₦airaland Forum

hispinkolo:
@ronke,
I have a bit of time right now,yes.
It's just a suggestion to the poster so she doesn't lose her mind and get swamped.
It is easier to do a bit at a time than get choked up by chores.
I will start work as soon as i am done with my exams,i know it will be tougher but at least if there is a semblance of order i believe it will make things much simpler.

You are so right, and i wish you luck in your exams, don't worry everything will ease out well when you start working You will just have to do more adjustment here and there.

Hispinkolo, that is nice!!!!! You have all the time in your hands to do what you do.

^^^^^ my dear, they call it ''parole''. ( the in-thing'' to marry a younger man and date sugar daddys' for ''maintainance''). Can you imgaine.

I so agree that the failure of so many marraiges are due to the type of training or lack of it received from their parents.

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x

born2fuck:
Make him change the CD to Terry G , Na both of them go wake up

dayokanu:
Have you seen anyone do that mortar and Pestle thing in America? Lailai

With all these wooden houses before you crash the whole edifice altogether

I have not seen them physically pounding the yam, but i have seen the mortar and pistle in a friend's kitchen and she said she uses it. so there are people that might be pounding for real in the same obodo oyinbo.

dayokanu:
Ah ah.

Who in this current world especially those staying in Obodo Oyinbo would have time or the luxury of pounding yams?

Have you seen any Naija man living abroad who insist his wife prepares him Pounded yam (by mortar and pestle) daily after she returns from work.

This is a house and incidents happen everyday its either one happens or the other.

I be proper Ondo girl, so when you talk about ''ponded yam'' i think of the real thing not the counterfeit. I don't mind doing the mortar and pistle thingy ooo, na the yam be dey koko.

mutter:
Daresh do not bring yourself down to her level, that is what she want and it will make her feel important.

Story-
A man at the beach hung his cloth on the door of a cabin. A Unclad mad man collected the cloths put them on and started running . The man chased him Unclad while shouting," CATCH THAT MAN HE IS MAD,

LMAO that is so funny.

@Daresh, to be candid, that girl deserves proper flogging, but don't, the thing wey go beat her don dey her body, so just leave her.

armyofone:
so you too like that smoked turkey,  
i love smoked turkey for egusi. taste like bushmeat  

My dear i do oooo, i love the taste, when i want a different taste, i go for the smoked turkey, infact i season and boil it like regular meat, then fry it again and cook it in whatever i wnat it in, tastes superb.

dayokanu:
I still did it last night and prepared Pounded yam during half time of the game I was watching, Boling water takes less than 5 mins and preparing the rest take another 5

Max 15mins if you turn down the burner

oh, now i gat you, i was thinking of the real ponded yam, naija style, so what do you use to eat the pounded yam, water?

armyofone:
so you too like that smoked turkey,
i love smoked turkey for egusi. taste like bushmeat

My dear i do oooo, i love the taste, when i want a different taste, i go for the smoked turkey, infact i season and boil it like regular meat, then fry it again and cook it in whatever i wnat it in, tastes superb.

dayokanu:
I still did it last night and prepared Pounded yam during half time of the game I was watching, Boling water takes less than 5 mins and preparing the rest take another 5

Max 15mins if you turn down the burner

oh, now i gat you, i was thinking of the real ponded yam, naija style, so what do you use to eat the pounded yam, water?

dayokanu:
After pot of soup and stew the rest na breeze. Anyone can prepare rice or does rice take 5hours to cook also?

Pounded yam for me alone takes less than 10mins, which 5 mins is to boil the water, Eba takes less time

Naso you for don know who dey cook and who no dey cook, if pounded yam takes 10 minutes to prepare, i will break, eba na ''fieselu'' you dey make?? dat one simple naa, no need to boil water sef. (just put cold water in a bowl, pour gari inside and put it in the microwave 5 mins tops, then comback and say you have stomach ache.

armyofone:
ewwww, what's that inside the pot david ?

20mins egusi is like
please come and eat real ofe egusi from nwa mama (oxtail, ponmo, crayfish, spinach, ugu, bitterleaf, tinko, mangala, bonga, atarodo, tatashe all dey inside). not that Rachel Ray egusi soup of 20 mins you dey take brag here .

