Family › Re: What Your Next Move? by salem1996: 12:32pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
LooneyLester: If my wife no follow me go house , when she comes back , I go design her body with my belt then send her packing Hope if your mom said she wants you to stay at home with her in the family house after a visit, and your wife ask you to come over to her place (assuming you are renting out of your family house) you'll obey your wife |
Family › Re: What Your Next Move? by salem1996: 12:29pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Kingosytex: Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. ⬆️ The above clearly gives the husband an upper hand. For as long as they're married, the woman takes direct instructions from her man not anyone else be it father or whosoever. For as long as the husband is vested with the responsibility of providing for and protecting his wife, she must adhere to her man's instructions.
The dad handed over the responsibility to the husband the very day he gave out his daughter for marriage. If the dad needs who to instruct, he should face his own wife not his daughter who is now another man's wife.
Meanwhile, this is fantasy. Father in law and son in law scarcely clash, it's always mothers vs daughters in law, women are wired with inherently many problems that they see everything as a competition. If this post was a reversed a lot of people will give contrary opinions. Just few hours ago, I saw someone saying he can never allow his wife have upper hand on him over his mother. In as much as I know some women need to be keep in their place by force, let's not make it look women are lesser creatures made without value. Just as men wants to feel overall owners of their wives, men needs to understand women wants to feel overall owners of their husbands too. Am not attacking you oooo ... Because you may have a contrary view against what am trying to say here. |
Family › Re: One Day, He Will Be Told To Choose Between His Girlfriend And Mother (Picture) by salem1996: 11:19am On Dec 31, 2023 |
abc115: One day, his wife or girlfriend will ask him to choose between her and his mother😃🤣🤣 Heartless girls. Imagine struggling with ur mom and a girl who comes from nowhere trying to control what your own mother does with your money. They even go as far as stopping your mom from living with you in the same house.
Copied Some of una deh talk without thinking. Would you allow your girl's mum control the girl's money while she's in your house? Don't you think the girl's mum suffered to train the girl too?? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Manchester United (2 - 1) On 30th December 2023 by salem1996: 9:12pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Found Barely Alive In Landing Gear Of Algeria Flight To Paris by salem1996: 9:28pm On Dec 29, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa Dragged For Wishing Christians 'Merry Christmas' by salem1996: 6:00pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Issues Apology To Jews In Hebrew (Photos) by salem1996: 5:54pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
RingRoadCartel: Who reneged on that agreement? Are you aware that the UN has brokered peace 7 times between them but the Palestinians refused to accept Isreal? Yet, Isreal still gives them whatever they need to survive. What do you people still want from Isreal?? Rule No 1. The moment you realized the person you are arguing with knows very little about the topic, give him the victory of the argument and let him wallow in full deception. It is clear the guy you are busy arguing with don't even understand what he's talking about. He's just a pained emotional blackmailer who thinks everything is about religion or emotions. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Has The Spirit Of Stealing Been Unleashed On Our Kids This Christmas? (Pic) by salem1996: 11:54am On Dec 26, 2023 |
donhils: That one started long long time ago even before AI came into light Understand the comment very well, and you'll know is not about a pen |
Business › Re: Kogi Man Returns ₦5.85 Million Erroneously Transferred To His Bank Account(pics) by salem1996: 12:35pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Hezzyluv: The only evidence is that, the money entered his account number. And he has nowhere to hid. And, 5million no worth the stress of hiding for months. So, it's for his own good he returned the money. Forget this thing. Do you know how much he has in life and how desperate he is looking for money? Even you talking now, whether 2m or 200m enter your account now, you probably won't return it even if it takes being behind bars for years. Commend a good man for being good, all this long English of two options no be im. Those ones way Una politicaians deh thieve, those ones way deh give terrorists, who don find them? Abi them deh vanish after stealing or funding terrorists? Person way good good, person way bad bad. Simple. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Has The Spirit Of Stealing Been Unleashed On Our Kids This Christmas? (Pic) by salem1996: 7:57pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
AbuTwins: The kids won't be stealing chicken if they weren't deprived before! The child with two pens back home from school actually entered the school with none... Think. . |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Approves Blessings For Same-sex Couples by salem1996: 3:50pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
TONY042: The church is home to all, which is what Pope Francis is trying to do. The church has already made its stand known about marriage being between a man and a woman only.
