mascot87:


Bro, let us be reasonable and not stupid. We ask that he address us and you are still talking about reading script. Wouldn't it be better he read script than not addressing the nation at all?

My only fear is that he should not come and make the situation worse with some provocative utterances. He should be apologetic and sing all his usual platitudes, otherwise, he should keep quiet.

priceaction:

That man must be selling meat in abattoir. See how he was carrying the matchet. Well, I won't pity them for anything. See , already policeman is dead. And I believe they would have killed more because their first target is always police station around. I believe they don't know much of the terrain to have met their Waterloo or jazz was used against them or the leftovers when their ogas might have manoeuvred to escape.. we will hear the full gist later...
And again, people pitying them, am very sure, if they were successful, months to come they will lunch another attack in a soft sport towns and kill more people after they have finished spending the money on women . Thats how they roll.

Let's say luck ran out on them. What actually happened is that they have successfully robbed the bank and were about leaving the town. But youth and vigilantes went and blocked all the exist points from the town with planks, tyres and stones. In the confusion, the vehicle they carried from the bank entered into gutter and the youth immediately surround them before they could get out to know what to do and started stoning them.

rottennaija:


Jehovah's Witnesses do and believe what their religious leaders tell them to do. It doesn't have to be what the bible says, as history of their religion has proven many times.

For Jehovah's Witnesses to marry or not to marry a fellow Christian (not denomination) is solely based on what their currently belief as set forth by their religious hierarchy. They can claim from now till tomorrow that it's the bible blablabla. But when all is done and dusted, it's based on the current edict of their religious leaders. If the leader changes their mind, 8m people also changes their mind.

In the months leading to my awakening from the group, an elder in one of the congregations I attended said to members that when they are preaching to outsiders, they have to preach what is there in the bible, then enforces the point by saying, not just what they see in the bible but it has to harmonise with what the religion (they call it organisation) teaches.

This indoctrination crystallises their mind. That is why if you are talking with one of them, and what he is saying clearly contradicts what the bible says, its like a veil covers his eyes from seeing it. He will argue, jumped from one point to another so as not to see what is clearly stated there in. But to know his mindset, just ask him what he will do if his religion start teaching the same thing in the future, that's when you will realise the truth. That these people are men's followers. They are idolaters.

In fact, you've really captured it. Though it is not only Jehovah witness alone, most modern day christians never care to read the bible or prefer to go with their spiritual leaders rather than abiding with the truth of the scripture.

On marriage, JW marry even unbelievers. I have seen a lot of them doing it, especially their ladies.

It is good that you've realized the error of your way. What you lack is power to set yourself free. Addiction is not just easy or ordinary thing you can overcome on your own without the help of God. Please follow this steps:
First you need to reconsider your relationship with God, you need actually ask God for forgiveness of your involvement in gambling and rededicate your life to him through Jesus Christ. Tell him you are sorry for the past and that you are ready to turn your way to his will.
Tell him that you are helpless and need his help to bail you out of this gambling trap.
Pray the prayer, fervently and possibly, with fasting.
Change your circle of friends .
Look for a known christian brother who can pray along with you and be your companion in this trying period.
Read bible with open mind and be ready to hear from God through his word.
Stop going to places you used to hang out before but rather join the fellowship of Gods people in prayer meeting and bible study.
Any time you feel the urge to go into gambling, turn it to prayer and praises unto God and inform your Christian friend.

You will soon share powerful testimony of victory.

Redoil:
pouring Sand and huge Stones on the road as usual calling it the best palliative and options

That road needs a proper construction as it benefits the public due to the number of people moving in mass to

this Yoruba people will not kill person with laugh

That's what they have being doing along Abeokuta Ota express road. That road is a shame not only to Ogun state, but to entire Nigeria as a nation. The main road and all the adjoining roads are nothing to write home about. As far as road and infrastructure is concerned, ota axis is suffering total neglect just the same way it suffered under Amosun.

