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Pshycos!

I don't know why men like this piss me off...just a little IQ point above animals.

You walked into your friends room by mistake while he was making love, assuming that's true, and what comes to your mind is to persuade the girl to let you join.


what kind of people are these?

missingrib:
same here with ladies....u don't want them to demand but you guys will keep demanding for sex...when u know you can't cater or don't want her to demand why asking her out in the first place

Are u having sex with your boyfriend because u feel emotional connection with him and love him, or because u see sex as a way to make money?

Every time a lady says guys ask for sex so they ask for money It makes me wonder.


When did getting into a relationship become a financial burden on men?

While your man is making money, what were u exactly doing with your time?

I just had to quote you.

God bless you! We need more people that reason like you.

Twy:
I will still say your reasoning is false. Frankly, in the western or reasonable world the best thing for Dino to do is apologize. But in an unresonable country like Nigeria you have to throw reason out of the window. My thought is based on reason not irrationality. Dino's words if he can't or won't apologize should be upheld as a word the man believes he can achieve or had done before. In a reasonable world, investigations will be done on his past especially his domestic abuse past to see if he is actually believes what he is saying (atleast to a poor female not to Tinubu's wife). What many don't understand his Dino is not going to rape Tinubu's wife but Dino may beat the average girl, rape the average girl or father children endlessly. The question has to be about Dino's character. It is about Tinubu's character but Tinubu did not say I will beat you up like someone who means it. Be wary of people you support because tomorrow they will be raping the country and the powerless or irrational Nigerians will do nothing.

He should be shot immediately!!!!!

greenpasture:
Here is a man who resisted the theft of a mandate to the end. And here you are waxing lyrical about Fayose because ( as your moniker shows) you hate Buhari. This is polarity thinking - the taking of extreme views because of an inability to hold two opposing views in one's head at the same time.

Polarity is attractive because it is simple.

But it certainly isn't smart. There are many things we can learn from things and people we don't like. Life isn't black or white, it's nuanced. If you keep thinking this way - you will appear straight forward and full of conviction. The level of your reasoning however will be shallow and you will not be able to go beyond very basic arguments, especially when speaking to knowledgeable people. My advice. Hope you take it well

I will love to be your friend.

Your post is not meant for whoever is behind that moniker alone but more than 90% of posters in politics section. A few years back, I come here to read intellectual posts in politics section coupled with Nigerian political history.. what we have right now shallow thinking individuals that have held onto a postion no matter what compelling evidence stares them in the face.

The landlord is so wrong..if this were 5am the next day, I would have had sympathy for him.

The student is an adult and barging into the room is not the appropriate way to enforce such law.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
4 and 9 are big fat lies, you can tell that to the birds! That I don't have boobs doesn't make me stupid!

Social media has feed mans narcissistic tendencies beyond mans own understanding

Congratulations...Offa is an okay town..what majority of people in the so called cities and towns fail to understand is ; it is better to live in a 3 bedroom flat in Offa than 1 small room in okokomaiko.

Offa has more than okay neighbourhod for your current profile to meet some of your social needs as well.

If you focus and improve yourself on the job..your stay there maybe temporary. Telecoms firms always prefer their best technical hands where their biggest infrastructure and customers are.

What about widowers?

truthsayer007:
Yea very true, But its very bad when you see a man helping you extra ordinarily and you never bothered to ask why. And he his even married for that matter.

If he was single, that is another story entirely.

Am sure she knew his intentions from onset, don't start what you can't finish.

1. He promotes you (Which means you don't deserve it)
2. I get whatever that is due to me (you can't even prove that it is due to you)
3. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave (meanwhile, am sure he declined leave for every other person in such a situation)

One month paid leave or Un-paid leave (Abeg lets be realistic here).

4. He helped to buy a land, invest my savings. (I'm sure he probably helped add extra money so you purchase the land and finish paying)

What pisses me off is Women start collecting all this things they know he his married, probably with Wife and Kids.

Stop collecting gifts or extra help from married men, so you will have a less dramatic life.

If he was single, its different..You can now make a choice of whether you like to go ahead in a Relationship or Backoff, But now you can't even make any choice. because you knew what was happening from On Set.

Lets not deceive ourselves here.

1,000,000 Likes!!!

You are so down to earth and real! She knew all along what the man wanted so why pretend u didn't know when he eventually asked u out?

Isnt this line of thought exactly what brought about Boko Haram in the North?

greenpasture:
These militants are doing incalculable harm to the states and Governors that grant them safe abode. There is now a widespread feeling of entitlement that says everyone deserves a good life even if they lack skills and refuse work that they consider beneath them. What's worse many applaud them.

The corrosive effect of this type of thinking will become apparent in a few years. Students in university want six figure salaries because they copied each other's script for several years. Those who want to create value are being kidnapped, robbed, raped and driven out. The rest fight ethnic wars, achieving dubious nobility by insulting people on the Internet.

