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 Family › Re: Be a good person by Richy4(m): 8:52pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
He should just take care of his kid and forget about label.. |
| Family › Re: How Can I Win My Wife's Heart Back? by Richy4(m): 8:40pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
bukatyne:I just have a question for you... Where did you hear all these? Are u a social worker? Or u witnessed it first hand.. I have noticed that most stories making around nowadays on social media/ online are just friction and fabricated just to make people talk / traffic.. |
| Family › Re: How Can I Win My Wife's Heart Back? by Richy4(m): 7:26pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
bukatyne:I agree with you Sis but not things like that happening to a daughter of the land at this day and age.. It's just absurd.. Please kindly look at what that guy listed there again. Even the ladies in the bible of old cannot take that... 6 Likes |
| Family › Re: How Can I Win My Wife's Heart Back? by Richy4(m): 7:16pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
One of those Corona Virus stories... you speak freely with your Girlfriend in your wife's presence, your wife did not talk.. After opening a shop for your lover , u still collected your wife's shop keys and gave it to your lover for her birthday, yet she didn't talk.. Hmmmm!!! is this the part two of War Room?  16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: Nairaland as a family. by Richy4(m): 4:58pm On Apr 30, 2020*. Modified: 7:45pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Nairaland... After a stressful day, I got some entertainment via Nairaland. When i read some stories here, There's always an individual that will make an epic reply in the name of dishing out an advice... Some times, u won't know when the laughter comes while holding your phone.. I have once read here long time ago, an OP was asking for an advise on how she can make her daughter an Aje-butter.. Some one replied that she should buy her butter... So when one happens to read all those things.. it relaxes an individual and makes u forget a bad day at work so it is safe to say that I have taken (entertained) from funny guys here |
| Health › Re: "Nigeria Will Do Anything For Ventilators" - Donald Trump (video) by Richy4(m): 11:50am On Apr 30, 2020 |
larrysworld:Do u really understand my line of argument? What I was telling the gentleman I was chatting with was if someone asked for help, there's no need telling the whole world about it. Though I don't understand what you meant by Nigeria being better than south America. |
| Health › Re: "Nigeria Will Do Anything For Ventilators" - Donald Trump (video) by Richy4(m): 11:39am On Apr 30, 2020 |
GamalNasser:I know that. If he answered and say something like there are African countries that requires ventilators and we in the United States has provided it to those countries , was that seriously a bad thing to say? With that no one will know which African countries it was.. |
| Health › Re: "Nigeria Will Do Anything For Ventilators" - Donald Trump (video) by Richy4(m): 11:08am On Apr 30, 2020 |
GamalNasser:More like when one is hungry and asked for help, they set up a meeting, appoints a committee and a press conference that will look into the hunger... Is the publicity about the ventilators really necessary? Every nation now knows that Nigeria is begging for.. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Worst Bridge In The World At Igwe Ito, Obi LGA In Benue State by Richy4(m): 7:17pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
I guess a KOPA serving in that community must have taken this picture. . 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Everybody Hates Me on This Forum by Richy4(m): 5:52pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Maybe u should learn how to comport yourself when in a public forum.. It's not really difficult to do... When you claimed to have deactivated your account, that was the best time to have had a make over and start afresh as u opened a new account... But No..u made the adage that says "a pig will always be a pig" look so real.. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: I Need To Make A Major Decision In My Life. Please I Need Advice. by Richy4(m): 11:32am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Don't mind me but I'm just wondering what a starter needed 260k apartment for? Why not mould the fufu/amala based on the size of your throat ?.. Saving is important to every millionaire not to talk of a "starter ".. u can't just hand your life saving to landlords because u wanted comfort.. Don't u think it's wiser to start by sharing a flat, as things progresses, then u can get your own accommodation.. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Caught With Charms In Wardrobe: I Am A Spiritual Man, Not A Native Doctor by Richy4(m): 9:30pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
But what are they going to charge him for? |
| Family › Re: My Husband Is A Loner by Richy4(m): 9:07pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
If u are looking for how to make him open up to you, no one here can give you that answer. This is because I believe u didn't see him and jumped into marriage. U did at least 4 month courtship before marrying him..and during those period He may have hinted his likes and dislikes. U got the master key, use it and u will hear him singing like a bird. This online /social media I guess is making some people lazy nowadays to think.. People just wanted others to think on their behalf.. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Richy4(m): 8:21pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
That sounds like a roommate..disappeared by 6am and reappears by 1am  1 Like |
| Family › Re: I Made The Worst Mistake Of My Life by Richy4(m): 9:00am On Apr 28, 2020*. Modified: 11:18am On Apr 28, 2020 |