The bible has answered this question in Mathew 18:3, "Except you are converted and become like little children, you will not enter the kingdom of God" since children do not understand their left from right and cannot comprehend what it means to give their lives to Jesus Christ, the grace of God covers them and they will enter into the kingdom of God. As long as they have not reach the age of accountability, they are free.

In Mathew 19:4 Jesus said, "let the little children come unto me for theirs is the kingdom of heaven" children do not have the capacity to believe in the lordship of Jesus or reject it. Even if their parents are trying to enforce their own believe on them. It is when they reach the age at which they have developed intelligence to query such believe, either to accept or reject it that they can be declared guilty or not. Salvation is by grace and that grace is found in Christ Jesus alone. If the lord of grace has declared them guiltless, the matter is settled.

FivePeas:
I think you're being too hasty and would appeal to you not to make a hasty decision that will cause you damage because you sound like someone who's about to react ( from negative reactions ) rather than someone who's about to embark on a well planned action. There's a difference. Trust me I know.


I qualify to give you sound counsel as a business operator and would like to discredit any thoughts of you quitting you job because of your savings.


Let's take it step by step


1. Financial security is important. Can you reduce your monthly expenses and boost your savings so you can save let's say 300k monthly, which in six months gives you an approximate of another 2 Million Naira


2. Start the process of setting up a business while you're still employed. This way you can weigh the options if it's for you or not. And can easily convert your salaries towards the establishment of the business


3. Do not quit your job until you've had a well to Houghton out business plan and have put it into effect. Remember money is just half the equation, the other half the business


4. Be more tolerant rather than being irritated because things aren't working for you from a place of convenience. Start thinking positive thoughts about the positives of your job. I'm sure it can't be all negative. Whatever it's costing you, give yourself the opportunity to reflect and tell yourself giving it six more months for proper planning won't do you harm


5. Get a second accommodation closer to work. So you can shuttle between both ends. Friday home till Sunday. Have you considered this?


6. Get a nanny and if you can afford it, get a driver too and delegate some of the duties with the kids care to them.


7. Give yourself time. Do not jump to the next thing until that so-called " next thing " has been fully constructed while you're still maintaining the one that looks stressful.

This is the best advice. Please follow it to the letter.

cococandy:
Please don’t let him stay in your house.
You have forgiven him but be wise.

He’s clearly jealous. He’s coming to your house to see things for himself. You can’t predict what he will do after that.

Nice one. He may be up to something out of jealous.

Kingpele:
Ok shame on u, u weren't aquited of your crimes against your own state, they ordered re trial on the basis that the judge who put u behind bars are not qualified to be on the seat, so you might still end up in jail, but even if u escape man justice there is one judge up there whom no one can bribe on your behalf, he will treat u as you treated public funds

I don't understand why he has started rejoicing when it is crystal clear he's going back to jail after retrial. The forces that committed you to jail in the first place are still very much active and are waiting for your retrial to commence.

Olominira:
Buhari is about to destroy Nigeria completely, actually I don't understand him. He takes Nigeria a step forward and Two steps backward. The recruitment of the so called repentant BH into the army is dangerous. He's too soft on all crimes committed by his people.

The current happening in the country is getting noticed by the world powers, the outcry against Amotekun by his government is been closely monitored. The statement came from EU accussing him of doing nothing to Safe the Christians, followed by Nigeria travel ban by the US. These are just warning, the next Maybe sanctions that could lead to recession and hardship.

My advice to him, reposition the security.....let him change the officers. He should stop listening to bad advisers and put national interest above that of Fulani ethnic group

God will bless you and prosper you in all your way. This us the absolute truth!

[quote author=mikezuruki post=85880745]

What do you mean by taking it up?

She took offence? Well, it seems she has never liked you.

Send your apologies to her inbox. That you didn't mean it the wrong way [/quot

I think ît is too early to do that. Let her confront you first, then you apologize with all seriousness that you didn't mean it the wrong way. Punctuate every statement with "Ma" and show courtesy.

helinues:


Are you from Oyo state?