But everyone is welcome to the church.
The sun shines for every one to see. If God himself doesn't segregate, who are we to ! If God doesn't segregate, why creating heaven for righteous and he'll for unrighteous? |
Politics › Re: Port Harcourt Refinery Not ‘Fully’ Ready – Leadership by salem1996: 12:13pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
beerfraud: Written by IPOBidient Typical example of the reasons why we are where we are today. What's wrong if it was written by an Obidient or not? The question is, is it true? We insulted same Obidients when they said that refinery won't work this year's December as against the lies your government told us. Today, who is to be insulted? NNPC even lied that the refinery would soom receive Crude supplies, now this information coming. When McCarthy messed up, even ministers from same Bakersfield, California, and GOP voted against him. What's wrong is wrong, what's right is right regardless who says it |
Family › Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by salem1996: 9:35pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Tetraozonaitera: Our Multimillionaire Anthony Joshua is still with her mother and he is proud about it. He has houses, cars and investments all round. |
Family › Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by salem1996: 9:28pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Bliss52:

Number one reason most Nigerians live away from their parents is fornication...
Indians , Pakistani, Arabs all stay with their parents till they get footings
My area brother, stayed comfortably with his parents even with wife and kids, till he built a small bungalow on one of his dads land
. It depends on the kind of parents one finds himself. There are homes where parents are so godly and though they are parents, they acknowledge your freedom and choices as children. There are homes that are the exact opposite. As long as you live with them, you have no right whatsoever to even make your decisions. I'm in my late twenties, have been attempting to leave my parent's house and I decided to honour them as parents by letting them know my plans even when others told me to arrange the house and leave before telling them. I gave them reasons I needed to leave but that became the Genesis of crisis between me and them. I can be at work, my Dad will just send a message from somewhere and ask me to go get it for him as though he forgot I'm working. There are parents that ask you what's your plans like? Some parents will even kick against your plans once you are not living theirs. It depends on the parent one finds his or herself |
Sports › Re: Osimhen Extends Napoli Contract Till 2026 by salem1996: 7:45pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Mitsurugi: This is just to boost his transfer fee, per release clause. Good move, always protect your asset  Exactly my thoughts |
Health › Re: Sniffing Women’s Tears Reduces Male Aggression By 44% - New Study by salem1996: 7:38pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Same-Sex Marriage: Catholic Teaching Doesn’t Change – Bishops by salem1996: 5:09pm On Dec 21, 2023 |
Antoeni: Understanding the Pope’s position on the blessing of Same-Sex relationships before rushing to misrepresent the truth:
*“Fiducia supplicans"* in simpler terms:
*1. Blessings, not marriage:* The Church understands blessings as ways to ask for God's grace and favour in various situations. This document clarifies that it's possible to bless same-sex couples without recognizing their union as marriage.
*2. No change in marriage teaching:* The Church's teaching on marriage as between a man and a woman remains unchanged. This blessing gesture doesn't endorse their relationship but shows God's love for all.
*3. Blessings come in different forms:* There are formal blessings, like at weddings, and informal ones, like at shrines. This document focuses on informal blessings, where anyone, including those in irregular relationships, can ask for God's blessing.
*4. Blessings show humility and need for God:* Asking for a blessing expresses trust in God and a desire for his goodness. Even if someone's situation isn't perfect, they can still seek God's grace.
*5. Blessings have limits:* While the Church can offer blessings to everyone, it can't bless anything contrary to God's will. So, this blessing doesn't legitimize same-sex unions but asks for God's guidance and love.
*6. Discernment and respect:* The document encourages pastors to use their judgment when deciding about such blessings. The setting and words should be clear to avoid confusion with marriage ceremonies.
*7. Hope and openness:* Ultimately, this document reflects the Church's desire to welcome everyone with God's love and mercy, even those in challenging situations. It's a step towards greater understanding and pastoral care.
