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Rawhumper:
I made it perfectly clear to her,i also told her i dont want to date her and she knows i have many girls so i dont need to lie by telling her about love, that was why i went straight to the point.

I forgot to tell u that she knows am dating her Boss but i dont care if she told her about what i said to her. Though i have not seen any change of attitude from her boss(her boss is sexier with balanced wicked butt that makes one scream dammnnnn!!).

You are right,that was why i dont call u her,i think why she said i should be the one to call is because she felt i wasnt serious by calling her often when she gave me her number.
Secondly, it will be improper for her to be one to call me when she has leave to come and fvck her.
She also has a boyfriend but i convinced her to skip her Bf for me,since mine is temporal.

I have not given a kobo b4,she even once said am stingy to her,i dont like to spend.

Rawhumper:
Bro please i seek your advice,nobody knows it all thats why i need you to clarify this: Plz be patient to go thru it.

There is this chick i met somewhere,she should be around 20.
She has turned down multiple guys that have been asking her out.

I want to bleep not inlove with her,so i met her one day and told her i find her attractive and would like to take her out far away from the Estate where nobody will see us together.

She told me all those girls that call me on phone whenever i was in her workplace,am i not satisfied?

I told her its my nature,thats why am telling her am not in love with her cos if i said that i would be lying and also put her thru many hurts.

Las las she agreed and gave me her number,she said we only hang out when she is on leave cos she works from monday to monday and comes back 8pm everyday,truly no chance but whats bothering me is she doesnt call me nor reply my texts but told me to call her not later than 8:30pm in the night.

I seldom call her,but she makes me feel she isnt into me by all this though she accepted to have a fling with me(Even requested we spend time in a place far from our area when she is free).

Note during that time i told her if she doesnt want she should just tell me no so that i can move on,since love or sex is by force but she said i should be calling her from time to time to know when she will have leave,that she wont call me to inform me if i didnt call her.

I will appreciate your advice alot...
Thanks alot

GLYCOLYSISS:
So,take care guys,and a happy weekend.
I guess these pills taste great !
Or you think otherwise ?

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]And how do you know this isn't "finding peace" for the guys here? Just like you found yours allow them find theirs too.[/color]

engrjoshua:
Our goal for the week is to revamp some old websites in Nigeria and add new features to it to make it more better..
The goal of this group is to encourage team work.
Each piece are shared amomg several members of the group irrespective of your learning progress. There is Always something you can contribute..

Don't waste time, doors are still open for new persons

luminouz:
Learn new words on a relationship forum? Most of those big ass words are better reserved for English students,not online peeps who want to get the message ASAP. Much of the message is lost in ambiguous words and its really a wasted effort on the OP's part. Now, many peeps dont even know what he wanted to pass across to them.

Who lost? Me? Nope....
OP? Oh yeah!!!

Martinez39s:
The association of single mums with children of bad boys/thugs wants you to take down this post with immediate effect.

Chii59:
More like husbands family is putting pressure on her to come back.

Twelfthman:
Yoo guys I am always in pain anytime I watch these episodes of Paternity court by Lauren Lakes.
Women commit paternity fraud and there is no law to stop them from doing that anywhere in the world. They always pretend to break down and wept crocodile tears ONLY when caught red handed.
My advice to to men is to understand their nature as a man. What it takes to be a man. Believe and accept it.
Don't follow society. Leave that to the women

Martinez39s:
GLYCOLYSISS, no vex. This is my last post. Let it not be as if I am derailing your thread. No vex

SkyFlint, skepticus, ubunja, regex, JONNYSPUTE, caveadullam, these are links to the the story of a 62 year old bus driver Michael Fife who lost his life at the hands of a 17 year old guy after he was accused by the teenager's 16 year old sister of sexually assaulting her in a bus. When police investigated the crime, they found footage evidence that the bus driver did not sexually assault her at all.

https://www.cachevalleydaily.com/news/archive/2019/05/07/logan-man-dies-after-being-falsely-accused-of-sexually-assaulting-teen-girl/#.XzPn2WnTUzQ

https://kutv.com/amp/news/local/logan-police-investigating-beating-death-of-man-falsely-accused-of-sexual-assault

https://www.abc4.com/news/local-news/false-sexual-assault-allegation-leads-to-mans-death/amp/

If only the teenage boy knew the red pill on female nature, or least had some sense, he would upheld due process and table it to the police. He is among the set of boys raised to be a blue pilled white knight/pawn of the matriarchy. It pays for the red pill to prevail.

pansophist:
As you grow into puberty and sexual maturity (12 years on avergae for boys), your hormones will rage for sexual stimulations and activities, and if you aint having sex, masturbation can be an outlet to push out those burning desire within.

