything for free, you must always gain. Even your daughter starts to look like she must pay for what you are spending on her.

Therefore learn to spend without always putting your dvck in that hole.

foolbuster:
i bet if you had a choice between a younger man and a man in his late 40's all things being equal ofcourse naturally every normal woman will gravitate towards the much younger and vibrant fellow. So why pick on men that do same?

Besides you can't change nature, fact is a man's life and a woman's life are not the same. A female's body is one of her greatest asset and you women know it and flaunt it but same can't be said for men. Unlike men, there is a reason women don't neccessarily place priority on a mans body, what women need is security.

A beautiful young woman with her beauty alone can achieve great things that a man never can with his looks alone. Young women are just beautiful. Who is not attracted to youthful beauty? Even your fellow women(lesbians) or do sugar mumies go for their mates?

Beautiful young women in their prime control even the most powerful men, that is the time they should secure their future. Women can't waste away their youth and expect to be treated the same when they are older, no one can eat their cake and have it. Every woman had suitors especially when they were young, the choice was their's but the beauty got to the head of most and they forgot a woman's beauty don't last forever.

Would you support your 50 year old brother that is not married but wants to settle down and start a family to marry his mate? Naturally he will go for a younger wife.

I know you are a woman but a man and a woman can never be equals.

PS: point of correction. A womans uterus is what makes her a woman. So it's worth everything.

Well, this perspective makes life seem sour for the older woman. But, nevertheless, I feel real life is different from the gory, scary picture that nl puts up. While working at a school, i saw many older women who came to put their kids in the creche. There were many new mothers who were not very young, probably 30's, just having their first kid or kids. They were many and married newly. Young mothers were there in abundance too, with rich husbands, but not so many as the older ones. Mostly rich ladies with careers and rich hubbies too.

Also around my area there are a lot of restaurants and all. I see older ladies going in with these big buff men all the time, not so much the raw, very innocent, young ladies, though yes they are also seen but not even as much as the oldest ones. So what I'm saying is, in real life older women aren't shunned so badly, and, they are still seeing suitors and living quite well with all the options. So, I am not going to take this very seriously.

Social media is an illusion, what do we know.

foolbuster:
I know you are a woman but you should understand the male and female body are very different. A 60 year old man can still have beautiful children can you say the same for his female mate? Moroever you'll agree with me that men are moved by what they see, how can you compare an over 40 year old woman with her counterpart still in her 20's in your opinion do you think they have the same thing?
If you had a choice between a man in his late 40's early 50's and another man in his late 20's early 30's which of them will you naturally prefer?

I am not body shaming women. I just wanna have a mature convo.

A forty year old woman can still have children, not every forty year old cannot bear children. Forty year old men should marry forty year old women. What does the man think the young woman sees in him and his pot belly? Of course, she would be in it for money or he decieved her due to her naivety. Please, it is a selfish union. Why should a man be elevated above his female counterpart that is his mate?

Men are moved by what they see, do you think those girls moving with them actually like their own unattractive, old bodies? That's my point, they keep mentioning it like they don't have ugly bodies too. A woman is worth more than her uterus please, what is 'she can't bear kids again' ? Then guys can move with younger women but again older women can't marry, the men still protest when they see them with younger men. Its bad to free the men and enslave the older women. That's what this is all about. It can only rest when older women's choices are not spoilt by men as well.

If he doesn't like her body, has he looked at his too? Men always look at women while carrying unattractive bodies themselves, its unfair. But an unattractive old woman dare not look at a 20year old, it's unfair. Look at the picture here, old men clubbing and doing all sorts, while society is PUSHING their female mates down, shaming them, when both of them are old, society treats the man like he is still young forever. Its very unfair.

If i am 40, i would not mind my mate. Me being younger and marrying older is not the deal here. Marrying your mate when you are old is the topic here. So 20, marry 20yrs, if you are in your 30's, dont hate 28 or 30years like you. You're both mates. That's what i have to say.

foolbuster:
Please help me understand why older ladies are pained when they see a much older man dating much younger ladies.

Probably because they always downgrade their mates in the process. You can imagine men of the same age saying their own mates are old and what not. I think if older men did what they did without attacking their fellow older women, that might be fine.

What's the deal anyway? Always picking a little, little girl? What she has is what the older woman has, and more.

allandutch:
34 years old man dating a 17 years old girl? Come on! What is wrong with people sef?

He wants a 'young' girl now. 'Fresh' blood. Na wetin de scatter some guys heads. They are not thinking normal again. Some people better watch themselves, before they end up raping babies, all in the name of 'fresh' meat.

Mariangeles:
Do you sell your art?
How about that Instagram page we talked about to promote your art?

By the way, I love that piece.
What did you name it?

Hi, thanks for your compliment, it's inspiring!
I call that one 'Rose'

I'm making more art, better ones that i can show on the page. I sell sometimes, yes.

duchaB:
@ purples25, I know this is an old thread, I just bumped into it and saw this.

I am sure you are wise enough to know how to handle situations with equanimity. I trust you know better to Close your heart and mind to poisonous influences and advise from on here..

Adversities in life isn't meant to turn us into monsters but should make us spiritually wise and know how to balance forces that are at play in every situation.

What we call our inner life, is just a succession of our various reactions to different thiings that happen to us..

This is what makes us who we are.. A life full of terrible reactions is a terrible life.
We must learn to react with consciousness at evey point in time.
If you meditate at lot..you would become profoundly wiser..
Cheerio @ purple25

Thanks for the advice, i will surely implement it.

Martini101:
Really? Just like that

If he is serious he should get to know her and then get married if it suits them both. Not this kind of thing where she will risk her mental/emotional well being by having sex. Ladies are much more affected than guys on these things ( i did not say the guy doesn't either.)

duchaB:
To go and do what at the alter?

Get married of course.

Illuminated993:
I guess people talk about your nose..What do they say about it?

Lots of compliments. A few insults.

Just remember, if you guys have sex and something goes wrong, you'll be emotionally scarred. And then what? You'll move from guy to guy, getting more scars. Maybe you should just quit letting him play games. Its either he takes you to the alter or no sex. That way, he doesn't get to play mind games with you at your disadvantage. You won't be the one drinking panadol extra.

Collage

Didn't do too well on this one.

With this I say, no matter how terrible life might be, some of us are still living it.

People are sharing his pics and laughing at him. Some people think he ought not to be alive. But he is still living and moving. If he can go on while bearing this, so can the rest of us.

[quote author=frankdre post=87106713]spare the rod and spoil the child. That is not enough reason not to discipline your kids. or do u want them to be Marlians[/quote/]

Nothing like that.