*Remember:* This is a simplified explanation of a complex document. For a deeper understanding, consult the original text (the English version begins on pages 20 through 28) -- Blessing someone simply means you accept his positions. In simple terms, the Pope is wrong, no any explanation can be given. Prelate Joseph Strickland was forcefully resigned from office simply because he caution the Pope. Let's not give any explanation to condoling what's wrong. I think there's a need to define what love really means. Love does not mean condoling anything that comes around. God has a template which defines love. Love means obedience to his words and precepts. Though God loves sinners, he'll still send them to hell if they don't repent. The Pope's act of showing love may be good in terms of aims, but loving them without being open enough to let them know wrong is wrong would cause more harm than good. Christ ate with prostitutes and tax collectors, yet, he never failed to publicly rebuke them for those evils. |
Career › Re: A Nairalander Graduates From Flying School. by salem1996: 1:34pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
Congratulations sir. I've never entered airplane but soon. Who knows, you'll fly me one day?? I pray for safety as you go up air and come down sir. |
Crime › Re: Emmanuel Ume: Kidnappers Kill Man After Collecting N5M Ransom by salem1996: 11:28am On Dec 15, 2023 |
mytime24: Their end is near,
Bt why d police c'nt track these kidnappers wit theirs cellphones Na only yahooo boys them deh track. That's because, the fraudsters fit cut something for them. |
Family › Re: Who Is To Blame For Moral Decadence Among Our Youths: Parents Or Teachers? by salem1996: 4:36pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
None, OP let me ask you. If there's an uncovered cistern/ well and someone of youthful age falls inside in the day time because he was operating his phone, would you blame his teacher or parent? |
Sports › Re: Turkish Leagues Suspended After Club President Punches Referee (pics) by salem1996: 2:47pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Itiskdg121: Extending matches to 97th minutes is not fair. English Premiership referees are fond of doing this. For English League, you can't say is unfair because the rule was announced before season starts... |
Agriculture › Re: This Ginger Farm Will Produce Over A Million Naira Worth Of Ginger by salem1996: 10:56am On Dec 12, 2023 |
Lonestar124: Chai, it is well my brother, can you please chat me on WhatsApp+231776975125
If you see my mention, reply me so I can delete my contact here....thank you Seen |
Agriculture › Re: This Ginger Farm Will Produce Over A Million Naira Worth Of Ginger by salem1996: 9:27pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Lonestar124: Maybe no good or enough marketers for it.. Like, we planted but either it dried up or get rotten while growing. So so painful truly |
Agriculture › Re: This Ginger Farm Will Produce Over A Million Naira Worth Of Ginger by salem1996: 9:26pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
RepoMan007: yet there is scarcity of ginger produce in market. Guess the spoiling is a reason for the scarcity |
Agriculture › Re: This Ginger Farm Will Produce Over A Million Naira Worth Of Ginger by salem1996: 1:14pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Ginger in Kaduna spoiled this year  |
Politics › Re: Justice Joseph Ikyegh Is Dead! (Appeal Court Justice Dies At 65) by salem1996: 6:44pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: They Sold Fraudulent Muslim-Muslim Ticket To Us, Now Muslims Are Bombed - Yusuf by salem1996: 2:14pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
ThatFairGuy1: No Christian leaders or Christian bodies condemn or sympathize with the Muslim for what happened so far.
Imagine if this were to be on Christians?
The World would have heard how every Christian in Nigeria has been slaughtered by Muslims.
This is The Hypocritical World we lives in. With all the mayhems on Christians so far, which Muslim group has identified with them? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Plans To Flood Gaza Tunnels With Seawater – Report by salem1996: 3:18pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
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Education › Re: Can Anyone Explain Why Gas Cylinder Comes With A Net by salem1996: 10:32pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
To scare mosquitos away from the gas I think. I may be wrong but I think I am or maybe I am truly not saying the truth  |
Phones › Re: How Old Is Your Sim Card? by salem1996: 12:39pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Job Should I Pick? by salem1996: 9:05pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
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Health › Re: Nigerian Nurse Sacked & Deported From The UK For Praying For Patient by salem1996: 12:09pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
PointB: Okay. I accept deafeat, I hope you're now exceedingly full of overflowing joy, and heavenly happiness.  Your acceptance or not add nothing to me. |