When you hear bubu saying after every strike of boko haram that the terrorists would pay a high price for their atrocities, this is what he was referring to: It is actually Nigerians that will pay a high price for operation safe corridor. Mad people in government!
mmadu4: op you should count your self lucky ,. do you know how many guys that wants to be in your shoe of no string attach kinda relationship? stop complaining and enjoy the friends with benefit relationship
You exhibit symptoms of a terminal decease called godless living. It is too late in life to subscribe to such waywardness: the kingdom of God and of Christ is already by your doorstep...
The real fornication is when you are having sex with anyone with whom you have no mutual commitment for life partnership. Increasing multitudes are playing with naked* live high-tension electrocuting wire called formication but they sheepishly call it FUN. That is the danger you fall into when you fail to make God's word an uncompromising standard for your living!
McCoy662: Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf (my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She doesn't even visit on a regular except for sex.
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much. My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.
I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.
Foolz still exist and you are a certified one! You open your moronic cavity called mouth to say you love a runs girl who uses you for sexual convenience! You are an unfortunate youth who has tragically lost direction in life. You stand condemned before gods and men
There is no more sense in calling Nigeria a nation. Tears and blood reign supreme in the land and absurdity is the order of the day, the gods are speaking in hard riddles : the time to dismember this contraption is NOW!!!
[quote author=Skyfornia post=86570378]Abeg I wan ask..I always watch videos where people jumped out with parachutes when there is imminent danger but I have never seen such in real life...why the pilot no take parachute jakpa? Why the people shot down by Iran no take parachutes jakpa?? Abi those ones in the movies don't happen in real life[/quot]
Die in a flash in a crashed aircraft or die by severe clubbing after parachute landing by lunatic rebels - which do you prefer?
There is no threat to modern civilization like Islam. Once Islam is born anywhere, it is only a matter of time before the monsters of the terrorist fundamentalists evolve. World peace will remain elusive until the Messiah returns. Islam contains many seeds, but the most prominent of which is the seed for the world's extinction.
Explorers: This is the heartwarming moment an orangutan tries to assist a man stuck in a river by offering its outstretched arm.
The great ape, who lives in a protected conservation forest area in Borneo, was seen leaning forward and lending a helping hand to the man who had been in the muddy river.
The striking images were taken by amateur photographer Anil Prabhakar, from Indonesia, who had been on a safari with his friends when he spotted the touching scene.
We call on CAN to immediately move all Christians from the north east of Nigeria and resettle them in safe regions elsewhere, with or without financial assistance of state governments. Let us see if they are truly their brothers keepers!
Officialgarri: I can sleep with both eyes closed now. I can go to parties, I can go to church, I can attend public functions , all without fear of bomb blast.
So bomb blast is your only fear, right? Bless you! Anyway, don't forget that you and bubu are now your own predecessor in government..
Dotez: Boko Haram terrorists killed at least 30 people and abducted many women and children in a raid in Borno State, a regional government spokesman said on Monday.
The attack Sunday evening targeted the village of Auno on a key highway linking to regional capital Maiduguri.
The jihadists stormed in on trucks mounted with heavy weapons, killing, burning and looting before kidnapping women and children, state government spokesman Ahmad Abdurrahman Bundi said.
They aimed at travellers who had stopped for the night and torched vehicles.
The attackers “killed not less than 30 people who are mostly motorists and destroyed 18 vehicles,” Bundi said in a statement after visiting the scene.
The attack, some 25 kilometres (15 miles) west of Maiduguri, occurred in an area where fighters from the Islamic State West Africa Province have been active, mounting roadblocks to target security forces and civilians.
Witnesses said jihadists set alight 30 vehicles in the raid, including trucks that had stopped overnight on their way to Maiduguri.
“Many of the drivers and their assistants who were sleeping the vehicles were burnt alive,” civilian militia fighter, Babakura Kolo told AFP.
The jihadists combed through the village, looting and burning shops and property before withdrawing, he said.
Auno lies on the 120-kilometre highway linking Maiduguri to Damaturu, a major regional city in neighbouring Yobe state.
The highway has been increasingly targeted by ISWAP militants in recent months.
The surge has followed the creation of so-called “super camps” by the Nigerian military in the northeast – a strategy under which small army camps have withdrawn from several areas and combined into fewer, larger bases.
Last month four Nigerian soldiers were killed and seven injured when the jihadists attacked troops positioned in Auno.
The decade-long Islamist insurgency has killed 36,000 people and displaced around two million from their homes in northeast Nigeria. The violence has spread to neighbouring Niger, Chad and Cameroon, prompting a regional military coalition to fight the insurgents.
People are free to keep dying like flies. As long as there are still some numbers available to rule over and the sweet cake at the Center is available for continuous jollification, all is well in Nigeria! Welcome to next level - the voice from the heart of Femi Adesina.
saucerence: Only if he had use Vaseline to service himself nd get a great reward for the hand skillful massage going hard on himself vaseline 350- olosho -5000 the choice is yours
Toks2008: The place is cleaner than your mouth even after using mouthwash..except the lady has an infection.
There is a microflora that GOD in his infinite wisdom placed there and this bacteria is harmless to any one but it is responsible for making the place very clean. It is called acidophilus lactobacillus and that is why the place has a slightly acidic taste which makes it hard for harmful microbes to be there.
But a lady must maintain proper hygiene by first maintaining a hair free zone and washing the place with mild solutions else she might kill the beneficial microbe there.
For unmarried guys please stay clear but for married men biko chop that thing cos e dey sweet especially if she siddon on top your mouth dey grind am for your tongue Chai!