It happened exactly. I live in Ibadan

thorpido:
Indeed your hubby is scamming you.He's into something he's not open about.I'll hate to think he has another woman.

What you can do now is get and improve your finances.Work on the fashion design job and also look out for a permanent job.

This is the best advice. And to put it straight, your husband his already dating another woman, if they have not married. Please, pray to God and make move to improve your fashion business while you are looking for job. Also, pursue that Canada travelling again with your children. With prayer, God can reset his brain and make him to come back to you.

Thank God we won 4:2. But we are conceding too much goals. We've conceded 3 goals in 2 matches. This problem of conceding cheap goals led to our failure to qualify for U23 Men and Women, chan, failure in U17.

Nigeria is about to fail to qualify for another tournament, this time around, Olympic football. Ivory coast is leading Zambia by 1 goal. This put Nigeria in 3rd position on the table and it only the first and second on the table that will qualify.

Nigeria super eagles are battling out with Benin republic for afcon qualification.

Benin currently leading by 1:0

The match has ended. Nigeria 3:1 Zambia

[quote author=Positiveminds post=83777552]No formation. No tactical balance. All running like headless fowl. Showing physicality without sense. Sad![/quote
You captured it all. They are just running without sense. They lack technicality.

KosiGee:
Nigerian boys are playing with too much aggro. Lots of testestorone. Their legs are faster than their brains.

They need to calm down a bit, utilise their energy well.

Low level of coordination, inaccurate shot, too direct shot and too much aggression. They need to cool down to do the right thing. We can just be coming from behind to win every game.

ValCon888:
This is so unlike Ancelotti. He is usually a very calm coach no matter the situation. The match must have been very frustrating for him.

If you watch the match you will see that the man has every reason to be angry. First, a glaring penalty was denied his team.And just immediately Atalanta went forward to score a controversial goal( offside from all consideration) in which that referee refused to check VAR. ancelotti was not even angry. He was seen controlling his boys and was trying to calm them to return to the field when the referee handed him red card.

Biafrannuke:
what will interest you the most is how the same yoruba people who hate on innoson will begin to applaud this PR stunt.

It is unfortunate we bring ethnic coloration to every iissue. I did you come to the conclusion that Yoruba hate innoson? I'm a Yoruba man and I have being supporting innoson for a long time.

ESSOHEngineers:
Work Place Sexual Harassment is common and both ways, however women are statistically more on the receiving end that the giving end. However as common as it is, it places a lot of emotional and psychological stress on the Victim. This is because it is just a step away from rape/assault.

Do not assume you are overreacting. Report him immediately to your boss. Escalate it. He is already stalking you by coming to your door. Perhaps creeping and peeping and listening.

Tell him you will report him to your boss. Tell your boss that you are doing so because it is the right thing to do in such a circumstance. The reason for reporting to your boss is not only because you want him cautioned. It is also because from an Occupational Health,Safety and Well-being perspective, it is simply the procedure to follow and the thing to do. Tell your boss to call a chat with you both and complain further. I am assuming it is a small company,hence no strong HR Team. Also, where possible report him to other male folk within the apartment. This is so that you have witnesses to show you have complained. If you want, also write a formal report of complaints to your boss and keep a copy.

And if he doesn't stop, tell him you will file a complaint to the police. Where possible avoid all manner of mundane and trivial gist with him. Keep your conversations and association formal.

Keep evidence of all his behaviors. You might need it. Where possible send him warnings via text messages and keep those too. Next time he does that put your phone camera on video record and make a video. Don't worry about if it is clear or if you got a perfect shot. Just make a video/videos of you warning him sternly about his harrasament and how you don't fancy it.

Harassers usually feel victims are playing hard to get. Generally for women they are usually harrassed by their Seniors. For men they are harassed both by their bosses and juniors as a matter of fact.