The price tag for this type of behavior is coming up for payment. Soon.

Golden generation? More like gold paint.

You are a wise man...this has always been my submission. We are indirectly encouraging the most dangerous type of selfishness where people that do not have any skills or add any form of value thibk they deserved to be millionaires.

Due to ethnic and religious bias we all fail to see this but blame the man at the center.

See majority of the comments of average Nigerians blaming the OP.

Instead of us to condem the criminals we started calling OP mumu , JJC etc.

IMO , OP has done nothing wrong..we form religiousity but majority will immediately take advantage of anyone that comes with an open mind.

I insist, our leaderhsip issues is a reflection of our value system.

Will the guys that cheated him would still not have made profit if they had bought or assited the OP genuinely?

1babeonly:
I think is bad government that causes an investor not be able to settle his debts, because if the economy is running, ceteris paribus, return on investment will be able to finance a loan collected from financial institutions but due to hardship, bad economic transformation and change, where everything is at stand still, most investors have quite, the surviving business will definitely suffers low return and would not be able to finance its debts.

So technically it is still Buharis fault...A loan that was taken since 2009.

Winneygirl:
Marriage is a partnership.
This is not about what each party earns, but what they both earn and how it is managed.
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This is her family too. Whatever money you give your wife still goes into running the home.

Did u read the OPs post? I doubt.

She does not spend kobo in running the home, earns a decent salary and still wants her husband to pay her for being the wife because that is the way I see it.

She wants to be paid for marrying him ..

Winneygirl:
Honestly, I don't see anything outrageous here.
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If you both had a long term plan.. eg build a house since kids are still young and are not gulping down half your income as school fees....the talk would not be about monthly allowance, it will be about proper financial planning to safeguard the future.
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Besides, you didn't tell us how much you earn, how much you allocate for housekeeping, and how much you actually spend on yourself.
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Until we see both sides of the coin, we can't conclude that she is making an unreasonable demand.

Really? So she is just entitled to his money even if what she makes is enough.

A genuinely funny actor not those that dwell on abusive languages, irrational stuff or weird dressing.

I just do not understand why this cracked me up.

Two dull people sezing...

jagojunior:
Everyone is shouting regionalism or true federalism citing laziness mentality in the current sytem as their reason. My question is this:is there any state that isn't dependent on oil presently? Are we saying that only the States blessed with crude oil currently have the right to be Lazy cos if regionalism comes into play today the proceeds from the sale of oil will go to only them (ie breeding worse spoilt lazy bones).
I'm a realist and the truth is: you can't just come on a hot day in a hot season when the entire country is experiencing so much hardship and start screaming regionalism/resource control. Even you own baby needs to be weaned over a period of time with the sole aim of pushing him/her to Independence. Remember this saying "The peace you make available to your neighbors is the peace you will enjoy", the mess we are currently in as a country needs to be cleaned to a reasonable extent and value reorientation needs to be established in the minds of many of us (especially our leaders) before any discussion about regionalism would yield the expected results.

Does having crude oil in a State translate to hard work by the people of that State? I seriously need to see the hard work in individuals from States blessed with crude oil who have been screaming regionalism like they are better than others.

I read here some days back that the FG is looking for major shareholders in the Brass LNG project in Bayelsa State. Instead of Bayelsa indigenes to look inward and motivate their billionaires to cease this opportunity, they will be playing dumb until outsiders partner with the FG then in a few years time, you will hear them screaming marginalisation listing names of outsiders that are benefiting from that project.

It's a real pity that we really don't know what our problems are in this great country. Bring regionalism today and see how the whack wicked greedy leaders usurp all the power and continue this vicious cycle over again. Even lazy bones are now calling others lazy like the crude oil in their region was brought there through their hard work.
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Let's fvcking grow up already, gosh!!

1 million likes.

You crystalized my thoughts.

omonnakoda:
Someone has to call you out I did too bad if you do not like it . I do not really care what you think so spare me the sob story . You are no arbiter of what is superior your remark arrogated some delusiional superiority to your self and in the proceeds denigrated every other previous commenter. My point is simple. You are no different from any other person here and have no warrant to issue absurd imprimaturs

Of course I am different. I didn't follow the crowd lije everone else..why that is your problem as if u know me is person is what I don't understand. Calling me iut changes nothing. And yes, I am have a superior level of intelligence than majority of the posters and you calling me out changes nothing.

ollah1:
So a 20 yr old boy is a kid to you? Must he tell his parents every of his dealings. If he tries visa lottery online and decided to hide it from his parents, does that mean he has done bad? Nigerians and their flawed way of thinking.

Why can't he be into importation of goods? Wht if his so called friend was an ex secondary school mate who buy things cheaply in the states and ships it down to Nigeria to be sold while he credits his Nigerian account and the seller keeps some change from the profits.

Virtually every father in Lagos who isn't ready to waste his time or child's would sort the men in black something at that point. Why are u talking as if na u holy pass? By your logic, all the people you know/heard that bribed the police committed a crime right?

