abbey621: You're capping! If there's any evidence of a relationship between the two, any gifts, service rendered during such relationship is and will never be ruled criminal. We have civil courts for that and even so, the burden of proof is always higher on the guy.
Reason am: Your girlfriend sweet talked to you to collect rent money, hair money, feeding money etc, you found out she used it for something else and think you can sue her for what exactly? Perhaps you bought a car for her and months later y'all broke up, you think court will help you collect the car back? As long as the papers dey her name, it is over!
For this particular case, it might even be worse because if na olosho relationship, goodluck telling the court you paid for a prostitute
Goodmarlian: This area is called alaba Rago it is a very large hausa Fulani settlement behind lasu, i went there last week to see a friend its totally different from all parts of lagos i have ever known,if you meet 10 people there 8 are hausa Fulani,but i noticed something different here there is hardly disturbance from omonile and owomida thugs here ,infact they are almost absent i tried to kmow why so i asked questions then i finally come to find out that the Fulani guys here are very mean,and dont take nonesense from outsiders and are always ready for action ,at night their security move around with daggers and charms owomida touts no want collect now.. ,i was warned not to stay there late.
So only once way you go there nai you discover all that? How many hours did you spend at the settlement? Weldone mungo park
virginprincess: ,the girl played a smart one on him,oga your money is gone and gone forever,try to wise up next time.
The money is not gone except the guy is unwilling to retrieve his money from her, all he’s got to do is approach the court, her action is punishable by law but lotta folks don’t know it.
DashHaulageltd: For a lot of people who do not know much about the apprentice system, I’d explain further for you. The boy who serves his oga is actually not allowed by law to have money till he finishes learning his trade and gets settled to start his own. It’s therefore assumed that whatever money the boy used in this situation to play the bet belongs to his boss. His winning should actually entirely go to the boss if he was a selfish man. Asking for equal sharing is valid and no one should feel cheated here.
ednut1: Two wrongs don’t make a right. These agbero tax collectors are a menace in lagos . Even people hawking coke with little profits get taxed daily. But this thing these traders did cannot be tolerated in onitsha or kano
herkeem: Wike was in Lagos today for a special programme on the invitation of Gov Sanwoolu. After his speech he took time out to dance to his trademark song. Watch the video below
My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.
I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.
Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.
I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.
She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.
What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home.
Your wife was crying so hard that her aunt who was in another room heard her? Your dick was erect even as your wife was crying cos of the pains you were causing her? You didn’t think you ought to let her be as you were causing her pains? you had to satisfy yourself even at her expense right? What is the difference between you and other rapist out there? You don’t want to cheat on her? To you your excuse make sense? Her well-being is not important cause HUBAND NOR WON CHEAT right? You’re too selfish to be anyones husband, you deserve brain resetting slap.
ganisucks: President Obi visited Sheikh Gumi today and instantly set twitter on fire. Many of those who can't differentiate between their friends and their nemesis have gone on twitter to express their anger
EmmaJnr1: A father-of-two, whose two children were kidnapped in Kwara, has started selling his belongings to raise the N8m demanded by his children’s adductors.
The embattled father, Lukman Aliyu, a scrap dealer in the state, has sold his car and is now putting his house up for sale to raise the ransom.
The rate of insecurity in this country has become real scary, may laughter never be heard in the homes of those who brought this calamity on this man and his family
IntelChief: My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.
But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).
As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.
Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.
What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.
Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.
You want to change it for your elder sister that supports you financially cause she’s not perturbed about marriage? You don ever hear this word “mind your business” b4? Your mum is in a better place to discuss the issue with her
Adeolamapamina: Life is so unfair for me I am more than 18 no relationship till now I keep searching but no one come my way sometimes I get depressed everytime what has life brought upon me no true love the one I keep meeting are gold diggers the last relationship I was into doesn’t last long now I need a relationship but hard to find why is true love so cost like this The amazing part is am handsome not that rich but dress fine killer dress sense and good phone and sense of humor although I get crushes but they ain’t my type of woman I want what do I do?