IF THIS WAS A COUNTRY, THE CITIZENS WOULD HAVE DRIVEN OUT THESE CRIMINALS FROM THE HALLOWED CHAMBERS BUT BECAUSE IT IS ACTUALLY A ZOO, BUSINESS GOES ON - AS USUAL
samonak: But even if na Catapult the bandits get, you mean them no kill one single cop? Chai! But some people no de fear God oh!
Please hold your peace. I was a witness to a similar act of gallantry displayed by the police in 2015/2016 around the ikorodu axis of Lagos/Ogun state The heinous atrocities of bandits had come to a frightful head and the vice president authorized a contingent of crack police forces to raid their enclaves. Using a combination of intelligence , police commandos and police helicopter gunships, the clans of daredevils were summarily routed and wiped out in their hideouts. The campaign left HUNDREDS of the bastards together with other bastards doing quick business with the criminals all neutralized! Since then, it has been Peace Like a River over there!
Any "innocent" man who was in that dreaded unholy enclave at the time of the gallant police raid must have explanations to make to God. We cannot afford anymore to handle hardened criminals with kid gloves - we have to be hard on them and all their accessories and accomplices.
Romangalactic: I'll try to keep my predicament short. I registered a new account for this purpose but I'm sure many of you will understand that sterility is not something to be announced which is exactly how I got myself in this situation. I am 35 and engaged to a beautiful woman who completes me in every way. As much as it hurts me to say this, I have not been totally honest with her about everything. Just yesterday while we were home together, she told me that she is pregnant . I asked her how sure she is, she said she had done the pee test and that she knows how she is feeling. The issue here is that I am sterile but I have not told her this before so it is impossible that I am responsible.
Please before anyone tells me I deserve this for not opening up to her, I have been undergoing treatment secretly and they say I will be able to father children when it's done so of course, I am hopeful and have not bothered to inform her about any of this. I can't stand losing her for any reason. My issue right now is that I asked my endocrinologist this morning if it's possible that the treatment is already working and he said we have not gone far enough to see any results yet. This means I am definitely not the father of the child she is carrying.
Only one other person in this world knows about my health challenge and that is my cousin. I told him and he told me to break up with my fiancée, someone I have already done introduction with and families are involved. I told him I cannot and that he must take the secret to the grave, he thinks I am making the biggest mistake of my life. Well I told him my plan is to accept the pregnancy and continue to make her think I don't know she cheated on me. I am doing this with the hope that after we get married, my treatment will be completed and everything will be back to normal. But at the same time, I still can't shake the feeling that I am about to marry someone who cheated and is passing off another man's child as mine, I feel cheated and it hurts.
Can anyone else please tell me what to do about this situation I have found myself? Please I just need to hear from other people besides my cousin. Another thing, he has never really liked my fiancée so I feel that also may be his motivation. I need neutral opinions please
Some clear Red Cards in your story and person:
1) Your preference for secrecy even in matter of life companionship.
2) Your passion to possess (a woman) at all cost and by all means.
These Reds are a definition of your person and no amount of interaction here can alter that. They are the spots of a leopard that cannot be removed.
I tag those godless traits as Red for one simple reason - they suddenly expel you from the game of life when you least expect it! Disbelieve me at your own peril.
Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)
My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.
I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years
But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.
Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.
She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.
I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.
And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.
she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already
Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims
Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...
it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.
My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?
The youths of today are all paying a HEAVY price for their fancied freedom from the laws of God. Una Neva see anything. Things will get real worse and chaotic until your "freedom" becomes complete bondage that you cannot manage. No amount of counsel can save Op's marriage when the supposed wife neither believes nor agrees that the husband is her Lord who she must engage with reverence and submission in all matters. There is no hope for a godless nation who draw near God will their lips but their hearts are FAR and stubbornly unyielded to Him
Please dear Lord Jesus, come quick. What our eyes will see and what our ears will hear if you stay much longer, our mouths cannot recount oh Lord! Kolo de form normal and dem de call normal people Kolo, oh Lord come quick!
The one who won bbnaija yesterday! Beware of any system that lavishly rewards unholy living. Beware of this World. All these are delicate enticements to a certain doom
CasNova: Sometimes, I wonder the kind of democracy we practice in Nigeria. How could virtually all members of the state House of Assembly decamp to the APC just because the Governor is from the party?
What about opposition?
What about vibrant checks on despotic tendencies?
Quit thinking that we are in a democracy in Nigeria. What you got is dollarcracy! Whatever suits enhanced dividing of loots among "shareholders" goes! What will your shareholders gain from Opposition when Cooperation will facilitate the filling of their greedy, gluttonous bellies?
Is this mass exodus to APC not a big slap and blow on the so called protest of IMO indigenes against the verdict of the supreme court!? Are all these defectors not the sole official representatives of the entire indigenes of IMO state? All these pockets of pocket-financed Protesters, make una take time O.
I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.
Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.
After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.
This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.
Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.
It is probably time for you to look for God who you most likely left out in all your calculations before, thinking you got all the answers! To your lady, you are just an ATM machine and you must have done your best to confirm that to her before the marriage. Unlike the ATM however, you cannot sustain the unending release of money. You have become a liar to her. You are in a fundamental crisis but God can save both of you if only you two swallow your pride and seek His mercy and help. Divorce is a false escape route - with woes trailing it. Research on divorce and divorcees. Only God can save you and her now. The greatest error is when you think that she alone is the problem! Both of you need God now, - that is the solid Base, any other option is sinking sand!