I guess you are 20 now.. So it's time to get hold of your future and do something about it career wise.. If I'm that your uncle, it will take a very long time for me to look "your way.." WHO gave you the Boldness, the guts, the temerity, the ordercity, the effrontery to raise your hands and slap my spouse @ 17 for whatever reasons, Abi U chop juju? ... In my opinion, it's like you have made your bed, unfortunately u have to lie on it for now till further notice.. I'm even surprised u said u wanted to go home, which home? The home of a barren woman? Any one telling u here that u have to be forgiven just like that because u were 17 is not being realistic.. Yes u will be forgiven but things will not be the same anymore... I still insist that you try and dust yourself up.. the mistake has already been made, so move on and make something out of it.. Some thing useful that your aunt might be proud of even if she wants to forgive.. Playing emotional card/ blackmail doesn't work anymore for some people. 9 Likes |
| Family › Re: My Fiancee Is Pregnant And We Can't Marry Now Because Of Covid-19 Please Advice by Richy4(m): 8:15am On Apr 28, 2020 |
You are not the first couple to walk down the aisle with pregnancy. And u are not going to be the last. It will only be the talk of that day.. if that's what you were worried about. The next day, no one will even remember that you were married. It will be like that young actress and the billionaire older husband that was making news on nairaland front page here last year over their marriage. Theirs made lots of news because they were rich... now it's an old news. A lot of people has forgotten about it but they themselves haven't forgotten about the joy of being one.. So also u , u can't forget a gift that you got just to be politically correct in the eyes of everyone... don't harm that baby just to make everyone happy.. if u do it, u will be thinking once in a while assuming you kept it, would he/she have become the president? Will he/she be doing ABC instead of what your other kids are doing.. to avoid all that, just turn deaf ears and eyes during your wedding.  4 Likes |
| Family › Re: How I Overcame Spiritual Wife After Many Years Of Torments. by Richy4(m): 12:44pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
I wish I could meet whoever that wrote this so he can explain it to me very well  In my opinion, Masturbation AKA (self service ) got nothing to do with spiritual wife or husband. It's just part of habit that individual picked up as they journey in this life... Just like Masturbation, Someone who smokes, if he/she doesn't get fixed, will be uncomfortable throughout the period until the cravings was satisfied. The same thing with drugs, alcohol, snacking in the middle of the night etc.. When a child turns 13, there are hormonal changes, The kid wants to know a lot of things.. he/ she begins to admire the opposite sex or otherwise.. that is natural..it is curiosity stage. . It got nothing to do with spiritual stuffs or the devil if she dreams of someone he/she has been crushing.. At least I dreamt of one of the Spice Girls called Emma those days.. If u want to travel overseas and u got the money and necessary travelling documents, how will a spirit stop u from travelling? Which kind thing be dis self at this day and age? 6 Likes |
| Health › Re: BREAKING: Kano Deaths Are Not Related To COVID-19, Emir Of Kano Reveals by Richy4(m): 3:15am On Apr 27, 2020 |
And the news reporter felt that it wasn't necessary to ask more questions. Their death was not caused by COVID-19 full stop No further questions or answers required. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 11:40am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Xavfra:Sending u a big papa bear hug buddy..  |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 10:12am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Mariangeles:My brother, U have no idea what we figured out by ourselves while growing up.. Cool memory for me just recalling that.. |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 9:21am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Jullima:@ bold..I strongly disagree on that..In as much as I agreed that parents should teach their kids sex education... I disagree when u said any parent who felt discomfort talking about sex has failed their child.. Sex Education is just a fraction and will never be the yardstick to pinpoint when a parent has failed their kid.. If that's the case majority in African continent, their parents has failed them. |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 9:11am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Xavfra:There are more to moral value without hinting about sex education. A parent can instill Respect, Justice, honesty, never hurt others in their kids.. They can also teach them don't take what doesn't belong to u, adjusting/ compromising. Those are moral values and yes I agree that parents should teach their kids if they can about sex education but sex education is just a fraction of the moral value.. A parent that taught their kids about sex education, and overlooked when they brings what doesn't belong to them home, was that good enough? I am glad that u were able to read and educate yourself about sex.. that to me is adjustment strategy u learn from your parent  .. when something is not immediately available, u adjust and compromise.  Growing up we saw sex magazine smuggled inside the hostel by seniors.. and when they (senior) gets bored with it, it gets to our hands. N.B. there's no topic about sex education that I can't talk about.. anything that has to do with education, I don't shy away from it..I am just acting as the devil's advocate. It's not as if parent who cannot teach their kids sex education has failed them. Take yourself for example, It's so refreshing that you know how to comport yourself when online without insulting anyone.. even when we don't agree we were still chatting.. doesn't that count a little of the home training u got at home Do you think you parent failed u totally just because they did not talk to u about sex? |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 7:52am On Apr 26, 2020 |
