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And the same whites that know how to cook, majority of them are full house wives, i hope we agree with that??

@ Poster no need for long magana, just open your eyes, if the slaps start climbing up the ladder to blows, kicks and has become persistent, all words from neighbours, family has fallen on deaf ears, just pack yourself and kids to a save harbour.

Sagamite:
Thank you for every sentence.

birds of a feather.

My dear you 'can', don't allow ego and pride to set in, they destroy a lot of things, that does not mean you will not still be 'speree', your family becomes no 1, irrespective of any educational attainment, and your home should be your sanctuary.   Forget about men that misbehave in marraige, all that aside, you need to be a ''woman'' in that house and not a 'living doll'

queensmith:
Lets make this a hypothetical, what will Mr Ngozi be doing all this time? I'm not single,.,.,.,.,#thatisall

O God no- I wasnt trying to bring about any definition of a biblical wife/husband David was taking my sarcasm seriously. I don't believe in clinging literally to every word in the bible. We could have a religious debate about this topic that will go on forever. The fact remains, even a bible thumping man cannot pin point anywhere in the it is stated that a man should no join his wife in the domestic duties, especially if she contributes with everything else? I think thats arrogance in itself. So what exactly has a woman gained from being married? Talkless of the physiological burden she will experience when having children. A chore that can in no way be shared? A woman is going through all this for what? and the husband shouldnt pull his weight about the house? I think NOT!

It does not matter what Mr Ngozi will be doing at home, a good woman will always want to know how her husband and family is fairing in every aspect even if she is the president of the Nation. am sure she would have made provisions of what the family will eat even before going for the tv broadcast or wherever.

@ Queensmith what is wrong with Ngozi Okonjo Iweala running home after a broadcast to cook for her husband

debrief08:
A man who loves his wife so much as Christ loved the church that he makes it his sole purpose to see her happy and in peace, a man who wont spent all his free time frivilously, drinking and chasing dirty girls, a man who will train his sons to treat women as queens cos he leads by example. A man who will not talk down at his wife but will help her grow spiritually and physically, a man who wont defile his marriage bed, a man who will never do her bodily harm by raising his hand on her. A man whose wife, calls him husband without panic, ahose kids call him father proudly without doubt or insecurity
A woman who respects and submits to her husband, a woman whose will meat a man driving tukunbo car and in a few years the man will be a landlord, a woman who is industrious whose hands are blessed, give her 150k she wont spend it buying aseobi for wedding when you cant afford it but will turn 150k to 1 million by wisely investing in profitable things, a woman whose joy doesnt come from buying the latest everything but from spending wisely and making sure she has something stored for the rainy day. A woman whose day is not spent gossiping and watching nollywood, who will hold her husbands shirt at home and in public. A woman whose husband, relatives and kids call blessed

good summary.

Sagamite:
I don't read such junk.

Let the foool go and learn how to write in English first.

i know right, but i read it still.

Hi guys, hope you all had a nice and fullfilling valentine, '' a valentine to remember'' i call it.

Log for yesterday; 50 minutes ''biggest looser'' workout dvds, i gat the calories crying for help, burnt the shege, it was tough but i endured to the last minute.

i hope you all have a lovely day.

[b] @op
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Never u buy d idea of employn a cook because öne day u myt end up losing ur sit as d first lady, u knw wot i min. Dey is always a sayn dat says "d way 2 man's heart is tru his stomach" 4rm ma observation i cud tell dat u neva did any form of domestic chores in yo adolescence age and dats y are findin it difficult nw. I hope u know dat bein a career woman does not only justifies dat u're industrious, dey are more 2 it dat u don't knw. As d case may be For the fact dat dis is a case study b4 me i must contribute my own quota in order 2 help u put ur home in shape. [1] first n foremost map out a daily duty routine 4 ursef wif stipulated time intervals. Make it a daily tradition 4 ur self, believe me u with in a short space of tyme u won't have any problem this again. [2] Try hard 2 close 4rm work at d official tyme and device a means 2 beat lagos traffic, every lagos road has a specific tyme 4 mad traffic and zero or less traffic. Always rememba to eat, take ur bath and hav a gud one hour sleep b4 u jump into other fin. This helps 2 kip body n soul 2geda because stress dey say is d greatest disease on earth nw, buh u can beat d stress if u deem fit. Moreover always rememba dat early 2 bed early 2 rise matters alot. [3] don't dissipate ur precious tyme on irrelevant fins lyk gossippin buh am nah sayin u shud bcome an introvert overnyt, sleepn n snorin all day when u're suppose 2 use dat tyme 2 reduce ur dosmestic task is not gud at all. [4] 4rm wot u've said since ur marriage is still young n no kids yet i believe dis is a gud ground 4 u multi-task n get accustomed 2 dis chores b4 d family gets bigger numerically. A gud hubby dat luvs u will always help u out when his tru wit wot he is doing. I have so many tips 2 lend u buh tyme won't permit me, try hard 2 put dis tips in to practice and u shall c dat d lord is gud. Or holla 4 more tips 08061368891.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] [/b]

guys came across the bolded in another post, i guess it is his message to the poster on this thread, who knows maybe her husband, i find it interesting except for his abbreviations.

debrief08:
lol, its not even the number of meat that worrys me its d fact that i will put plenty meat in his soup why the mysterious disappearance of my meat?

