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No one said anything like the man using the girl for paper to stay in the country...

U all think it's only Nigerian men that uses other nation for residence permit right? The girl is now a gold digger and the man is a saint with no agenda whatsoever because of the colour of his skin right? It's okay oo ...

The way you are panicking one could think that we were still in the '80's... Hello it's 2019... U can live a normal life even if u have the virus... it's no longer a death sentence... the adrenaline or whatever it was that you are emitting right now because of fear and panicking could kill you faster than the virus itself... Calm down and go for another thorough check... Besides if u die now do u think u died early? Everyone must go someday..

I must comment on your sexual prowess though..13/14 is an alpha...Have you checked your family tree...U must have come from the descendant of King Solomon from the Good Book....

I don't even see how this was Rochas's fault... They have ministry of Works in Imo State... They should hold the contractor that did cut and join work Accountable and liable for whatever happened...

He/she signed a contract to construct a bridge that will last for a certain period before maintenance will start kicking in... not to build something that will collapse and endanger the lives of Citizens...

You should have defined the relationship... definition is important in every relationship... Assuming while in bed the first time u had sex, u opened up and say what and how u wanted the relationship to be... She wouldn't have such expectations.....

By the way, it is too late to rectify that now because she might not accept the new terms and conditions....breaking up might be the solutions but if she accepts the terms ... she will be a monitoring spirit... if u have a female visitor, She will show up unannounced just to mark her territory..

However, stop treating ladies like trash expecially when you have female relatives @ home... Let them know what you want... Don't let them expect what you want...

For God's sakes whom were you competing with?... u came into this world all alone and for that, u should be the one to Dictate your own pace in life and don't look at others ... (this is not in any way to encourage laziness )

But Just because it favours Mr X in 2012, it doesn't mean if fortune smile on Mr Y in 2025 it's bad and late.... I am a young man but academic wise I graduated before Dangote from the university he took his time didn't he?

U were about to put an unnecessary pressure on yourself just for no reason... With the rate of suicide in Nigeria.. in my opinion, I think this thread is unnecessary...

My grandma used to say when you wake up, it's your morning..... But if u want to live large, I'm guessing Nigeria allows the act of Polygamy... get married to three ladies... between the space of 4 years, u will have big family and.. u will be living large

That's So sad... I pray that God will grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss...

Princeofasia:
wasted so much typing without making even 1 point

Thanks for your observation..just letting you know that OP is not a kid.. he is a matured man and has the ability to read between the lines.. He doesn't have comprehension issues... That was why the chat was between me and him.

I can just imagine God looking down on what the sons of men were doing in his name with horror and astonishment written all over him. ...

Even the holyspirt will run away from this barbaric act

But what is the big deal? .... if he can erect the statue of Jacob Zuma former president of South Africa facing lots of corruption charges in his country, why not Buhari?

Well..He's just... Okorocha...

The Lecturer must have forgotten where he was... if they were putting on the trade mark of Secondary school students..... Some might be putting on Sucks and sandals...U can't possibly blame the lecturer for forgetting briefly where he was...

Apart from Nursing students and those studying to become Pilots.... I don't understand the need for undergraduate students to put on uniforms... it's a childish thing to do..

In my opinion, It's not compulsory that one has to be wealthy before drafting a will..

For example... One(student ) can decide who should inherit his or her text books...It could be a son, Daughter, Family relative or friend that he/she knows that's gonna be useful to...

Pets... Some might not be rich but owns pets like dogs and cats etc... while alive they know whom in the family / friends that can look after those pets and decides to will it to them...

Shoes. .shirts, dresses.. suits...Handbags ... wristwatch lovers... if one is single, there must be this particular friend of yours for example that like one Handbag.. Dress.. suit or wristwatch that u own.... if u like him/her, U can always say on your demise.. Mr X or miss Y must have that...

It is also important for singles to draft their Wills too.. for Example... Some people got friends whom they really relied on...... Besides some friends are better than Brothers..... if in the event that due to some circumstances the person passed on, and there's a will in place.. that friend will not loose out.. he/ she will have something to remember u by.. it could be Novels, watches... Laptops etc... That's because you want him or her to have that instead of everything going to the immediate family...

