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Hi married Nairalanders, I would really like to know if Oral se.x is an essential ingredient in building a long lasting relationship and trust in a marriage, especially one built on the foundation of Christ.

My aunt came rushing home to my mum, couple of days ago. I was eavsdropping on their conversation when I heard my aunt said that her husband has been hitting up on her for oral se.x. In her own words, she said, she had never had the thought, and she doesn't know where her hubby got the disgusting idea from.

I guess this has been causing acrimony between them, so she decided to come and tell my mum to know her stand on her hubbby's new found appetite.

And by the way, this man was suppose to be a born again christian.
So, folks, Is it wrong and against biblical principles?
I need matured response, please.

Some deluded folks keep citing Wole Soyinka, Gani Fawehinmi, Tony Elumelu et al, as references to their failure.
Do you know the circumstances that made these men of inestimable value graduate with third class?

Can you compare the fierce competition in present day Nigeria with Nigeria in the 60's?
Just like my dad would say, anything less than a 2.2 is a failure!

You prolly went to school for four years to frolick!
No randy lecturer will sexually assault an intelligent student!
They only seek for the unintelligent, fashion conscious bimbos, who have got nothing upstairs than to flaunt their endowment.

Some are even making it sound as if making 1.1 or 2.1 is an abomination.
Like seriously, what is Nigeria turning into?
I'm presently an undergraduate in a second generation federal university, south of the Niger, and on a very strong 2.1.

I can't just settle for less! I got to motivate my kids in the future to study hard with my result.
I can't imagine myself wedging my certificate in the corner of my wardrobe in order to avoid my children sighting it.

Nigeria super eagles demolish the Stallions of Burkina Faso.
Tinubu warns the eagles- Shun Jonathan's presidential handshake, he is corrupt.
He will corrupt you- THE NATION(TINUBU'S NEWSPAPER)

Goodluck = Badluck.

And some deluded folks would come to Nairaland and say there is no God?

azimibraun: Asking who owns uniport? It ws owned by the FGN until GEJ transferd ownership of the university to ALUU community last year.. Make me d VC of that skool and I wll quickly reject it. Aluu ppl will kill u and nothing wll happen. Shame and cures on Aluu and Uniport. The mention of that yeye university brings me nothin but pain and horror. May d soul of those kids rest in peace amen.

You are a fool!

As if Naija girls consider fineness or handsomeness in dating or marrying guys! Just show them the cash, swagg, poise and carriage, then, you are good to go! Jay-Z ain't fine, but he is hooked to Queen Beyonce; Obasanjo ain't fine, but got hooked to Stella before her untimely demise; Jaiye Aboderin, before his demise, ain't superfine, but he got hooked to the comely and ravishing Stella Damasus. Moreover, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and in Naija, "HONEY NA MONEY."

*Brandy-Fear of flying *BRANDY-True *Monica-Everything to me *Monica-Love all over me *NE-YO-Part of the list *Brandy-Wow *Brandy-Come a little closer *Destiny's child-T-shirt *Destiny's child-Bad habit *Destiny's child-Brown eyes *Beyonce-Dangerously in Love *Iyanya-Love Truly *Beyonce-1+1 *Kelly Rowland-Unity *Mario-Crying out for me

SAI ABACHA or the lion of Bourdillon, CHIEF Tinubu.

May the reason for the season bring forth tranquility, fructification, favour and bliss into every Nairalanders home, now and always, in Jesus name. Wishing Nairalanders a christmas of Cosiness and a brand new year of Excellence.

ladeski: Number 1 attack my position and not my personality, what's with the hater ?

Now back to your response.

While you are accurate in stating that football is a team sport and not an individual sport like tennis, you have failed to add that even in team sports you have individuals that transcend the sport. A fantastic example is the great michael jordan. Though he played for chigaco bulls and won 6 rings (alongside his mates), his INPUT was so critical and vital that when he retired hakeem olajuwon and the houston rockets won the league. Guess what? When he came back bulls won again an rockets never smelt it again ! Read up on his stats.

