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Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:11pm On Jan 24 |
Are we able to trust Chaka at this rate? Anyone with sincere thoughts on their fairly frequent downtimes? |
Family / Re: Should I Be Concerned About Marrying A 39yrs Old Woman? by sgtponzihater1(m): 2:50pm On Jan 24 |
Marriage should not be age dependent. But the patriarch all married younger wifes, I mean Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. They also married submissive and hospitable wifes. Abraham could rush to Sarah and say "prepare a meal for visitors" in the evening, and she did not grumble or ask him to do it himself. Marriage is not primarily about what the woman wants, every kind human will be interested in make the next person comfortable anyway. Marriage is actually about the woman who is now bearing your name, bending to your way of life, being submissive and finding out what the husband likes and wants. In the absence of this, this so-called marriages become legalized cohabitation or partnership where one person wants the comfort of Marriage, yet the freedom of being single. You cannot have it both ways. It's easy for women to decide as they obviously see what they can put up with and what they cannot, but many ladies go ahead hoping they can either bend the guys rules, or even impose their ways on the man. I am reminded of a guy who smokes and took his girl friend to clubs. The girl never brought up not smoking and not clubbing if they get married, yet after they had kids, she is nagging him to death about his smoking . She obviously assumed she can control him when she gets married. Most importantly, one of the most important times when you need to be closest to God is when making a marriage decision. It is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. It can make you the happiest man on earth or leave you broken beyond human repair. Hold on to God pray, don't make any decision based on your human situation or circumstances. Introverted guys still marry young, kind, submissive and beautiful wifes. If you read the above and follow through, you can come up with a decision. God bless you. 4 Likes |
Career / Re: Does Annual Leave Days Include Weekend? by sgtponzihater1(m): 12:25pm On Jan 24 |
If it the Nigerian Government, then follow the civil service policy. If it is a private company, then follow your company policy, as every company have their own policy. Mine count only working days, but subtract some public holidays. All the best 7 Likes |
Crime / Re: UN Asks Nigeria To End Death Penalty, Rights Violations by sgtponzihater1(m): 12:06pm On Jan 24 |
AskNgige2: Hi Chief . I said capital punishment, not jungle justice. Killers had to be tried in Moses' day. There had to be two or three witnesses, and there were dedicated executioners. Even manslaughter was not excused, they were however allowed to escape to a land of manslaughterers, and did not have to face death as it was mans slaughter. Our modern legal system is based on the above law fine tuned into modern times, but are quickly drifting from God's standard. The wrath of God is coming on them. If Nigeria adopts their policy then I see a worsening of crime and I see convicted murderers being granted state pardon by corrupt leaders. For as it stands now very few governors are even signing off death sentence, but at least it leave murderers behind bars. The God of the Jew is the only God there is and holds human life sacred. Its approximately 2000 years since those laws were given yet He has not changed His mind or His feeling about murders and taking a life we cannot create. Kindest regards. 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: UN Asks Nigeria To End Death Penalty, Rights Violations by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:19am On Jan 24 |
A killer deserves death as well . God is against blood shed, anyone opposing capital punishment is opposing God's rule. |
Family / Re: How Do You Cope, Divorced And Separated Men by sgtponzihater1(m): 2:06pm On Jan 22 |
They are your kids. Soon they'll become adults, and support will seize. There is always a consequence for marrying the wrong spouse, and many times divorce or separation cannot solve the pain or strain that comes with that decision. Narcissistist ladies make it their ambition to poison the mind of their kids against their dads when separation happens. You may fund the children's housing and education, yet they look at you as the devil. Men should never learn from their own experience, but should learn from the experience of others. Never marry a lady assuming she will change. Never say yes to a man hoping you can train him either. In the end only God heal broken hearts, and out of seemingly chaotic situations Men and women who know God have become so successful, that funding their children's care becomes the very least of their trouble. People's ex send them regret messages hoping they can mend things when their ex partners make real quantum leaps in life. That's what you should pray for. PonziHater 3 Likes 1 Share |
TV/Movies / Re: What I Think After Watching "A Tribe Called Judah" by sgtponzihater1(m): 7:44am On Jan 22 |
