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AyeeIdris:
That was not the original outfit. The photographer photoshopped a red dress over her Cos her clothes were too ordinary. Do your research before concluding

So the picture was indeed a deliberate attempt not a photobomb

A photobomb is someone spoiling a picture they are not meant to be in, in Olajumoke's case, she is the picture. Think about that.

sweetilicious:
OP listen carefully cos i know you love her so much. She can't face you to tell you what the problem was. She is going through alot now. Don't you ignore her. This is the time to act matured and show her you are the best. We women love to settle down with men that are matured in thinking and how they handle situation. This is what real women want from men and not money. Don't call her. If you know her house, go to her house, get a gift with you while going no matter how little it is. Write a letter to her. In it, tell her she is the one that got your heart. Tell her you know what she might be passing through but that you respect her wishes and you would love to abide by it. Tell her you love her and that you pray for God's guidance and protection around her. That's all. Do not beg nor ask her what the problem was. Do not call her all the while. If you do this, you won't feel guilty of letting her go or not calling cos if you listen to pple telling you to ignore her just like that, you won't have peace. Give her time to come around later and explain by herself what happened. If she doesn't, you will still be able to move on well. LOOK at me giving advice while my boyfriend did the same to me. But i did this and was able to move on wella and now he is running helter skelter to get to me. I believe He wouldn't try it again. This is a rude, senseless, immatured, disgusting manner to end a relationship Nairalanders.

Rubbish! She didn't respect him enough to carry him along but u want the guy that has done nothing to keep begging like someone with low self esteem.

@OP,

Don't reply, don't call...move on. If she is busy enough to not pick your call, u should get the message loud and clear.

She still finds time to meet other people only u thehe so called BF is not worth seeing or talking to. Think about that.

At last, an intelligent Nigerian that didn't fall for the OlaJumoke photobomb crap.

I endorse the post 100%

Mcbussy:
Yes, you are partially right, but all d whole "positive signs" or "signs of love" go down the drain when she gives him a new impression that the attraction could have come due to her hunger for money, which he probably has. Some guys get blunt the moment they start doubting the motive of such attraction.

U beat me to it. God bless u!

When u were asking for money, u didn't realise he was twelve years older?

The guy likes u but couldn't figure out why he has to be spending money on a girl that practically threw herself at him. He now doubts if your feelings was genuine or u are just pretending so u can suck him dry of his money.

Stop demanding money and u guys will be cool.

http://news.yahoo.com/heartbreaking-photos-of-starving-witch-boy-105623103.html

This story is about a boy accused of witch craft and abandoned in Nigeria that needs help, why foreigners were busy donating money for this cause, we were busy promoting a bread selling model.

Just be yourself and you must indeed know how to operate the computer.

An insightful and educative thread on nairaland at last.

This was what the old nairaland was about, intelligent discuss, until kids invaded the site...

LordAdam:
From a basic standpoint, the overbloated and inefficient civil service is a problem. However, it is not the root cause, especially when you extrapolate from a specific country to the whole continent. It is only a symptom of the problem. The root cause of the failures in Africa, in my opinion, is the fact that the people are simpletons. It is the people not those in power.

If we want to succeed, we have to change how we think, how we do things, and thoroughly evaluate what we want and how to get there.

The success of the pan-African movement championed by Zik, Nkrumah, Kaunda et al was that they had a different thought-process from the average African, possibly because they had western schooling. I'm not ass-licking now, but western education expanded their intellect. Why their pet projects failed was because they had vision but lacked the requisite supportive hands to bring that vision to reality. This is because the people they had to use still had the depressive, retrogressive African thought process.

Today the pan-African movement is dead and disgraceful because the original thought process behind it has been corrupted by the retrogressive basic African thought process.

Even if you streamline the work force, what about the crippling violent ethnic tensions and massive corruption tendencies? What about the accountability deficit? How about the irrepressible drive to celebrate mediocrity? What about the absolute lack of good governance and respect for rule of law? Look at the supposed African leaders at the AU? The current AU chairman is the president of Chad who has been in seat for 26 years.

Reducing the civil service will not magically erode these problems. In fact, the reason why we cannot reinvigorate the civil service is because of these problems.

-Lord

My nairaland post of the year!

Cmeo:
Of course I knew there is something up about Olajumoke this...!, bread seller that...!

It was just a marketing strategy well played out by TYBello and her crew. How can one explain all this news and contract signing without prior serious strategic behind the scene? From my experience, contracts negotiation, signing and the likes is not done at the pace these people are presenting Olajumoke case to us.

As a business person, I salute TYBello for her this 21st century strategic marketing plan cum business show.

I wrote exactly the same thing on another thread. This is well laid out plan and I disagree with the coincidence story they are feeding the masses

Nigerians will use their warped mentality of everyone is against us to ruin this guy.

Drawsoup:
If all the people that dropped number are really good forcaster as they claim then they should be millionaires by now.

A thinking man at last.

Lack of knowledge and exposure being promoted as facts.

Elparaiso:
Even the oga columnist has issues with "I'm and Am".
Let us learn how to use "your and you're" also.

If we could communicate properly, it won't be that hard for us na...




Oh Lord, may my words not be obstacles to me. IJN

Thank you! He should remove the log in his own eyes too

Sheggy13:
Meaning everyone in Osun is either a thief or gambler based on your idiotic statistic. Is this what Nigerian education has turned to-churning misfits like this? The school you graduated from have some questions to answer.

