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M00N:
Good Evening Nairalanders

I have a young friend of mine who has been masturbating since he was eleven years old and he is going to be twenty this year. His parents are divorced and he does not live with any of them.

We where talking today and he confided in me that he's been masturbating since he was eleven and that he has been struggling to stop out of guilt but he eventually stopped trying ever since he saw that it was almost impossible so he continued.

But I tried to encourage him to stop because I have been there. I started when I was in the university and struggled till 2018 when I eventually got more control. I realized that while I was still a chronic masturbator that I had almost no drive to succeed in anything which affected me a lot because I kept to my self, had no friends, felt guilty, weak and empty but my friend argued that he won't even bother trying because it was just impossible and doctors say it's healthy to masturbate, I argued that those doctors were lying and that it is not Scripturally okay but he also argued that were in the bible is it written? and I couldn't argue more cause I also relapse at times.

So please, that is why I have come here to ask for the advice on how to encourage him to keep on fighting against addiction and what bible verses can I quote for him?

A man asks whether masturbation is a sin only because he is long dead in sin and trespasses. Forget about your question, get back to life and that your question will disappear
By the way, that loss of peace and guilt that trails your mind while engaging in masturbation is your last line of soul defence. Once you cross it into feeling OK with it , you are gone!!!

Tintinnoty:
Naira Marley has written letter of apology to Lagos state govnor.

https://mobile.twitter.com/followlasg/status/1248573171340652544

When Judgment begins, all nick names and aliases are dropped forthwith. If it is so among men, consider the vanity of personality on the sure day of Judgment before God!

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

You don spot another one wey you wan lay! Ashawo man! Na so you profess love for the last one before this. Olosho papa!

Nigerians are hardly a people and that is why they are often molested and taken for granted. You don't don't try such shit with a people that don't take nonsense: that murderer would long have been marked and hacked by aggrieved parties.

kenneth3428:
Imo Governor, Uzodinma, Appoints Thug Arrested For Electoral Fraud Into State Government

Ikpamezie was one of four persons arrested and paraded by the police in Abuja for electoral fraud in 2018. His latest appointment as GM of OCDA by Governor Uzodinma is in reward of his 'illustrious' service to the Imo helmsman.

Imo State governor, Hope Uzodinma, has appointed Innocent Ikpamezie as General Manager of Owerri Capital Development Authority.

Ikpamezie was one of four persons arrested and paraded by the police in Abuja for electoral fraud in 2018.

Uzodinma made the appointment after a controversial judgment by the Supreme Court brought him into office as governor of Imo State on January 14, 2020.

Findings by SaharaReporters revealed that Ikpamezie is a hardened political criminal, who has been working for Uzodinma and the All Progressives Congress for a long time to disrupt elections in their favour.

He had been working for Uzodinma since he was a senator.

Recall that in 2018, the APC held a nationwide ward congress that was marred by violence and bloodshed.

Imo State could not hold the exercise as thugs invaded the party Secretariat, disrupting the congress and carting away election materials.

Imo State governor at the time, Rochas Okorocha, accused Uzodinma and some party leaders of sponsoring the thugs to disrupt the exercise.

Weeks later, the police arrested Ikpamezie alongside three others for masterminding the disruption of the ward congress in Imo.

Former spokesperson for the Nigeria Police Force, Jimoh Moshood, while parading the four -- Ikpamezie, Lawrence Archibong, Kelechi Affonne, and Joseph Martins -- before the media, said they stole and hijacked some electoral materials due for ward elections in Imo State.

He revealed that Ikpamezie was then the Special Adviser on Electoral Matters to Uzodinma.

The ex-PPRO said electoral materials were recovered from Ikpamezie, which he claimed were given to him by Iyke Njoku, Zonal Coordinator of Owerri Municipality, on behalf of Uzodinma.


Moshood went on to say that the four suspects would be charged to court for criminal conspiracy, stealing and unlawful possession of APC ward electoral materials.

However, after the public display of the suspects, nothing was heard of the matter again.

Ikpamezie and the three others were secretly released while he continued carrying out dirty jobs for Uzodinma and APC in Imo.

His latest appointment as GM of OCDA by Governor Uzodinma is in reward of his 'illustrious' service to the Imo helmsman.

http://saharareporters.com/2020/03/14/exclusive-imo-governor-uzodinma-appoints-thug-arrested-electoral-fraud-state-government

GOVERNMENT OF CRIMINALITY BY POLITICAL CRIMINALS FOR A CRIMINALY MINDED PEOPLE...

dre11:
https://thenationonlineng.net/pupil-stabs-fathers-friend-to-escape-rape-attempt/

Release her immediately! She is a "War" heroine!

All those shouting holier than thou whenever people advocate proper sexual character in society should get ready: you are next to testify of your own stories that touch!

Ayilara1:
You sure know you cooked this up and people with the same head like yours keeps on liking it.

Whether you like it or not that religion you so much detest is gathering myriad of followers across the world and it will rule it.

Check well, only Forced or Frustrated or Foolish Folks adopt Islam in the modern world. The world would naturally outgrow that religious bondage in the not-too-distant future - take that to the bank!

muhdfaruq:
All these people abusing nothern muslims don't know any about north.kano alone is far better than the whole of south-south and south-east,and i mean it,kano we are developing every single day.

This incident certainly portrays and confirms the "development" in kano. Don't you think so?

damosade:
Islamist elites come and see. When last did u see any Christian children behaving like this.
Before we say anything now, you will be chanting islamaphobia.
What does this portrays and tell me the reason why I should be a Muslim?

These low lives and rejects of the modern world don't give you reasons to join them - they only take your life for not joining them. Demented Bigots!!!