Getting a girlfriend and practicing safe sex helps. You cant surpress sexual energy, its there, you only need an healthy outlet for it. So focus your energy in getting a gf. I am not sure how old you are, but bros, you need to look good. Do masculine things like lifting weight, look good and dress well. Get busy, and focus your energy and frustration in getting better. Pick a skills and do it well, and with time as you grow, you will have option and meet lots of women who would genuinely like you.

All those negative emotions you have surpressed inside you (yes you have it, I am a man and I have been through that stage), is a bio-fuel needed to make you fight all odds to get out your natural despicable state. Men by their circumstances of birth have no value whatsoever, hence, our SMV (sexual market value) are not automatic like women, but worked for. If a man do nothing worthy with his life, even at 35 years, the peak of male smv, a man shall still be invinsible to women and undervalued by society. male smv is worked for. I am not sure how old you are, but I suspect that you are really young, and still passing through the typical male reality of finding himself in a world that sees him as disposable.

When you understand this realities that surround maleness, you will be able to navigate life with a sense of assurance and hope of a brighter days ahead. So suck it up, and those bitter emotions you feel should be used to transform yourself. Look around you, the world is built on male suffering and the need to prove themselves, and you must prepare yourself for these realities. These energies and dynamics plays in the background, even though current society treats men and women like they are not distinct. Both genders are educated the same way, marked the same way, etc, but in the end, humans tends to revert to the natural blueprint. Do not fall for the nonsense of being emotionally expressive and talk about your feelings, those are feminine energy, not masculine. Men do things, not talk about it. Stoicism is a fundamental quality of strong men, start cultivating it. This to shall pass.

pansophist:
What are your vices?

pansophist:
No bros. I grew up in a Christian home, so all these more vice mentioned was not something I could do, and grew up not feeling any attachment to them. I didn't use books. I knew it's bad and just didn't do it.

pansophist:
None. My vices have been a chain-gripped long time ago. And you all should do the same. It saves you time, money and unnecessary stress. Self-imposed suffering is an unfortunate tragedy.

Martinez39s:
If a Nigerian lady has happens to have blue eyes, she gives birth to two daughters with blue eyes, and the husband finds out that the daughters ain't his, that lady and army of feminist/women will still say "let's do a DNA on the mother in case of baby switching."

Skepticus, am I lying?

Martinez39s:
@ Nyamuriflathead

I agree with your submission. As I have always said, no man should listen to or inquire from a woman about women, especially about their nature and manipulative and sordid ways. All women are basically the same.

Some foolish things I see among men who claim to be redpilled/alphas are:

(1) listening to women who are supposedly dishing out "red pill truths" or are nawalt signalling (acting decent and reasonable, and creating a reputation that she is different and cares about male issues and wellbeing).

(2) Allowing the participation and presence of women in the manosphere. The manosphere is a male space and no woman is allowed. It's even sad that I have to explain that this isn't misogynistic to certain men. No one cries misandry when women need their own space.

(3) Trusting and thinking that there are women who are sincerely opposed to gynocentrism and the benefits and power it has given to women. I sincerely don't know a zebra that believes there are lions who want to save them from other lions.

(4) Listening to women on what it means to be an alpha/"real man."

I think from henceforth red pill men on this forum need to learn to cogent act of ignoring simps' and women's trolling/foolish posts. They also need to learn the act of not expending so much energy engaging them or trying to prove a point.

CaveAdullam, JONNYSPUTE, Skepticus, Regex, GLYCOLYSISS,

sirzee1660:
Please ignore my grammatical error

I fall in love easily once I start communicating with any female folk ,I will start losing control, singing praises trying all my possible best just to make her feel I am into her before I shoot my shot by that time i am already on friend zone, some might declined my request infact every lady I woo prefer me being just friend with her. Even those ones that show interest in me once we started dating it won't last up to 2months she will loose interest not because of financial care or attention because I will do everything just to make the relationship worked. Am really tired right now am single ,no calls from any female friends,I am just lonely,all I needed is just a true relationship, my last date was hell, after everything I did for her she just ghost me and starting dating someone who later got her pregnant which she came to me for forgiveness and requested for money for abortion which I turned down.right now I have moved to a new location and I am deeply in love with my neighbor,I am still trying to avoid rejections, honestly I hate it right now...I want to stop loving I want to b on my own without having any feeling's with anybody, so that I can have rest of mind....this thing is making me to have low self esteem.... please help out.
This thing called love doesn't mean is not for everyone,I have tried all my possible best just to have one

pansophist:
No, they don't come directly and profess love, that is not a woman thing. What they do is that they drop green lights and behaviours that a man has to be daft not to pick it up. She will give you evidence and cues like a criminal desperate to be arrested.

