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Martinez39s:
Feminists will rashly say that she was under the influence of her husband.

I can bet my balls she blamed her husband.

This code has to be very powerful to have bytes on a ten age.


Only programmers will understand that whack pun above.

pansophist:
Oh, I saw it now. I'll add you within the week

Aight.

KVN1:
yeah, thanks bro

I already sent you my email


.. maybe I should resend

nichotivity1@gmail.com

Already sent you link to download em books. Check your mail box or the spam.

Skepticus:
Its good you are offering to help but it's deeper than just reading red pill literature. He must have had a background knowledge of the red pill hanging around here. He'll need to do much more than reading to cure the "chaser" mentality. I've seen young men learn about the red pill, a little bit of game. Without frame, still thirsty and desperate, they rush into chasing women till they end up simping and embarrassing themselves before women worse than they did before learning the red pill.

In my opinion, I would suggest it to guys who have the mentality of the bolded, that they go their "own way" for a while to rid themselves of the chaser/thirst/desperate element, improving on other part of their lives, to build confidence, becoming the prize before getting back into the dating/gaming scene. It's quite difficult as you are re-programming your mind. It's like detoxification. I've seen it work.

I am but a humble learner. Tho I'm doing the bolded, not to rid myself off chaser/thirst element, but with the mindset of improving myself and to enjoy the world the best way I can. I didn't know I was killing two birds.

Thanks for this input. @KVN1 check the bolded.

pansophist:
Most times, it is naija ladies that actually pushed naija men to other races and nationality. Your narration about your friend is not uncommon, its the norm abroad. Naija men abroad have to be ready made before our sisters find them attractive enough to date. There are few who do not have that mentality, but good luck finding them.

Instead of this ladies to look at the mirror and check their ways, they will rather convinced themselves with all kind of stuff that abdicate introspection, retrospection, and and responsibility. It had gotten to a point that pointing out these distasteful behaviours is equal to misogyny, chauvinism and any buzzword they can immediately conceive.

Furthermore, there is one aspect that people often gloss over. It is about being fit. I honestly do not know of any beautiful, fit and well mannered Nigerian ladies that is single. They have choices from men of all races. The one that lack suitors are the bad eggs, fat and didn't try to maintain their attractiveness. "If I can't carry you, I can't marry you", that's the code men generally operate by subconsciously, even if they do not consciously affirm. The male brain is attracted to fit and nicely shaped woman, not fat deceiving themselves as plus size lol. Whatever

Check your mail big man.

sirjoe1124:
Move on she no like you

I already know that. I'm asking the women what they can contribute to this thread if they chat like that.

jornwhite:
She replied you appropriately, "How are you?" don do, bro move to present, "whats gud ? you sound cheerful xup", come up with anytin that she will av no choice buh to "xpress herself" shuffle topics till you know where her interest lies.
sometimes it is not these gurls fault when we ask jamb questions

A little I am fine and you would have taken the whole thing to a new level.


A girl into once chatted me, and all she could talk of was Food. It was an endless talk because I like food and I like to talk about different foods.

It wasn't phone call. @bolded, a woman who don't like you, or is skeptical, or never chose you will never make express herself.

Rukkydelta:
This thread ought to be for ladies
But as usual the males of nairaland have hijacked it

Me: How are you?
Her: I'm fine thank you.
Me: How was your weekend?
Her: it was fine.
Me: How is your day going ?
Her: it's fine.

This was a conversation between me and a girl this morning.....

Tell me how y'all females will contribute to this thread, if y'all converse that way?

KVN1:
but how do you eventually overcome a girl who suddenly becomes defensive... I think that's where my problem lies...
I've always been in a position where I have to struggle with them to get them laid...it works for me all the time because they eventually get to fall in love..... I've never gotten any girl without compulsion...it's always like I'm compelling them to know what it feels like to be with me.. I think that too can be risky.

I'm not trying to derail this thread. I believe this thread was created to help men get ladies while maintaining frame

Do you read? Send me pm I've got books to straighten you up.

Answering the bolded:

You still see yourself as a chaser. You have not viewed yourself as the price.

Skepticus:
For the rest of the guys, you can project your sexual interest to ladies that you love to bed without appearing thirsty and desperate like the brother above. Some ladies use this to great advantage by wearing skimpy clothes or getting flirty just to mess with your head and get you to do stuff for her like buying drinks, paying bills etc, with no intent of having sex with you. Learn to spot it quick and bounce before you project a weak frame to her.

Accurate! Very accurate!

KVN1:
very apt bro, very apt! but what if I had balls but lacked tactics..

You lacked the balls!

Skepticus:
You better move on with your life and stay on purpose before you do something stupid in the name of "having your pound of flesh". You can get accused of rape etc ending in jail or ruining your career.

The aim of the red pill is for men to see below the surface and stay on course as a man. Not trifling in life with unserious issues like running after the low-value girls in your neighbourhood etc.

Your effort is better spent on new prospects than wasting your time with women who already see you as a simp.

