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jay bee:
no she didn't

jay bee:
so gay

Seun:
Aguy who doesn't care about fashion won't be happy with a girl who think that is what life is about. Go ahead and let him know, you have nothing to lose because the relationship will never work.

TheSeeker:
I didn't say exactly to walk out or yell on your partner. Yes, some people need to learn the hard way, unfortunately I can't argue that properly. A lot of people get married for the wrong reasons because most of them don't even know what they want (you can visualize a situation where a woman says she's in love with two men as if 'love' is some cheap word). I totally understand where you're coming from, but most times I think marriage ought to be peaceful, that's not to say there won't be times when we disagree but it should be like an unusual raucous and not such that it keeps happening the same time over and over again only for a reason.

I believe in communication - heart to heart communication - in a relationship. This is what it takes to understand the stance of who you're dealing with because you both aren't bound to have the same charisma and characters, of course, they differ and you've got to check the differences out and work out a solution and that can only be achievable by communicating with all honesty and openness.

I don't believe a breakup is the solution to every problem in a relationship but when communication can't solve it, then I don't believe anything else will. Patience lasts and deteriorates after a while, but communication can put a stop to many mishaps, if done in all honesty and cooperation, oneness and openness.

But a situation where this fails, breakup is the next thing to consider as an option. Life is too short than spend it all in an unhealthy relationship. There are lots of people out there who deserve better partners, I think it's best to find those than spend it with someone who's always controversial.

jay bee:
@OP
you been reading those teenage magazines again?
key is to be real. no right or wrong answers

TheSeeker:
This is very frightening.

TheSeeker:
They say what a man can do, a woman can do better. But can a woman impregnate a fellow woman?

TheSeeker:
Secretz, please do tell

mohawkchic:
[size=13pt] ~I just love how Maltesers melt in the mouth. . . [/size]

jay bee:
u and dis your dilemma's
what happened to the travel dilemma?

Ebonyeyes:
I guess you have to have one last conversation with her and tell her that you would probably rather go to hell and have a great time with the devil _{of course you shouldnt use the exact same words} than get back with her

izeek:
well the cyber world is much smaller than we think it is.

it's not so diff finding out about ppl or things on the net.

your bedroom can be invaded in the cyber world, as long as the person has the right access.

in her case, she seems to be in your face, but u can be rid of her if you want to.

maybe u shud grant her a final audience and tell her its really over as u can't bring urself to love her again.

and after that is she bothers u, well u bera threaten her like spikey said.

tell her u r from naija delta, and u wud arrange her kidnap if she dont backoff.