Even with all the problems in Nigeria you’re here moaning about relationship? As in relationship is your problem? Are you done with school? Are you ready for marriage? Guy focus and better yourself.
Slynation: Dear Samuel Adabayo Ochuko...There is nothing I will say that would change your current narrative...!! The facts are there for you to see, but Offcourse you are a blind BATimus who prepared to continue eating agbado in trenches...!!
If Obi is a thief...! Then Atiku is a hardened criminal...!! While Tinubu is their chairman...!!!
My brother I’m not arguing or quarreling with you, you said Obi is better than BAT hence I highlighted his failures, you can dispute all I said if you can though you can’t cause they’re verifiable facts, sincerely you’re the blind one here cause you’re blindly like a bat singing the praises of a man whose greatest achievement is keeping money meant for the development of a state in the bank, what are the plans he have to boost our economy? What plans does he have to improve on our security?
Slynation: We are supporting him because Obi's worst performances was the very best of Tinubu...
Educate me on that please, how many months were ASUU on strike in Lagos state during Tinubu’s tenure? How many months were the NMA on strike? What was the IGR of Lagos state when he came in? What was it when he left? Which governor was his aide arrested with #250m cash and the governor was indicted? Which governor invested state funds in his business and caused the state to loose huge amount of money in that investment? Please educate me on how his worst is better than Tinubus best.
kyber: A girl just packed into my hostel Well she is a beauty I must say, we exchange pleasantries and got talking sometime.I asked her what she does and she said she’s a student of my school,I said okay.
Here is the thing she doesn’t stay at home at night and she comes back home the next day at 6pm in the evening only to leave an hour later. When I asked she said she goes to her aunt house to sleep and also eat free food,she made mention that she couldn’t sleep in the room all alone at night.I don’t know how true that is,but when coming in the evening her mode of dressing doesn’t signify that she is a student and she doesn’t come home with books or leave with any.
I asked her one day to borrow me her pen,she said for where,she doesn’t have any,a whole student o, She dresses recklessly .
So my Question is if she knows she won’t spend 12hours in her hostel or won’t sleep there at night but goes to her Anut place as she claims,why then did she rent the hostel?
Why doesn’t she carry books and pen to class and how does she attend lectures?
Please can any decipher the real a occupation of this girl or is she just wasting her sponsors funds?
Please I need answers
You don ever hear of MIND YOUR BUSINESS? How does where she goes any of your business? Are you the one footing her bills? Nor face your academics, continue to day poke nose into people affairs.
obembet: A beer parlor business is a very profitable business in Nigeria. If you start this business, you will definitely make massive sales every day. but in most cases, those people that normally do the business are woman and some people believe that those who run those business are likely to have concubine which I don't totally agreed.
So my great mature mind Nairalanders, Can A woman run beer parlor business and still be faithful to her husband?
SILVERLINES: Tbe yeye YouTuber wasted my MB talking nonese instead of allowing us the hear from the horses mouth. Nigerian YouTubers are full of nonsense
Their case worse, nor be them get story, them nor go allow who get story to narrate am, they will start their noise in the name of narration from the start of the video to its end, very unprofessional bunch.
Always nice to see men fighting tags they so easily distribute and enforce on women.
Not me my dear, you can share any such comment I’ve made if you’ve any, there’re evil men as there’re bad women, that I know, I’ll never accuse all women cause of one devilish woman, it will be unwise of me.
Preciousgirl: My uncles plantain has fruited inside his neighbor s yard The neighbor is claiming ownership of the plantain and threatens to harvest it soon Please, who is right in this matter?
D time you take snap and post this pics nor reach you take straighten this plantain?
I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."
I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.
It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!
This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.
I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry. To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.
After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.
That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.
My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.
What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.
Thank you, all.
Ensure he pays for every single thing he damaged in your shop, he should as well pay for emotional torture, what a loser, same guy will want you to treat his child as yours if he’s the one with child. Idiot, congratulations to you, you escaped a life of torture
Romance › Re: Man Calls Out Lady For Using His Money To Book Flight To See Another Guy by SamOchuko: 9:24pm On Oct 20, 2022
