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lalaboi:
They all thieves mahn. . . .they charge ridiculous prices. . .and the amount you pay will cook you that food prolly 5times! or more!

You sabi correct! But the worst part of it is when they water down the food in order to please the 'oyinbo' people. I mean come on, if they keep doing that, doesn't it loose the whole point of the food being authentic? Pepper soup is not pepper soup without the peppe abi?

I only go to 805 to get monika fish and cocount icecream and I only go aso rock for the mase stew. Everything else I can make 10 times berra myself.!

My favourite toppings ALL THE TIME:

Double portion of cheese
Chicken
Sweetcorn
Chillies or jalapeno peppers     . . . . . . . . yuuummmmmmmmmmmmmm!! 

Hate pineapple, olives and peperoni on my pizza! 

I would tell them 'It's nice to know your happy'

Oh really? hmmmmm, fairy tales . . . . .

17 signs of an infatuated stalker.

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=326506.msg4583498#msg4583498 date=1253525598]cos me i like money now lol
maybe because money plays a lot in our relationship[/quote]Greedy boy!

jay bee:
Is 900 quid worth the stress the girl would have to go through for 2 weeks which might include her being used by Niyi?
and 900 quid is not a lot of money to be putting someone thru such. if love is dead then he should be able to bone the money. afterall, he his the one calling it quit
how old is this Niyi by any chance?

Exactly. But like you said before, from his reasonings, it seems maybe they could go on the trip and rekindle the 'spark. Or better still done the relationship and go about his business whilst forgetting his dough. simple.

Or as my colleague is telling me right now 'take her on holiday, deal with her (you know what that means). . . . . come back and wait some weeks, then if you still feel the same way, be gone. (not my words ohhh)!!

jay bee:
the word dump is kinda childish so i m goin to go with break-up.
dude should break up with her now as loosing 900 quid is better than making the girl go through another 2 weeks of uncertainty. money ain't everything and can definitely be recouped back.

on the flipside though, can't the 2 weeks together help them rekindle the spark they once had or is Niyi just bent on breaking up with the girl?

He should go for that reason alone, not because of the potential lost money. Otherwise if he is soo certain he wants to end it, then please just do.

Kenny_G, na wa oo for your dilemna stories. . . . but why has it always got to do with money?

A person can be very nice but not necessarily making them 'boring' per se.
Yes, relationships can become routine, but just after 6 months? na wa oooo, if this is the case then it bloody well is boooring!. If I am dating someone for only 6 months and I'm finding it boring, then berra believe I mean it.

@ OP. What is making it boring? He doesn't suggest going out? (always staying at home?)
He's not spontaneous?
There are no disagreements? (everything is always 'perfect').

knight4u:
If it's boring, why don't you try and make it interesting and stop whining like a baby. It takes two to tango!

lol. I hear what you're saying, but sometimes when you do attempt to make it interesting, the other (BORING) person can dampen your spirit and attempts to do this because they are just soo boring. lol.

SeanT21:
My step father hated me using my left hand. He said the only time U should use your left hand is when cleaning your ass.

roflmao!!

I was born left handed but 'trained' to use my right. . . . (wicked people). can now write with both, but . . . . my strength remains in my left hand, however, I write better and neater with my right. You see how these people don confuse me sef.

It's a silly cultural thing, that they should get rid of. A few of my younger cousins and my lil niece are left handed and if I see anyone trying to 'change' them, I get nasty!

Yumi:
Yep at first I thought it was ok until I realised they were still sleeping together and every time we had a problem he turns back there. So now am not sure I want to save it anymore. He really has a lot of proving himself to do to convince me he really loves me. Hence why I am moving on now, if he didn't get back to me in a week I am not that important in his life so its time to move on.

Sweetheart, this has nothing to do with him having a child, he's just a complete self-service!
Regardless, as long as there is always an 'ex' girlfriend or chic on the scene to accept him with open arms, this running back and forth from you to her/them is always gonna be an issue. Some people are not worth valuable energy that can be aimed in another direction.

Dunno sha, just do guess-stimation.

german007:
@Secretz

Will u allow me into your secrets my princess?, will u allow me be your little secret?, lol

haha no! Im ok dear.

tkb417:
thats a secret i dont wanna share with ya right nw

not now! not ever!

german007:
Well yumi. Il be honest

He might be thinking just what your thinking.It swings both ways


He might also for you to get back to him.

SOMETIMES UNECESSARY PRIDE KILLS RELATIONSHIPS. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR ALL THAT

SOME1 JUST HAS TO BREAK THE ICE AND CALL THE OTHER, OR SAY "I MISS U BABY" TO THE OTHER.

. . . . . this did cross my mind too.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Well she can manage it, if she can (though i doubt that will last)
Every time she looks at it, she would be like 'How could he pick something like this?' 'How could he not know me well enough to know my tastes?'

Personally, i'm a ring person, so a ring i don't like. . .i will not be keeping.
[/color]

Exacto!!

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=324868.msg4560820#msg4560820 date=1253185829]kai and she cant even pity the guy and manage the thing?[/quote]lol if that is the case, I will go and exchange it my self without his knowledge and hope he doesn't notice the difference. Or he can take it back and 'try' again.

lol. Ask him if he doesn't mind her exchanging it for another ring she would prefer of the same value. His intention was very nice, but let's get real, she will never truly appreciate the ring if she doesn't fall in love with it pretty much immediately. And he should have sly-ly tried to figure out her taste before hand especially if he knew he was gonna spend soo much money, not knowing if she would really like it.

