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CR777:
I don't do copy and paste from the internet, I say things the way they are.
U see this life, no one's got your back except yourself, have you been to prison on visitation before? Some men there have been abandoned by everyone, no one's gonna be there for you in times of trouble except your family, family in this context are parents, siblings and close relatives but the truth is, if you've got beef with any of your siblings or relatives, they won't even show up when you need them the most. Only your parents truly love you in this world bro, especially your mom, reason is cos she carried you in her womb for 9 months bro plus the umbilical cord is a natural reminder of how strong the bond you both share are, she's ready to sacrifice her life for u.

I suggest you stop giving a fvck bout how people in your workplace, church or any organization you are a part of sees you, always maintain your cool at all times, every man should have his own principles, if you don't, I suggest you should study yourself more, write down what you noticed about yourself and study them, make improvements in areas you don't like or wanna get better in. Stop caring about what people think about u, u know why? Our people say you can't please the world, do good and the world is gonna overuse you till they drain you, do bad them go say you wicked and the worse human on earth. I believe a true alpha is a man who has drawn the line and found a balance.
Do what you are there for, it's called a workplace for a reason, do your work and go home, these motherfuckers u are trying to impress are gonna be the first to envy or set u up when u bag a promotion in the office. I love the Bible, the stories in it are top notch, there's a lot to learn from that book, If Cain could kill his brother out of jealousy, imagine what a coworker posing as friend fit do.

My advice is this, find and associate with your type, we are all products of our nature and nurture, someone who comes from an abusive family or environment can never believe peace exists in other families until he experiences it himself, someone who was raised in poverty sees a rich person buying original Gucci clothes as a fool and someone who was heartbroken by a girl he loved so much is gonna believe all women are bad but let's be honest, are all women bad? Should we judge all women based on the experiences we've had with just a few of them? What even makes some people here demean and insult women any chance they get? As far as I am concerned, some have deviated from redpill and are practicing misogyny (hate towards women).

Back in 2016 when mmm folded, I lost a lot of money bro, a particular girl abroad I had an encounter with in the past sent me 150k to support myself that December, my guy friends only said 'sorry' to me. Shey if I decide to reward this particular girl tomorrow, some people here are gonna start shouting simp simp simp whereas they don't know the history I have with the girl and how many times she was there for me in the past.
See eh, I believe the word simp was originated by broke guys who are just jealous of rich guys and what they do with their money. These same men termed as simps also help out their fellow men when the chance presents itself and not just females, it's the way they were trained, to help people if they find themselves in a position to.
A guy was here begging for funds to fix his phone, I expected these hardcore so-called redpillers to offer him help since he's a guy and not a lady, well, none of them did.

You were making a whole lotta sense till you started drifting towards attacking a particular set of people.

Whatever you decided to do with the girl that helped you and the guys that didn't is of your own thoughts and will, and has nothing to do with TRP.

Why are y'all surprised? After all, there's a snake resemblance on her body

Skepticus:
Ubunja, Caveadullam and co don't know a thing about life and how it works. Psychologically-messed up and toxic guys corrupting the minds of young men. Just watch it, they'll label you a "troll" or tell you to "grow up" if you don't agree with them.

Once you have money, you cannot be played or even manipulated into losing all of your money.

Having a networth of a billion dollars and more is the only thing that a man needs.

You are a smart dude. You don't deserve to be on this thread with these low lives. We should create our own thread. What do you think?

I agree with you. They're all _bullshit.

Women and their narcissism, always think for every hiss and and "hi" is out to lay them. I wonder.

Saw where you dealt with her first and thought to myself that was harsh, then I read the post from the onset and saw. Although your actions has nothing to do with TRP, don't be confused there, at some point she deserves it, but this thing could land you in trouble as some guys around who may or may not have seen the show from the beginning to either lynch or beat you up the minute you were disposing off the content of purse. Next time, walk past the purse, and don't involve yourself, I hope she learns her lesson.

But I do know how it feels when you trying to help someone and get embarrassed in the end. It happened that one time I was going to school, as I was waiting for bus to come, this walked pass me but her zip got spoiled and she didn't know. It was very visible, I called out to her, she ignored me and continued walking, I knew she heard me and pretended not hear me because the second time I called out to her, I told her that her zip has spoiled and that I'm not interested in getting her number. You needed to see her freeze. Long story short, the next day she saw me again at that spot, I knew she recognized me when she smiled at me, but I didn't smile back because I didn't want to give her that impression that I got the slightest interest in her.