It is your way of thinking that is flawed by not seeing the loopholes in a story he wrote without any form of threat to him.

If he is such and adult, he wouldn't call his dad but handle his business like an adult.

Did he tell u his friend was an ex school mate...the truth is he came here to receive sympathy but deliberately told half truths because he is guilty as charged.

U see, holiness and law abiding are two different things..

Bribery is a crime...If I am innocent I will NEVER offer a bribe ..

ollah1:
Why are some Nigerians always quick to label a young hustling guy particularly westerner a yahoo boy. Ohh he bribed the police means he is a yahoo boy. By your logic, if u bribe road safety or police cos of some vehicular things means the car was stolen?

Can't a young guy have a friend in the states without been labelled a yahoo boy? You should have ur method of thinking rechecked

Read his story..he even claimed he hid his business dealings from his parents at 20, and claimed he is in to importation but what he imports he didn't reveal. A 20yr old businessman that doesn't want his parents to know what he does, with yahoo boys number 1 chat app on his phone, dresses like one and he is willing to bribe his way out when found out. Tell me another story.

The fact that the father was also willing to bribe is the nail on his coffin.

No one is perfect, police have their lapses but they also know when they are close to someone that have something sinister to hide.

omonnakoda:
You can smile all you like ,bottomline is you have no mandate to determine who is a superior mind.We all have opinions and I acknowledge my opinion is no better than any other persons just different.I do not for one moment think I have superior cognition to anyone but certainly will call out anyone who deigns to arrogate such authority

Please stop , you are sounding ridiculous. You accuse someone of having no right to claim superior intelligence but arrogantly think you have the powers to call such people out.

The hypocrisy in your accusation is now disgusting. U see, what u call me is exactly what u are. I thought I am having a discussion with a matured mind.

omonnakoda:
Read my earlier response I do not disagree with you I just think your opinion is like mine, opinion and nothing more.You have no reason to suggest yours is superior to those who do not share your perspective. Such a lack of intellectual humility, a failure to acknowledge that you could be wrong or that equally intelligent or more intelligent people presented with the same facts may draw opposite conclusions is a sign of weak intellect.Why are you so sure? You are not open minded as you preach

Unfortunately, you have committed the same folly you accused me off..

I am smiling because u are guilty off the same allegation of what u say about me.

omonnakoda:
And who appointed you arbiter of discerning minds. The fact that an idea chimes with you does not make it good .You only reveal the lacuna in you inchoate mind with pronouncements like that.

Read the OPs message with an open mind and not with bias poont of view against the police...

He hid his business dealings from his parents at 20, and he is willing to bribe police men for being innocent .....

His dad also ce amd was willing to bribe so he can be released...too many flaws ...Op is a yahoo boy, shikena

anyicash:
from the way you make some certain comments, my brother you are 60% a yahoo boy. but it does not matter to me.

OP is a yahoo boy. I am shocked a lot of people did not read some undelying messages embedded in his write up

jobdone:
op, I doubt if you are not what they said you are.

1:why not disclosing what you are doing to your dad?

2; Tell me why your dad against you? I was expecting you to tell us that ....and my dad fought with force men that my son is not a yahoo boy.


3: You agreed to bribe the force men


4: Later, your dad bribed them


Now let me see who will quote me wrong if I will not tell sai buhari

You are one of the only two discerning minds on this thread. I quoted the first person too.

I am 100% certain the OP left out some important details. He is an importer with a friend in Los Angeles but couldn't tell us what he imports and why the dad was willing to bribe for him to be released

Jalinco:
You have KIK apps on your phone, yahoo boys use KIK apps for their jobs, you live in Omu Aran you claim you chat with a female friend in Los Angeles. With your necklace, chain or whatever , sorry you are not far from being a yahoo boy.
Sorry I donbilifyu

Police are criminals and their ways are not pure but OP owns story and profile fits that of a yahoo boy...he also claims he is an importer, importer of what? He left that out in his story.....

OP may not be a yahoo boy but , his profile is sooo close to one

dotcomnamename:
Smh. You can just read. You don't have to comment.

You can just read, u don't have to quote

A 9yr old did not write that...I can bet a million naira..

The words are too strong.

Social media is making people seek attention so much they will generate rubbish to get attention.

Adeparo004:
I guess u guys re not getting it, SMS alert is not composory u just need it to knw if u hv a transction... And pls let stop dis habit of I want every thing to be FREE..9ja my people

The FREE mentality has reached a disgusting level.

OP came online to complain about #56 naira deduction that happened once in a month...seriously?

How long has he been with First Bank and how long has he noticed the deduction for OP to come online to tranish a companys reputation with such an heading.

Another thing I have noticed is Nigerians hardly use the channels made available to resolve issues by organisations. Their first instict is to use social media, that will make them more popular and noticed instead of writing a mail or putting a call across to customer care.