Thirdly messi has to find a way to uplift the players around him. Maradona had almost an angelic ability to do this. I remember in usa 94 against us when maradona was suspended for doping, you could see veron and co shattered. No surprise that argies were knocked out after. Messi is a great plauer but has to find a way to do it for argentina

Till then apples and oranges.

Veron in USA 94? Guy, you are suffering from delusion of grandeur!

In the beginning was the ball, and the ball was with Messi and the ball was Messi. The same ball was in the beginning with him and who is him? He is LIONEL MESSI. All balls were made because of him and without him, there would be no balls. In him, we found dribbles and goals; his goals shineth over Crynaldo and Crynaldo comprehended not, for he knows Messi is the true King.

chosen04: Members of Jama’atul Ahlis Sunnah Lidda’awati Wal Jihad also known as Boko Haram have said they are now willing to seize fire and stop all atrocities being perpetrated by their group and work against other existing groups if the State and Federal Government will truly heed to their demands.

The acclaimed spokesman of the group, Abu Mohammed Ibn Abdulazeez, who doubles as the second-in-command (Amir) to their leader Imam Abubakar Shekau revealed this in a tele-conference with journalists in Maiduguri on Thursday stating that if the state and the federal government want the group to seize fire completely, then former Borno state governo,r Ali Modu Sheriff must be arrested and prosecuted according to the law of the land.

He also said that apart from the arrest of Senator Ali Sheriff, government should compensate the group and rebuild their places of worship which were destroyed during 2009 uprising.

Abu Abdulazeez further stressed that, all their members who were arrested and are under the custody of security agencies must be released with immediate effect, and all their wives who were displaced following the crises as well as their children must be rehabilitated into the society to create room for a fruitful dialogue with the Federal Government.

He pointed out that for a dialogue to take place, it must be through the following elders namely: Dr. Shettima Ali Monguno, Former Head of State General Muhammadu Buhari, former Yobe State Governor, Bukar Abba Ibrahim, Ambassador Gaji Galtimari and Barr Aisha Alkali Wakil and her husband, Barr, Alkali Wakil, insisting that the dialogue must not take place in Nigeria but Saudi Arabia, as according to him, the government of Nigeria is not sincere for dialogue due to its betrayal in the past.

Abu Abdulazeez also said that the group has mandated five members who are to mediate on their behalf; they include himself (Abu Mohammed Abdulazeez), Abu Abbas, Sheikh Ibrahim Yusuf, Sheikh Sani Kontogora and Mamman Nur

While speaking on the series of killings and unwantom destruction of property that took over Maiduguri recently, Abu Abdulazeez disassociated the group from such act, pointing out that such attacks were politically motivated by those seeking for power in the Borno Emirate council, government or otherwise, but not in line with the ideology of the sect who are fighting for the cause of Allah.

He also said that,the burning of old and newly constructed primary schools witnessed across the state were not masterminded by the sect, insisting that the burning of such places were carried out by aggrieved politicians who were denied contracts from the state government.

http://dailypost.com.ng/2012/11/01/we-will-seize-fire-government-arrests-sheriff-compensate-us-boko-haram/

Are these people mad? So, despite all the nefarious atrocities they have committed against humanity, they still crave their arrested members released? Terrorists listing conditions for ceasefire? In saner climes, these mutherfückers ässes should be roasting in hell by now. Trust our dunderhead President, he might as well grant their wishes.

Like seriously, Nairalanders, which of the shows do you think is better? I think "Time out with Tee-A" is just a copycat of "Teju babyface show."

And some will open their stinking mouth to say this incessant bombing ain't a religious war. Isn't it glaring that this is a religious battle against the christians and the church? Why didn't the bomb go off on thursday and friday when these bästard jihadist were in celebration mood? Indeed, ISLAM-A-BAD!

masterpiecer: whats the name of the girl that started the 1st verse in Trybes men hit 'Oya'?, men that girl is good, in my opinion i think shes iller than Sasha

Oops! Can't recollect her name. She was lyrically good than Sasha. Sasha became more popular and acclaimed than her because she went to Unilag and later got signed to Obi Asike's storm record, which later brough her into limelight as a solo artiste.

