₦airaland Forum

StrongAlphMale:
Such things only happens to a SIMPLETON!

a parasite and a liability who contributed nothing to his success would come and manipulate him into cashing out massively all because of an over used damaged kpekpus.

SIMPs are endangered species to our community, they deserve to be arrested, persecuted and executed

JoeEeL:
Good but very unsustainable gesture.

A 4 or 8-year presidency by Obi may only bring a reprieve.

A complete dissolution and dismemberment of this nonsense called a country and the ultimate definition of new borders around indigenous communities is d first step in d right direction.

I want to warn my Plateau friends, d moment fulanis gain significant number in ur place, its almost over.

U see how arrogant they are, claiming they are indigenous to Jos. That is d same way these riff-raffs claim to be indigenous to Ilorin, proper Yoruba town o.

Reminds me of Nnamdi Kanu, d wise sage, that says the clinging onto One-Nigeria is d stamp of your demise.

Ire o.

omoredia:
Peter Obi is just the best. When we get sense we go make u president without inec sef

AqualinaXYZ:
The legends APC miscreants mocked has moved on with their daily balling




While Tinubu is showing his supporters pepper



Thank God Eyeneck rigged in Tinubu



If Obi was the president we for no hear word on how Tinubu would have turned Nigeria to New York within an hour



My president( I’m not talking about Tinubu) go flex abeg

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

DrAda:
A couple of years ago, I would have said nothing but recently, I had cause to stay at home all by myself for nearly a day and I learnt a valuable lesson. Loneliness kills

Nazgul:
It depends on individual preferences. For some it's Companionship: Not everyone wants to remain single forever. At some point in your life, you'll need a companion you'll want to share your life with.

For others it's for Financial Benefits As crazy as this sounds, some people try to upgrade their financial status through marriage. Not everyone wants to remain poor forever most especially when they're aware that marriage can cure their poverty state as well as the poverty in their entire family lineage.

For some it's for procreation. Having your kids grow with both parents present is something everyone wants. Not everyone buys the idea of baby Mamas. Having your wife or husband stand by you whilst supporting the kids emotionally, financially, religiously...etc, is the dream of most people.

For some it's for Safe Sex Nigeria is a religious country and we were brought up to believe that sex outside marriage is fornication. So some people get married so they can have sex with their partners without having to sin against God through fornication.


And for the records, God doesn't care if you marry or not. After all Jesus didn't marry. He's only concern is that you live a life free of sin. A life that would glorify him.

mbaise1000:
He who comes to equity must come with a clean hand, we don't know where it started but I know that the curse of a criminal will not kill another criminal, I know that a soldier or anyone who dies on his way to kill others will not rest in peace.

inoki247:
Lol Dem don run you local so they've collected Processing fees or 499 GBP from you....


Like this you won't scale through the background check you will loose the 499GBP den dey will unleash another layer of the Format where they will ask you for another money.

With what I'm seeing your said friend might even be the ring leader...

Bkuz people in UK too are running people in Nigeria scam av seen several people been scammed from UK by dere buddy people no get fear of God imagine scamming someone who earn in Naira....



I just hope the desperation of you people that wants to Japa won't take away the little you're supposed to be using to enjoy nd lead una sef to depression....

Prec1ous:
If you cannot see the scam here, then go back to school

First, you can never get all those documents not even in a working and well civilised environment.

Second, they are prepping you up for more payments. You will pay till your dwindling resources will open your eyes to the scam.

Forgo the money lost now before you start chasing a unicorn.

By the way, here is the scam...

You will always fail the background check because you cannot get all the documents or you miss your deadline. So you Forgo the first fee.

They will then gauge your stupidity and tell you to pay to bypass background check, then tell you no more slots.

If you are still stupid, they will invent a customised format just for you.

Sorry

temitope66:
Which online hustle give you 2.7m

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Shomek:
Go find boyfriend wey go dey Bleep u everyday
try that for one month you go gain weight

Nicepoker:
Some are good many are not so good. One nut nurse made me have zero regard for most of them.
Imagine being admitted to treat typhoid. That was when I moved to a new location, the werey night nurse was like. Your family isn't here, you don't even have a girlfriend, pls dont die while i am on shift here o.Who is going to get you food.
That night I just put a call to the only friend I met in the same line of business. He arrived hours later with his friends.
Food was surplus even the mannerless nurse had a good chunk to get her hungry bowels filled. Most of them are weird. Few are nice.

Thonyb2:
https://.ng/2023/12/28/nigeria-being-re-engineered-for-prosperity-of-all-tinubu/

Putinofrussia:
Poverty don arrest Nigerians.

BloomingDale:
Lol

Ahmed0336:
I was discussing with my wife the other day and she brought the issue of relocating.
I told her I don't have plans to leave so she can go ahead. But as for the kids, they'd definitely leave this country when the time is right.
No be me woman go show shege for another man's land

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
All these dramatic beings

Imagine she said she is looking for someone who loves her


And when they finally see such man they won't reciprocate and take him serious
They will start coming up with other qualities.. how can a man have up to seven unrealistic qualities
They will say a God fearing man
A man who can last up to 3 hours on bed without drugs
A tall black bearded handsome man
A man who is rich with houses and cars
A man with a almost 7 inches dick and above to touch all their sensitive places

Totilopussylick:


Beggars gathered in numbers Infront of Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s Ikoyi residence not Nigerians.

EdiskyHarry:
Whosoever will spend about 46 billion naira on a phone deserves a life imprisonment 😡😡

Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

BloomingDale:

Anny69:
Men don't deserve women. A woman's presence in a man's life is enough for him. We deserve all the gifts and the merriness. Y'all deserve NOTHING!

MikoB:
I am sure privately Putin wants this unnecessary war to end already, but his ego willl not let him admit it publicly, Russia has lost more than they bargained for. Anything that makes this war drag long in 2024, you will see the end of russia, the west have seen that putin cannot use the nuclear he threatened with, this obviously have made the west to supply more dangerous weapons to Ukraine, by the time F16 and Rafael assault jets join the war in 2024,i think that will mark the end of russia in the war.

UncleKoboko:
Depends on your current renumeration from your job...

In this present economy, any job not giving you at least 200-500k monthly is poverty.

kilisi:
Not in my plans right now. Thanks anyway.

LikeAking:
Japa!

pansophist:
The US is at least 40 times bigger than the UK.

StrongAlphMale:
Instead of these ediots to make fuel and gas, foodstuffs and other commodities cheap so that the little boy's parents can afford what it takes to take care of the boy, they'll rather result in sharing public funds around.

If e reach your turn, just chop from the national cake and go your way.

Nigeria is gone!

LeoDeKing:
Mr. Macaroni was not expecting such from Sanwo-Olu. He thought Sanwo-Olu would have ignored him if he had attempted. See the speed at which he quickly responded stretching out his hand and bowing down.

People should stand for their own personal conviction and stop following bandwagons on social media.