The hoops and loops she would make other guys undergo, you'll be spared from. No billing, she will call and pick your calls with enthusiasm, laugh at even your driest jokes, interested about your love life, remember your birthdays, wants to spend time and special time with you (eg Valentine, Christmas etc).

Then you can launch your proposal. I do take women on a date, all I'm saying is that I do not just pursue a random girl that I have feelings for, I just let it fade off. I only initiate romantic negotiations with women that have already "chosen" me. Then it's honourable, and I won't feel emasculated trying to get her to like me.

Look at all species, of all the billions of species on the planet, only the human male think they choose a woman, which is not true. The female chooses the male, that's the natural blueprint, and if she accepts your proposal, it's because she has chosen you in the first place, and let you feel like you "won" her over.

CaveAdullam:
Recommend PDFs for me bros. Thanks.

Omar09:
Refreshing. I've been discovering myself lately, and in the course of it, I learned a skill.

Saintmary:
It means those infections are mostly transmitted through sex, not all times.

akaahs:
I begin to have trust issues with the lady I'm planning to marry when she infected me with a sti, and I think she is cheating.

ieemmanuel:
This your input is totally wrong, STDs can spread without even having sex.

Strepsil91:
You're right Doug, I gat this damaged sh*tter I've been assisting since the coronavirus lockdown started in the country, this pvssy gave birth and did what I don't know to the baby. She literally asked me to f*ck her and I refused. After giving birth, I payed for this LovePeddler's hospital bill when those motherfuckers*ckers who ripped her VJAY couldn't come around to help her get discharged from the hospital. This slowpoke left the hospital and within few days ran into a dude I know and propositioned him for whatever. Oh, i forgot to ask, she probably doesn't know her child's dad due to the fact that many dug in there. She has run wild ever since she left the hospital. There's nothing I didn't do to help this kid grow out of the lifestyle. I have broken every rule in the book to help her. She has asked me to date her and I pretend like I am but i don't and can't date her. She still prostitutes around, yeah, you read that right. Before she gave birth, I'll usually call her even as a total stranger to admonish her. I sometimes give her money to take care of herself and you know what she does? Yeah, she buys skimpy clothes to entice more men. She once used the money i gave her to eat to buy cloths with which she went to seduce a man in his office the same day I gave her the money. Hell no, i took this kid under my wing to help her stand. I tried the best i could to help her see her self worth. You can call me an angel in her life. I let her know she is beautiful and those men she fvcks around with should only be drooling for her body without ever touching it. I make her feel like she's worth more than Melania Trump by calling her sweet names. Men, i have been a father, a hypothetical husband(literally) a provider and a boyfriend. I have allowed b*llcrap from her that even her spiritual husband if she has any cannot ever allow. In fact, i don turn Jesus for this girl, the one that forgives sins and says, neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more. I've been a pastor and a spiritual guide, I pray for this kid yet, she can't change. She has the dumbest mindset of so many people I've come across. She still chases her fantasies and probably wants to catch a rich man who will be fascinated enough by the way she will whip him with her pvssy till he is confused enough to marry her. Damn, I captured it all enough to expose my identity if she comes across this. Only problem is, she is dumb enough never to read news on the internet. I downloaded and installed opera mini to her phone and she uninstalled it. Man, seems this one is made for the dust bin. I tried to build her but she's far gone. Finally, I thought it was simply because of her humble background, I only discovered that she is as vacuous as a goat. She is beguiled by a spendthrift lifestyle far above her begging grade(taa, which pay grade? She dey work?). I only hope she doesn't have the virus. She'll just die without any help. Finally, she is within the age bracket being discussed here, i don't know if that buttresses the point you are trying to make. I have a sister younger than her but smarter than this one. Not all of them are this dumb though. You could make such allusions about men but I have to tell you, I am in my late twenties but never seen any girls pvssy. I wouldn't allow pvssy to rule me. Still a proud male virgin.

Martinez39s:
How can I reach you on WhatsApp?

JOACHINpedro:
While it's a routine for us
Life no balance

Futurejoy:
You didn’t state that now. I was just scared for the poster and I thought you were depressed seeking for a depressed person ....it’s always fatal.

Futurejoy:
If I slap you.... what do both of you want to talk about? You want to share your depressing stories together and end up hurting yourselves. You both don’t need each other right now, you need help to overcome this stage in your lives.

DaisyII:
I think maybe like -1 or something...