Where it is not conducive you might need to leave the job. It is better than living with the horrors and trauma of rape. The Nigerian hypocritical and patriarchal society is unforgiving to women assaulted. If you follow the trend, it is common for Nigerian men to lie and say the lady agreed to have sex for a specified amount and that when they didn't pay the woman decided to claim rape. He will even claim he has been dating you. Finally it moves to cognitive dissonance where they blame the Devil or blame the "thing that came over them" and how "they usually don't act like this" etc. At the end people will say why didn't you speak up. Why didn't you leave. Etc. So, be careful and speak out. Don't ever assume you are overreacting. Put a stop to it otherwise he will get bolder.

Eventually if it gets bad, you may have to decide if it is worth your continued stay of if you should leave. No one can make that decision for you.

One of Many Examples of Workplace Rape and Assault.

https://www.nairaland.com/5437096/man-rapes-co-worker-death-ogun

Best advice if you can take to it.

hebenezher:
Thank you bro.
I have actually done a lot of researches, but I still thought coming on nairaland and relating to the closest individuals will go a long way.
I have gone through those links too, but I can't get the specific info. as all I could come across there were only visa processing which is far from my question. after all, I needed to know if there are Universities over there that offers 3rd class degrees master before processing for my visa, and with few researches I learnt GRE is the route but I still need to know if 3rd class also could do GRE. please if you can help me with more info. I'm sorry for the inconvenience, help a brother

Go online and search for Cyprus universities, then begin to make enquiry about their admission requirement for master program,let them know you grade.

Kingosytex:
Dis is really pathetic, i can feel ur pains, believe me i seriously do.

If I understood u Anonymus010, u said you never had sex with the first girl u dated because she was a virgin and u didn't want to assure her of marriage: VERDICT==> U are a nice guy with self control. U aren't like a great majority who insert their rod into any available hole.

You equally said that her ex wished her a happy birthday b4 u: VERDICT==> Okafor's law comes into play. i almost had sex with my ex, though she is married but we still have affections for each other. What if i tell you that the new born baby isn't yours? i suggest you run a DNA test to ascertain the paternity of the baby

She is very determined 2 bring u down and i am afraid to tell u dat peace might be a stranger to u until d matter is resolved. DON'T TAKE HER TO THE STATES atleast 4 now, else u are a "goner". Her heart still beats for her ex, take her for counselling both spiritual and psychological and above all take your case to God in prayer

(You've said it all)

But in addition, taking her to US now will be the greatest mistake of his life. He should have allowed her to go when she threatened.

Oche211:
The gesture has the word "wrong" written over it.
She didn't pushed her husband and he slumped and died, she killed him with a knife.
Maybe her influential family pushed for the manslaughter case instead of murder.
The Governor is wrong, she doesn't deserve it.

God is watching them in 3D. Both her family and Ajimobi will surely feel the judgement of God.

This list is incomplete without troos Ekong who also scored 2 goals; one for Nigeria and one for Algeria.

sotall:
I am really surprised MURIC is quoting Bible.


The same Bible they say is adulterated

That's how terrorists behave. They quote bible where they perceived it supports their views.

rexchazy:
This game will remain like this till the end 1-0

SA has scored. 1:1 assisted by VAR.

S A has equalised through VAR

We need second goal to take the game out of their reach. So far eagles are doing well. May God help us.

sisipelebe:
So this is the SA team you guys are hyping? I'm highly disappointed in NL sport analyst.

You will not say that if you watch there match against eygpt.it is like they regressed today. But thank God for that, we are ahead now. Also eagles greatly improved today from what we displayed against Cameroon.

PrecisionFx:


Buhari is afraid of them, they will start behaving terrorists if buhari declare them terrorist...do u think Shiites are IPOB who do peaceful protest?

This people are worse than boko haram, because unlike boko haram, they love education, a lot of technocrats are among their members- lectures, doctors, engineers etc. Government need to deal with them before it is too late.