When wife to be suppose they do " bridal shower" she go Waka go pastor house for mid night bible study.lt is okay�

Happy birthday dearie, age gracefully.

I need a car, l want to start bolt driving business, l need a car. I also need money for my event business.

If she eventually takes over from Biden will it be a crime??

Obaxxx:

My precious desktop charger...Even though say I use rubber band take bind am together self,the thief no send........He still went ahead to steal it.....Thief can steal anything?

Las las you no well.

If your church has a projector, you can tell the media team to help you put of the question towards the end of the service, while church members are doing ( ee ah ah uh uh) inform the choir to give you special number, also inform your pastor. Then walk to the podium collect the microphone, call her full name and ask her to marry you.
If there's no projector still inform the choir for the special number, " will you marry me" inscription put it inside an envelope and given to one the ushers to hand it over to her and instructs her to open it, while she is opening it come close to her with the ring and propose.

OloshoMan:
This girl rest abeg, she dey everywhere...we get it, nothing's gonna bring you down. Just rest

Why are you so pained?? if and when you don't have anything better to say just scroll up,she is not responsible for your problems.�

And all the men are coming here to form "holier-than-thou"(sanctimonious) Am not saying a man should marry a LovePeddler or a slut. Most of the men that are condemning women are the ones that are responsible for the reduced number of virgins on earth( either through rape or willful sex)
" If though are without sin be the first to cast a stone"
Am out of here!

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

#1 she told you she didn't want to have sex, not that she was a virgin.

#2 she may had contracted the gonorrhea long before you met her, but it was left untreated, because she was unaware.

#3 you people should stop looking for problem where there is none.

#4 unless there other reasons why you are concerned, but if is only this gonorrhea issue, "broda go home to your wife and stop disturbing us"
If we check well you also have some "skeleton in your cupboard"

Happy birthday dear, soar higher.

THE GIRL CHILD IN NIGERIA��‍♀️
( Written by Prisca Ojiobianu)

"Wow! "She just gave birth".
That is beautiful!
What is the sex of the baby?
She gave birth to a bouncing baby girl!!
AGAIN??
when she go 'born man' and what is bouncing about a baby girl", her belly no dey produce bouncing baby boy?.. and so on and and so forth....

The girl child in Nigeria usually plays second fiddle to their male counterparts. She can not do this; she's a woman; these opportunities are for males alone.

Am not a Feminist though, but some events just "beats my imagination" even in this 21st century some people still do not regard or respect the women because they feel the men are the superior being, little wonder they're not involved in most of the family deliberations even when it concerns them.

The men are the head of the family, no one is disputing that, the women on the other hand are expected to submit to their husbands, It only becomes a problem when the man wants to be the head, the neck, the the stomach, the tail of the family leaving the woman as a bystander. The women should be given their place in the family.

Some company's renumeration are higher for males even when they are in the same level with the female staff; is this not injustice?

The future they say is women, how can the women take hold of future if they can not play some roles in the present. How can we be leaders of tomorrow if we are not allowed into the corridors of leadership from today?

How do we showcase our intelligence and know-how to the world when we are not even considered as "spare parts".

As the popular mantra goes; "what a man can do a woman can do even better".
If we are not allowed the opportunity to do it, how do we do it better. I'm not saying the women are faultless and perfect.
We have our own flaws.

Ultimately, we are not dragging equality with men, mbanu!

We only want to coexist. We do not want to be maligned! We want equity and fairness and the world will have more cheers than agitations; more smiles than clamours; and more hugs than hates.

We want our voices to be heard.
We do not want to dominate, we only want to impact.
The "girlchild" want to feel free to express herself and compete favourably in today's society.
We are tired of being relegated to the kitchen and the other room. We are tired of all the humiliations and "name calling", we want to be like the other women in most civilized countries.
We want to be respected, we want to be treated right.

Alas, this is the new era for the "girlchild" and we are saying No!! to unfair and unjust treatment because we now know our worth as women. We are not trading it for anything. We are not giving up now on our dreams and aspirations because some persons has set the pace and we are not going down. We are not giving up because when we look at the likes of Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Professor Dora Akunyili, Funmilayo Ransom-Kuti, Florence lta-Giwa, Margaret Ekpo, Virginia Etiaba, Agbani Darego, Captain Chinyere Onyenaucheya, Folorunsho Alakija, Linda Ikeji, Prisca Ojiobianu and other great women in Nigeria, we believe in our hearts that we can be whatever we want to be.

So next time, you see a "girlchild" in Nigeria, you don't look down on her, rather look up to her because she has more than just being a woman to offer.

Happy international day of the girlchild to all the Amazing women on this platform. We move..

#sweetmotherhood#

Oluolad86:
Congrats, Amen to your prayer.