Rocktation: Nirvana. I wish Kurt Cobain could undo his own suicide.

What a comment! Did you say Kurt Cobain should undo his suicide? Well, he should be roasting in uttermost part of hell by now. Never knew there are still Nirvana fans out there.

masterpiecer: mine is pretty long list:

Fugees
Trybes men(naija)
Wu tang clan
D12
Flipmode squad
CNN(Capone n Noregha)
Mobb Deep
Beatnuts
D lux
Cannibus
Methodman n Redman
The Root
Foxxy Brown
Public Enemy
Public Annoucement
A Tribe Called Quest

men i really wish i could go back to them days

Yes, utterly smashing list! Reminiscing the late 90's, Trybes men were the bomb back then. The likes of Dr Sid, Eldee, Del, Sasha, etc rocked Tv and radio airwaves with their super hot single "OYA." Wish the group could come back as well. Not forgetting American female lyricist on the roll, Foxy Brown, she was the epitome of rap music with her lyrical savviness. How can I forget Mobb deep's hot single "SO WHAT" featuring R n B superstar, Ciara.

Like seriously, Nairalanders, which artiste or musical group of the 80's, early and late 90's, will you guys love to have back due to his/her/their singing prowess? Mine is girls group "DESTINY'S CHILD." I am so passionate about these girls that I can do anything to have them back together in the recording studio. Guys, over to you, let's have yours.

This Omotola must be high on skunk! You wanna compare QUANTITY to QUALITY?

What about Goodluck Jonathan and Ngozi Okonjo - Iweala? I think they will make a great couple together!

It is stupidity of the highest order to think you can uproot an IROKO with a broom. The froggy - eyed, indian hemp smoking political tout, Tinubu, dominance and influence in the south west is gradually dwindling and diminishing. The electorates have shown that they can not be bought over by godfatherism. The glaring failure of other alliance for corruption, ACN, governors in Osun, Ondo, Ekiti and Oyo is a pointer to the fact that Tinubu's end is imminent.

Thumbs up, Iroko! It will be foolhardy of the alliance for Corruption and their froggy-eyed godfather, Tinubu, to believe he can usurp an IROKO with a broom.

Ken_Jak: People on nairaland here are all fools.well,since you've voted Mimiko,then you've voted severe hardness and sufferness,and if any of the people that voted him now complains,such will die miserably with their families...Mimiko is a thief.

Your family and unborn generation are all fo.ols! That your indian hemp smoking, froggy-eyed,political tout, Tinubu, and his Alliance for corruption, ACN, failed to sweep votes in Ondo, doesn't warrant you spewing arrant balderdash on this forum. Untold hardship shall be your portion for the statement you made,you plonker!

Demdem: Not bad, at least the killer party isn't winning. Goodluck to Ondo.

Mr Demdem, I hope LP did not burst your nerve. Your Alliance for corruption isn't better than PDP. Godfatherism and siphoning of public funds by your froggy- eyed Tinubu has literally come to a halt.

alphonso k: mimiko wil nt do anythg, bad governance wil continue.ondo state has nt developd in d last 4yrs n d trend wil continue.wish ondo ppl best of luck

Go and suck on Tinubu's pri.ck, you Id.iot! It is stup.idity of the highest order to believe that you can sweep off an Iroko with a broom.

The husband needs to be "Aluulized" Asap.

ALLUMINATIS!

Mr Igbigbi Williams,thanks for your meritorious service in Imo community,Abeokuta,Ogun state.Keep your head high, one day, you will displace our epitome of corruption and ineptitude, Goodluck Jonathan, and the cabals, as the President of the federal republic.Yours are the type needed in Governance in Nigeria.Once again,BRAVO!

#packing my things# Where the planet @?