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Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Why would you do such to your blood

Minjim:
Even the GOATS don't make such requests

understand say him like play

men like you are rare. How can i cheat and feel guilty when no be my wife

Thegeneralqueen:
Op can't you see how shameless you're you couldn't hustle hard to spend on your girlfriend now your rich friends are passing her around you're crying all over this forum infant I'll do worst than this if I'm in her position

you are the reason why we would continue to see girls as gold diggers

Zues123:
Hello Guys,

I started my family 3 years ago with a salary of 40k per month and now I can over a million Naira. I remember every month I will give my wife 30k to run the house and I will manage with 10k for transportation and feeding during work hours and my wife will go naked and pray on the money and over night God blesses us with a amazing job that surpasses our understanding. You Don’t need money to manage marriage you need Grace.

e work for you no mean say e go work for another man. thousands earn that 40k 3years ago still dey same position. You are just among the very lucky few

pestrolus2002:
The best doctor is the one that knows his limit. I really don't think any private hospital should kept this kind of injury .. They are meant for specialist, which are readily available in a teaching hospital.

i wanted to reply you regarding this earlier but i just saw a better reply from the government. A hospital that cannot atleast stabilize a victim before referral to a specialist is not worthy to be called a hospital. They just don’t want the person to die there not that they know thier limits. The doctor could have at least giving her something for the bleeding and pain then politely refer them. but i trust nigeria private hospitals

Kirinwa:
E remain tiny small for you to make sense.

You started well but ended badly when you advocated for mediocrity by telling people to cheat or buy 2:1. As for the 129 people that liked that post, when a doctor that bought his certificate descends on you, then we will count scores.

Op you didn't even tell them to target first, you reduced it to 2:1, which I believed you targeted 2:1 but fell to 2:2.

ok bro
i finally picked myself up
and left the country and thier certificate for them.

Olalan:
I guess this is supposed to be a joke.......How do you meet a girl in the morning and lay with her by noon, no good girl should be with your kind

u never see anything

MrCork:
bro. I don't understand. U have mouth infection?

ok

MrCork:
cold in kano u mean?..hammatan?
Ok..bro I gIVE UP!!...

u dey find my mouth

Ernerstdavid55:
To cut the long story short .
Actually I have been dating this gal for 2 months now,Nd I love har she’s very young Nd decent ,so last week I got interested to know har past I asked har to tell me sincerely who took har Virginity,she said I did it myself! I was shocked I asked how ,she said with the help of another gal With har finger ...
Pls house I want to marry dis gal but deep down I don’t believe har bcus I know har ex boyfriend ..
But the problem now is she telling the truth bcus I have never heard of such abomination..pls Nd pls house any advice will do thank u so much

Layla
Lala
Domin

na scam ooo
na so one tell me one i dey year one
i was still a mumu den i believe

devbits:
Today I created a thread to get financial help in treating ulcer /acid reflux but was deleted by the moderators , please, please and please if you know any tested way to cure these duo kindly tell me in your comment, this pain is too much please...

Olorun onije kieku lojiji.

what are your symptoms

small pikin something

NaijaBoy213:
what is py strip pls?

i mean pt strip. pregnancy strip

NaijaBoy213:
Hello Guys, Pls i think my girlfriend is pregnant, but she doesn't know, she's sees her period on the 4th of every month, i asked her on the 7th of dis month if she has seen her period yet, she said no. She said maybe it's just a delay. Pls doctors and Ladies in the house, pls how long does a delayed period last? Cos she's supposed to see her period on the 4th of this month, and today is 25th. Pls what might be wrong?

i don’t know why people joke alot here on nairaland when it is clear you need advice. Firstly did you have unprotected sex with her? if yes buy a py strip. its just 50naira and start from there first

Ilamina:
The white mans world is not easy

Cold, tight

I am glad I got to experience a little bit of their world

Now if I go back, I can appreciate my country more

i swear
the cold here weakens me

MichealKin50:
Hello good evening everyone. For those of you who contributed in my previous thread, thanks so much.

This is the part 2 of it.
Today I didn't go to work so I invited my girl over. She came. I told her I was lying about cheating on her. I brought a Bible and sworn that since e met I have not have sex with another person.

She told me she was lying as well. That she didn't want me to feel guilty so she lied that she cheated on me.
I told her to swear with the Bible she refused.

Friends help me because I really love this girl. But then, I don't want to end up with a cheater.

She left my place in anger. I am confused.

what were you expecting before? oga she slept with the guy but you cannot do anything about it because you started it. Move on if u are no longer comfortable

Mindfulness:
A prostitute is someone who has sex for money. Someone who shows her body for money is a stripper.
Stripper is not the same as prostitute.

exactly

Davash222:
Lol. Na that girl slap you. Na their way, Daughters of Eve.

i swear na she slap am

Ihategirls:
Is there anyone there to give an advice in this situation? Especially in the case where this lovely guy tried his best to keep the relationship going. Where do i start from? How do i imagine giving another person a chance (that is if single guys exists these days). Please feel free to drop a comment. No matter how stupid, i am ready to take it all in

i exist but i no dey nigeria again oo

MichealKin50:
Hello everyone, I am heart broken right now. Please I need sincere advice and would appreciate if the mods move this to the frontpage.