Nope “having my pound of flesh” is the only way I can feel like a man.

Some guys sef... 2mao if that girl term am rapist now him go say she wicked....

Even the girl get every evidence to prove he came to rape her. But guy man wants to “have his pound of flesh”.

ubunja:
what is JS

JS: just saying.

KVN1:
Hello redpillers,

I messed up again.

I traveled to another city for some business transactions.

Prior to that time, there's this girl I've been chatting with and making overt passes at( yeah, I've been raw and straight to the point with her), and whenever I say sth about making out with her, she turns me down weakly with words like"you're high, your head" etc

Once upon a time,I invited her over to my school,she schools in another state..She agreed to come, but I had to cancel, because I was checking my expenses.

Throughout last week,I was in the town where she stays,but I had to finish with most important stuffs first..

On Thursday,I gave her a call and asked her to come to the hotel where I was lodging..she begged me to shift our meeting to Sunday because that's the only time she's free from work. In the course of our meeting plans,she told me she'll be coming with her sister cos she doesn't trust me. I asked her to bring her purse along to clear her sister's bills..she finally coordinate shaa

Mind you,I was lodging in a hotel, and because I accepted the postponement,I had to pay for two extra nights (just to have sex... for my mind naa)

She called me two hours to our scheduled meeting time and told me she wouldn't be able to make it that she made some loss in the shop which she would be trying to pay back by working overtime... I became furious,but I was still calm.. I called her again, this time, trying to cajole her to come... that I already wasted cash for her sake...She stylishly dropped the call and claimed it was network..but this time,she was beginning to feel guilty...so I banked on that... I asked her where she stays and she lied about that...

I again remembered she once told me that so I traced her to her place.


On seeing me,she was so shocked, surprised...but happy that I could find my way to her place...

I wasn't having any of those, so I rebuked her severely, but this time,she was begging.I decided to relax and bit...she gave me a hug, but I didn't hug back..but after some minutes,the third leg took over from the brain... I kissed her in the ear twice, and she was relaxed. I decided to calm down when I noticed someone coming around.

So this time again,I made a move to hold her and bring her closer to me, but this time,she protested. This one come vex me. How she go get mind make me waste money for hotel still come dey do rubbish... I tried to catch her hand almost forcefully ..and we stuggled with it for some time with her claiming that I was hurting her

The biggest f up came when she started begging me to ''show her love" still no want make I even kiss her and I think I became needy...

I teased her with money but eventually gave it to her claiming she'd have gotten more if she had complied with our terms of meeting..

After I gave her the money without even considering what I've been through already, I felt scales fall from my eyes and I come realize say I don jonse..

Redpillers,abeg make una advise me because I dey vex..

I still want this girl to pay in kind but I think I need help on how to go about it..

Till today,she never even call me to know if I reach home in peace

Insults are allowed.

Count your losses and move on from the girl. There were signs but you chose run a red light.

What did you learn from this little experience of yours?


If you didn't here's mine!

Women will make time for the one she loves.
You don't need to persuade, coerce or cajole her.
No matter how selfish a woman can be with her time, resources and emotions, she'd never be that way for the one she loves and chose.

You chose her, hence all the struggles to validate yourself towards her.

Once the first appointment(date) with a woman fails, never ever try to fix another one
This goes hand in hand with the first bolded. When you fixed the first appointment and she shifted it to Sunday, you should have left to your place and never call or text her. She has to call you if you are that important. It's not pride or ego, it saves you time and emotions.

You can't make this girl pay. You lacked the balls in the first place, hence she'd still see you as a failure even in the future. Just count your losses and move on. This time be smarter with the next woman. it's a step by step process. You can't master all in one day or one girl. You made a mistake, you have learned new thing. Don't relent, you will make worse mistake than this although smaller than this, but you will pick yourself up and learn from it. GL

SweetCunt97:
Offcourse not

Then say no more.

SweetCunt97:
His fault? He simply fell for the wrong person.

And he's supposed to stay with the wrong person and try to make it work all the time?

SweetCunt97:
You are simply a scammer at heart. Imagine ur own friend? And shame no catch you to talk say u help guy defraud your friend?
You not a real nigger

He was warned.

Just maybe it would have reset him, but it didn't. He's in too deep!

emmaodet:
Waoooooooooo
Just waoooooo
Though you are right but i believe a woman closing her legs won't take her far.

Let me share my experience, I had a lady sometimes back, a long distant relationship but we do sexx chat a lot and she do show or send me are nudes pix and videos even when masturbating but for some reasons and my non-challant attitude, i didn't bang her despite financial commitment.
When i tried seeing her, she started dribbling me and i had to painfully stop the relationship even though up till today, i still get hurt remembering it.
At a point, she opened up she doesn't want to bang me but just for us to be friends.
What kind of friend is that? That i will be committing financial for nothing?
You can see she didn't open up her legs nor did i continued the commitment.

Baba this you na... For some, it would have continued till the girl decides on her own.


