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Eulalia:which part of Abroad were u talking about? When people violets the rules in the so called abroad, they get them arrested and they serve some terms in jail or pay fine not getting them killed. Get your facts right. What happened there was a first degree murder if you ask me. |
chii8:I'm even surprised. That means some people were not taking the virus and the self isolation / social distancing serious.. |
bigcee:Hahaha. U are really funny. The OP reminded me of my visit to a friend some years ago.. I don't really like visiting. My friends knows that that was my weakness those days and they took me for who I am .. though it comes across like being arrogant and being pompous. But when they discovered I was far from that, they accepted it... so one of my friends got a new apartment. He kept on nagging that I don't visit people etc. That some spirit in my village prohibited me from going to friends / people's home... So one Saturday I went to his house. On getting there he asked me if I want to drink tea.. I thought he was joking..I was like since when have I become the queen of England's relative that u were offering me tea.. All this time u have been coming to my place, how many times did I asked if u want to drink tea? Not even in winter I don't. "Abeg go and bring wetin u cook.. We dey live for oyibo land no mean say we don turn to them".. Based on this thread I guess I was the one that did the annoying thing. ![]() |
factormatt6:My brother, if she doesn't say that she wanted her space but implied it through action, what is the difference? Potato potahto.... Find out the reason why she was acting like that or maybe someone is by the side beating the drums that she was dancing.. communications Bro. Talk to her.. u might get some hints |
You can solve the puzzle if you can identify the reason(s) why she wanted her space. From there every thing will be clear to u like 7UP. You can even figure out if she can wait for u or not... |
From me to you OP. You can't stop your brother who is 21 from having a girlfriend. But u can educate him on the meaning of self isolation and what it was all about during this world lock down. It is for health reason.. No one knows who is carrying what.... Coroner is just by the corner. Let him know that It was not a holidays where people comes for courtesy visit. Just let him know that so that he can pass the info to the girl friend. I believe both of u are educated. Talk to him like an adult that he is.not in a condescending manner just because you are older. |
That's very nice of them to make that sacrifice but next time, u ladies in the neighbourhood should also show your support. make them some tea, sandwiches, little take aways Nothing is too small.. take it to them. .. It's just to show appreciation and support.. I hope I'm in order ![]() |
Ayoefa:That's not how it's done. In some cases the symptoms does not show on first test. They were in countries that were ravished by the virus. They needed to be isolated for 14days and on close observation. If they let them go, they might infect their immediate family even when the symptoms weren't there . And the family will infect the neighbours, and it will keep spreading. |
I don't really know what or who gave u the temerity to insult his dad. Maybe u should revisit Google and find out the meaning of polygamy. I have never heard where a widower that decided to remarry was branded a polygamist. The fact that the father still gave her daughter shelter when she needed it to me is still a plus. There are places around the world where the daughter has to pay rent even though she was living in her dad's house. Would you then crucify such parent? The fact that the step mother still see a dead woman as a competitor or see the step children as a product of her husband's first love. Therefore was envious, How was that the man's fault.. I know that no reasonable person would like their parent being insulted. I believe u are reasonable. So stop insulting elders because u feel u have the platform to do so. |
Biglittlelois:Don't say that. Life is full of ups and downs.. the fact that u have not witnessed it or that it has never happened to u does not mean it doesn't happen. The husband was gainfully employed before he lost his job. So look for something else and tell the OP.. |
If u are living with them in that same house while still married, u are like an unwanted guest.. So whatever they throw at u, u accept it. That's just the harsh reality. Take your child and nurse her.. Nemesis will do it's job when the time comes. Though it takes time but it will.. Don't do anything stupid that will make your dad and the whole family turn against u... She wants you to leave the house. That was her message.. it's up to u to understand it or prepare for more challenges ahead. . |
Figment of her imagination.. Just ask her in a joking manner if she fantasies on having sex with " blessers" Some people might imagine things or do things during the day... and they dream about it in the night. Just forget anyone that mentioned spiritual husband or wife.. nothing like that. Have you ever thought of the morticians. What do u think they dream about in the night? |
All this lock down, quarantine and self isolation going on around the world, the number of babies that will be rolling out from December will be more than anything ever heard |
matrix199:I like the way you were trying desperately to convince yourself that those empty flowers pots were not doubled. The pattern of the pot has been given. There's no need to trick anyone in changing the pattern or making a ring rigs as u call it... The way you figured out that the yellow trophies were no longer two but one, use that same logic on the flower pot. It's that simple. There's no benefit arguing this anyways. Have a good day man.. |
