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 Family › Re: My Wife Want To Kill Me With S*x by Richy4(m): 11:57am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Sex is not a hundred meters dash that you have to run to finish quickly... do it as the spirit leads  Having said that, how often do you exercise...? There are free exercises that u can do without going to the gym that costs money...eg << Press up.. U can start with 10 push Up daily.. the next week 20, and so on... u will hate it as first but with determination, u will start loving it << jogging... U can start that every weekends..Saturdays and Sundays from 5:30AM.... start with 6km or from point A to B for 30mins.. as u do this, u will start loving yourself and u will be energised.. Trust me, it is not easy to do this religiously every time but try and be consistent as much as u can.. I have tried this and still doing it despite winter.. This habit will improve your health, stamina and your sex life and u can start developing 6packs if u don't have one... 5 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: No Christians In Old Testament, Why Are They Forcing The Laws On Us? by Richy4(m): 10:41am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Luke 10: 25-28 would have answered his questions.. Assuming he reads extensively... Assuming the old law doesn't apply, Jesus would not have asked him to do that... |
| Nairaland General › Re: Green Snake In My House Pls Help!! by Richy4(m): 5:51pm On Jun 08, 2019*. Modified: 6:21pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
Aje-Butter sighted...I hope you are also a vegetarian or better still a vegan since u have phobia for animals... because if u use that your teeth dey tear chicken I no no wetin I go tell u.. 85 Likes |
| Family › Re: Advice On How To Save From A Meagre Salary by Richy4(m): 5:39pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
ayobarmy:I understand man.. I just want to assure you that it's gonna be okay someday. As a salaried man, I just want to let you know that though u consider it as working, I see it as selling your time.. Maybe u should consider looking else where once in a while on companies whom will be willing to offer a better price for the time and productive hours you were willing to offer... Do not dwell so much on your comfort zone for companies who were not willing to pay better... As for your kids reassure them that things will be better and instill good and moral value in them... Just use rose flowers as a yardstick... see how beautiful Roses are but u can't believe how ugly the stems and body parts are... they might come from not so good neighbourhood but could be different.. U can't shoulder all the responsibility alone try and get your wife involved... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Advice On How To Save From A Meagre Salary by Richy4(m): 4:31pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
ayobarmy:Budget is the solution to your problem man... Assuming you got a good financial planner.. he/she will point out the unnecessary spending you find quite difficult to figure out.. for example some people pay for DSTV or cable network that they can't afford and when you question them, they said the kids or themselves cannot do without it... That the house will be boring on Saturdays.. soccer game, cartoons etc Ask yourself What are some of the luxurious life style u got and couldn't figure out on how to let go.. it could be drinking, massage parlour; smoking(if u calculate how much smoker spends in a month hmm!!!) How many rooms were u renting? Don't you think of downsizing? What about the suburbs... Some people pay so much just only for the name of a suburbs alone.. just because the name of the place is catchy.. the money they should have used to pay 2 months else where, they use it for a month.. Those where part of the unnecessary expenses... though there are many examples that Might be applicable to your situation that I can't remember to mention here.. |
| Family › Re: Advice On How To Save From A Meagre Salary by Richy4(m): 3:45pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
If you can't cultivate a saving culture now that you were earning a little , I'm afraid to say that when the big fat salaries starts rolling out, it might still be the same story because when you earn more, u spend more all things being equal. Sit down on a beautiful evening, and draw your budget.. After making your budget, Rank it from the topmost important to the least.. (scale of preferences if u remember your high school Economics class) Tell yourself how much you will save each month.. try and religiously stick to it .. If I was to be in your position, and have #20,000 coming into my account every month , I will be saving #7000 every month... I will assume/ have it @the back of my mind that I got paid 13k every month... For it to be a little bit effective try and keep it in a separate account..not in the everydayspending one where you will be looking at it day in day out.. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Richy4(m): 12:00pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
Ewuro4:Wow!!! That was those days.. |
| Family › Re: I’m Tired Of My Husband - Wife Tells Court by Richy4(m): 2:53pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Okay SO she was 17 when she got married...That's just..... |
| Family › Re: Single Ladies Beware Of Family Rooms. by Richy4(m): 3:40am On Jun 07, 2019*. Modified: 2:48pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
