 Family › Re: Not The Marriage I Had In Mind by REALretep(m): 3:55pm On May 22, 2022 |
Augustwife:
On several occasions I have asked maybe it's something I am doing wrong or not doing at all but he keeps saying it's not me it is him. Augustwife:
He has been sent to a specialist that works in aro (Abeokuta) twice but the doctor said he doesn't really need to be admitted he only administered drugs and counselling. Sorry about your predicament.
Don't give up just yet. Be strong ok.
There's no smoke without fire. You need to look for the smoke...not focus on the fire.
There may be something or maybe a past event that may have come back to haunt your husband, hence his recourse to alcohol for help. And it's likely a serious matter which he can't bring himself to tell you.
From the bolded statements above, your husband obviously has something eating him up which he hasn't been able to tell you. It also seems your husband told the doctor the whole truth which made him to just administer drugs and counseling.
You may need to secretly and calmly go to the doctor to help tell you what is going on and how best you can help your husband. To be able to help your husband through this trying time, you definitely need to be calm and in full control of your emotions. If you are not calm and understanding, it would be difficult for your husband to be able to open up to you.
I just pray your husband hasn't started contemplating suicide yet.
God help you.
Best wishes
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| Politics › Catholic Church Suspends Benue Priest For Engaging In Partisan Politics by REALretep(op): 10:46pm On May 21, 2022 |
JUST IN: Roman Catholic Church suspends Rev. Fr. Hyacinth Alia from the Priesthood for engaging in partisan politics.
Reports however say he was suspended from priestly ministerial duties and not from priesthood. 
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| Romance › Re: Help - I'm About To Start Dating Two Sisters (accidentally) At The Same Time. by REALretep(m): 4:03pm On May 21, 2022 |
questioner:
I'd like to summarize my issue, Confused on the way forward.
1. I met this beautiful babe at a restaurant - pretty face, fresh baby skin, nice catwalk. She was damn proportionate, average boobs, average butt, avg hips, average height, angelic look, you can take her anywhere kinda girl.
She leaves the restaurant some minutes before I do.
2. While driving out, I notice she's still at the bus stop waiting for a bus/cab, so I beckon her and gave her a lift home. We exchanged numbers.
3. Called her two days later asking to hang out, she was hesitant but I persisted and she later agreed
4. We chill out at a bar in the evening but she wasn't acting too friendly, not answering my questions and just behaving hesitant.
Infact, a friend I met at the bar wondered if i offended her, I explained we just met and don't know her too well.
Luckily, it was one of those Real Madrid Champion's league match days where Benzema was rescuing Madrid from the brink, which made up for her boredom.
5. We were about leaving when she got a call from her younger sister who said she was nearby with a mutual friend of theirs, so younger sis (YS) agreed to join us and then I'll drop them at home together.
6. YS came into the bar and behold she was a stunner! As beautiful as the older sis (OS) but she (YS) had huge boobs and was tall - not kidding but video vixen stuff.
Almost every man around turned as she made her way to us. I mean Those boobs was bouncing as she came in
She also turned out to be the life of the party extrovert, came in with a big smile, greeting everybody on sight and immediately initiating conversations.
infact about 3 guys came to the table adjacent us, just to take her number while we were there.
7. So I ordered another round of drinks and meat and peppersoup and since YS was easier to talk to, I was more comfortable
asking her about what they wanted to take etc, which annoyed the OS who asked why I was talking to her YS while she was with me.
8. It came to a head, when YS wanted to request for an extra bottle of water , I couldn't hear cos of loud music, so I placed me hand across her shoulder to pull her mouth nearer my ears (innocent action, believe me) so I can hear her. I suddenly got a slap in the back from OS who warned me not to try what I did again and totally stopped talking to me - I wrote her off after that incident.
9. Shortly after that, we decided to go home, I managed to slip my biz card secretly into YS hands and whispered call me, she looked annoyed and said 'why?'
10. Dropped the girls home and practically forgot about them, I felt OS was no go area and didn't think YS was going to call back...
11. Some days later, very early in the morning, my phoen went boooom....YS was calling and asking why I told her to call me. I suggested we meet later in the day.
12. Picked her up (at junction some distance away from their house) and brought her to my place. While I was still thinking of how to break the ice, she was already stylishly bombarding me with questions.
Do you stay alone in this big house - Yes
What job do you do - Banker
Are you married - No
Do you have kids - No
You must be old O ? - Just 31+
What about my sister - Nothing between us, I have not spoken to her since that day and that was also the first time we met
She seemed satisfied with all my answers cos she relaxed and became very chatty
13. She came back to my place the next evening and this time around we got smashing, it was mind blowing, she was amazing, energetic and that her long legs were put to good use.
