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Uhmmm, apart from using the bible, is there no other reason a woman should be respectful to her hubby?

Cant someone pls help me.
Is the wife a partner(=) or an helper(< ?

^^^Okay o. No problem. The Bible says that Women are supposed to submit abi? The same Bible says that men should love their wives as Christ loved the church, infact both those directives follow each other. How many of the mofos walking around demanding respect do that? Don't get me wrong, I am not advocating stuborness in women, I am just saying men should not assume that it is a one-way thing. The way it is is that, you love your wife, relentlessly, selflessly, like Christ loved the church and then you can expect submission from her. And believe me, if you love her that much, she would willingly submit to you, no questions asked.
The way a lot of African men take it is that they must get respect at all costs and hardly consider that the women also deserve selfless love (even love, at all)from them and this is why women get frustated and rebel in marriages.

This request for an extention and a robust military curricullar will require more than an announcement for proper implementation. And the reasons proferred for its adoption can be easily addressed with a conscious rejuvenation of the education system in the country. You cannot apply a two-year cosmetic finish to a defective academic orientation and expect a miracle product.

Distinguished senator; address the rot in the academia and all other things (positive values) shall be added unto Nigeria.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~DISCLAIMER~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

The insurance agent is not an Igbo man! I repeat, he is not an Igbo man. He is Itsekiri!

This was for all the tribalist who may descend on this thread thinking that the man is Igbo because of the Okorodudu found in his name.

That is all.

Hymen Replacement Operations??

Is this when they remove the woman's Womanliness? pls explain

@pinkielove,

You need serious help and I think you could also do with a friend! Email me at seyi@seyibrown.com so we can exchange phone numbers. We need to act fast about your predicament. We'll talk about the rest on phone. I'm happy to phone you if you can't phone me.

Please post on here to say you have sent your number, giving only the last two digits of the phone number you put in your email, so I can know it's you.

I really really want to help!

Take kia.

The Pastor is a well known person to me, he didn't deny the incident and he felt remorseful, he knows about every things, he even help us in getting the orphanage home. When there is too much closeness between Pastor and a female church member is too dangerous because they are human beings too and devil can test and use them too.

The pastor help her when she don't have anywhere to stay then, at least she live with them in the church more than a year before they transfer the pastor and such things didn't happen as far as i known then, He is a married man with children and he is the one of the pastor that i respect and still respect him so its left for him and God to reconcile.

The problem now is that my G.F is emotionally attached to the babies, she only talk about them, she called the orphanage thrice or more than in a day, i feel jealous 'cos she don't give me attention like before, i told her my mind she said is not easy to forget about them, that they are only her gains for all the pains she went through i feel for her, she wept uncontrollable when i told her to forget about them for now and try to be focus about her study. our introduction is next month but  i just don't know how to make her happy like before again, she is not herself again, she called herself after two, fairly use and all sort but i always told her that my love for is still strong even more than before.

Pls i don't post here cos of financial help as some people are insinuating and for those who call me lier and all sort i pray such never happen to you.

As long as that clause in the constitution that does not allow interference to muslim marriages is still there

All who have posted a bad comment about this man are mad, sinner, corrupted etc. Tell me
what problem are you having with shariah law. Its difficult for you to accommodate?
you fornicator and adulterous. Everyone should keep mouth short or face the wrath of Allah.
I used to regret why Allah has destined me among the animals like Nigeria and why not a place
like Saudi Arabia. If one steal, lets cut his hand or leg, is that a problem for you? you thieves,
419ers. In the world of today without shariah. All 15years old girls are no more virgin. If you marry
a lady at 25 now, ofcouse you married a used lady. All what you are throwing a big party for is what
someone else has been enjoying for the past 10years. So, why not leaving the man with is own issue
and face yours. My next post will be on Marriage in Islam and i hope the admin will put this message on the
homepage for all to see. No price is too big for a lady bride price.

LOL

. . . . .but, ''frankly'' asking, Is there any language called EKITI? that can be spoken at homa and abroad?

he truth of the matter is this:
Where do i start from, The lady in person is my fiancée, we are been together for long before the incident happen, i love her and i still love her. Its happen she started complaining of stomach ache, she went to hospital they diagnosed her of appendicitis, they operate her not knowing all these while that she was pregnant, a month after the operation she still complaining of the stomach pain,she went for scanning from there they discovered she was 2months and a week pregnant.
I was shocked when she told me likewise her cos it was due to her trust and carelessness if i may say that, there is one Pastor she know well when he was still preaching in there area, one day the pastor called her that he will come and visit her around 10pm so she agree, she stay alone in a room apartment she rented outside school, she is already sleeping before the pastor came, they gist together the pastor plead with her to stay overnight she agreed, she slept off, according to what she told me she said she wake up middle of the night and find the man on top of her she pushed the man away, the man plead with her, she taught nothing happen 'cos she is a virgin and she didn't see any blood then and her pant is still on(so innocent i think), thats how she got the pregnant.
After i know she is pregnant, we agree not to tell anyone because of the shame and the church discipline, she is youth leader in church, other members look up to her, so we decided she should traveled to Togo telling people she went for a a year course, we spend a lot of money 'cos we cant tell anyone, we later find out that they were twins through scanning, leaving in Togo is like a hell for her, so she return to Nigeria after two months, she hide in Ekiti State where she delivered the twins, i spend most of my savings 'cos we already planning for our wedding before the incident happen, we could have done our wedding by now, she delivered through surgery, i thank God for his Glory cos all of them are alive, she went through a lot cos is not easy for only her to be taking care of them, i only visit her once in a month, i supported her with all i have, the baby are growing now, she needs more hand and help and we don't want to reveal it yet so thats why i'm looking for help. I have contacted SOS in Lagos but they told me they can only accept kid though state welfare, i also contact private one but we don't like there offer 'cos we want them back in future when will settle down.
Thanks

‘‘We want zoning. We need zoning. But the kind of zoning we want is the one in which all public offices in Nigeria would be zoned from thieves, garrulous people and non-performers to competent and credible individuals.’’

I believe in GOD but i don't think HE will give anybody visa to live his country to another, if he didn't want you to be a Nigerian you wouldn't have been here in the first instance.