DeepSight: I used average man and average woman. And science and psychology has validated the facts. I cringe when i see women trying to teach men how to be men, especially when they have not worked in a man's shoe, and when women where actually made for men and not the other way round. A women will always do a bad job teaching a boy to be a man 100%, she is better off using that energy to train her daughters to the homely, caring and marriage fit, and not a feminist. No matter the individual differences which I absolutely agree with, when averaged out, the differences are glaring. It takes a whole day highlighting this differences so I would not bore anyone Should we ignore the glaring fact and Effects of Fatherlessness – 63% of all youth suicides, 70% of all teen pregnancies, 71% of all adolescent chemical/substance abusers, 80% of all prison inmates, and 90% of all homeless and runaway children, came from single mother homes. Should we ignore the above empirical fact and chase the one woman that is stronger than the men in her village? The obvious choice is yours. Finally this is what the bible instructs older women to do, this absolutely settles it for me: "These older women must train the younger women to love their husbands and their children, to live wisely and be pure, to work in their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to their husbands" PonziHater 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Insecurity In FCT: There's A Disconnect Between Wike & Elected Officials-kingibe by sgtponzihater1(m): 4:08am On Jan 22 |
If you allegedly crush people's motor cycles, close night and day time market, and make C of O millions of naira, and threaten to displace the poor from their own home, then you can only expect insecurity to worsen. When leader make decision without thinking about the poor and needy, then expect the poor to revolt. The North is far different from the south, where people shout more than act., or people see a wrong decision and say 'it will favour my family ". Its time the government started paying real attention to the deprived mass of the society, which in reality makes up majority of people. PonziHater |
TV/Movies / Re: What I Think After Watching "A Tribe Called Judah" by sgtponzihater1(m): 3:29am On Jan 22 |
When people ask what if? They simply want to argue, and do no deserve an answer. The average man is stronger, taller and more muscular than the average woman. However, there are some women who could be stronger than a man. The what if group focus on that one woman in their village that used to beat men up. However, we know from science and sports that men and women should not compete together due to the average male being stronger than the average female. The average female is emotional and more focused on love and emotion, that why a woman will mostly will stick to her child even though he is a murderer, rapist, drug addict, or fraudster. She will rather give all excuses for him, and even claim society failed him. That's the heart of the average woman. She is 100% loving, but truth and discipline is not her forte. Some women try to be hard on their children especially in the absence of a father, but they take the control to excessive form, they were not created for this, so never find a balance. Other just pamper their child to stupor. The average man However is less emotional and more focused on truth and fact. That's why men take time to make decision, as opposed to women who can make instinctive decision. A child, especially male needs a good balance of love and truth to navigate life appropriately. We say I know a man raised by a woman that ended up well, however most people saying ended up well, are only looking at life in terms of money, and think if you have money then you are balanced and have ended up well. That's how depraved our society has become, a society that measure people in terms of finances alone. I know a big brother star with cars and houses, raised by a woman. He was all over the house crying like a woman at every instance. People say he ended up well, however he is not an emotionally balanced man, as men do not cry at the blink of an eyes. Another owner of a Nigerian movie streaming app always rushes to social media to either boast of his children school fees being high or taking x number of holidays, then ends up making an apology, people say he ended up well because he earns well, but his obvious gaffs are not masculine. PonziHater 2 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Do You Still Attend House Fellowship? by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:44am On Jan 21 |
We don't have one in our church, if we did why not. |
Crime / Re: 26-Year-Old Woman Kills Married Lover In Rivers State (Pics) by sgtponzihater1(m): 1:21pm On Jan 20 |
Obviously stabbing multiple times is not self defense. Both her and those who support those who take fellow lives, have blood on their hands. People who took lives mistakenly were given the opportunity to flee to a land of fellow killers, whether manslaughter or not such people were to be ostracised from others. Until the priest was dead. However, murder meant instant death. Nigeria is a land soiled with blood. People can see black and call it white for tribal, gender or other sentimental affiliation. If we don't repent, then we have a country with God's wrath boiling over it. In same vein a man who abandones the vow he made to his spouse, and engages in extramarital sex is walking on a slippery slope, and in danger of suffering harm or even death. PonziHater 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by sgtponzihater1(m): 12:39pm On Jan 20 |
BlackfyreRebell: If you don't extend parental responsibility to the dad by signing above, then he is unlikely to be granted a visa. He is also the father of your son. A boy without a father is a liability to the society. He needs a father as a compass to navigate the maze-hole of masculinity, as well as a mother to comfort him. No woman can teach a boy to be a man, as a woman has never walked in the shoes of a man. If your ex is not a criminal, drug smuggler or dangerous person, I don't see why you are hiding his boy from him. His boy is the figure of his strength, his hope that his name will linger to the next generation. All the best to your son, and the Lord be with him. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: As A Christian Is It Possible To Practice First Fruit In This Harsh Economy by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:44am On Jan 14 |