I would have called her a 10/10 overall and one for the long haul aside the fact that she said she dropped out of Uni while her older sis is a graduate
14. She later warned we should keep things on the low for now cos her sister might not be happy.
15. Everything seemed to be going well until bang...bout a week later, I got a call from OS, she was obviously trying to win me back asking why I didn't call her back and sh*t
I just responded politely but she wasn't deterred, she kept calling like every other day, while I only called back once a while
in fact, I had to lie that I had gone for a training and would be away for the next 3 weeks.
16. Problem is, the 3 weeks will expire this weekend and this girl (OS) has promised to give me what she failed to do weeks earlier.
Talking smack about how she wanted to spend the night at my place but she was so angry back then bla bla and how she's looking forward to me being back.
Herein, lies my dilemma
Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going
Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something
Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes
What do I do?
a) Do the right thing and continue with YS
b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS
c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them
Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes,
I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.
But NL people, what do you think ? You na bad guy las las. There's no doubt that you have already concluded in your mind to chop dem both 
You fit even de consider three.some for your bad mind 
What I have to tell you shaa is that your time and energy on earth is limited. What you use them to do and achieve is up to you. Knacking women up and down is as pleasurable as it is deadly.
The choice is yours 
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| Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Signals Acceptance Of Finland, Sweden Joining NATO by REALretep(m): 9:44pm On May 20, 2022 |
InoGetJoy:
I understand. I just wish Zellenskyy will understand how the West is using him to get at Russia. Have you noticed that any time it seems Russia and Ukraine are arriving at a truce, one western leader or another will travel to Ukraine and promise assistance to Zellensky and he'll continue fighting? Well...that's true
But on the other hand, you are making it sound as if Zelensky and indeed all Ukrainians don't know what they want. They are not zombies bro.
They obviously prefer being the puppet of the West than the puppet of Russia.
Russia is like a bully big brother while the West is a 'friendly' big friend |
| Family › Re: I Need Help.... Marriage Counselor In The House by REALretep(m): 9:34pm On May 20, 2022 |
Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.
I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..
Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.
In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.
The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...
Thank you First of all, I think your marriage was founded on a faulty foundation. Both families forbade the marriage and you both arm-twisted them to accept the marriage... to the extent you spoke bad words to your mum. I wonder what your wife may also have said to her people. If any of your parents cried out of sorrow or spoke negative words concerning your marriage in his/heart, then your marriage will most likely face very turbulent challenges.
You and your wife have to be prayerful and may consider going back to your parents to request their support and forgiveness
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| Foreign Affairs › Re: Elon Musk Showed A Flight Attendant His Penis & Offered Her A Horse For Sex by REALretep(m): 9:19pm On May 20, 2022 |
Seems Musk has gotten on the nerves of forces that now seek to bring him down at all costs.
Maybe that's why he recently tweeted about his death
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| Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Signals Acceptance Of Finland, Sweden Joining NATO by REALretep(m): 10:15am On May 20, 2022 |
InoGetJoy:
Sometimes I wonder why you guys keep cheering NATO as if you have anything to gain from them. Do you guys even realize that the Boko Haram issue we're currently having in Nigeria is as a result of NATO's actions in Libya?
Damn! I'm not cheering NATO. I only stated my opinion on the matter.
But I'm definitely not in support of unnecessary destruction of lives and livelihood
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| Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Signals Acceptance Of Finland, Sweden Joining NATO by REALretep(m): 8:06am On May 20, 2022 |
MMWandali:
Putin has been technically defeated
He probably can't do anything now
Sorry Kremlin True
It's completely impossible for him to attack 3 countries at the same time.
He's completely defeated. He cannot stop NATO expansion. NATO is a moving train |
| Properties › Re: This Is Why Ive Been Avoiding A Shared Apartment. How Can I Handle This? by REALretep(m): 10:54am On May 19, 2022 |
Channah1:
With apologies to this fellow, I make this complaint.
Please, how can I handle this situation I found myself in this shared room.
I am someone who likes and respect peoples privacy and mine a lot and this was why it took me time to opt for a shared apartment until things got out of hand and I had to settle for it due to lack of sufficient funds.
The issue is about this fellow. The first night I got there, after a few mins she just went completely unclad. In my mind, I thought it was because she wanted to bathe, that she'll probably get into a nighty once she's done but to my surprise, she didn't. And the way she goes about unclad, bending in front of me is so disturbing. I feel like telling her to cover up a bit but I know I can't.
I know the weather is hot but hey... we need to show some decency here.
The first night I did that nonsense but that was after the light was turned off but yesterday, mehn... I couldn't continue so I wore my panties and later covered up a bit with wrapper but she'll just come and open everything waaaa... And its getting on my nerves.
This has got me wondering, so this is how this students leave their bodies anyhow?