Yes ohhhh, I am happy for now, might change in about an hour or sooo.

Missy B:
. . . . .and to think the man had guts to go get packs of indomie
after beating life outta his son w/o contrition.

B.T.W . . .Fine picshure . . . beautiful dentition.

abi ooooo!

Thank you sweety, I am demanding a job with Colgate/Aquafresh.

Come to think of it, I think I get the gist of what the poster is getting at . . . . . especially where some guys 'expect' it and they are not even engaged or married. Some guys get soo used to their girl cooking that they sly-ly stop taking them out to dinner etc, and even at the end of the day they still don't end up marrying them, but really it isn't a big deal as long as you're not seen as house girl or he doesn't lift a finger as someone rightly said earlier.  

Hot tempered fathered taking out his own personal psychotic issues on his pickin. What lesson is he supposed to have taught his son now that he is 6 feet under! Mschewww! KMT! Hissssssss!

roflmao!!! Oh my days. . . . . this is not a big deal AT ALL. . . . . more like a recipe for sending your man to another womans house to chop food (if he can't cook). luckily for me, mine knows how to cook as well. . . . . however, if I'm done cooking, he go put apron and wash plate.

tkb417:
so did he call you?

lol . . . . . just make sure una ready to get the refund and receipt out.

@ Topic, If a man loves a woman, he will fight for you jare! No forming abeg! But yes ohhhh he can let go to prove. . . . . I don't know what, but yes, it can happen that way. Depends on the persons 'way' of wanting to show you they love you.

Na waa oo, that's not even triple the original price. . . . . but if it isn't gonna seriously burn his pocket then no problem. Only advise is next time, book it before telling her anything (obviously being aware that she would be available during that time to travel).

'people thanks alot for you contribution so far,the topic is hot in the office cause of the people involve in this issue,but the man with the hot tempered woman has left his house to avoid further damage to his body,keep contributing.'
(sorry, could not insert quote, filtered for some reason!)

na waaa ooo!



'a nagging wife has no shame, she can nagg right infront of your frds----so NO
a hot tempered wife can commit murder all in the name of she being angry-NO too to this
i prefer staying alone than having any of those women'

lol.

chaircover:
If I was a married man . . . . . . the answer will be; NEITHER

I will want to be married to a peaceful woman

Abi ooooo! But if I had to choose, nagging. . . . . because sometimes a lot of sense can be derived from the words of a 'nagging wife'. A hot tempered wife can destroy many things within seconds of her temperamenal episode.  

iice:
[color=#9900ff]LOL i'd rather know though if something is up but i won't go snooping. [/color]

LOL of course now.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Alot.
I prolly have the right but i don't have the time or energy for all that. Come to think of it, i never have. If i wanted to see something i simply ask for it Like his lil black book [/color]

nana:
What u don't know won't hurt u! Snooping around is a sign of insecurity.

Both of you, thank you jare. Why even bother snooping when the person has not even given you ANY sign or reason to suspect, for the need to go and snoop and only hurt yourself.

izeek:
tell me u have never peeped into your bf's wallet, phone, wardrobe, file, letters, something of that sort.
lets not be hasty @ stating otherwise, i know its assumed wrong to snoop, but hey sometimes it does happen and we all know this fact.
dont go playing all saintly or godly or something!

Of course I have. I am not denying this!! But not now at this age or in this life anymore. If I had reason to it is surely a different thing entirely. But the way in which the OP described it, was a bit wayy too much snooping.

Oh please. The fact that you have to even 'snoop' in the first instance whether it be a little, or a lot, means you yourself have personal issues you need to deal with and shouldn't even bother being in a relationship.

lol, all these suggestions to deal with a nagging babe, na waaa oooo. lol

Many men believe even if a babe wants to 'talk' she is nagging. So each person has their own definition of nagging.

The one that works for me when I'm supposedly nagging is to stand there, stare at me and just listen until I stop. Don't even flinch or do a thing. The last thing you want to do is ignore her or act childish, it is better that you 'appear' that you're listening than not, otherwise I guarantee the nagging is likely to increase and she may follow you if you walk away! .    

davidylan:
Secretz tell the truth o! Studying indeed.

I promise you pastor David, I was studying. I have a witness, Baba God!!! The question is, wetin you do for weekend? EHNNNNNN?

follypimpi:

My weekend was awesome to be precise,Travelled down to London,went to da cinema with a cutie pie and , What a WEEKEND !!!

You came to London and you didn't even tell me? I vex so! Na waaaa ooooo, may fire burn your hair! Besides, I am unavailable until 2nd October onwards. . . so this time you're lucky.

follypimpi:

wetin? ? ? I can't come on hia and joke now abi? I was busy studying, movies, and doing housework!!! Got no time to BANG anyting, other than bang nail in the wall with a hammer!

What did YOUUUUU do this weekend?

davidylan:
she said bang! bang! bang! and you're asking why she's drained?

ROFLMAO!!!

steroid:
part in toilet, part in bed- had running stomach

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!