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Fulaniherdmens:
Im just eating same now.
Amoeba

drnoel:
Yes but pls note. A step father is different from a man married to the mother. Step father by name is not legally adopted. The legally adopted carries more weight in court.
Ofcos no one wishes for divorce or such unpleasantness in a union. The other thing is that we should learn to allow people reach their own opinions about something without attempting to project our own impressions on them

mysticwarrior:
Hunger bad

Fulaniherdmens:
Shut up, and how did u come to conclusion that it was the father of the child abandoned his child. Or the mother fled with her lustful partner and prevent the man from seeing the child. No man throws his money to a woman that won’t allow the man close to the biological father. Let him fend for the boy when he grows he will strike a bow through his heart right from the back....

drnoel:
This is sentiments. There are some countries you can't go to with another man's son hence the need to adopt the boy. I believe that's why the OP is asking the question. If the biological father is out of the picture and has been for a while. There is nothing against adopting the boy. Pls remove sentiments out of logic.

Lostchild:
As you say, I wanted to edit and use the word SOME, but instantly having too many flash back I held back. For me to generalize it is okay

Sorry bro. I just cannot stop seeing this vagina people in a bad light

Fulaniherdmens:
because he have not bought diapers since 4months of child birth u called him irresponsible. I believe you put yourself inbtw a father and son just to achieve your petty love like the child got no father. Truth be told, you are the nigga and your likes burn in women’s flames. “A Deluding thot”....
Biological lineage can’t be willed to a Sexist Nigga.

Easyincome24:
I personally don't know the extent the parents uphold cultural belief.

Why hair style means nothing to some parents so far the couple love themselves, it's a red flag for others.

He is not sure the side of coin this visit may flip.

Easyincome24:
The hair cut is one of the issues here as guy man is an upcoming singer but uses his hair cut style as his own branding.

Would he need to shave it off just to look presentable?

What if afterwards the parents saw his branding elsewhere won't that look pretentious?

Vulcanheph:
There's no proof that he was referring to the dead man.

akanbiaa:
Where do you get money to pay for the apartment since you said you are not working, if you want her to respect you then she must be convinced you are working or doing business and not draining your brother of resources and also occasionally buy her things she will cherish as present and with some cash also(the cash is best given when they have a child, just say it's for the child)

CSoul:
Thanks for your pieces of advice; she's reading everyone of them. Pains, tears and fears.

Publicity ("Banns of marriage" is part of the church's requirements). So yes, the shame on how to face the family/friends and everyone else that has been told about the marriage.