First fruit sounds like a Jewish custom. Gentile Christians were not burdened by any of the practices of Jews. No where are Christians asked to give first fruits or even tithe. However, if you feel like tithing or giving first fruit very well go ahead. However all Christians should give cheerfully to things that sincerely advance the kingdom. Christians are free to feast and free to fast, free to tithe and free not to, free to give first fruits and free not to. Never again should disciples of Christ bind themselves by any custom. What Christians are However instructed to do is love their neighbour as themselves, flee sexual immorality, have respect for everyone, submit to authority, avoid pride, lies and boastfullness, lead a modest life and avoid food sacrificed to idols. Christianity is ethical and not ritual based. You are no good giving all your money to God or to the poor, but being disrespectful or spiteful to your neighbour or disloyal to your spouse or a thorne in the flesh of your boss at work. True Christianity leads to a change of heart, and the way we live. The cattle on a thousand hills belong to God, if He were hungry he'll slaughter some and have a feast. The most high God is definitely not out for our money. PonziHater 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Education / Re: Rwandan Varsity Appoints Nigerian, Ogechi Adeola Deputy Vice-Chancellor by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:32am On Jan 13 |
Congrats great job |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Appoints Ali Nuhu, Obi Asika, Others To Head Creative Economy MDAs by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:14am On Jan 13 |
Wow great job from BAT. Allowing creatives lead their industry. In a previous dispensation a pharmacology professor was made director of arts and culture. |
Religion / Re: How I Joined ECKANKAR On Nairaland by sgtponzihater1(m): 7:14am On Jan 07 |
The God of the Jews is the only God there is, all other Gods are the figment of human imagination. Any believe that seeks to elevate man beyond being a creature is of the devil. There is only one creator and God, we as humans are His subject and creation. Trampling God under foot in a quest for higher power walking on a slippery slope. |
Education / Re: Fake Certificate Saga: Benin Lecturers Pledge Cooperation With FG by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:26pm On Jan 06 |
Benin started the era of dishing out honorary PHD's to stars of questionable character or those who have barely stracthed the surface of making any impact. Cubana chief priest, Frodd, Tim Godfrey, Ik Ogbonna etc all recieved Honourary Doctorates, in an ideal world this shouldn't be. Despite Hilary Clinton's exemplary career she only received a honorary Degree in 2021, and Lionel Richie in 2017. But Benin dishes out degree to big brother Naija participants. Someday soon, when are the so called super stars fade and are remembered no more, only one star will remain, He is the bright and morning star, the king of glory, the saviour of my soul, and its the degree and award He gives me at the resurrection that matters most to me. Not these paper qualification that will burn when this old earth is consumed with fire. Because true History, is His story and not the distorted view men of this world dish out to outplay themselves. |
Family / Re: 2 Spoons: Wife Who Demonstrated Loyalty To Husband Gets Over ₦2M Cash Gift by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:36pm On Jan 06 |
Feminist and humanist will say "why doesn't he pack his own lunch, cooking is a survival skill". But they forget that woman was made for man and not the man for the woman. Leadership is male and will remain male. An unsubmissive wife is a wandering star on a collision course. She can seem to be making progress, but someday the Lord and Judge will set her right, and throw her into hell fire, silencing her nagging for eternity. It's a moral universe and the earth is only for good people. One day unrepentant self seeking people who cheat, lie and cause pain to people will be found out. They will be thrown into the fire that will burn for eternity, shut out from God's new earth, facing evalasting torment and eternal separation from the King eternal and His chosen people. To Him alone be glory, majesty, dominion and authority forever and ever. Amen 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by sgtponzihater1(m): 12:19am On Jan 03 |
aremso: Happy new year Chief, all the best this new year. |
Family / Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by sgtponzihater1(m): 5:15pm On Jan 01 |
mrjojo: True. |
Family / Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by sgtponzihater1(m): 5:13pm On Jan 01 |
That's the culture of those whose real god is money. They claim to worship the most high, but their real allegiance is to the god called marmon. We are where we are today because all our values have been substituted for money. God have mercy! 1 Like |
Business / Re: How Much Did You Save This Year.. 2023 by sgtponzihater1(m): 3:35pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Jega2000: That's a lot of money save compared to how much made. May next year be better for you. I currently have almost nothing saved, though I earned alot, but the new year bring much better for us all. PonziHater 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Pls Help Me I Have Anger Issues by sgtponzihater1(m): 3:12pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Giftedhand47: Demons don't need advise, they need casting out in Christs name and power. Habits can be changed and you can make a resolution to break the habit by doing an anger fast. First for a few days, then 40days , then months. Find out which you have and smash it head on. PonziHater |