Here's a story I witnessed.

A friend of mine Prince liked a girl, the girl is a 4 on a scale of 10, he bought so many things for this girl just to show his love. Most times the girl will tell him she's no more interested and he will beg and beg. I told the boy to stop... Tried to reason with him but he never did. The girl never gave him sex. The girl told me one day she's tired of him, I told her to continue to milk him. I took the girls phone and she told prince she lost her phone and prince got her a new one.... Well, eventually she got tired and kicked him out.


Tho prince has packed out, but each time he comes to see me, he always asks of her. Till today.

I came late to the party.

ZenithMan24:
What if her past were rough but seemingly changed now ?

I hooked up with one down time ago and she was more like a girl dating for money, as she said, (citing poverty) but she seemingly changed and we were considering the future. I do not spend but she does more.

But some times I bring up that past and act like it's a deal breaker for me and she keeps apologizing and I make her apologize for days being sorrowful... I do not do that for the fun of it but that indeed I wanted her feel how hurt I was for she haven been that way.

But we come back and again the same cycle I play after some time, just keep repeating ....

So ?

Drop her if you can. But if can't, be careful with her.

Pass.

Martinez39s:

Chief... I just weak. Person go leave assignment weh our Lord and savior give am to teach go deh tell the world to accept promiscuity.

This message might not be what he has in mid to say, but to me and the world, we have understood maybe the opposite. People should first reason before them go talk... Na wa...


You no weak pass me. Guy.

They have left Jesus Christ they're supposed to preach and encouraging promiscuity in women. It's alright.

The man who claims his from Zimbabwe and lives in South Africa, never called Nigerian women slut or prostitutes or anything derogatory. In fact he calls it to every woman who is not a virgin. Take correction and let's prosecute him for calling all women whores...

fairheart:
Hi Rose! It's been a while. I know this is a thread for young men that are trying to educate themselves about the woman nature, forgetting that those who did not know and understand themselves cannot understand others. The knowledge of the woman nature begins with and ends with a man who understands himself and his purpose on earth as a man. I have never seen a man who knows himself that is not able to handle a woman like a real man. He is called the "evolved man", and he is not common at all.
In my opinion, some of what is being shared on the thread are important as education against manipulative women (who are increasingly sprouting at every corner of our society due to loss of values and ideals), but I'd expect the emphasis on the nature of man himself, and not on the woman.
Most of the young men on the thread don't know themselves and what a great man embodies, which is a huge subject area itself. Having said that, I am not a redpiller! But pansophist is really an enlightened human being and I resonate with some of his expository comments Nairaland-wide, which is why you saw my comment under his comment. And I've been good. How are you doing yourself?

No vex oh... But No I'm not a redpiller, and I'm doing fine and you would have spared you all this long tori ni.


Some people sef

klm38:
shall never end

They said.

[quote author= post=93552426]This is not the time to increase fuel price in our darling nation at all.

Not with all that is going on around the world, pandemic et al,
When people are finding it difficult to survive.

This is the same reason we voted out the party of thieves and criminals.

This is not the change we voted for.

The same way we sane, honest and hardworking Nigerians praised this government when they reduced fuel price sometimes ago, we should make sure we put our voice together to castigate and talk against this.

That is the voice the government will listen to,
Not the voice of children of hate, frustration and perdition that have never seen any good thing in our country,
That all they do is to wail continously in life.
They even wailed when the price was reduced.
They have been wailing since PMB won the election, even before swearing in!
They are not wailing for the common man like (Omotola) and all other sane and honest people are doing, but they are wailing in pain that the corrupt money being shared to them by the losers they support is not forthcoming anymore.
They have been so used to corruption, they see it as a way of life.
That is what we stand against.

Sane, honest and hardworking Nigerians,
Let us come together to Say no to this fuel increase, We need no increament at this time and please ignore enemies of the country that want the evil politicians they voted for to remain in power together.

This is not the change we voted for.
Something must be done about this NOW!
God bless Nigeria.

If you are a genuine Nigerian against this increase like us,
Signify and let us take it from here,
We have the Voice and the Power as citizens.
And if you are an enemy of the nation,
aka, children of hate and perdition, aka swines, and dare quote this post to wail,
May the suffering of the masses go to your heads and the heads of your looters you support a 100 folds.
May you be strike down with the hatred for our country that has consumed you from day one.
Quote, let us know who will be struck rn!

We Rise[/quote]I think your os has crashed.

Skepticus:
Why the woman no leave the house and not put her own life in danger?

Whiteknighting much?

A little bit of if I were your husband, I'd treat you right simp, to go with how do I meet you to save you from the marriage treat.



That woman might be turned on by violence. It might be her fetish. I don't trust the words of people who leak blood every month.

GGMU!

Messi should come to England and conquer it if he can. England is not Spain.

She is far above the age of consent. If they can prove he met her as an underage, fine, else they all bunch of depressed bitches who are jealous a sis secured her bag.