Gbest90:
This one must have staked really high.

That's NwaAmaikpe you quoted. Why are you taking him serious?

Don't be surprised if this story turns out to be another Bukola and Coza story

TheGuyFromHR:
You are in the western world now.
The Nigerian cultural mindset about the inevitability and desirability of marriage is baggage.

Choi...

TheGuyFromHR:
Prenups are generally a waste of time at this level.
Dont get married in the first place.
An unregistered partnership is fine.
Draw up a will and dispose of your property as you wish.

E be like say I no go marry for this world.

GregJo:
It's in the narcissist's best interest to deflect and accuse of others of what she is guilty of.

A lion won't admit to a zebra that he is the bad guy.

Whoever you quoted is definitely wrong, but recently narcissism in men is surging and it's disgusting. Whatever is the cause of it.

Abba114:
i still do not agree wth him I WILL SPEND TO GET LAID, I WILL JUST NOT BE FOOLISH ABOUT THE SPENDING I WILL SPEND WISELY

It is still welcomed mate. Your money, your rule.

ubunja:
he can be. It's just that it takes work on the part of the man. But it's very much possible. Someone told me Ghost from the TV show "Power" is such a man, but I can't confirm because I've never seen that show.

Ghost is that man.

gasparpisciotta:
A mother’s protective instinct at work

Most times, that love is cruel.

GregJo:
I want to have a orgy with your brain without condom

Say "No homos" or I call gay.

Anywho, if anyone at this point still think spending on pussy after what ubunja has written, should not be seen on this thread.

Skepticus:
Na by force to marry?

Women with their ogbanje go dey dia own jeje, una go go find dia trouble and wen dem expose una stupidity (that most men are, when they see vagina), una go begin shout.

Go your own way!

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advanceDNA:
You die becos of a woman’s action...??
Nigga pleeeeeease...are you that weak or just interested in dying...

I’m always prepared for the worst case scenario...nothing can hit me by surprise..
My imagination is so wild I have a protocol for alien invasion or zombie apocalypse....

You'll Never Walk Alone!

NwaAmaikpe:





He is really cute and doesn't even look autistic.
Autistic folks are really talented with specialized body parts. For Messi, it's his legs, for Warhol and Mozart, it was their fingers, for Tesla and Newton, their brains.
With the way he brings out his tongue, I think that's where his talents lie.

With those looks and a good use of his tongue, he will have the world in his palms and make good money too.
Don't start thinking dirty, I mean he should train as a motivational coach.

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I want Italy to win, but I need bank holiday on Monday.


I'm so confused now.

Lordswazz:
The problem with a lot of people is comprehension. He isn't complaining about her excessive pictures /videos alone. He's saying that because he can't avoid her boyfriend due to their business ties, he's always in the location where she makes these videos, and hence, she also takes videos ad pictures of him as well.

If she was uploading only videos of herself or her boyfriend, he would have cared less.

Well, he should be straight forward and tell her he doesn't like it.

pansophist:
Regardless if this story is true. Your wife is a smart woman. She engaged in the most potent weapon in dealing with idiots, by being indifferent. The opposite of love is not hate, its indifference. As far as she is concerned, you do not exist anymore, and nothing you do can harm her.

That's the most powerful way to disharm an idiot and save yourself unnecessary drama. But as for you, you've missed one of the purest joy of life, which is family. Watching your kids grow up, seeing the world through the marvel of your children eyes, making you relive being a child once again. Trashing out the deepest human cultivation you can ever have, which is with your kids and wife.

You've traded chaos for order, self respect for things-of-the-flesh. You've effectively become your own tormentor, and what you're passing through is the true definition of hell. At least I'm glad you didn't physically descended on her. I know for sure that no man on earth will treat my sister the way you treat your wife, me, my brothers and father will be his worse karma. Death would be preferable than life itself.

What you can do is be the father You've never been. Treat your children right and try to the best of your ability to make thing less worse. Don't fork things up again. I don't pity men like you, its only fair to reap what you sow. The future holds even more sorrow because your kids will grow up to pay you back, just pray they ain't as heartless as you made them to be. Sorry i have no advice to give.