Nairaland / General / Re: Describe Year 2023 With 'One Word' by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:46am On Dec 31, 2023 |
Hope-filled |
Family / Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by sgtponzihater1(m): 3:40pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
FanRong: You are in the middle of nothing. Better go your way now, if you get married, you'll most likely be in for trouble. These odd entitled behaviour gets amplified in marriage. All the best 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is Marriage A Failed Union? by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:08am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Marriage is not a contract. It is a convenant with God as the principal witness. Men are to love their wives sacrificially and unconditionally, and women are to submit to their husbands just as they would to God. One of the actual proof that a woman loves God is how she regards and treats her husband. Its easy to sing, shout and crying we love God, but the proof of loving God is how we treat others, even beyond family. If these critical aspects are missing then both parties are in error and the marriage is on a slippery slope. No one wants to talk about sacrificial and unconditional love anymore, while submission is now top most hated word, especially by women. Jesus come! PonziHater |
Romance / Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:42pm On Dec 29, 2023 |
Do whatever you want. You are not there to be a teacher to a man, but a wife and a help. If you feel you need to teach him or correct him frequently, because you believe you are wiser, then leave him alone, as he will have more peace. If whichever team he supports is biting you up and you can even go to the extent of asking him to change club then call it quit, as you will end up with another child at home that you think you can instruct and influence his decisions. All the best you and him. 1 Like |
Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by sgtponzihater1(m): 5:21pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Long term investors think of a healthy mix of growth and dividend funds. The ultimate aim is getting to that stage where your dividends can cover your expenses. This requires patience, sacrifice and letting go of quick but risky trades. Meanwhile, the uninformed day time traders think of making all the gains in one day only to loose it the next minute. It's taking 10 steps forward and 20 step backwards, over a decade you find yourself far behind from where you started. Stay the course. PonziHater 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Demands Too Much Money by sgtponzihater1(m): 3:35pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Naijagram: You know what to do boss. You probably need people to validate this. Lucky she is your girlfriend, when she becomes a wife you'll have almost no one to run to for help. God be with you. |
Politics / Re: Akeredolu Is Dead - Sahara Reporters by sgtponzihater1(m): 2:08pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Condolences. May the Lord comfort his family. |
Religion / Re: Checkout My Christmas Gift by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:45pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Donkogbe: Congrats. Approximately one year ago, I bought an NIV bible, and was determined to read the pages of the new testament all through a day at a time. Boy! I never knew what lay in store for me. That alone changed my life and I believe forever. Now I have started from Genesis, and I hope to read the book all through again . I suggest you read that great book one book at a time, to get its full story. Don't pick and choose verses as that quickly leads to misinformation, as you can proof anything by picking verses out of the overall context. The God of the Jews is the God of the whole world and the only God there is. All other Gods her figment of human imagination. To Him to glory, honour, majesty and authority forever. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Six Churches That Don’t Celebrate Christmas And Why by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:49pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
I don't believe Christians should be celebrating Christmas. There is nothing to indicate that the early Church celebrated Christmas. Both the book of Galatian and Colossians clearly states that Christians should not be observing calenders or special days. The sabbath law has been fulfilled in Christ and we are under no obligation to idolise a particular day. So celebrating Christmas negates the teaching of the early Church. That said, I do not believe that those who don't celebrate have the right to impose their believe on those who do, and vice versa. We have been freed from religion and should never be dragged back to the legalism that comes with religion, nor be dragged into the licence that come with flesh and love for the world. What we need is the true liberty to be free from human rules and from the flesh, to serve the living God with the power of the Holy spirit that we have received freely. We are baptised into one spirit and should maintain the Unity of that spirit until we attain the Unity of the faith. May Christ alone be praised and celebrated every single day of the week, month and year. PonziHater 1 Like |
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