rockstarB:Personally, I just have to let u know that there's no topic about sex that I can't talk with kids about. Having said that, I still think that any parent who finds talking to their about sex should not be crucified or seen as someone that has failed their kids... there's more to parents failing their kids. And not teaching them sex education in my opinion is not even on top of that list. Many Modern school nowadays has seen the challenges that some parents were facing about that aspect/ angle, they have stepped up to cover it.. some call or invite external experts who were knowledgeable in those areas to talk to kids. In my opinion, any kid that will go south, will definitely go south even when you drum the sex talk in his/ her system. |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 5:06am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Xavfra:Every parent should teach their children good moral values that they can uphold for the rest of their lives. It is better than any sex topic Bro. You were acting as if u were the only one that weren't given the sex talk, news Flash, u were not alone. Alot of us were not told anything but we came out cool.. In my own case, I was ten when I heard a little about sex talk and it wasn't directed to me.. my grandmother was talking to my older cousin who I guess was 16 then on one of the mothering Sunday visits we usually paid her long time ago. She said she heard my cousin has been running around with a certain girl that he is now grown up that if he Touch the girl, she was going to be pregnant. That he should be careful. We started laughing even though we don't know what "touch " means.. I still remembered like it was yesterday that I was 11 when I entered JSS1. lived in boarding school away from home and usually like to return during Xmas. There were kids like me in the boarding school who knew next to nothing about sex education. Thanks to integrated Science, Biology and Agricultural Science. I had 7 friends in junior class and whatever body differences we learn about puberty, we see/figure it out from the seniors without asking questions. I remembered when one of us told us that he saw 3 or 4 pubichair around his region, since we don't have, we crowded him like he had gold in his body just to confirm.. some of us started wondering when such will happen to us.. In terms of wet dreams, we were not told in biology class, one of our gang came back on weekend and said he had wet dream. I asked him if he meant that he urinated while dreaming he said that he didn't know what happened but he asked his elder brother.. who told him the name of what happened and all.. remember in my secondary school days, Internet were not popular, smartphone or phones of any kind was not there except NITEL landlines.. But my parent taught me that I should always remember whose name I was bearing, the family I came from.. I should not tarnish the image. That has been my watch word till date and I think it is better than any sex topic |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 4:12am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:A relationship can be good in fact very good but not all topics are opened for discussion. If u wanna talk to someone about sex, then be ready to go a bit far and not all parents where willing to take such risk. Because most of them doesn't know the angle the question might be coming from.. For example, a 10yr old girl that might come to his father and ask " daddy what is Peni$? The father might do well by explaining what it was.. Then the next question might be since you are a man and u said it was a male organ, can I see it? Now, how comfortable do you think the man might feel? If he refused, has he completed his education? Remember that they are in good relationship and all topics were opened for discussion. .. This scenario can also happen to a mother that has a good relationship with her son.. parents can teach their kids good moral value without approaching a sex topic |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 7:44pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Xavfra:I don't know why I feel that you were exaggerating this.. There are lots of people who were not taught a single thing about sex yet they turned out to be wonderful people.. I still think it got nothing to do with relationship with the children. Some might have very good relationship with their kids still feel uncomfortable talking about sex in their presence 1 Like |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 7:40pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Akunwafor:I know that it's important my brother... I also know how easy it was to type on a platform/ online like this to say teach your kids sex education.. but in reality, it was a different ballgame... Many parents might 'swear' that they are doing it but it's just pure lies. If not, many teachers around the world won't be complaining that the parents left the responsibility of sex education for them to handle. And if they try to do that, some will start complaining that their kids were too young to learn such.. |
| Health › Re: Kano Mysterious Deaths by Richy4(m): 3:48pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
That picture doesn't look like public/ social distancing was adhered to.. if the cause of death was corona, hmm!!! I fear for those people 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: African Parents And Sex Education; How Was Puberty Like For You? by Richy4(m): 3:39pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
seanmozilla:Long time ago, I was watching Super Story with my mum. So in the middle of that, there was an advert about Always sanitary pad.. So I think they were saying that if u don't want to embarrass yourself use Always. So my nephew (10yrs) who came on holidays ask my mum." I have seen advert on this Always a lot, What is it?..." Instead of my mum to answer, she went on attack She asked him, since you have been here on holidays, have you opened your books once? The boy was confused.. I laughed to the extent of choking .. My nephew's face was priceless to see because he was wondering what his crime was...I asked my mum so instead of telling him what he needed to know you were using parents avoiding tactics.. she was like why don't you tell him. I told her the question was not mine but hers.. though I told him what always was meant for. But Some parents can be really embarrassed over nothing.. 4 Likes |
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