I know this is gonna be hard for every day Nigerian to swallow... I also know that my God forbid/not my portion crew are gearing up to say it ... But everyone knows that if it didn't happen today then it's been postponed for another day... but it must happen someday...

So no matter what you have, every one on this planet got something that they value and cherish... So in the event of one's demise, it feels kinda right to state whom you want that particular thing u loved so much to go to... Not only when you have landed properties, Shares, Fat account or cars that u must draft a will...

daddytime:
British Citizens indeed...congratulations

... U can always help the OP remove the ( S) if that's the case

The question is Where are their Kids... That's just what is wrong with these people... they sometimes forget that Charity begins @ home...

Some of their kids are in University of Aberdeen which is their favorite hotspot... Some might stay after graduation... some will come back home to daddy after graduation to be given a nice position in one of his company or affiliated companies to be a managing director..

Yet they wanted a youth that graduated in a dilapidated school structure like that of Ambrose Ali University to remain in a place that they (The politicians ) have destroyed with their greed and not to find a better place..

xavuv:
The Snake is only up there while we r down here. The only place it could come out from os the man hole in the ceiling the man hole is well covered too. Ceiling is POP made, so the snake is well sealed up . i left it for 2 years thinking it would do of hunger. Surprisingly, it did not. Like GarbaAudu mention the thong been feeding on wall geckos( omo online).

Thanks for clarifying that... The way I 'love ' snakes I don't think it's gonna stay for 2mins not to talk of 2 yrs...

The way I see things might be different from yours... Nothing Is 100% guaranteed in this world including life..
So whether PDP or was it POP ceiling , I don't think it's 100% safe...Anyways just be vigilant and be careful..and if u have little children around, I don't even wanna go there..

This kind of gist is sending shivers down my spine.. U were practically living with a dangerous creature ... who was not paying rent... and for two years or more for that matter.. haba!

I'm guessing you gonna teach me on how one can get his eyes closed at night knowing fully well that a dangerous snake is living with him.. Some people are way too 'tough' for my liking..

In as much as I don't believe in some Pastors... what if this was a ploy to defame the pastor... So that he will look bad in front of all... by creating a scene..

If he was actually his customer, I don't see why he couldn't come on weekdays to discuss whatever it was only for him to show up on Sunday... by doing this shows that he got something on his sleeves...

It could be that the pastor was disturbing him spiritually or ruining/ taking his clients. . . then defame and creating a scene becomes the best solution for him
Just my observations...

Will.!!! WILL.!!!! WILL.!!! Your dad should draft his will just incase.... you should convince him to do so, I know that it's quite difficult for Africans to do so....

Your Mother should allow your father to assist his brother however when she smells them around her personal space, she should react...

You should know that He has a bond with his brother before your mother came into the picture... So whatever you people are saying would not hold water... though the man kinda sounds arrogant... if he doesn't have a certificate why should he desire a job with big salary

After all is said and done... what will the couple eat.. I mean after spending money that they don't have on weddings or wedding?

I can't comprehend certain behaviour that human exhibits in this world sometimes...

You don't have to depend on your Dad's car... Your dad might not have an insurance to cover it when it develops a fault due to some negligence that might come from your part... or if u hit other motorists ... It doesn't take much to figure out what he was trying to avoid assuming you were paying attention...

When u get a job, U will get a car of your choice...

EVILFOREST:
INDOMIE and PAMPERS caused all these....
When BOYS were eating palm kernel/coconuts/kuli kuli /Agidi/watery-beans/ soured egusi/ did we hear all these..

Then BOYS and GIRLS could trek to schools several miles, but now Parents do everything for them. Some are even transported to schools like dogs with their Tongues spilling out.
Then Neighbors could beat and correct you in the absence of your parents, but now everything is “WITCH”
Now......
Teachers Pamper them
Churches Pamper them
Neighbors Pamper them
Parents Pamper them

So, exposure to LITTLE PRESSURE, everything EXPLODES

It's just totally annoying... imagine the money the parent invested on the scallywag.. Exiting without repaying what he has eaten... I don't even know what the parents are teaching their children nowadays... Are they telling them that it will be easy in this world

Dreambeat:
And you are talking to someone who lives in Nigeria, don't you? Chill!We don't All live in Nigeria and we are not on Nairaland to blow our trumpets so not to be misunderstood.

