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justwise:
Definitely very expensive though London is not just a city , London is a brand

Ilekokonit:
You can never go wrong with Programming / IT as a skills shortage is beginning to build up in IT again just like it did in the late '90s.

TosinKate:
Big lie indeed!


In fact, I got my first visa (USA) with a virgin passport, even a local flight I never enter before then.

shekauvsbuhari:
. People like you are the problem of this country. You reason like a low lifer. He has a right to hold his governor to account. He has a right to demand for sincere and accountable leadership.

Abba114:
several times even today on messenger app

Ilekokonit:
One of the "qualities" I have observed in the UK among managers is the fact that a lot of them have no conscience and they will gang up in a clique against you if you are not a Yes person or you have too much self confidence and they do this witch hunting against strong willed white people as well.

Many years ago I saw my line manager who had tried to control me without succeeding reading a book at KFC about witchcraft and the same manager at an outing told me that any time we are coming in opposite directions in the long office gangway he feels as if I am going to punch him and this is me who has a smile on my face and hold no evil intention against him. This shows that na him witchcraft dey worry am as he couldn't fathom how he had dominated people who had been there years before I joined but couldn't dominate me.

And you are correct, Oyinbo too can lie and generally when Oyinbo wan do evil, dem dey plan am scientifically that its effects are devastating to the victim. But chin up and don't worry as you will eventually get a GOOD job as a mans gifts and something he is very good at will ALWAYS open doors for him sooner or later. Delay is no denial !!!!

Gvnl:
Good evening everyone and Happy Sunday.

This Catarrh has lasted for almost 9yrs now. I've taken different medications but it's still persisting.

I have also done some laboratory test and taken prescribed medication, but no permanent solution.

Please help what else should or can I do to put an end to this menace.

Thank you.

lusco:
Ok, tanks alot

lusco:
Ok tanks but i want to go for masters in HRM and I intend going with my family and all the uni I have seen are all 1year, a friend said I might not get visa since it's: a virgin passport, 1year study and moving with my family... I really need advice and suggestions please. Tank u all.

Krismas:
I was admiring you true. 1. U survived in conditions he didn’t 2. U choose to preserve him within u, so his memory will not be forgotten 3. He will be remembered as long as u live. U’re amazing. If I told u I have N20k for u for being 1dafully made. Hw will u react? If u do not consider It merger, reply with ur bank, acct and name. Though i already know u’re Ene Monteze Onazi. Tanks

Yxwqq:
Which is why you should've been sensible enough to not condemn her thread. If I, who has been raised by both parents can be empathetic, you [who now claims to have been raised by a single parent /mother], should've had more empathy.

Juicypamela:
It's not all about gender

Juicypamela:
She fills that void an represents the role

mariahAngel:
You are you, the poster is the poster.
Do you and let others do them. It's not that hard.
What seems silly to you might not be to others because you don't know where they're coming from.

Juicypamela:
yes
She's representing Fatherhood an Motherhood
So we celebrate that role independently

Yxwqq:
You've failed to answer my question. Laughable.

If you celebrate your Dad on mother's day, I wouldn't feel any way about it. I would be empathetic enough to allow you to celebrate him, because I know that for every effect there is a definite cause. Secondly, it wouldn't be my place to tell you not to, as I've not walked in your shoes [hypothetically]; the same way none of y'all have walked in OP's shoes.

Yxwqq:
Some of the comments above are senseless and it's one of the reasons this site sucks. Why don't y'all let her celebrate her mom?


What is unethical and unbalanced about it? People will be using words they don't even understand.

Give me a philosophical argument on what makes her celebrating her mom on Father's Day unethical and unbalanced? You're talking to a Philosophy guru, so wassup?

Yxwqq:
Some of the comments above are senseless and it's one of the reasons this site sucks. Why don't y'all let her celebrate her mom?


What is unethical and unbalanced about it? People will be using words they don't even understand.

Give me a philosophical argument on what makes her celebrating her mom on Father's Day unethical and unbalanced? You're talking to a Philosophy guru, so wassup?