When employers say they are unemployable, they come online an cry blue murder. Is the guy worthy to be called a graduate?

When I read what most Nigerian graduates put online, I cannot help but wonder, has it really gone this bad or this is just a figment of my imagination?

Vig86:
I served in Osun state and I can confidently say that 35% of Osun people are thieves and the remaining 65% are gamblers.

THEY STOLE MY PHONE AND I CAN NEVER FORGET IT. WHENEVER I REMEMBER OSUN STATE, I REMEMBER THIEVES AND LOT OF GAMBLERS. Quote me again and have self-induced sleepless night.

See reasoning of a Nigerian university graduate......

Emotional intelligence =0

IQ = <20

Moz22:
I know of 3 branch managers of Banks that check out this site..I worked in Uba and I was surprised when I saw some of them checking out nairaland on their pcs and mobile fones..they just don't comment.

CEO of one of the major betting companies
GMs in one of the major telecom firms
A lot of professionals, too numerous to mention
HR managers of some MNCs.....
I hang around these people and they all know this site very well.

AnaCheks:
We have people here in NL, big time professionals in different careers. God bless u all helping out in any way u can.

That is what majority of the kids that are quick to insult fail to understand. There are a lot of important people that read this site.

They hardly comment but there are here. I know a few.

Donpressman:
See in the future lemme tell you what will happen. Fayose is creating so much friend as much as he's creating enemies presently with his outspoken nature. Now in the future is friends will remain - of which am one of them. And his present enemies (due to current political affiliation) would have woken up to the realization of the fact that Fayose spoke the truth today because they would have the benefit of hindsight by then. Have you been to the market this week? How is the price of commodities due to dollar rate? what is he doing about the economy? Has he spoken a word remotely related to how he plans to move us forward? Hate him or love him he just spoke the truth about the realities on ground and Buhari's ineptness. Where is this country heading with Buhari at the helms.

So Buahri is responsible for the crash in the value of naira? Common..Buhari has his flaws but don't give a dog a bad name to hang it.

Mind you, you have made my post about Fayose vs Buhari, but it is deeper than that, if he likes let him release press statement every hour about Buhari, it doesn't matter. What matters is what Fayose himself achieves as a governor. His focus on the centre is not what he was voted in to come and do....and I stand by my ealier

Donpressman:
Oga leave story. Buhari and OBJ can't do Fayose a jack. That guy on is own na irumole. The economy can't be this bad and ur president is doing nothing and everyone remains silent. Just imagine the last paragraph. who does that? Buhari traveling round the world with tax payers money to tell the whole world we are corrupt people. Dollar to naira is now well over 300. Na small time everybody eye go soon open - mine is already!

You are talking now, I am talking future. Fayose is still a little young. Buhari, Obasanjo and co may not be on the scene in 10yrs time, by that time he will understand.

He needs to show a little tact as a politician.

Faoyse may be right most times but he is pushing his luck too far by talking too much...

Play politics but your main focus should be your primary consistuency which is Ekiti state.

I would have loved if he is performing miracles in Ekiti but going by standard of governance, nothing special. He thinks he is invincible by winning Ekiti alone.

As much as I do not like Saraki, he is a master strategist that understands how politics should be played. Fayose will end up as a guy that will be called upon only for roforofo issues in the future. He is not showing enough intelligence and tact with all these press releases.

If he indeed gave u the girls number to try your luck, you have done nothing wrong.

However, there is something wrong with you and your friend that wanted to stick your kini into the same hole...that shows lack of class and maturity.

STFUareyouGod:
Bros, it's just so obvious, it's staged! Trust me. She's not the first to photocrash. But for the Nigerian that we all are, we are very quick to believe it's Gods work ignoring the obvious truth right in front of us

Bless U!

A thinking Nigerian....Nigeria has the worst bandwagon mentality in the whole world...that was why millions took their bath with conc salt water less than 24hrs a mofo started the rumour during Ebola.

They won't believe u because this feeds their believe that one day, they will get lucky like Jumoke.

I am appalled people are still not believing this a properly arranged promo....why she was selected? I don't know but I am certain everything is prearranged.

Still waiting for when Toyota will dash her a car.

If they push too much, everything will come crashing down...Nigerians have bought it.

Give us something more than a picture series...channels tv, silverbird, anyone?

Now they are making her look like she has something special....she didn't find cure for aids or discover where Chibok girls are..

Much respect to TY Bello and the organisers.

To all those praying to God to make your case like hers, it is not going to happen...get to work! Hard work!!!

This actually encourages laziness among the youths especially girls...I will rather put the young engineering students assembling pangolo all over our tertiary institution or the Hausa man that built a house from bottles in this house than this money down the drain.

shynerd:
People should understand the back story before judging. The protester is a supporter of Bernie Sanders, the other Democrat running against Hillary Clinton for US president. Madeleine Albright said a special place in hell is reserved for women who refuse to vote for Clinton. She played the feminism card. However most young women support Sanders who is male, and thus found Albright's words offensive and unnecessary. Thus the poster.

At last! We have a winner.

Nigerians started commenting and posting without understanding why she carried the placard.

Girl fight on this thread is

GogobiriLalas:
Still donbiliv it's not all one big publicity stunt

Of course it is, and majority have swallowed this hook, line and sinker.

Then she is not your girlfriend, move on.