I know that everyone here on Nairaland doesn't live in Nigeria man..Trust me I do... I for one knows that call ladies pays taxes just like any other profession and were well organised outside African continent..And they don't subject themselves to unnecessary stress.. ...

But to say that they stay on a show glasses just to attract attention sounds fictitious to me.... anyways I will Google it and see so that I won't argue next time....

Dreambeat:
She is a call girl.This is how they display their trade in Amsterdam.Visit the red light district to find out

OK!!! Let me get u clearly... So you have been to the red light district in Amsterdam... And you practically saw the Queens of the Night Displaying their trade in a showglasses?... Are u sure u 've not been watching too much movies and soap opera?

Whatever happens today between Manchester City and Liverpool in terms of lifting the trophy... I must say that Liverpool has shown a lot of class this season... they have shown that they were a team to reckon with...

Since this is the last Match of the season...I'm gonna Use this opportunity to renew my allegiance to this great club... I pledge to always support you come rain... come shine... in winter and in summer... The greatest club in the whole world...Liverpool!! LIVERPOOL!!! LIVERPOOL !!!

OP... I think you did the right thing by telling your man...
I'm glad you told your story on this forum... so that others that were trying to do the same will think twice...

You have made your mistake and in every decision human has made, good or bad, there's consequences ... u have to live with the consequences of your actions with dignity.. ... You are not the first to commit adultery and you are not going to be the last... Do not commit suicide because of this...

Do not be angry with your husband... whatever he is dishing out to you, he has that right... Just bear with him for now... take care of your kids... For now if your man asked you to jump, just ask how high... he might take you back but if he doesn't, just take care of your children and learn how to be alone....

rafhell:
Something tells me the OP is a big liar.
Let us read between the lines. You put out your post 11 days ago asking for advice. In eleven days, all these drama had played out.
You even got a 2 bedroom accommodation close to your work place and you already moved in with the kids.
Madam or whoever you are, not everybody on nairaland is daft.

Every one is not as Broke and Financially challenged as u might think.. What does it take to find a house? There are lots of houses everywhere.. The question is does the person looking for the house have the money to pay for the outrageous amount the landlord will be demanding?.... If she's working and saving for rainy days such as this, what is the big deal?

That's the kind of sh!t that happens when one is in the mist of friends/ like minds. . ... talk and joke about things like that without consequences... Because there's no one to tell you not to say things like that... u won't even know when you joke about it in public... Might not even know it's a wrong thing to say or do.....I guess Fox news will employ him in a heartbeat..now that he is fired...

funkyjms:
Yawn
Oga street, please can you explain again??

Hello... If you got something to say to me.. please do so.. If nothing please don't quote me unnecessarily... I don't entertain such..Thanks..

awa:
Honestly Chelsea don't deserve to win this match. I have never seen this kind of in seriousness before

Take it easy.. don't allow Chelsea to make u lose your grammar... just put your self together... it's alright

If he's Smart streetwise, it's still easy for him to get away with it.... he can say that he was sorry to have spoilt all the fun... That they were planning a surprised party for her (wife) for her hard work @ home front...
That the Lady in question that she heard her voice was teaching him how to dance... to perform for her on that day...

These idea was to make her question what she has heard... (the more you look the less u see)... The man can also in a loving manner become angry with her for listening in on other people's conversation... Then she will be happy and apologise to the husband with smile and look forward to the party date...

I don't even understand what the position entails that a foreign affairs minister cannot handle... She is qualified and had helped done a lot of damage control created by Nigerians... Why not just appoint her as foreign affairs minister...and save money that is not even available in Nigeria by creating a similar role...

Everything here looks so suspicious... Your gender for instance...

What will it cost u to say that u are a female.. or better still ignore it...

I don't just understand.. maybe I'm used to he who comes to equity must come with a clean hand and a neat underwear just incase....

I like your story but looking at that puts me off..it doesn't seem real to me...

OP you are comparing two individuals... So it should be 'richer '

'Richest' is used when they were three or more..Try and update..