iInjureHerYansh: You don't wanna break up with him and you can't cope.
At least you can't confuse me... Confuse others
No mind the maga. Dem don use strong weed penis plus tramadol confuse her brain! She is now thinking with her devastated T**O. She no wan break up because "they have come a long way" Maga! Which long way - you mean long TIN. You have not gone any long way, infact you have been spot running
kolakolex: If she doesn't give him peace of mind or she is frustrating him with bills,he will keep running. let me ask u a question, Do u nag a lot? If yes,find a way to reduce it gradually still u stop it. Just work on urself because there is no smoke without fire except in cassava plantation
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
Why seek advice when God don give you sense? Can't you see that you have entered One-Chance bus? Instead of you to fly out from the nearest open window in commando mood, you de here de ask MUMU question. Shiooo
So die well and stop disturbing the internet with stories that touch! Bleep the hot girls sufficiently but have sense to marry only the cool girls if not die alone and rest in pieces...
Rape must be punished by life imprisonment while gang rape must be punished by stretched hanging to death till all their ass shit pump out of their rotten intestines. Nothing suits a wicked soul more than a taste of his own bitter medicine - merciless ruthlessness!
They have illegally screwed belle full. Now that they have been caught by the patient but long and unfailing arms of the law, it is now time for their bloody asses to be screwed rigorously until they bleed to death. Bloody idiooots of hell fire....!!!
Only those who wish Nigeria perpetual misfortune will canvass for a tinubu presidency. Only visionless ignoramuses will champion the course of another conservative corrupt leader who publicly displayed bullion vans of money on the eve of national election against clearly laid down rules. God destroy all of you who are determined to keep Nigeria on the path of retrogression
Those bloody criminals can only see the light of day when they restore the life they took, the life they did not give nor ever can give. Thunder fire dem!!!
For once, the polity is becoming active against anti societal happenings. We expect the RCCG to which the victim belonged to have identified with her plight actively, even ahead of her student union government.
made4naijamusic: An unidentified lady got more than she bargained for after was allegedly caught stealing from a shop she stole from the previous day.
In the video which has gone viral online, the lady who was begging those who caught her in the act said "she was frustrated". She also wasn't clear on what happened to her mother and its correlation to the theft.
One of those who apprehended her was however heard asking her why she didn't go into "commercial sex like her mates".
It is a shame on keyamo that Delta is not listed in the pilot scheme. Of what benefit or advantage therefore is his post to his people. He has made foolery of the joy of his people at his initial appointment: Once again demonstrating and confirming that the glory of an Urhobo man is hardly to the benefit of his people.
Genset: My ex-boyfriend just me money out of the blues, should i be worried? We broke up since the beginning of the year and haven't spoken since then. All of a sudden he texted me asking for my account number and then sent me money. It's just weird.
Hypocrite! Was it not more Weird of you to have sent your account number? Rubbishh
Those bastards called governors are opposed to this progressive executive order for ONE diabolical reason: “This is to ensure their continued unprogressive control on the lawmakers.”
May God twist their demonic heads till they are all broken in Jesus name. Amen n Amen
Divine89: Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.
When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.
But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.
Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.
After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.
I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.
I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?
Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.
Have you ever heard the saying: the evil that men do, live with(and after) them! God would be unrighteous if that is otherwise! All glory be to God that you are now rightly reaping the evil harvest of your own evil sowing. You need to glorify God for His Justice! IT IS A FEARFUL THING TO FALL INTO THE HANDS OF THE LIVING GOD. Now, judgment is not the end to any remorseful and penitent repentant sinner. Mercy may be available, if and only if, it is soberly sought! Labour to convince the heavens of the genuineness of your repentance. There is still chance of God's refreshing.
Even animals are better than these idiotic criminals. You have loomed large against all righteousness, it is now pay time for your bloody asses to be screwed until your filthy blood is drilled to appease the earth you defiled with your abominations. Satan punished you, God punish you, Idiooots!!!
I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.
When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all. My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.
I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.
My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all. I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc
Our fight now
Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla
Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2 million to start a business etc.
Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.
Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it.
My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.
So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. It's a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also he's the first born.
Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.
He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla
He will not apply for better jobs as well He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.
So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.
He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and that's because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.
The problem 1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest
2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky. His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.
3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends
4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care
5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,
6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship
7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night
Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect
Please don't drive this young man nuts with your dreams! If it is that easy, show us exactly what you have done with your own big dreams.
Why do women's families leave their daughters in the perilous custody of lunatics and men of unstable minds , all in the name of keeping marriages? A living divorcée is better than a deceased wife.
lalasticlala: Nigerians are calling for #JusticeForJennifer on social media. Jennifer was gang raped by 5 boys in Narayi, Kaduna. Two of the boys that raped her have been reportedly apprehended while 3 are still at large. There are reports that the rapists want to pay N30,000 for rape damages.
A Twitter user, Uncle Shemzz @shemang_david shared a video of traumatized 18-year-old Jennifer who hasn't been the same after the gang rape due to the trauma, and other Nigerians have joined him in the call for Justice for Jennifer.
Hisincrease: Where and where in this planet earth have you gone to?
Because you have churches littered on your streets doesn't mean its the same in Asia, North America, Antarctica and even in remote Africa.
Mark you, he never said , where churches are established. He never even said, where Christ is accepted. He only said , where the message of the Gospel has sounded! I put it to you that the Gospel has now sounded in every nation for a witness for or against them! Whether by word of mouth or by print or electronic or internet, every soul on earth has received the witness of the Gospel of Christ. There is therefore no excuse for any soul , as all have received the Voice of God through personal Conscience and Gospel. The conditions for the END are fully fulfilled.
PeacenLove2: Yes she lied, yes she makes poor decisions and yes she is like many women of today, she won't be talked down and that's not necessarily a bad thing.
OP, you have a very bad habit of holding on to the past. You have a problem forgiving people which would never make you be able to appreciate whatever good comes your way. People who don't forgive have a hard time finding happiness because they are stuck in hate and their past.
I cannot tell you what to do now. I will never be a vessel to be used to destroy any union. You will make whatever decision pleases you. Whatever you do, don't let your innocent child take the heat.
I can only advise that you man up, discuss freely and fairly with your wife. You two can try meeting half way and compromise. Discuss future plans and let each party see for themselves if truly there is a future together or not. Most importantly, learn to forgive and also take responsibility. She lied, she is old, she pressured for sex and marriage. Oga, you sef take responsibility where obvious. Too much immaturity in adults these days, it's just so incredible. God hep you, sir.
Great Counsellor! I am sure you can convince God to forgive Satan!
Romance › Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by shineeye1: 4:00am On May 30, 2021
