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celeb4reallife:
What's the best step to take here? Taking her husband to police or what's the right measure?

celeb4reallife:
How can you handle a case of rape between the man of the house (a husband) and the wife's little cousin of 13years old? What's the best approach to this?

Note: noone is aware except the wife.
It's between the three of them.
If you're in this shoes, what would you do?

Will you quitly go and drop the little girl in the village after your husband has appologied and promise not to do that again?

What would you advise?

nickxtra:
A petrol marketer and father of five, Wasiu Badmus, on Wednesday expressed regrets that he allowed his wife, Suliyat, to go into politics because she had now allegedly become a prostitute.

Mr Badmus lamented the development while responding to his wife’s accusation of threat to life before the President, Mapo Customary Court, Ibadan, Ademola Odunade, saying that since he permitted his wife to join a political party, she became wayward.

Mr Badmus said he warned Suliyat when she indicated interest in joining a political party in Ibadan that men usually had romantic affairs with female politicians, but that he allowed her because he trusted her then.

“As soon as Suliyat began to attend rallies and political meetings, I started hearing negative stories of how she was laying about with men.

“Precisely, on February 28, I saw a top male politician in the community returning her at 11.30 p.m., and I was sad.

“Since that time, the earliest time she came home was midnight and she stopped taking instructions from me.

Not too long after, vigilantes alerted me around 2.00 a.m. that that same top politician just dropped her as usual, and I saw them together.

“I then reported her to an elderly politician in the neighbourhood, who promised to intervene, but her attitude even worsened.

“Moreover, I overheard Suliyat in a mobile phone conversation, booking an appointment with a man about their meeting point and time,” he said.

According to the man, he checked the wife’s phone when she was not around to get the top politician’s number, and called him.

“Later, Suliyat attacked me that I was threatening her before she reported me at the police station,” Mr Badmus said.

He noted that the police investigated the matter and were surprised to know that she had been unfaithful to him.

Source: Premium Times

The man said 'the Politician was returning her......' What a statement... It kinda threw me off-balance

GrabHisBalls:
It happens a lot. Some people are frustrated waiting for an opportunity to transfer their frustration on anyone.

There was a day I decided to buy food outside and 'cause I am very selective, I walked into a food vendor's shop after ignoring some I felt were dirty. On sighting the woman, she looked dirty with all sort of make up colours I don't understand on her face. Ok, I ignored and told her what I wanted. My eyes were all over the place. I noticed she had two types of disposable plates: the new ones rapped in a nylon and some that looked used, but later washed. This woman actually wanted to use the used but washed ones to serve me when I am also paying for the disposable plate. Told her to use the new one I am seeing and she began ranting. That was how I left her with her food and walked away while she kept screaming in pigin " you no neat pass me, small girls wey think say them get sense".

Premiumwriter:
I first read of this in one of James Hadley Chase book and I thought it wasn't possible.

But indeed leeches exist.

They suck you as much as possible and cunningly too until you become aware of them.

Stay as far away from them as possible. They are not true friends. So long as you have the juice, they will keep coming once in a while like they are faithful but once the fountain dries out they become scarce.

I had this friend (who's friends with everybody else sha) who's always running to me for money.

The first time we met, it was when I gave him some money to mend his footwear. Ever since then, we became 'close'

And it wouldn't take long for me to understand his nature. At every single opportunity, he was either asking me for this or that.

The amount he often request is not always thar big and every time, it's either he's having headaches (and wants to buy panadol) or already have the panadol and wants to buy pure water.

I do give out but soon realized he was meeting several others asking them for the same thing.

From that moment, I just didn't even want to see him again. I mean we are all students for christ sake. We all have it rough.

But he keeps squeezing people of the little they have unknown to them that that's he's cunning way of survival.

When I saw him begging another of my friend yesterday after I refused him (though then I didn't even have anything on me) I wanted to shout at him but just decided to hold it in.

You basically read James Hadley Chase book?... You can really watch paint dry my friend.. in my own opinion, if u wanna define boring, and clink on search.. I think his books might come up

pocohantas:
If you are living under their roof,

Eating mummy thank you,

Charging your phone with the generator and fuel they bought...

Then you had it coming.

Keep your semi-atheism for when you are in your own space and paying your bills.

yazga:
I had a crazy fling with a man from work at a work team-building weekend. How could I be so stupid? Now I’m pregnant I don’t know whether the dad is him or my boyfriend.

I am 27 and my partner is 29. We’ve been together four years. Lately he’s been stressed because he has a new job and is travelling a lot. Our sex life has taken a nose-dive.My work organized a bonding weekend which I tried to get out of but was persuaded to go. We stayed in chalets at a conference center and I shared with another girl. I enjoyed it more than I expected.

We all went for a meal in the evening and there was a great atmosphere. I’ve always got on well with one particular male colleague who was flirting with me all evening, saying I looked amazing dressed up – I usually wear trousers at work. He is 25.After the meal I knew I’d had enough to drink but still let him buy me another vodka. I couldn’t stand up straight when it was time to leave so he offered to walk me to my chalet. Instead he took me to his to “make me a coffee”. While the kettle boiled he kissed my neck and I went weak at the knees.

Suddenly we were kissing and touching, and I didn’t want it to stop. He didn’t force me – I agreed to sex very willingly. I was so ashamed the next day but comforted myself that at least no-one but me and this guy knew what had happened.I’d told the girl I was sharing with that I’d dozed off over a coffee but that nothing had happened. When I got home my partner had missed me so much we had sex the minute I got through the door.

Now I have missed a period. I am always regular so I did a pregnancy test. I was horrified when it came up positive. Not knowing who is the dad I think I will have to have a termination, but there is no way I can go to my doctor – I am too ashamed.

sisisioge:
Well...its either she takes what she has right now and leave or negotiate the opportunity cost of her death in the grave! Fooooirkking assssszholes abusing their wives since 170BC! And some idiatss won't let me continue to enjoy my peaceful Singleton bayi! Whew!


Pardon my French please.