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robosky02:
To get it secret is to do yourself more harm

You can indirectly say it and that will help you become accountable

Carchoice:
Heart of a man!!


I sympathize with your elder brother in advance. Buy handkerchief for him on my behalf. He’ll need it soon.

Klass99:
Lol , brotherly I didn't mean all of you at all.

But, I am tempted to say majority of you married men need to be feared , because as a single woman the way I get hustled by them makes me wonder if my vjay is any different from wifey's own.

Let me recount a few of my experiences for you, using fictious names;

1. Tyrion was ready to brace mad traffic from his location to mine just to have sex. This was at a time when there was construction along my axis that would cause heavy traffic congestion.

2. Jamie told me he would like me to have a child with him, in order to create and cement a bond between us because he really likes me and feels a connection with me. A connection I wasn't feeling o - this is a childhood friend whose wife I also know.

3. Lord Stark called out of the blue one day to profess his love for me, after 14 years of marriage to his wife whom I also know. As a matter of fact he was double dating us at the time (me and wifey) but ended up marrying her cos I wasn't feeling up to it. After that initial conversation I blocked him because he was going to visit the city I'm based in and I know what he was looking for, e no dey pass sex.

4. I continuously lie to most and new acquaintances that I live with my sister and her hubby or my tenancy agreement doesn't allow me have male visitors, if you visit me we will have to sit in your car outside the compound to gist, because once they know you live alone, they start planning rendezvous at your crib.

5. Tywin wanted us to hang out and spend time together for an entire weekend, to put him off I told him I only do 5 star hotels, the likes of Legend Ikeja, Four Points, Radisson Blu etc. You know the room rates at these hotels is not beans na . So, when they think of the money they will spend just for pusssy most will take a bow

6. I told Little Finger I was HIV positive sef

Mind you, I wasn't dating any of these guys. They are just men I meet in the course of my career and work life or while I am travelling and we exchange numbers for one reason or the other and they start fishing.

I don't think post offices were lucrative in my Country.. I would have asked if you were a permanent staff in Post Office.... The way you were posting this perfect gentlemen .... Some were climbing the mountain top just to be with you even when the road was unmotorable to put a smile on your face.. that counts for something abi?

I was told once by a female colleague that it was really hard to be a woman... that statement really got me thinking...Funny enough, it was a white lady that said it... She said she get hits upon by married men a lot more than the single guys as if there was a placard that says Married men I'm available ... in that discussion, One said that any week she wasn't hit upon, she will double check if something was wrong with her or may be she was loosing it...

So on behalf of the good guys Out there, who feel that u shouldn't be harassed too much without "cause", we apologize...

Klass99:
I know 3 different people who have had the same experience (I mean the kids involved, not the wives) Two I know personally, one is just an acquaintance.

One family found out when the father/patriarch passed on and at the point of their father's funeral.

The other family found out through persistent rumours that could no longer be ignored, a bit of investigation and confrontation with the patriarch.

My acquaintance's family found out when the other woman showed up at their house one day, to harass their father for feeding money, fuel money for the gen, etcetera.

When a man puts his mind to something he really does achieve it, fear men o! Men have been running circles around us for ages but when a woman does something even similar guys practically break the internet to tear the woman apart.

No single gender has the monopoly of infidelity, knowing what I know in my offline life, I never for one day criticized, judged or castigated Moyo Lawal. As far as I was concerned she scored one for the team.

andyblinks05:
I've plan all that but they dont want me staying with anybody that if I should go I should atleast save 100k… .. how the hell can I get that… I intend going to lagos in order to chase my ambition in media and entertainment. Problem is where am at now There's no much means for saving thats why am desperate

andyblinks05:
am going to lagos from not and they are skeptical about it

Hashabiah:
God will punish this sexually immoral man

Haba!!!!!!...take it easyoo... He is practicing African tradition and it is allowed.....When you mentioned God, I guess u knew Solomon married more wives than the man and God still loved him

VTJN:
He wasn't referring to you

He meant he doesn't owe his distant cousin any explanation, not you

PuZZyNegro:
Have you heard of "I don't owe you an explanation" before? Actually I don't owe him any explanation. He will use his head to advise himself by the time I gave him excuses two three times.

Besides, I didn't tell you that I can barely feed. I don't know what's wrong with people of nairaland that they feel talking down on others or making a jest of everything is the way to make you feel better about yourself?

30k is a money I can easily give out if the person deserves it but not to someone I recently gave money to.