Please I need any blood tonic or name of herbs to boost my PCV (blood) I have tried ugu, milk and malt, they are not working. Thanks

Take syrup Didons 10ml 3times daily
Tab folic acid 1 tablet daily
Tab fesolate 1 tablet 2 times daily.
Then take garden egg, garden egg leaf.

Some of you, complaining here, that is wrong for a woman to be king of boy work under female boss that you answer yes ma'am everyday.
"Yeye dey smell"

If you like make all the money in Nigeria and America joined together, if you like spend all of them on me, but when it comes marriage which l know is a " destiny junction" l can't walk down the aisle with you just because you're rich, if you don't have other qualities l need in my man, l won't marry you.

Where is the sauce? Me l no like only rice oo

30s or 40s doesn't mean 30years or 40year it can be between 30 to 39 years or 40 to 49 years. Thank you

habsydiamond:
These people must be the youngest couple in the Guinness record that gave birth at the age of 9 n 8...cos I don't understand how a man of 40 and a woman of 30 would give birth to two boys in the university of Canada.. All I smell is lies everywhere

Red wine�

BLACK LlVES MATTER��‍♂️��
( Written by Prisca Ojiobianu)

You feel you got the superior skin colour, then why does mine bother you.
We left the most prestigious jobs for you and took up the ignoble jobs just to survive and you won't let us be! When you visit our countries, we treat you as Kings, but when you find us in your country you treat us as pigs. Education is free for all and also a fundamental right of an individual but when we excel in that sphere we can't get our dream jobs because there is a tag on our skin which is called " *Black* ". We do not feature in your movies and even when you do, we get the minor roles, even when we are the best act on set.
When we commit the same crime; to the black is "Jail him" and to the White bail him.
The black keys and the white keys are in a piano to bring forth good rhythm because the black keys are as important as the white.
You make us leave the comfort of our homes to follow you to your country in such an obscure manner, all in the name of "slave trade" we did not beg to be with you. You forced us, we served you, you tortured us, our great-grandfathers our grandfathers our fathers and now you want the children to also serve you. And when they breakfree when they rebel when they refuse, you feel is ingratitude. The children should be glad you brought their fathers to a foreign land, they should applaud you for this great opportunity and privilege, and when they refuse, you fight them with all you have.
For how long are we going to continue like this! For how long can we continue to see ourselves as seconds bests?
We are not good enough, we can never be good enough, because we have a tag on our skin " *black* " but alas we refuse to be intimidated.
We refuse to be maltreated, we refuse to be manipulated, we refuse to give up our goals because of skin colour.
All men were created equal by God and whether you like it or not, whether you accept it or not, whether you are willing assimilate the reality, we arise the New Black, the new African-American, the new being. Wherever we are, with a dark skin, we are heroes and we must succeed.
We put our best in front and our colour behind!
We match, we move like giants we are, until our names continue to be stamped on this earth! "We dont die we multiply", " we cannot touch the ground until we touch the sky" we are coming!
The world is yet to hear from us, the universe is yet to feel our waves, we will soar like the eagle and we'll fly like the birds. We will always stand strong and firm like the lion to face the challenges ahead. We are the indomitable Lions! We are Africans and our lives matter.

In memory of George Floyd( killed on 25/5/20) and all the blacks killed unjustly.

CharisEleos:
You're talking of family of four. I've seen family of 9 in one room. 7 children with husband and wife. Though the man later took the room beside them when the tenant there left.

Some women are the cause of this. You know the condition you live in and you'll still be producing children anyhow..

Is the man that impregnate the woman, before she can give birth, and in most cases this kind of people if their wife's denial them sex they will " beat the hell out of them"

Phcmayor:
I greet everyone here
I need food that I can eat to gain weight am weighing 40 something at the age of 23.

Please help me I look like 18 years and can't proudly stand with my mates cus of my body size

Which food and drinks can i take

Thanks

l don't know what your monthly income is, but if you want to add weight you have to be spending at least 10k a month.
(1) Buy Apetamin syrup #3500 or mamamin syrup#3000 ( they do same work) at least two bottles a month take 10ml 3 times a day.
(2) Get fresh yo, or any other sweetened yogurt, ice cream
(3) Bananas, Avocados
(4) peanut, cashewnuts, groundnut.
(5) pizza, sharwama, burger, chicken pie
(6) Eggs, rice, yam, beans, plantain.

MejiLoyon:
Hehehehe.... Nigerians. Brain too much

Now them don turn Holy Mary mother of God to Holy Mary mother of Drugs. As drugs dey make person craze this particular Mary no be Hail Mary full of Grace but
Hail Mary full of Craze.

You no well las las.

But if they keep condom you will not object, no body is forcing you to use it .