I'm still trying to absorb everything about this new lifestyle because I've never seen such before. Though, when I was living alone, I used to go to sleep the way God created me. That is because I'm all alone. Not when someone is around. I can't
I asked the man in charge if I can put a partition, he said the fan would disturb it otherwise, I planned to call a capenter to come and partition my space. Its not too late. I might still get a mobile partition by weekend if I find something nice.
What do you think, fam.? Well... you both definitely need to discuss that
But the issue is that you have to first calm yourself down and accept it as her way of life and also accept that she is right to be as she pleases indoors.
Only after you have calmed yourself down can there be a possibility of a meaningful and constructive conversation about this matter between you two.
Going by the way you currently strongly feel about this behaviour of hers, the possibility of a fruitful conversation is greatly diminished since she is the first occupant.
Nevertheless, it's only a matter of time before you get recruited unconsciously in this same behaviour as long as you remain in that room with her for a while. You will soon start being comfortable with that.
The option of separating the room is a very viable option to protect you from being unconsciously recruited... but shaa you both need to have a calm conversation about it first |
| Politics › Re: Bello Muhammed: Dei-Dei Market Violence Was Not Motivated By Religion/Ethnicity by REALretep(m): 9:09am On May 19, 2022 |
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] GSA01:
“It is simply a matter of criminals and hoodlums taking the law into their hands and I implore every community in the FCT to ensure that community leaders identify miscreants, drug pushers, drug dens and drinking joints where crime and criminality takes place. The police and the military cannot be everywhere at the same time.
https://twitter.com/officialfcta/status/1527179818202275840?s=21&t=vu9IyHcL0MSFCQmiRMmQcg[/quote][color=#990000] Just imagine such a callous statement
We're good at deceiving ourselves in this country and trivializiing serious matters especially where human lives and livelihood are concerned. Call a spade a spade.
When the so-called miscreants are from a particular ethno-religious zone and those whose things are burnt are from another zone [/color] |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: The Hidden Underground City In Finland Built In Case Of Nuclear War (Pictures) by REALretep(m): 4:49am On May 18, 2022 |
A nation where leaders think ahead and take necessary action...not Nigeria where an old and tired man that can barely think for himself is foisted on us as President
God help us |
| Politics › Re: Asiwaju Takes Bed Rest As Associates Take Reins. by REALretep(m): 4:12am On May 18, 2022 |
Cheiii
See who wants to rule Nigeria oo |
| Politics › Re: Deborah Samuel: Police Declare Suspects seen in viral video wanted by REALretep(m): 5:06pm On May 17, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: Oromidayo, Ibadan Poly Student Dies After Taking Drugs To Have 11 Rounds Of Sex by REALretep(m): 10:17am On May 17, 2022 |
Ademola47:
Oromidayo, a student of The Polytechnic, Ibadan has died after taking sex enhancement drugs to have 11 rounds of Sex.
His partner is also in coma.
Photo speaks... How the pesin take know say they had 11 rounds of sex when one partner is dead and the other is in coma
People sef  |
| Politics › Re: Gunmen Kidnap Lawmaker Representing Soludo’s Constituency by REALretep(op): 6:01pm On May 16, 2022 |
Na waa |
| Politics › Gunmen Kidnap Lawmaker Representing Soludo’s Constituency by REALretep(op): 6:00pm On May 16, 2022 |
Gunmen, on Sunday evening, kidnapped a serving member of the Anambra State House of Assembly, Hon. Dr. Okechukwu Okoye According to reports, the lawmaker, popularly known as Okey Di Okay was kidnapped at about 6:pm. Recall that the lawmaker is the member representing Aguata 2 Constituency in the state’s House of Assembly, which is the Constituency of the the incumbent Governor of the state, Prof. Chukwuma Soludo. He also hails from the same Isuofia community with Gov. Soludo. Recall also that a policeman was attacked and gunned down by unknown gunmen in the same Aguata local government area on the same Sunday evening. Although, the details of the Lawmakers’s kidnap was still sketchy as at the time of this publication, it was gathered that the lawmaker was whisked away from his black Sienna car within his Constituency.-ureports Source
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| Politics › Re: Olumide Akpata And Osayamon Ogbebor Wedding Photos by REALretep(m): 9:10am On May 16, 2022 |
Beautiful pictures.
Governor Ifeanyi Okowa was there as well as other dignitaries |
| Politics › Re: I Will Resign On Monday - Rotimi Amaechi by REALretep(m): 8:11pm On May 15, 2022 |
Still using state resources for his campaigns.
Enjoy till tomorrow |
| Politics › Re: Barr. Morah Greets NBA President, Akpata On His Marital Union, Wishes Him Happin by REALretep(m): 8:09pm On May 15, 2022 |
Congratulations to them |
| Health › Re: My Rotten Teeth Is Driving Girls Away From Me, Please Help by REALretep(m): 4:56pm On May 15, 2022 |
GraciousGod190:
I am 38 years old and have never had a girlfriend, never dated before. What I do is visit brothel and back to my house, this habit have been with me since I was a young boy and sometimes I envy those people who actually talk about their ex.