Juicypamela:
my dear the truth is that our mothers who are amazing has been doing exactly what dad ought to be

pansophist:
Story

Me I care about a woman's money. I won't need her to spend it on me, but at least, it shows she is not lazy and has something to contribute, not that if she want buy Maggi, she will be disturbing me.

Don't marry a broke woman bro, it's a mistake you'll regret if you try, especially in this present day Nigeria. Marry a woman that works, that is industrious, and can wear the helmet if requires. Being macho will lead you no where, be calming down really. Also, one of the test to determine if a woman is with you for person is if money is not her motivation. Even me sef, if Dangote toast me today, I might just discover that I am gay

Broke women are the most expensive to keep, they do not know the value of hardwork and will want you to afford the whole world for them, they are most likely to be dumb, entitled, lazy with stupid pride. I don't know any self-respecting person (woman) that will feel comfortable depending on someone's else solely for their livelihood, and if a woman is like that, RUN.

I don warn you, if you go and fork up, I will laugh at you.

ukaface:
A very myopic way of reasoning though.

I do have something though to offer asides sex.some of us have our brain wired differently.

KimberlyWest:
I totally understand your point, which is why I'm responding to this. Otherwise, I'd have read and ignored the mention.

All fathers are not the same, and it's why the Op used, "my mum."

And if kids in this situation choose to celebrate their mother on both days for playing both roles, then I have no issues with that. I wonder why some people do.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I still wish people would reason things from Op's angle. I doubt if it's easy celebrating a mother while everyone else is celebrating their father. She probably spent hours watching others post and wishing she could do the same thing as them.

Why people are acting like she committed a crime is what I'm still trying to understand.

bukatyne:
Are all mothers perfect?

If no, do you see people calling their dads super moms on any of the numerous mother's days?

KimberlyWest:
I was once like you, screaming, "Leave Father's Day for Fathers," up and down. Now I know better.

Some of these kids grew up seeing their mother shoulder ALL responsibilities. Not because the man is not capable of doing it or the economy is not favourable, but because he just chose not to.

After seeing all of these, you expect them to get up on Father's Day and write epistle about how their father is an exemplary figure, okwaya?

If any child choose to celebrate his/her mother on Father's Day, then they have EVERY right to do that. They're not bitter, it's simply a reaction to someone's action. Some of them have more love to give than you can imagine.

bukatyne:
Well womanhood is never enough for them.

It must be super mom, independent woman, strong woman, boss lady.....

There must be some sort of adjective.

bukatyne:
Tragic.

God bless your mum.

A super mom does not equal a dad.

The best your mom can be is a super mom.

Juicypamela:
Hi everyone I just want to wish my mum a happy Father's day for taking the bravest responsibility of taking care of us single handedly an enforcing the dual parenting in us
I Love you Mum
Happy Father's day to you an to all Amazing DAD(mum)

crackhaus:
Na only Ishi and Buka person fit take their comments on this thread as coming from a place of true objectivity.

The rest be like film-trick...

ubunja:
the difference between prostitutes and ordinary women (squares) is that the first charges directly while the second charges indirectly

Stay woke.

NwaAmaikpe:




The proper way to ask that question is;
'How are John and Mercy?'

The word 'are' in that sentence replaces any redundant adjective or weak verb/adverb. In this case it is 'doing'; so the 'doing' in your question becomes redundant and needless.

jtech17:
@ilekokonit you filled with wealth of experience... I know when I read through all your post... Honestly you, legxus , justwise and other Excos are really a blessing... sometimes when I see people in Nigeria say nonsense about the uk or abroad I ask them do you legxus and justwise on nairaland... then they say NO I tell dem what you are telling me has no reference and hence na lie...... this is fisrt hand unadulterated information... not all this dreamland stories we hear... I myself plan on relocating soon and hope to settle in d uk as I'm not married... these information on here has been my guide and has helped me to know what to expect and be emotionally prepared...