Softapplez:The person whom u quoted asked what was known as rhetorical question... just Google the meaning.. you shouldn't have wasted your time with this long epistles... |
Nwaotu:Sorry to quote u but u sound like a16yr old...Lord have mercy ![]() |
Just wanted to know if u were still out of the country. If you are, Just go back and teach her on how to turn on the generator then u can go back to your Base. With that she won't have a reason to call any male neighbour. Also before u return make sure that the plumbing is in good condition, electrical wiring etc.. Also find a reverend Father Mechanic for the car just in case.. cover every bases in your marriage to avoid cheating..if she is a Christian, insist that she attend online church service..so that no physical contact/ encounter with male species needed On a serious note man trust is important in every relationship. If trust is dead, then the marriage is as well as gone. |
The question alone sounds insulting. "How much should I give her? I need to move on with my life..." haba!! So what u were implying was that u contributed into bringing a child into the world, u won't play a role... u settle the mother and" off u go"..u need not to be there for your child. What is done is done. All u needed to do was to throw some naira notes to the mother.. whatever and how ever she chose to bring him /her up is none of your business. Is that right? Though I was expecting the ladies on this thread to educate u about hormonal changes in some cases when a woman is pregnant. That might trigger her rudeness plus this your "Lovely" attitude too could make a reverend sister to use an F word. |
Pls don't eat that OP.. It even looks disgusting ![]() |
sisisioge:Hahaha how are u doing happy easter to u too |
First puzzle Blue stuffs = 10 each Red cars = 5 each Yellow cup =4 per set Therefore 10 + 5 × 2 = 20 Second puzzle First green plant = 7 each White flowers = 8 each Flower pots = 4 each Therefore 7 +8 × 8 = 71 Modified : (just noticed that in that pic one cup only was represented which means each set 4/2 =2 Two flower pots stuck on that pic. So each flower pots 4. So 4+4 =8 |
Things are not always the way it seems... U have started judging already.. Please stop.. Besides it wouldn't have killed u if u ask her who the man in question was since u said she brings conversation about the man up as if it was normal. .. That was the opportunity u got and u blew it..with that u would have known with fact the nature of their relationship before coming here... Before you jump into conclusion with two legs at once, get your info right.. |
I'm gonna make two assumptions 1. blame it on the house u own/ the home that u rented. Because Rooms with Wardrobes or closets makes every rational human to know their limits in terms of buying clothing material. Some people with creative mindset even have the walk-in closets. all this were for organisations and to avoid trespassing from room to room... 2. she did not grow up in a room with wardrobes or closets.. some ladies like that got no limits... even if u construct 10 extra rooms, she will fill it up. If she can't find clothes to buy any more, she will learn how to buy cooler boxes and put in the rooms. And tell u that the cooler boxes were very important for every family |
OP some one up there called your wife an idiot and u couldn't say anything. What is wrong with you? Can't u caution him or her and explain that the fact that you needed some advice does not mean your wife would be insulted |
Sir, What was her duty that she couldn't perform on getting back from Church? was it sex ![]() |
Blyzz:When I was growing up in Nigeria wayback, I used to hear about Abuja Marriage.. as I began to mature in my teens those days in Abuja , It started making perfect sense. Yes, a couple can stay in a relationship with kids without caring where or who their relatives where. I saw that in Abuja in the late '90s. I did not say someone told me.I saw it.. Though this might be extreme but OP has the right to divorce him on a bridge of contract. this is because he promised to accept her for who she was with her kids and all what not after marrying her, he refused to honour his agreement... I don't know if you are good with Law sha... You may agree or disagree with me but I stand by the side of truth. Bro, Assuming that reverse was the case, and the man had 2 children and OP refused to have anything to do with them or even allow them to set foot in that house, Do u think all these young men dishing out advice would have spared the lady? I have stayed long on Nairaland to know that advise here are based on genda. Noone wants to call a spade a spade. |
Blyzz:I disagree with u sir. That man can count what he is benefiting from that relationship without you and I knowing it. Remember he was aware of the wife's situation before he agreed to it.. We can't speak for him at the moment.. only him can speak for himself |
AroOkigbo:As I said earlier, it's not a favour. That man might tell u 10 good Reasons why he was in that Relationship.. You can't speak for him because u weren't him... He knew before going into it.. so in my opinion, It was not. |
crafteck: No it's not a favour. That man can create 10 Reasons why he was in that Relationship.. You can't speak for him because u weren't him... He knew before going into it.. so in my opinion, It was not. |
This one that whenever u see him u start feeling murderous... Just ask yourself, is he worth going to jail for?... Just give him the key to the street... It is better... I even prefer dear dignified HIV to it's pretentious cousin herpes that got no cure too ![]() |
culturedboss:I read it perfectly... Typically, what you were looking at was the immediate cause of action (Stealing).. Have you tried to understand the root/ remote cause of why he was stealing? what if it was to gain attention from his parent? |
Davash222:Oh God!! How do I explain the difference between rusty and Rustic ![]() |
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