You see it's not like I can't get a girl but I have one physical problem that's keeping them away from me, some only tag along because of my money. But when I stop giving them, they stop coming close.
Some cover their nose when I try gisting them, one even insulted me that I get mind o, to open my smelling mouth to gist her.
This is getting suicidal, the funny thing is I always join people to jubilate that "THOSE WHO DONT HAVE GIRLFRIEND HAS PEACE OF MIND" but deep inside me I know am a reject and I wished I had one.
As for my physical deformity have tried everything but its seems not to work. I'm feeling suicidal, loneliness every night and day.
After dressing nice wearing good perfumes, The thing is once I open my mouth and they see my teeth, it's over.. because of that I try as much to be on my own to avoid insult. What physical deformity is it that you have different from your rotten teeth |
| Politics › Re: Deborah Samuel: Northern Governors Call For Calm by REALretep(m): 10:34am On May 15, 2022 |
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| Politics › Re: Nairaland Online Polls For 2023 Presidential Election (Pictures) by REALretep(m): 9:39pm On May 12, 2022 |
OyigboUpdate:
I love peter Obi o. But I don't think he can tackle insecurity like wike Of course you are right
Peter Obi won't tackle insecurity the same way as Wike.
With an improved and working economy as well as well equipped and trained armed forces, insecurity naturally gets diminished |
| Politics › Re: Peter Obi Holds Close Door Meeting With All PDP Chairmen (Pictures) by REALretep(m): 12:59am On May 12, 2022 |
Why does this negative thought come to me that the bad guys that don't want the progress of Nigeria may connive to assassinate Peter Obi |
| Politics › Re: Abba Kyari: My life at Risk sharing same Detention with Criminals by REALretep(m): 9:28am On May 11, 2022 |
This is a subtle reminder that the world is round and small
Especially for those thinking the world is under their feet |
| Politics › Re: Court Declares Ebonyi Cybercrimes Law Illegal, Unconstitutional by REALretep(m): 2:56am On May 11, 2022 |
Good one |
| Politics › Re: Nigerians Should Prepare For The Worst Fuel Scarcity - Petrol Marketers by REALretep(m): 9:37am On May 10, 2022 |
smh |
| Politics › Re: Emefiele Heads For Court As Anger Spreads Over Presidential Ambition by REALretep(m): 7:07am On May 09, 2022 |
wolesmile:
…hires Ozekhome to seek constitutional interpretation amid rising criticism
• APC chair confirms CBN gov’s membership, says he registered in Feb 2021
• Emefiele’s action could compromise bank’s integrity – Ex-director, SANs
https://punchng.com/emefiele-heads-for-court-as-anger-spreads-over-presidential-ambition/ You can imagine
Since February 2021
Such brazen impunity. This is completely against the spirit of the constitution and the constitution itself
And we have a joke of a president who doesn't care |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Wants Part Of My Allowee by REALretep(m): 2:17pm On May 08, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..
Am I selfish You better save as much money as possible from your allawee during this your service year
Life after NYSC no be child's play
This same babe go laff you tomorrow if you go broke... better to be stingy than to be broke |
| Family › Re: What Is The Benefit Of Marriage To A Man in this present time? by REALretep(m): 7:40pm On May 06, 2022 |
BabaIbo:
Marriage they say is a beautiful thing but if you ask many men out there what marriage is to them or what marriage has brought to them or will they get married if they are given chances to rewind time, their responses will be in negative form or NO. You need to patiently seek out happily married couples around you and ask the men these questions.
You may have been asking these questions to the wrong people.
There are lots of benefits that come with marrying the right person for the right reasons.
Please do not marry until you are convinced of the need to marry.
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| Politics › Re: Emefiele's Associates Pick APC Presidential Nomination Form For Him by REALretep(m): 7:00pm On May 06, 2022 |
This is really really strange.
The Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria is a card-carrying member of a political party 
Nigeria is completely finished oo |
| Nairaland General › Re: If You As A Guy Don't Hang Out And Drink Go Thank God by REALretep(m): 10:13pm On May 05, 2022 |
WondaBeauty:
So what about being addicted to making money or driving women crazy
would you hate that addiction? You are indirectly asking me if I would hate being a slave to making money or driving women crazy.
I believe you know the answer already.
Slavery is not a good thing |
| Nairaland General › Re: If You As A Guy Don't Hang Out And Drink Go Thank God by REALretep(m): 4:40pm On May 05, 2022 |
WondaBeauty:
Being addicted is not the main problem but what you are addicted to is the issue to solve. Whatever you are addicted to, you become a slave to it.
Addiction, in whatever form, is not good.
You should be in full control of yourself |
