₦airaland Forum

destinie2019:
Oga, health insurance policies are usually funded by the employer. In the case where the employer has no policy in place - for example, ALL state governments in Nigeria, how is your statement of any consequence?

AngelicBeing:
Very sensible post, @ logobenz did it from a good heart but with the the state of insecurity across Nigeria especially rape, kids molestation / abduction, ritualism, kidnapping etc that is currently trending in Nigeria, just a scream or shout from the mum is enough to attract mob action before you call jack Robinson, a supposedly friendly gestures from an innocent bystander standing by his car is enough for wicked people to draw conclusions that the guy was planning to kidnap the child, Nigeria is a chaotic place, one has to be Extra careful, don't you see people refusing to give help to accident victims on the road because of fear of the police turning around to accuse you of what you don't know anything about, Nigeria is more like a dog chop dog society

Iogobenz:
No not really.
You know how rowdy mall parks can be na?
So I was just on my own standing besides my car when the kid ran to me and started holding my legs.
I dumped my cigarette and started playing with the boy.
Carried him and played a little.his smile was angelic tbh(the mom is very pretty) and I got carried away and started playing like he was my kid.
The mom was there but at a distance because the kid just ran,left the mom and came to me.you know how kids do na.
Only for the mom to approach me and display that nastiness.
I vex ehn...But just comport my self and left the place.

LilMissFavvy:
Almost all the married men I see around cheat. Let me speak up, since that's what you want. I am a lady, and I see things. I know far better than you. I have never seen a married man that is faithful. You are tempting me to talk about my own personal experiences, but I will not.

LilMissFavvy:
I have read more than enough books that talks about how unhealthy it is for married couples to live apart. The probability for men to cheat is far higher than women. Besides, I didn't say all men. I said majority of men. Don't vouch for anyone, you can never be so sure.

LilMissFavvy:
Where do you see married couples who live far apart but are faithful? It is very very impossible. Any married couple that don't meet for at least once in a month will be prone to cheating, I am referring to the men, especially.

Redrosely:
This separation is only abt 1yr n 7mnths nw. We have been together ever since, he's working on a project outside our base, that's all. Before he left I was pregnant for my last baby n d agreement btw us was a 3mnths separation only. Gradually months kept on adding up until I put to birth, he came for the naming n went back. Now the story is not the same anymore as he is much more comfortable over there from his actions.Even when he comes around,u hear comments like,no more quietness again due to the kids laughter and crys. It kind of irritates him[/b].

nepapole:
Senator intimacy gadget

Owiii:
I'm not married though but your mistake was working in a different town from your husband. It give serious room for cheating. If a man takes 4 - 6 months before coming to see you and the children except he is a military office or something, that should have been a red flag that he is doing something outside. How often do you go to visit him? Please don't go to your parents house as it would make things worse.

I kinda disagree with you.. Out of sight is not always out of mind... The key word is discipline... Any one that wants to cheat will do so even if the couple decides to stay lucked up in one room day in day out... Technology will help .. what about some couple who remains faithful to each other despite the fact that they reside in different country...

Redrosely:
Update,abt to be relieved of my duty at my work place. Cried my eyes out yesterday at d office,cos of this issue, and thus,cudnt face the kids with my swollen face as I'm a teacher, decided to go somewhere out of the school to cool off and put myself together. Only to be summoned today to a panel at my directors office to explain my disappearance without permission. Was told that a feedback will be given to me at closure bof school.
Soo many things happening at a time. Hmmmmmm

Guest007:
HR? In a system where they make people work for 7 days a week without a break?

Guest007:
read again.. The uncle knew and he never informed the lad that this man has issues with him, the uncle. The uncle then refused to help the lad and told the lad to work 7 days a week, 4 people's workload because in time it Will get easier...

The lad is a gangster and he will go far in life as long as he respects himself and never doubts himself. @OP... Well done, again

Ferdinandu:
He warned in time. It is that simple, if you don't like the rules, don't rent. The house is meant for candidates of paradise. Ndị ụwa stay clear.