I keep telling people this, but them no deh hear.

There's a new guy, I want to check if he's as good as you or better, my hypergamy is speaking.

pansophist:
Thanks for the admiration.

But if you want to be like me, which I guess you mean being smart, articulate, competent, and wealthy, then man, read like a mad scientist. Generally, I read at least 4 hours every day on diverse topics, but specifically about entrepreneurship, psychology, psychotherapy, history, and geopolitics. One thing reading does to you is that it helps your brain capture different writing styles, delivery method, laser-sharp diction, which helps you build an idiolect that is uniquely you. This is power as far as I am concern, and you will be undefeatable.

Writing is formalized thinking. To be able to expressly articulate your thoughts that have been forged in critical thinking, in such a way that your reader's eyes brighten up as it lands in their brain, is power, and there is nothing more than this. Pick the right words, redact, reformulate, and be eloquent. Words are the tools in which others can see how you view the world. You will be undefeatable. You will be beyond powerful. I am not kidding. Just read man, as much and much as possible. So yea.

Thank you man.

Arsenate:
Pansophist is so so intelligent so much so that the ladies on here who pretend to be intelligent don't even bother quoting him
They literally do not stand a chance so they act like they do not see his comments.

I'm a huge fan of his.

You notice this thing?

Instead of quoting him with their tantrums they end up professing their love.


Pan, I want to be like you when I grow up. I never finish to grow up, I still have like 5yrs of childhood in me (Anya bemu anya).

kaylov12:
Nooo, it's designer corn

Omo, I say make I ask before I loss.


So like this all of una have come to terms that you all will never eat banana weh sweet?

Mamatukwas and Co...

FirmTR:
But that doesn't stop people from seeing photos of him na

That is not your business.

Lexusgs430:
I can be petty.... But not showing off petty....... Even peacock's, can be deemed petty......

I don't feed anybody on this thread, I don't pay anyone's bills on this thread etc etc, likewise nobody does for anybody on this thread.......

So when someone accuses another of alleged showing off...... It's simply an extension of their inner self or reflection of abstract perception or wrong interpretation of situations........

I would not involve myself in petty explanations.......

I get.

But it was funny when you said, I can be petty but not petty...

Draslo:
My guy's babe is the worst. She's just past her mid 20s, currently in her service year. Her WhatsApp statues in a day is more than 15. She takes selfies of herself everywhere she goes like MTN.

After she posts it, if any of her friends saves that photo and reposts it on their own status, she'll screenshot it and post the same picture she posted earlier but screenshot from someone else's status. She could post 5 of the same picture this way. Now, normally this wouldn't be a problem for me since I'm not her boyfriend but I've been patient and my patience is wearing thin.

Everytime she's around whilst I'm there, be it at his house or mine, out chilling or whatever, this girl will make tons of videos and pictures before she leaves. Also this wouldn't be a problem if she won't post all the pictures online right after.

I'm a very coded guy and I'm in love with this my low-key lifestyle. I haven't posted any of my own photos on any of Mark Zuckerberg's apps in more than 2 years but this girl will just be tagging up and down on IG. Same pictures will be on WhatsApp status.

There's no point in talking to my guy about it, the girl can do no wrong in his eyes. We're business partners and cannot avoid each other. How can I be on ghost mode on my social media apps for a long time but someone is busy exposing me to the world. How can I handle this situation?

There's a button called mute. I use that for every girl, even boys that post pictures like mad. Hell I used it on my brother. If it ain't meme, I mute your status mate.


Use it and quit complaining like a _wanker.

Lexusgs430:
I am not that petty !!! Showing off in what context?....

So you are petty but not that petty.

No offense bro.

Rozcol:
So you are the one, ain't you scared of me

Nope. Faceless forum for a reason.

Preciousgirl:
Deal or no deal?

We fit use water?

Egbon sugar ni?

cPapaAjascO:
help me na... can u guide me through.

What am I suppose to be doing at this point?

Asking a girl for advice about a girl is the worst thing you could ever do.

Most times they don't even know what do in such scenario.

cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!!

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Tell you what, do what you know best to do. Do what your mind tells ya. It will still end, so no need.

When you ask the second girl out, don't do what will make this girl break up with ya.


Continue like thag till you learn.

Rozcol:
whoever that share's this your comment should come out boldly, no need to hide

Hi