Truly, love is superior to spite any day! See how she made a complete dunce of that troll..

Lesson to the wise. Who is the next foool to teach the wise?

From her "testimony" you can easily detect that she is still in the mood to jump into the pants of the next yahoo advocate. Ewú nollywood actress

Life is short" is a fallacy peddled by hopeless, godless unbelievers.
Life is eternal - that is the immutable divine pronouncement. You believe and pronounce otherwise at your own peril..

Kokoebapluse:
Those that will die will having feeling of Angel of death around them for 40 days before they die, but they can't tell anybody, but surely they feel strange around them but they won't tell,

Bros, you don die before?

PDP is not only STEWPID but also SOUPID - just like their brother-in-crime, APC...

wany:
Nne ,eke adim no money ,yet you are cheating and misbehaving. Hmmmm God really bless you with a good woman.if not sorry would have change your surname followed by enough STDs from both ends.even as she is suffering with you,you are still adding more pains.and if this is what it takes to be a virtouse woman,please parcel it well and keep it in your portmanto.and beside your wife has low self esteem.happy birthday woman.

Lady high self esteem, don't be jealous of a real queen who is pleasing her king, her creator and her people...

Congratulations to a real woman.
In the beginning, they were all so, until their "eyes were open". A trace specie of the original have managed to still exist. Blessed are you among men, if you intercept one.

The prayer of all right thinking law abiding citizens is that the Almighty God would preoccupy the minds of these IDIOOTS with killing themselves until they are all consumed! Only the failed parents who prefer these evil products of theirs to wreck havoc upon society would pray otherwise.

friday2011:
This politicians cant just stop to amaze me...

Let me portray a simple common sense example:

"you were about to do a business with someone, suddenly you saw the face of same person on tv or social media: warning the public to be careful about the person, that he is a fraudster and he has defrauded a lot of pple in the past..." pls will you still go ahead and do the business with the person?, even if you already did, wont you involve the security agencies to help you retrieve your money?

When will our politicians begin to tow the part of equity, justice and sincerity to the common nigerians...

Why is our constitution like this? Why does it contain so much loop holes that favors the elect and nothing for the oppressed?

Where are the lawyers...? Where are the oppositions...? Where are the civil liberty organizations to stand and mobilize nigerians to stand up against this government?

Its a pity.

Dont be deceived, those bodies you listed are mere charades and charlatans. Those conniving collaborators are all part of the entrenched brotherhood of corruption in Nigeria

The best proven havens of the biggest criminals in Nigeria are the posts of Senator and Governor..

delishpot:
At least, una Don dey know how e dey pain for body when una do am to una wives. See how heartbreaking cheating is? That is what women have been forced to accept as normal in their marriages.
The man should go and pray, he should not let Satan tear his home. After all, it rains everywhere.

You are misguided. The settings are never the same for woman as with man. There is no natural, moral, cultural or spiritual basis for comparison

Soon, men of this evil generation will start questioning the rationale and sense of going through hell to pay the bride price of one of their slayqueens , labelling them proudly by their father's name to signify private reservation and usage. Only for any passerby tom, dick or harry to hammer her at will for whatever flimsy reason! Are girls of this generation worth the prize? Of course, the men initiated and started this godless grievous fall from sanity and sanctity in the name of modern freedom.
Soon, baby mamas would be the world's preferred option as they have fallen short of original glory

dre11:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/cruel-betrayal/

When you enjoy forbidden flesh, when you have finished the meat , you must get ready to also enjoy the bashing from the bared bones...

2mercy:
https://punchng.com/daughter-sues-mum-over-rape-allegation-against-dad/


Pic: Obinomeh's injury

Forsook God and now godforsaken...

2mercy:
How our husband chained us up, put pepper in our private parts– Katsina housewives locked up for 10 months



https://punchng.com/how-our-husband-chained-us-up-put-pepper-in-our-private-parts-katsina-housewives-locked-up-for-10-months/

So I am supposed to be a fellow countryman with these kain people? Chaii!

nigeriainfo:
Hello, Let me advise you and I want to tell you nothing but the truth. I am here now in the United States presently and I am really advising you to stay back In Nigeria and invest that money in Nigeria. I am telling you this because I know what is actually going on here. Please stay back in Nigeria. Thank you and please heed my advice for your own good

My nigga, I put it to you that you are not in any USA except of course the united state of Abia.

emanobis:
Just look for one Textile company in China, dump like 15million for them, they will keep supplying you with their materials till they over supply the cash.
What again is your primary objective of being a graduate.
You can still continue with your education while your business is booming in the background.
You have to pay for consultation oo.

Wetin do Nigerian textile company? We wan learn o

With #20M in Nigeria, you still have no guarantee of a good future if you venture further into business. I tell you of a life guarantee that is compatible with your dream: go to USA and continue your studies in a course you love and got talents for. The time of your convenient study there is sufficient to understand your new base and find your bearings rightly. You can never regret that..!

The Problem with Nigeria is that nitwits and dullards who lack intelligence of the urgency of splitting this country in peace are too many!
When these malu alla are in another country and need a visa to set a foot into my oduduwa republic or Biafra or Niger delta , they won't pride themselves in their primitive and lunatic lawlessness

Trulydude:
https://punchng.com/domestic-accident-keeping-me-away-from-taraba-ishaku/

Taraba and unfortunate governors...

brodalikeme:
I think Osibanjo is VP special duties Oo.

Osibanjo is less concerned about being sidelined in the scheme of things as long as there is reasonable goodie goodies remaining for him and his cronies. If bubu likes, let him kill every other Christian and make him irrelevant, no problems - pastor must finish the pot of meat in that office!