czarina:Thanks for clarifying that.. for a second I thought that there was a coded thing people called 'family room' that I am not aware of... |
| Crime › Re: Ekiti State University Student Attempts Suicide Over Failure In One Of His Cours by Richy4(m): 2:54pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Is this what is trending in Nigeria now suicide?what sort of nonsense is this 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: Single Ladies Beware Of Family Rooms. by Richy4(m): 2:51pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
OP What is Family room  I just googled "FAMILY ROOM" and I did not see anything unusual apart from family house, family rental design etc.. or are you talking about family section of Nairaland? |
| Family › Re: I'm Confused About My Health After My Last Abortion by Richy4(m): 9:33pm On Jun 05, 2019*. Modified: 9:54pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
People just like to play with their lives... I have no idea that nurses performs D&C.. She didn't even check U up and she already knew u were okay... and then u are practically waiting for people to tell you to go to the hospital... OK PLEASE GO TO THE HOSPITAL... and stop submitting your self for people to use u for an experiment... there are reasons why there are Doctors.. and there are reasons for Nurses... Stop confusing their job descriptions.. Just to cut costs you decided to endanger your life 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Thank U Nairaland Mods by Richy4(m): 1:38pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
sisisioge:Haba!! that is a huge Divorce already... Who is getting the house and the family car?  |
| Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Richy4(m): 9:12am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Gloriagee:Okay... If what I have posted made U happy, I'm glad for u... It shows that you are easily amused |
| Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Richy4(m): 5:14am On Jun 04, 2019 |
I like this OP too much... Though I did not read your thread.. and based on the on going discussion here, I know that I wouldn't have been on the same page with u because I'm not a fan of forcing something on someone even if I have that right.. But the reason why I am writing this is to commend on the manners in which you were handling yourself and your argument without insulting anyone.. that's really classy.... Your manners is uncommon in any Nigerian forum. .. . what I have seen from the first to the third page is enough for a pretentious person to loose it...But no, u were still holding it together.. Pls keep that up dear...Good manners can take one to where money and qualifications can't... it will take u far.. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Richy4(m): 5:19pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:It seems you are new on Nairaland.. That's why you were irritated so quickly by the moderators /Regina and family... There was a year Tonto Dike was reigning supreme on Nairaland more than this new girl...that was even before she got married... then when her wedding came up hmm mm!!!!! Then there was Another year, The Madness of Look Alike.... "They said I look like RMD is it true? " then that OP will fish out a horrifying picture of himself.. then it will move to front page...another will comeup with...My neighbour said I look like Jennifer Aniston see my pic ETC... that was what happened through out that yr..  Another year was... InI Edo shoes and chioma chukwuka shoes who wore it better... Tonto dike's makeup and Toni Braston's makeup who wore it better.. Jim Iyke skinny jeans and Mike Ezuronye Skinny jeans which one is better If I didn't break my phones all those years.. Then this Regina or whatever her name is will pass too...Just keep faith 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Richy4(m): 12:45pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
kennybabs1980:U are partly to be blamed in this anyways ie if u were the type that can handle the truth ... U collected recharge cards that u never worked for.. In this world, there's no free lunch... U payback one way or another... But next time if she gives you attitude, politely explain to her that reporting your boss to her was not in your job description.. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Richy4(m): 11:48am On Jun 01, 2019 |
That's a professional environment the last time I checked... All domestic matters should be treated in her home... Do not get involved.. Do not tell your boss anything in my opinion.. be neutral Draw a fine line between your Job and domestic issues involving your boss... Just do your Business, get paid and waka pass.. 91 Likes 4 Shares |
| Family › Re: Son Insists 94-year-Old Father Must Not Be Buried In Imo by Richy4(m): 9:15am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Human Vultures Everywhere you go...One of the problem synonymous with Polygamous homes And the people reaping the whole benefit are the mortuary Facility... Someone who died since September last year still in the morgue ... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Is Your Opinion About This? by Richy4(m): 6:47am On Jun 01, 2019*. Modified: 7:52am On Jun 01, 2019 |