I met this girl on 31st December, 2017 at a crossover night. We exchanged contacts and became friends afterwards. Months later we started dating. We have been through thin and thick together and I planned proposing to her this coming crossover night holding on 31st December, 2019.
Today when I returned from work I bought some gifts for her so I went straight to her place after work. I gave her the gifts and sh was so happy. Her mom thanked me and the brought food we ate.
After a while I told my girl that I want us to confess to each other the sins we have committed. We both laughed about it and I opened the floor. I told her that I have cheated on her once with my colleague she should forgive me. Note: I lied about this. Since I met this girl I have not seen another girl's pant.
It was her turn to confess. Friends I was shocked when my girl told me that she has slept with a guy while we are dating. This is a girl I love so much and planned to spend the rest of my life with.
Friends I am confused. I don't know how to tell her that I was lying when I said that I've slept with my colleague. And I don't know whether to continue with the proposal or not.
This is a girl I love so much and never suspected her of anything of such.
Please sincere advice.
Thanks

the funny thing is, if you open up and say you lied, she too go claim lie and you can’t do anything about it cus na u start am.

Lonelypacifist6:
Hello Romancelanders, Mid November I invited a lady over to my place to stay and we agreed that she'll leave Mid January, This is someone I have a romantic interest in. But her character is totally different from what I know.
I have 3 housekeepers two females and a male the females are on holiday, but the guy 'Biodun' is around and he's been the one running errands for me, but the way this lady sends abbey on errands doesn't sit well with me, since she came the guy has not had a rest I even pity him, She can send him to a particular place multiple times in a day, When I spoke to her about it she asked me "Are you going to put abbey's happiness before mine?" And I replied that in my house everyone is equal, she didn't talk to me for days because of this, Even ordinary water that's in the living room she'll press bell and aske him to bring it.
My comfort is not spared too I can't watch a TV program without hearing it's boring put it to E entertainment, She prefers Takeouts than cooking, I haven't had a decent meal since Mid November, She wouldn't sleep In room I gave her because according to her she's scared of sleeping alone, When I pointed out that one of my female housekeepers is not up to her she and she sleeps in alone she said I'm comparing her to Ordinary house maid.
I'm looking to cut her off completely by Jan but I'm confused I really like this girl but her character flaw is not what I can condone, A close pal suggested bi Keep her at arms length band watch her till she changes. Dunno Why I'm unfortunate when it comes to relationships I need advise From serious people insults are welcome not like it's inevitable in Nairaland anyway.

why do you have 3 house keepers?

leave that girl. its better late than never

icenti:
So she has finally seen her period this evening. Thanks everyone.

i told u bro

icenti:
We had S*x December 13 around 1am. In the morning when she woke up, I made sure she took post pill in my presence before leaving. Her date is supposed to be Dec 17 but today's 23 and she hasn't seen her flow yet.

Should I be worried?

looking at this post again, i bet she would see it. My experience, it delayed over a week. Come back here and tell us when she sees it. No fear

icenti:
We had S*x December 13 around 1am. In the morning when she woke up, I made sure she took post pill in my presence before leaving. Her date is supposed to be Dec 17 but today's 23 and she hasn't seen her flow yet.

Should I be worried?

you should be worried partially. I would explain why i said partially. i once had this experience and it made me research more on these post pills. This pills works by delaying ovulation. Basically, it means that if her egg was already out, the pills won’t work. I read of pple who got pregnant after taking it. But if she wasn’t ovulating, it would work and also it delays menses. But looking by your post, i think its not pregnancy because it was just four days to her menses and that should be her safe period. Its just the effect of the drug. She would definitely see it but next time calculate, use cd or perfect the act of withdrawal. Infact use cd

SteveOfu:
My friend needs help with this problem that has been bothering my friend for years now, she grew up with no direction or guardian and it made her to start having sex at the early age because she was doing it in order to put food on the table, her father died earlier and she as the first child had to sacrifice her self to make sure that her siblings didn't suffer much including her mother. The mum was not doing something tangible back then, before the age of 18 she have already done countless abortions... which makes her to be scared of getting married now because what if she can't bear a child now, right now she's in a serious relationship and the guy intends to Marry her, my questions are
1. Should she tell him about the abortions history before getting marriage? she doen't want to drag an innocent person into the Shit she got herself in, she don't want the man to be childless because of her or
2. Should she remain unmarried? So sorry for the long post. No insult please. Her way of life is transformed since she found Jesus and she has begged God for forgiveness and she has also forgiven myself.

let her try to get pregnant for him. if it’s successful, she no need tell am

all dis story for Bleep? you get strength oo

milemimi93:
The six ladies I've slept with have one thing in common. They sabi eat o. This is my first time seeing a lady chosing heavy meal 'eba' over light meal 'noodles'.

shld she pretend

Sam007west:
i

do u feel bloated or belch alot

Barrack140:
I slept with a prostitute last week Saturday she gave me bow job and we didn’t use condom but we had sex using condom the next few days i started having fever my mom just told me about the rashes on my neck yesterday . I was scared I quickly went to lab to do hiv test and hepatitis b test which came back negative but I know if someone is infected with virus it will take at least 8 weeks to show up in the test . I ran to hospital and showed the doctor the rash he told me it’s not herpes or hiv that’s it’s a fungal infection or a candidas infection . I need your opinions on this please everyone

i understand how u feel because i hve been in similar situation. Bro so long you used cd, nothing dey do u. for get d bj, u wer not at risk. I know u go still dey fear after this advise but bro i lived with this fear for six good years of my life. wasted years just to do d test and i was free

Sam007west:
I would appreciate if anyone who had gone through h pylori associated chronic gastritis can lead me to how he/she became cured.I have everywhere n spents lots of money

can u share ur symptoms