DEPRESSION����

INTRODUCTION
With the recent happenings in Nigeria, and the world at large, a lot of persons are going into depression, the number of persons keep increasing with each passing day when compared with what we used to have. Depression does not only affect the old, young people can also be depressed.
Families, friends and religious community have a big role to play. We should not always assume that" all is well" with someone we know, we should always make an effort to call and ask our family members, our friends and church members how they are fairing, with that we will be able to detect who is going into depression and help the person before it goes " out of hand."(sweetmotherhood)

POINTS TO NOTE

- Do not take any suicide threat from someone you know as a joke.

- When a person's attitude changes from being lively to being moody, ask to Know what happened.

- When family member or friend keep locking his or her self in the room, find out what is going on.

- when there's a change in behavior, when he or she does not communicate with you as usual, do not assume the person is forming big boy/girl ask why.

- When your spouse, children or friends suddenly starts keeping late night, do not start nagging, try to find out what is going on, they may be going to the bar to "drink away their sorrow."

- When someone voices out, that he/she is depressed, please reach out.(sweetmotherhood)

DEFINITION

Depression is a mood disorder that involves a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest. Major life events, such as bereavement or loss of job can lead to depression.

SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS

- A depressed mood
- loss of sexual desire
- Reduced interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed
- Unintentional weight loss or gain
- changes in appetite
- sleeping too much or too little
-Agitation, restlessness and pacing up and down
- slowed movement and speech
- fatigue or loss of energy
- feeling of worthless or guilt
- Difficulty thinking, concentrating, or making decision
- Recurrent thought of death or suicide or an attempt at suicide.

CAUSES

The medical community does not fully understand the cause of depression. There are many possible causes and sometimes various factor combine to trigger symptoms.
Factors that are likely to play a role includes;
- Genetic features
- Changes in the neurotransmitters level.
- Environmental factors
Psychological and social factors
- Additional conditions such as bipolar disorder

TYPES OF DEPRESSION

(1) Major depression: A person with major depression experiences a constant state of sadness. They may lose interest in activities that they used to enjoy.

(2) persistent depressive disorder: Also known as dysthymia, this disorder causes symptoms that last at least 2 years. A person with this disorder may have episodes of major depression as well as mild symptoms.

(3) Psychotic depression: some people experience psychosis with depression. Psychosis can involve delusion such as false belief and detachment from reality. It can also involve hallucinations; sensing things that do not exist.

(4)Post- partum depression: After giving birth, many women experience what some people call the "baby blues" when hormone levels readjust after birth, changes in mood can result.
N/B: Anyone who experiences ongoing depression after delivery should seek medical attention.

TREATMENT

- SUPPORT: This can range from discussing practical solutions and possible causes to educating family members.

- PSYCHOTHERAPY: Also known as talking therapy, some options includes; one on one counseling and cognitive behavior therapy (CBT)

- DRUG TREATMENT: A doctor may prescribe, antidepressants

- FOOD AND DIET: Result of a 2019 study suggest that eating more of the following foods helped reduce depression symptoms ( fruits, vegetables,fish and olive oil)

- EXERCISE: Aerobic exercise raises endorphin levels and stimulate the neurotransmitters norepinephrine, which is linked with mood. This may help relieve mild depression.

- BRAIN STIMULATION THERAPIES: These are another treatment options. For example repetitive transcranial magnetic stimulation sends magnetic impulses to the brain, and this may help treat major depression.

CONCLUSION

People experience depression in different ways. It may interfere with your daily work resulting in lost of time and lower productivity. It can also influence relationships and some chronic health conditions.
Early detection and prompt treatment is usually the best way to manage depression. We know many life situations can lead to depression, but that is not the " end if the road" talk to someone today if you are depressed and get help. We do not want to lose you.�

www.medicalnewstoday.com
www.mayoclinic.org
www.webmd.com

Questions and comments

#sweetmotherhood#

That is what you get when you date a deeper life sister or any of those related church sisters, don't put the blame on them is just their rule and they have to obey it.

I think what happens after marriage has something to do with"the law of diminishing marginal utility" where satisfaction is derived at early consumption and less satisfaction for further consumption.
Again after child birth, the mother is more concerned with taking care of the baby and the stress that goes with that may not allow her to have sex as before.
Also after childbirth the vagina is slightly wider than the pre- delivery size, which may make her enjoy sex less( especially when the man's sexual organ is small)
Above all the couple should discuss their feelings and concerns and try to work around it. For me l don't think is an impossible situation, something can be done.

2021 BELONGS TO YOU, TAKE IT!
( By Prisca Ojiobianu)

In the next few days, "happy new year" will become one form of our daily greetings. Indeed it is a "happy new year because we survived 2020, but we should not allow the euphoria of the yultide season to distract us from our focus.
The new year is here and it is only those who are willing to grab every good opportunity that will definitely possess the year.