sisisioge: You know me too well.. It was not my intention to pick a fight online...I hated online combat as a matter of fact. It's not my thing .. It's not even a gentlemanly thing to do... I'm not a fan of irritating questions too... u know that kinda question where one fakes as if he/she doesn't have the faintest idea on what the topic was...The Lady might not want to share if not, she would have done so..... As it is, She has given enough information that anyone wishing to give an opinion can speculate and work with... it's now her job to compile the information she gathered and take the ones relevant to her case.. Someone that is not a professional in that field subtly asking her to share that might not be the best idea...it might leave her vulnerable.. |
| Family › Re: What Is Your Opinion About This? by Richy4(m): 2:45am On Jun 01, 2019 |
bukatyne:It was self explanatory enough Dear except if u wanted gist...In case you still don't understand, then let me try and explain First probability ...it means that the lady was forced into sex without adequate preparation or when she was not ready for it by a partner or an inexperienced lover...And the experience was equal to hell here on earth... Second probability... the Lady was a rape victim.. Third probability... She may have witnessed a close one that went through hell either being Raped or intense marriage crisis by a bad partner... So the thought of that repeating it's self again scares the crap out of her.. i guess I don't need to explain the correlation between sex and marriage right? Oh! By the way anyone going through that doesn't always wanna talk about it... expecially victims of rape.. I hope this has given you a bird view of what OP was talking about ... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Is Your Opinion About This? by Richy4(m): 8:25pm On May 31, 2019 |
In my opinion.. Therapist.... He/she can talk to one it helps..A lot of people thinks it's a waste of money..I have seen someone mentioned pastors.. Pastors are not qualified therapists, people go to them in third world countries because they can't afford a real qualified therapist.. Reassurance... To take that baby steps again, He/she must start confessing within; that everyone is not like the EXS... within some period he/she will start beliving...one's reassurance that he/she was not at fault helps to ie (forgiving one's self ) He/she should not rush it... take one step at a time... a broken person needs patience and time to heal... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Wife Cries At Any Slightest Hit by Richy4(m): 5:38am On May 31, 2019 |
"Don't ever discount the wonder of tears. They can be healing water and a stream of Joy.Sometimes,they are best words the heart can speak " THE SHACK by WM Paul Young. |
| Celebrities › Re: Ernest Obi And Wife, Evi Celebrate 9th Wedding Anniversary by Richy4(m): 1:18pm On May 30, 2019 |
POKA-Messiah... The meanest Boy on Campus... I have forgotten the name of that Movie those days 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Should I Get Married Or Not? by Richy4(m): 7:30pm On May 28, 2019 |
Hey man.. Sorry for your loss... I'm glad you got the ability to step up and do the best that you can for your kids all these while... I know it's really challenging even going by your write up... But don't u think you are confusing a nanny for a wife? What we are talking about here is marriage right?.. Some one u want to share a life with.. Someone that u love not for the sake of the kids but for your own sake right? If you are doing it for the kids, then I must say that the motive for it is wrong..because u won't love the woman you just wanted someone that will take care of your kids.. For me I tag it playing with one's emotions.. If u are looking for nanny, who will relief you from some of those chores and who can take care of your kids in your absence then don't mistake the two (wife & nanny ).. I might be wrong though but Based on your write up reading between the lines, I will advise that you look for a nanny for now because u are emotionally unavailable at the moment for a wife... 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Richy4(m): 7:32pm On May 25, 2019 |
Bruised Ego 101... I can just imagine how she must have shouted it as if he was one of her staffs during the so called rush hour when the customers were everywhere and she was stressing out all by herself... No matter how many times a man confesses his undying love for his wife, I don't think any man would like to be in such situations... This is one of the things some ladies would find hard to understand... If he does it once, She will make sure that becomes part of his job description for a long period of time.. in fact the next thing will be that he will graduate into serving the customers...if he doesn't, he is inconsiderate human, egocentric etc.. big time dilemma for the man.. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Younger Sister Disrespects Me Alot - Help A First Born. by Richy4(m): 9:21am On May 24, 2019*. Modified: 1:41pm On May 24, 2019 |
