₦airaland Forum

The responsibilit to deal with evil is not in Gods hand , You can't blame God for such. We are the ones that have the responsibility. We have been given authority to cast out devils, we have been given dominion over darkness through the gospel. Whosoever still suffer from satanic affliction is suffering because of his ignorance.

Jasiel:
do i have a problem?, can someone tell me why i find it hard to get Back to God even after he has done so much for me? why cant i be consis tent with studying my bible? im missing out on so much, what does God think about me

manmustwac:
prayer is not the solution to the problem.

Oba234:
since you nairalanders love to quote bible scriptures so much, let me help you out with one. Fornication and adultery is a sin o. I am surprise that the same person that says women must submit according to the bible is now saying the men is not at fault after commiting adultery and probably fornication.

Heb 13:4 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.


(Matthew 5:27-28) 27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery;’
28 but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.


(Matthew 19:9) 9 I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.”"


Galatians 5:21) 21 envyings, murders, drunkenness, sin assemblies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.



Ephesians 5:3-5) 3 But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints;
4 nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks.
5[b] Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God.
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stop picking and choosing what part of the bible you want to hear. What that man did to his wife according to the bible is wrong and he will be judged by God because  of that.

vinooh:
not as b4,things has changed the world is turning upside down.women are incharge now and their words are taken in the homes or else there wouldnt be peace

in china many men are the cookers even in their homes,

civilization brought many good and bad things men have to understand this and stop claiming they are the head for their own life

one elderly man ones said this is the evidence of the world coming to an end coz women has taken over and they will ruin and destroy the world just as many of them are ruining their homes
@poster better women still recognize their husband as the head and the person who have the final say.peace. happiness and orderliness always fill her home but those who claim equal {two heads} women who want to change the will of the creator always met disaster.

chika98:
I know! We had a neighbor like that back in Nigeria then; He'd come home every once in a while to see the family
I am sure he is even married abroad because he is somewhere in Asia.

chaircover:
Actually she was wrong & this is the mistake many women make. Its the You and me syndrome rather than the "us" syndrome.

She didn't have to pack her load & go to Abuja before she made an impact even if the man was lagging behind. She could have sat down with her husband and both worked out ways of making things better for the family.

You dont just barge off on your own tangent and expect everyone to fall in line. An example of leading from behind would have been to make the connections (I wonder how she made them but that is a story for another day) and put her husband in the right place to get those contracts himself; and unless he is a stup.id fellow (who she married by the way) then he would have done the job, fended for his family & everyone remains in thier assigned roles.

She was sending big money to the husband, forgetting that life is not all about money, her money could not buy warmth, cook, be there for her family, provide companionship, pamper the man or sooth the children when they were sick and so on,  so the man went and found someone who could.

Remember she was away for 2 years. After contract number 1 or 2, she could have easily introduced her husband to the powers that be to put him in line for contracts or even a job, she could have relocated the family to abuja & have all lived together and so on. She probably made the man feel like a begger each time she came back to Lagos & dropping huge sums for his feeding allowance.

If the women were my junior sister, I would have given her a big slap if she comes crying to me that her husband left her for the housegirl.

emenim:
it is so sad to hear that fight for equality is ruining marriages, on the contrary it is a common say that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, however there should be a line of decency to this. the man at all times should remember who the woman is to him in line with God's original purpose of marriage, like wise the woman; because it takes both understandings to make the marriage work. according to the bible, in the book of Amos- i quote CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE ,

chosen04:
Ekiti again?

Fountain of allegations? . . . . .

skyone:
Ekiti sucks, they should get a life

Chuks84:
It was meant to be a figurative expression,and i'll say it again:It's a man's world. affairs have always been run my men as far as we can remember while the women were relegated to the role of helpers. it has proven to be a good formula until the advent of feminism. another case study is our female celebrities, how many of them have solid marriages?

jerryben12:
First thing to be done is to remove everyone in power presently and start a new leadership with fresh people. Everone in leadership currently is mutilated and induced with insincerity. I think Nigeria has to be professionally managed with a defined leadership framework. Any leader that does not play by it should be jailed for a minimum of 40 years in a special jail located by Kaduna/Abuja expressway where people can see them and lay curses on them.

Why 13 years time ? havent you grown up breas*t ?

the name Diepreye Alamesieghe easily comes to mind

he could pull another stunt with female clothing,headscarf and underwear and fool the voting public

anything is possible in Nigeria

You and Dora Akinyuli

@Acidosis

You no serious o!

I'ld love to but I have to wait another 13 years!

Any woman (like TheBlessed or TheCursed or, any other Lesbian here) that thinks she is equal in authority to her/a man does not deserve to be loved.

Very interesting topic. I happen to be one of those who believe that feminism has contributed a lot to the destruction of marriages. the facts speak for themselves. Lets take a look at the U.S, where the fight for equality has gained huge strides. Their divorce rate is astronomical. I can't really blame them, in a place where you have laws that award the wives (well, the spouse who earns less, which in most cases are the wives) 50% of the husband's property, what do you expect to happen? She ends up threatening divorce with every little provocation knowing she'll still be comfortable if they break-up. If spouses were awarded 5% of their partners estate or worth,or alimony payments were eradicated, we would have very few divorcees. Even in my beloved country, naija, take a look at`the females who work in oil companies, or the ones who are high earners, you will discover that a greater percentage of them are divorced or not married. I am not a chauvinist, but lets face the truth, its a man's world and in situations where you have a woman trying to play the role of a man, something will definitely go wrong.

@seyibrown, if you see my woman, your 'kini' will never love any other woman. I got it all, brains and beauty. Lolllz, my dad says I inherited the gene from my ancestors, the gift of right selection, lol.

A good example of leading from the rear happened to me yesterday. I bounced down the stairs ready to go out and my woman took a long look at me and giggled. She told me "you are a clash of colours, why not drop the hat and put on a black shoe" I refused and left the door, outside, I looked at myself again and went back inside and did as she said.

Note that she didn't scold me or block my movement to prove she was right, but I still did exactly what she wanted. Some women here will first fight you and then starve you of food/sex just to prove their point that you should listen to them or else,

"Nwoke obula nwanyi n' afulu oja n' ogbo egwu, ukwu ka oji awula be ndi mmuo"