From the series of events of 2020, even the "blind could see" that for one to succeed, one has to make a paradigm switch from the existing "status quo" and do things differently. It's no longer business as usual! Times have changed, businesses are now moving from buying and selling to a customer in your shop to online business where you don't need to see the buyer to sell your products.
In a country like ours, certificates like(OND, HND, BSC, MSC,PHD) etc are not the only key to success, because many have these certificates for the past ten years and more and still not employed in any company or parastatal in Nigeria.
When Nigeria youths were referred to as "lazy", the only action that showed they were exasperated were series of rant on social media and no corresponding action to show they were actually infuriated or peeved. Am not saying the government was right when they called Nigerian youth lazy, NO! But some of the youths who are genuinely without jobs should have turned the insult to result. Community services would have been applauded, joining Ngos even if there's no pay just to gain experience or getting a skill to keep them busy should have been a good step to take.
To take this 2021 and posses it, we have to look beyond the "white collar" jobs and start going for skills that are lucrative in this country, if we should x-ray what happened in December 2020, while some salary earners were complaining of unpaid salaries, mechanics, seamstress/tailors, hair stylists among others were cashing out big in the tones of thousands. Little wonder they could comfortably afford to buy most of the things the public servants could not afford.
If at this point in this country, you are still waiting for government to do something, you need to grab a seat with a basin of popcorn because you will have to be waiting for so long - if not forever.
The internet is there for us to get information, use the information and better our lives, but while some persons use the internet to make lots of money, majority of the people are spending lots of money on the internet without gaining anything.
There is no time for the "blame game", you don't have to blame your parents, your uncles that refused to help you or even the government. In as much as they have to take some responsibilities at some stages in your life, you owe yourself most of the things you desire.
You are the architect of your life. How you plan it, is how it will be. There is no magic, that your parents failed, your brothers and sisters failed doesn't mean you must fail, failure is not a "hereditary disease", you will only fail when you refuse to analyze what lead to their failure and try not to "tow that lane", or if you refuse to do things differently from how they did it.
The world belongs to you, even from the history of creation, God commanded us to be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth and subdue it ( Gen 1: 28) for some persons the only part they understood was to multiply, no wonder they keep multiplying the number of their children every year without proper plan for their future. Why can't we multiply plants and seeds, why don't we go into agriculture. Some people feel they are too big to go into agriculture. It mustn't be planting, there are other areas like, fish farming, livestock( chicken and turkey) do you know how much people make selling only chicken during Christmas period? and you are still waiting for someone to employ you in one big company? Well, we are also praying for you, but before the big job comes, can't you do something with your life?
Why wait?
2021 belongs to those who are willing to take the bold step.
Are you ready? Are you willing? It is not going to be easy. I'm not promising you a hitch- free venture, or am I assuring you that the journey will be like" a walk in the park".
There will be ups and downs, trials and errors are usually there especially for starters but don't be discouraged.
For every dream that you have that is legit, that dream is also valid.
It may take time just continue to "push until something happens". You may sweat, you may also cry but the drops of sweat and tears serves as water that waters the seed you are planting. At the appointed time, they will grow, not as seeds this time, but as fruits and leaves that will provide both food and shelter for many.
Finally as the saying goes, "show me your friends and l will tell you who you are"It is about time you disassociate yourself from people who do not add value to your life. Do not make friends with pessimists, and do not sit in the company of lazy people.
I believe in my heart and without any "fear of contradiction" that if we do our best this year, we will achieve more, just acquire a new skill( some of this skills are free, so check out for churches or Ngos that are organizing it) apart from skills we should have plan B in anything you do. It can be anything, just look out for needs in your area that you can meet and make money from there.
We should let go of fear because it's one of the militating factors to success. Let's rise above our failures, limitations, situations and difficulties. When we do this the "sky will be our starting point.
We are the giant of Africa, the lion of Africa, is about time we take the "bull by the horn" we should take hold of the future, because the future surely belongs to us and 2021 lS OURS TO TAKE.

The world is waiting for you!
Your generation is itching to celebrate you!
Stand up and be counted as the next superstar���.

Happy new year�

Written by
Prisca Chinwendu Ojiobianu.

You people know that there is no good road in Abia state, that is why they came prepared (with their private jet and helicopters) God go judge all of you.

It's well bro, l don't want to really add to your problem but l just want to ask some basic questions.
You guys were dating for 6 years, was it just for dating sake or were you guys planning for marriage?
If you were not planning to marry her is good as she left so she can plan for her future, l don't know how old she is but most men don't like marrying ladies above 28.
But if you guys were planning marriage and she just left; is either she is wicked or she met a richer guy or you are not the type of person she wants for marriage.

Abeg which one is burnt orange again, (colour of the day)someone should help.

This is a mental condition, it does not affect only males but females too. You need to see a psychologist, or a psychiatrist, for proper management before is too late.

The babe sha