OP my dear friend..Please take it easy.... I'm guessing that some female siblings were just created to annoy the male ones sometimes.. but without them, life would have been boring... Thank God I was the last.. so I ignore them with the best of my ability Let me tell u a story about my own experience that might cheer you up ..This happened about 12yrs ago.. My immediate elder Sister attended the same university with me... she was in final year Computer Engineering then.. and I was in Second year.. she lived alone off campus so was I.. One day I called her to know if she got lectures.. she said no.. so after my lecture that day, I went to her house to see if I can eat there.. When I got there, she was making her hair inside the compound where she was living ..I asked her if she got food that I was hungry.. She told me that she didn't cook any thing.. and that the last thing she will do was to stand up and start cooking.. leaving what she was doing... OK I went inside her room, took a bottle of Fanta that i saw in her fridge and her biscuits and ate.. As I was watching TV in her room, her boyfriend who was also in final year the same faculty (who is now my brother in law) came talked briefly with her I assume he was hungry as well... My sister got up from her almighty hair do, excused herself from the girl that was making her hair.. came and started cooking as if her live depended on it.. As a brat that I was then I didn't even wait for a second to tell my sis what I thought of her...I accused her in front of the guy on how she chose a total stranger over family... I walked away, went home and started cooking in anger..I remembered not speaking to her for 2 months... Up till now my brother in law worships the ground she walked on I guess it was because of that act.. but hey she is my sister and I would do anything for her.... I didn't even say anything about that to my family... I will advise that you don't hate anyone for this...not your parent because they were expecting u to be with your sister not inflict pains and bruises.. .. Not your Sister because she is a teenager and she's in that stage in life where she feels and thinks that she knows everything.. Please do not lord over her... just be the big brother that she can rely on when necessary... Do not demand that she do this or that like a Major General.. In the case of the 'no good ' guy in the compound, ask her if she thinks that guy was the best for her at this stage.. U can point out all his vices ... let her know the consequences should pregnancy or foreign STI diseases occurs... how it will ruin her or slow her down...let her make her own mistakes and learn to rectify It... If she can't make mistakes, how will she learn.. Your job is to offer support and be the voice of reason.. U cannot shield her in everything in life... Good luck my friend 112 Likes 5 Shares |
| Education › Re: ABUAD Invigilator Throws Out Sheet Of Student Who Submitted With Left Hand by Richy4(m): 8:41pm On May 23, 2019 |
Emdee590:I don't mean to quote u but I can't just help myself. I want to ask you how you arrived at the conclusion that giving someone something using the left hand was morally wrong. Who decided that fact? What was the deciding factors... u typed intelligently and please give me an intelligent answer on how you arrived at such hypothesis |
| TV/Movies › Re: Zack Orji & Eucharia Anunobi's Sex Scene In 'Glamour Girls' That Shook Nollywood by Richy4(m): 7:37pm On May 23, 2019 |
I remembered this movie and the Actors those days.. Zach Orji Sola fosudo Eucharia Anunobi Liz Benson Late Jennifer Olisa (Chinyere living in bondage May your gentle soul rest in peace dear I still miss u.. when ever I checked on YouTube for old movie and I see u I feel bad Gloria Young Pat Attah Enest Obi Ngozi Ezeonu Barbara Odor 1 Like |
| Education › Re: ABUAD Invigilator Throws Out Sheet Of Student Who Submitted With Left Hand by Richy4(m): 4:18pm On May 23, 2019 |
Students are really taking a lot of nonsense from Nigerian lectures... They (the lecturers should be happy they were in a country where the students does not know their rights) Imagine a situation where someone paid a tuition fees to aquire a degree.. and someone called a lecturer throws your script(what your future was depending on ) away because u submitted with left hand... meanwhile the school authority has received the fees u have paid.. and part of it was used to pay his salary... And some people were even supporting this sh!t...Besides was there a code of conduct or practice in place that stipulated that a student of that university in question must submit his/her script with left or right hand? 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Kano Riot by Richy4(m): 7:05am On May 23, 2019 |
When I saw the headline, I thought it was the Kano riot.. Like the Aba women riot we were taught in Government as a subject wayback OP you are a good writer... u got me hooked with your write up ... |
| Family › Re: How Do I Keep On Pushing With Nagging Relatives? by Richy4(m): 10:17pm On May 22, 2019*. Modified: 6:11am On May 23, 2019 |
Reading between the line, the way u described them shows you were not interested in them being your relatives. I might be wrong though.... According to U, U said his grandmother..(meaning your great grandma right? )... His siblings.. (meaning your aunts and uncles correct? ) ... if u wanna be living there why not try to accept them expecially when they were giving you food that u never worked for.. However, I will suggest that you try and make friends with reasonable course mate that are living off campus .. with that u can visit them twice in a week, u can even study with them during the weekend but make sure they are OK with u being around...so that u don't overstay your welcome. nothing is as embarrassing as being in a place that u were not needed ...Your relatives are looking for their space.. By staying away a little, u will be giving them what they wanted.. Also try and work it out with your dad..Tell him u can't study there the way u wanted ... That u are about to fail if u continue to stay in a place that is not conducive for learning.. let him assist you with a little money so u can share a room with someone 18 Likes |
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