Maybe you should put a whole 'cow' in his bowl of soup, if that will work

debrief08:
Meanwhile Jenny when my husband comes in to "help" out in the kitchen, meat always disappears, I didnt call him a meat theif oh but there is always a correlation between the number of times he enters and d pieces of mean missing. How do i handle that abeg?

, just cook more meat, there is nothing you can do in that case, i have resigend to fate on that issue, i just cook extra meat.

So all of una don reach here ontop, cleaning the house and cooking??, lazy people full here no be small.

@ Poster, just marry someone you love so much period!, all these she loves me more, i love her more, is nothing, if you love her enough that you cannot do without her, then by all means marry her.

^^^^^well good for you Agiboma, i wish you luck with your ''open marraige'' thingy.

Sorry dear, that happened to my younger sister too, she was on her way to work, immediately she came out of her house, a guy on a 'machine' just snatched her hand bag from her, it was as if the guy was waiting for her to leave her house, i thank God that only the bag was taken. God help us in that country.

dayokanu:
So the only reason we are having an affair is because of money?

nope not only that!!! other reasons best known to us but it makes sense when the ale has the money to buy ordinary ''hi pard', because am not ready to be a ''sugar aunty'', upgrading you as you 'go'.

^^^^we know them!!!! na water i go take kill that temper

queensmith:
and where in my 'narrative essay' was any of the above written?

No need to say it, it can be inferred from your reply above.

dayokanu:
I thought you are willing with standing my your man when money becomes funny?

I can stand by my man, i can't stand by ale's pennyless pocket. why have the ale in the first place

So Queensmith with all this your ''narative essay'' you want to say it is right for a married woman to sit in her husband house whose husband does not give a damn about her and can bleep anything in skirt infront of the woman and she dares not utter a word all because he is paying her bills.

armyofone:
girl, i could share
a gal gotta eat the best. what are you doing tonight? I'm hitting the best resturant in town

Mi dear, norin oooo, will be ready, it is going to be ladies night out,

moremi2008:
The "draft game" is sarcastic. But the "lazy wife" story appears true. The ladies in this section (e.g. Aunty Big-Head Jenny) are pretty good at sussing out fairy tales.

so the 'draft game' cannot be true

dayokanu:
Jenny no be my fault o. Person no deylight make he say he heavy.

I no fit h-afford eye-pad walahi . Thats why I have been scouting around for rich sugarmummies

$830 gini? that would change my life forever

i thougt you are financially bouyant enough to be on the queue **** rolls eyes***** banaso talakawa faa!!!

hbabe:
I am based in Lagos, I resume 8am and close officially at 5pm but don't get to leave the office till 6.30pm. No kids yet.
I have tried that but it is still stressful.

Ok, don't worry all you have to do is plan your time, there is no way around it, either you get a professional help and not babies ooo, or you wake up ontime and do your chores, it is either you do it late at night or early in the morning, moreso you do not have kids and do not need to be tidying up the house every second since you both are adults. You have to learn how to multitask and make use of every minute, when you start having children will be a different story.

that moin-moin elewe and eko is the bestest, i am suffering in this obodo oyinbo oooooo

^^^^^^^^^So you are in your marraige for money and not love ? hmmm!!! wonders shall never end!!!

log for yesterday;

35 minutes ''biggest looser workout'' dvds.

Where are you based and how long do you work for in a 24 hr day? do you have kids?

agiboma:
[b]@ OP Im currently in a loveless marriage with a serial cheat of a husband. Your husband also seems to be a serial cheater and he will definetly do it again, so dont beleive the "I am sorry it wont happen again line". Look realistically @ the end of the day you got two options

1.) Remove your heart from this relationship and stay with him, if you li[/b]ke open up your relationship and get a boyfriend, while you raise your children in the same house with this man
2.) Get a divorce, move out and break your family up.

Its not an easy decision to make but only you can decide what is best for you and what you can live with or without. GL to you

Agiboma you are really suffering in this your marraige oooo, marraige no be by force by fire oooo, open your eyes, get a good paying job and be a responsible woman, this arse licking will not take you anywhere.

I don laugh tire

@ Poster both you and your wife are not serious human beings, when you personally become serious and responsible then you can find a cure for your wife's laziness.

armyofone:
hmmmmm,

singing, i wanna dance with somebody who loves mmmmmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

eating my nicely cooked moin moin and jollof

please pm me the moin-moin abeg, it is good to share