My dear i tire ooooo, 20 mins for egusi soup, which kain soup be that?? I made ordinary smoked turkey sauce last night, and everything combined took me 40mins, and that is just ''fried smoked-turkey stew''.

^^^^Eyahh!!!!!! but that is the past just let it go. (if na me though, he is so going to that church alone that day)

moremi2008:
Please, don't get on my nerves. I have observed your posts in other threads and I have zero tolerance for you. You think Saga is a meanie? Well, I am Saga's master and wait until you feel my wrath: it's merciless.

This is a forum for fully mature adults. If fragile amoral egos are shattered by my words, then I am doing the world a great service. Fragile egos should be kept locked in the closet; not brought out to play with the big, bad wolves. The days of coming here to kumbaya in united folly are over. Please save all the wretched, empty, misogynistic debating for the beer parlors. Moremi has come to deliver verbal justice to unrefined minds and to vanquish apologists for domestic abuse. My mission is sacrosanct.

Only Aunty Nike can calm my tempest when it roars and temper my justice when it bites. You should cower when I speak. How dare you speak when not spoken to? Now go play with your mates!

Moremi you are funny, where are you from Osun?

All these talk from yesterday, see this is a simple matter no need flogging the issue more than we have done.

1. Married couples help yourselves.

2. Women be responsible wives and don't think because you are a career woman your homes have to suffer.

3. Nigeria men, help your wives, it will not hurt or harm you, if you helped with the dishes or laundry at times, it does not take anything from you, it even shows you are the neat type.

4. women cook ooooo, find time to cook, i hope you don't get married to gluttons that can eat stones and still not get filled, also hope you get married to a good cook too, it is fun when you cook together sometimes, but do not assume your husband has to share that duty equaly with you.

davidylan:
why? what's the difference?

David are you Nigerian or African?

coogar:
they all know about family planning but they have chosen to ignore it. what do you take nigeria for?
that farmers have never seen condoms before or their wives have never heard about contraceptives?

thank you!
people often forget white folks get levels too. . . . .

Big fat lie, that the sit at home mums are not educated, i just asked a white woman sitting next to me that question, and she said majority of them that chose to sit at home is by choice and agreement between the husband and wife and are well educated. so say something else.

dayokanu:
Are you sure?



If a Nigerian couple decides to exercise that same right, We come here blaming them and calling them names

E.g if a Nigerian woman choose to cook for her family after her days job, We call her slave and assume a white woman can never do such demeaning task

Nope am not sure, even as we have educated, working class white women that cook, we also have educated, working class white women that do not cook. And just like many have said, you cannot practically compare American cooking with proper Naija cooking, unlsess you just want to lie.

davidylan:
it is very apparent that many blacks have serious skin issues and see whites as their gods.

Not true. Nigerian women are more savvy than you give them credit for. A lot of women with large families do so by choice.

Absolute untrue. I dont know any white girl who is a housewife but their houses are still spotless and they cook very well.
actually the sit-at-home syndrome is common with poorly educated whites.

David i am saying what i know, bigtime, where i work, my customers (90%) of them are well educated and are stay- at -home mums.

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coogar:
i laugh in phd!

majority of women in nigeria have a large family by choice.
more often than not, they are the ones who egg their husband on for more children(either because they are looking for a male or a female child). every woman in nigeria knows about family planning - they just won't practise it.

I am still not going to compare the knowledge about planning your family thingy here in the States with Nigeria women, the market women, farmers, villagers, petty traders, and so on that have more than four children. Majority of them wait till they reach menopause before they stop giving birth.

coogar:
not true. . . .
i know a few who work 9-5 and are great cooks. . .
why is it so difficult for some naija women that cooking is a hobby for some white women.

Definitely there are some that work and still cook, no one is disputing that, i am talking of whites with PHDs',and other qualifications are sit at home moms, with their husbands bringing home the bacon and still helping out.

^^^^^ Having a large family in the western countries we all know is by choice and not like the majority of the  women in Nigeria with no exposure to family planning and proper education of having safe sex. it has nothing to do with inferiority complex.